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djf2848

Joined: 4/12/2007

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Cheating: Should we start excepting the fact that it will most likely happen nowadays? Posted: 4/17/2008 5:42:12 PM
So the lord told you, warlord?, slumlord? wait I just a vision, it's you and you have blinders on, oh and now your drinking Kool aid, Opp's now your dead. Ohh Now your some called Oprah.

djf2848

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i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me. Posted: 3/24/2008 2:57:13 PM
Can you say player, any guy that comes on that strong that fast is a "PLAYER" no doubt about it!. I'm not one of them but do know a few. keep fishing, throw that one back!. Dan

djf2848

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so pissed at men Posted: 3/22/2008 2:44:48 PM
Well you are generalizing, But I have to add the age range your looking for, unless they have been married and have children are mostly looking for one thing and will tell you anything to get it!. Can you say "player". Some guys would say I'm breaking the guy code, I was never one of the "players" those are the one's that have a code, the good guys are just themselves, they may not be as cool as the players but you will get the truth from them and they won't play games. Give them a try!. 2 cents please, Dan

djf2848

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Having no luck here gotta go Posted: 2/4/2008 3:55:14 PM
Hmmm, Well let me throw out this idea, It costs nothing to leave your profile... Change it to say what you just posted here, then quit looking and messaging.... I have had a similar experience but I'm not giving up, Please don't take this as preaching it's just my take on this wacky site, there are plenty of lady's just like guys on here that are just here out of curiosity because a friend told them about it!. And they find that all the teenagers and college guys just message them for sex, making most leave this site very quickly. 2 cents, Dan P.S. No Luck?, Luck has nothing to do with it.

djf2848

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Fact checking Posted: 12/28/2007 6:23:51 AM
go to anywho dot com you can do reverse lookups on his telephone number as long as it's not a cell phone, is he an american citizen?. My personal opinon is that he's playing you find some one closer to home!.

djf2848

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Am i wasting my time here? Posted: 12/27/2007 6:47:28 PM
Four words, show her the door!

djf2848

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 12/25/2007 6:08:11 PM
Wake up my friend, If your dating a "lady" that is dating other men then she's telling you your not the "one", ask her to pay half the time and just have fun while you find your "1" Dan

djf2848

Joined: 4/12/2007

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Are MEN marketable after age 30? Posted: 12/23/2007 7:38:39 PM
[And if you want to talk not "marketable", I'm starting to see more and more guys in their late thirties or early forties who are grandfathers. YIKES!] Interesting, So now being a grandfather makes us "more" unmarketable, I Guess I didn't really look at this site as a meat market but I'm begining to think that's just what it is. So sad : ( Dan

djf2848

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Dont Date Him/Her Sites ? Posted: 10/1/2007 7:13:33 PM
There all he said/ she said. Bottom line is, if your there looking up someone you met you already have your answer!. I'm sure some might help some people, although I belive most are to report male's. I haven't seen one reporting ladies Hmmm, may be on to something, not sure what though, well I can speculate though. Nope not going there. Dr. Dan

djf2848

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How agressive do women get when they see there ex with a new girl? Posted: 9/21/2007 2:10:47 PM
Can you say restraing order?. Ask her to meet you at a public place and tell her it's OVER! and go have fun with her new boyfriend, and your liking your new boyfriend too!. : )

djf2848

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Do any of you have a problem with making friends with girls? Posted: 9/21/2007 1:55:33 PM
How often do you bathe?, Brush your teeth? lots of "Ladys" like guys that have an air of confidence, and smell good!. My experince is most "ladys" will wait for the " gentleman" to make the first move. To have lady as freind you have to have the same connection as do do with guys, That is common intrests, but no physical attraction I'm assuming your not gay, I have a few lady friends and they bring a female perspective to the guy conversations, most guys ignore there observations though. I would say you can't make a lady want to be your friend, forget that!. Why do you feel you need a lady friend?, Oh yea the guy thing if your out with a lady frind other ladys will notice you more, whatever! 2 cents please, Dan

