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Joined: 4/13/2007

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 4/23/2008 1:14:31 AM
that was a 'boy', don't care how old...you need to find a man...and not somebody that's trying to prove something...I will never understand whay someone would want a one day or night over an affair/ it's so weak...but maybe you are setting your standards too look and both of you are thinking with something other than your mind...don't get me wrong...sex counts...counts a lot, but there ought to be something else....even if you can go all night, there still should be something else...men, normally mature much later than women, so if you want mature you need to do more that whisper sweet nothings...the phernome(pardon my spelling) generally lasts about 7 years if its real...that is what we have so many serial marriages...your problems is one of the costs that comes with so-called civilization, and the problems of knowing if you like, love or lust for another...if it is all three, you have a chance...also, do they keep promises. I would sooner trust someone that will come out and say, I can't promise that, than a liar...don't most unions end in lies...just a little to ponder

Joined: 4/13/2007

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Red flag or every right to be angry? Posted: 3/5/2008 1:14:03 AM
maaaaybeee she does,t have a cell phone...you shouldn't assume...or maybe show was lost in thought or apprehension...it is a control issue...and so Amero-centrist to be that hung up on the tick of a watch...---...a thought about cell phones...(I know most people DON'T give a rats ass), but nearly 6 million people have been killed in the region where they mine the Tantalum crystals that make your sweet little toy work...if she is that must together, I would take a deep breath ... dive into that ever expanding limbo and pull her out ...that is...if she wanted... to enter into the in between...yeah I understand what it means...they have tried to stuff me in...but the problems is, FOR THEM,...there is always a seem to slip through, another galaxy to slip into...and rough as it might be...another place to go and get with...so for her...may she find kindness...be guided when she do that need...and walk protected through this 'everything inside out/they're telling me I'm free/but I can't get these chains off of my wrists...SO LIMBO GIRL...it's all smoke and mirrors...pay attention to the man behind the curtain....

Joined: 4/13/2007

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I don't do separated... Posted: 11/14/2007 12:35:49 AM
We are friends, we still have one son(of two children)who really needs guidance. We sleep in separate rooms. Not to say nothing ever goes on. It is simply that we are on different roads in life. We both care about each other...sure we have quarrels, but, never violence. The road I travel is too difficult for her, although she has gone through incredible trials