djf2848

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G R Area Singles Dance Sun. Sept. 2nd new time 8pm-2am Posted: 9/1/2007 3:03:49 PM
I'll be there around 9, I'm going to a cookout at my parents in Saint joe sun afternoon. Dan

djf2848

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proper bedroom etiquette Posted: 8/22/2007 6:41:49 PM
First thing OP, Very intresting profile. Your grasp of the english language for only having been in the usa for 5 years is really amazing. Answer to your question about condom use, I'm hoping your question is hypothetical! If I ever found my self in a place with a lady I just met that a condom would be in question, I would say it would be required!. before I would ever agree to this sort of thing I would have to know I would be "sleeping" as in "sleep over" with this person for that night before ever getting to need a condom. OP,your question seems to lead me to believe that this dating question is really what is "hook up Etiquette"

djf2848

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Why buy the Cow when you can get the milk for free ? Posted: 8/22/2007 6:02:37 PM
And pigs were made for porking, Guess that one can go both ways

djf2848

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Men on a Marriage Strike Posted: 8/9/2007 5:07:24 PM
Wikpedia descption Marriage is an interpersonal relationship with governmental, social, or religious recognition, usually intimate and sexual, and often created as a contract. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage. The most frequently occurring form of marriage unites a man and a woman as husband and wife.[1][2] Other forms of marriage also exist; for example, polygamy, in which a person takes more than one spouse (marriage partner), is common in many societies.[3] Beginning in 2001, civil marriage has been expanded to include same-sex marriage in some jurisdictions.[4] The reasons people marry vary widely, but usually include one or more of the following: legal, social and economic stability; the formation of a family unit; procreation and the education and nurturing of children; legitimizing sexual relations; public declaration of love.[5][6] A marriage is often declared by a wedding ceremony,[7] which may be performed by a religious officiator, through a similar government-sanctioned secular officiator, or (in weddings that have no church or state affiliation) by a trusted friend of the wedding participants. The act of marriage usually creates obligations between the individuals involved, and in many societies, their extended families. [citation needed]

djf2848

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Caught him... now what? Posted: 8/6/2007 6:58:39 PM
OP, you already know the answer to your question , tell your friend that he's a player and playing he's playing "her". Go to her place now and help her throw his junk out of the house!. That's what true friends do!. Dan

djf2848

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Thanks to everyone I have chatted with Posted: 7/29/2007 7:24:18 PM
Just wanted to say thank you to everyone I have chatted with and the few I have met. most all have been great. I have come to the conclusion that I'm not ready for this dateing thing. When/if I do repost a profile it will be for meeting people and making new friends. Thats all for now. Dan

djf2848

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Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend? Posted: 7/23/2007 6:20:13 PM
OP, Tell her what your feeling, If she is into sex with multiple partners and your not, that's telling you something right there. I can't tell you what to do, you are pretty young 23, I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, Is this a girl I would want to marry?, If thats what your thinking?, I know what I would answer, but you have to figure that out for yourself. From what you have written your are really falling for her, tell her that!, and explain your feelings about what she proposed, it could be the start of soemthing great or the end. 2 cents please, Dan

djf2848

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girlfriend having lunch with exboyfriend Posted: 7/20/2007 6:21:32 PM
Hmmm, Not sure on this one. Women are very devious from my experience. In what context did she tell you she was having lunch with her x "boyfriend"?. was it planned? or, we just ran into each other and he asked me to lunch?, did you know therewas a x boyfriend were she was going?, need more details. IMOP lunch wih an x in another country is bad, I would not like It!. It all depends on what was said before her trip, did you know she was going to potentialy see an x boyfriend?. I would be freaking like you are!. Call her ! and talk to her. Dan

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 7/15/2007 3:08:02 PM
Oh Yea, I'll post a close up of me very soon, for those of you that were there thanks for the t shirt : ). Dan

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 7/15/2007 3:06:13 PM
Traci, Russ What a great venue for a meet and greet!. Thanks so much for the ride also. You too let me know if you'd like some banners or signage for the next one I work I biz that does that and it will be NC. I heard a few locals were not happy that we took over the deck?, Maybe a hall next time?,My sis, caters look at www.shopfroehlichs.com. . Well just throwing it out there. Great Job you too!. BTW Traci you look great! Dan in GR

djf2848

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an ideal relationship?? Posted: 7/2/2007 8:59:00 PM
Sweety 683 I can agree with you on most of your list, but here goes with a few changes from a guys perspective * a woman who respects me * a woman who respects my desire to suceed in life * a woman who will put up with my kids * open and honest communication * so in love you can't get enough of one another * can't wait to go home and sit on the couch with him * anything you do together, including picking up dog poop would be fun * humour is the main and most important part of your relationship * you respect each others space and privacy * you trust one another * when things don't look so good in your life, he will be there to cheer you up * she compliments you, doesn't complain when you turn 40 and your looks go downhill * she encourages you to suceed I could go on forever.

djf2848

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EEWWW!! THE WEIRDEST YET!!!! in 25 years... Posted: 6/29/2007 10:35:58 AM
Did you have milk in your coffee

djf2848

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What I am feeling and the mail I want to send one last time Posted: 6/28/2007 3:05:19 PM
OP, you are obviously heart broken, I'm sorry I've been there and know what your feeling. Don't send the email! or call or write. My advice is START DRINKING HEAVILY!, well that was suppose to make you laugh! that is a quote from animal house, do you remember that scene when they were cutting up Otters brothers Lincoln? but on the serius side, if you have some buds you can go out with get a designated driver and go have fun with the boys, your young in your prime actually you can do much better!. Hang in there fellow Shark, there's plenty more minnows!. Dan

djf2848

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Why did this man want to hurt me so much? Posted: 6/26/2007 5:48:19 AM
Hmm, So what was his reason for "wanting out"?. I would push him for an answer!, I get the feeling that he's not being completly honest with you. I disagree with the other replys saying it's becuse you didn't have sex , there are guys out there, me included that won't rush into that any more than most ladies will. You should ask him what's going through his head, only he know's for sure. Well hopefully he knows.

djf2848

Joined: 4/12/2007

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Poor POF date...who is raising these guys? Posted: 6/25/2007 8:13:47 PM
OP, 4 words for you JANE YOU ****ING SLUT!. and maybe you should take it as a wake up call!, a 20 year old virgin is intimidated by you to the point of bailing!. Go for older needier fish if that's what your here for, I would say start with CARP!.

djf2848

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 6/21/2007 8:41:43 PM
Turn off! unless there not visible till fully undressed, then only a turn on if there it's something sexy

djf2848

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Wife just up and left Posted: 6/19/2007 7:14:21 PM
Just read your Profile, You have been fishin for something elese for about a year!. Get this poor me, thread off here, Guys/girls read his profile he's been trolling for a a year. Jeeze wonder why she left!. yea you were cruising along all wrigh for some other tail!.

djf2848

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A strange situation..Can someone makes sense of this PLEASE? MY DATE FOR TONIGHT THAT ISN'T! Posted: 6/19/2007 2:37:37 PM
OK My opinion, he was home drinking and was well on his way to .... by 2pm, probably trying to cure his hangover from the night before.Not sure of his age but no one should forget they had a date, and say Hey we should "get together" I would suggest you question him on his drinking. I believe I'm right on this one. Sorry... Dan

djf2848

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Why do men ruin relationships with video games? Posted: 6/17/2007 8:26:26 PM
OP, go find a guy that doesn't do video games!. your post makes it sound like all guys do this. I hate video games. Change your scenery

djf2848

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How Long To Chat Before First Date? Posted: 6/17/2007 8:19:25 PM
Very true, this is the one thing that online chating can't replace, the face to face chemistry. That everyone is looking for on these meeting sites. thats why I like this site, for the meet and greets. chat all you want. it's still about chemistry, raw animal got to have you thing. can't get that online, well not me anyway!.

djf2848

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Cheatin Hearts Posted: 6/17/2007 6:35:48 PM
Well, ladys this is what' s called social enginering, Poor me! I found my girfriend in bed with another guy!, you profile says Single looking to date and your story had way to much detail. CVS, for what?. how did you get into her apt?. how did you know she was hung over? I've never been in that situation but if I was the guy, I would have booted your ass out the door so fast that it would make your head spin. Nice story, you should write for a sex mag forum!. This guy is sleeze/player in my eyes but judge for yourself.

djf2848

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Ever been on date and screwed it up Posted: 6/15/2007 2:39:12 PM
Ok, I was going to agree with the majority here but, I have one question first, was there a mutual attraction before you had a few to many?,that's the hardest part of the net dating thing, that initial attraction! If you have his personal email address you should have already emailed him an appolagy regardless of weather he would go on second date with you, That's just common curtosey, A cave man/girl may not but this is 2007!. Your embaresed, say that in your appolagy. Just be honest, If he still pases move on and take it as a life lesson. Dan

djf2848

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Is oral sex on the first date a killer? Posted: 6/11/2007 7:24:58 PM
Well Yea!. I didn't read your profile but from one of the posts it says your looking for long term, Guy's that aren't looking for that will use you for sex and run fast!. figure out what you want!!!. I would say get help, or at least a toy to take the place of a meaningless sex with guys you'll never see agian. This is breaking the "Guy code" for all the players out there, well guys f off. BTW I'm not a player I'm real what you see is what you get, yea I know it's not pretty, But I'll keep you laughin. Dan

djf2848

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Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat? Posted: 6/11/2007 7:02:24 PM
Very intresting thread, Ok heres my 2 cents. Both my parents were non smokers and I am too, I have to say I have passed on more than a few profiles that I liked based on what I read about them just because they smoke, even ocassionly. So I'm guessing that ladys do the same?, I'm old enough to know how bad smoking is for your body, Why would I look for a lady that doesn't care about her health!. It's an addictive habit, So yea I want to be with someone that has a addiction?, Oh sign me up! LOL. oh yea and AA is for quiters : ). Dano

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 6/10/2007 7:21:04 PM
Happy birthday mad dog, My yougest was 12 on saturday, we went to craigs cruisers and they killed me in laser tag. well we all had fun and hung out at the pool for 2 hours then took Haley and her friend to the BOB for dinner. Haley is a sefood nut like her dad. well it was a great dinner and we came back and lit fireworks another of haleys faves, then we went back to the pool and Hot tub to chill. She said this am ,it was her best BD yet. I made them pancakes and bacon for breakfast. they loved it!.Makes dad very happy : ) well thats a good start to geetin this thread happy: )

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 6/9/2007 1:56:44 PM
One more thing since were puttin it all out there, this was her reply to my orignal question/rant to her no - i am not a guy - i am a good friend of one of the hosts...and yes - we have met (the host and I). soooo that told me she took it with a grain of salt and stuck her tounge out at me to say "whatever idiot" Can we all just get along

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 6/9/2007 1:51:28 PM
My reply to Russ and Traci, the host and organizers of the meet and greet party Hey guys no problem, I will send her an appolgy. There was 2 reason for my eamil to her questioning her as to weather her profile was real. 1 was that I have encountered a couple of fake profiles basiclly setup by young boys messin around, I don't get but whatever, second is the distance from where she is in her profile, Is somewhere in British Columbia that's what really led me to think that her profile was a fake. In my defense I did say " Are you really coming all that way to the party?. If you are great!." to me that's giving them the benefit of doubt before I went into my rant. So yes I will send her an appology telling her just what I told you. Dan PS. I just reread your eamil and I'm wondering something, Did you/she think I was acusing her of being a crossdresser/jenderbender?. that thought never crossed my mind, I am very liberal in my views so if she did happen to be a crossdresser/ jenderbender It wouldn't bother me one bit. Oh yea and thanks for setting up the party guys : ).

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 6/9/2007 1:47:41 PM
Ok I was out of line a bit, I'm man enough to admit it. Here's my appolgy to Assila, it shed's a bit more light on my thinking. Asilla, sorry If I offended you by asking if your profile was fake, I have encoutered a few youngters on this site posting fake picture of very nice looking ladies then messin with the guys emailing them, sick little punks!. the distance your traveling based on what your profile says British Coliumbia is what really made me think your profile was a fake. So please accept my appoligy if I offended you in any way. Oh yea my pics are a bit out of date, at the party I'm the guy that looks like shreck ; ). Dan

djf2848

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As a guy, I find it offensive... Posted: 6/5/2007 4:57:37 PM
Well I don't find it offensive but it does put up a flag for the person I'm chattin with, My normal answer is male prostitute : ), other sites have or ask you to put you profession in your profile, if you wish too. From my pics you can see I have a pretty nice life Not bragging just saying, telling the truth, I have worked hard to get where I'm at so what!, I know it could all change tomorrow Life is like that. So when a lady, actually just had one for the first time this last week ask me, My inital reaction was not positive, I didn't tell her that in our chat but it set a bad tone for me. I would not take the time to meet her for sure just because of that. Dan

djf2848

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Why men wont date independent women Posted: 6/4/2007 8:01:06 AM
It was Wilson like the sports equipment company

djf2848

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 6/4/2007 7:52:59 AM
Well, maybe your just looking for the wrong kind of guy? I have no trouble dating a independant woman, But I'm probably not what your looking for ; )

djf2848

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SW MI POF Get Together @ Wounded Minnow Saloon in Dowagiac, Michigan July 14th Posted: 6/2/2007 7:35:36 PM
Looking forward to meeting some more fish, I grew up in SJ and can't wait to talk to summerstars43. should be a fun night Dan

djf2848

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Holy Sh!t first date and he tells me I'm ignorant. Posted: 6/1/2007 11:59:07 AM
Thanks for sharing that, I'm still laughing, Not at you but with you. Made my friday : )

djf2848

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Should I call or play him at his own game? Posted: 5/30/2007 12:27:34 PM
Ok, when he's "away at work" does he have a phone?. why just text and email, If i'm past 3 dates I quit the email thing and just call, I hate texting. It just throws a big red flag like "Married" how far way does he work?, live? if you can't answer these he should. I would tread very cautiously. go to anywho.com and lookup his name in the city/state he says he lives in.

djf2848

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Depression and suicide Posted: 5/28/2007 6:18:26 PM
well you found allot of freinds on this site, my # is 911, just kidding my # is 616-813-0191 guys dont make me regret positing it, my x was at this same place, I just want o help her Your friend, Dan

djf2848

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Friends With Benefits Posted: 5/28/2007 6:04:59 PM
Nick, you are too deep! this is just about FWB, you are going philisophical here, go to Barnes and Noble or Amazon to do that!

djf2848

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This guy is 10 years younger than me Posted: 5/28/2007 5:03:46 PM
Ok Just read few more posts on this, is everyone on here just looking to "hook up"?.

djf2848

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This guy is 10 years younger than me Posted: 5/28/2007 4:57:57 PM
Ok so here goes I'm surprised you don't already know this! I suspect you do though. guys that are 10-15 years younger than you know that older women prefer men at leat 5 years younger than them, Guys do the same thing. it funny to see you play it here though if your just looking for a good time just put that on your profile, "I swore I would not do this shit again" your qoute. so tell me some more. Doctor Dan

djf2848

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I need a GREAT Tuna Macaroni Salad recipe? Any GREAT ones out there? Posted: 5/28/2007 4:45:42 PM
Ok have to say my current favortite macorni is mini sea shells, the tuna noodle recipe that has been around for years but add a dash of crushed red pepper to taste, and celery seed and celery salt, it's a very nice balance of hot and sweet. I also tend to cut the mayo in half and add Olive oil to replace the liquid. let me know how you like it, Dan

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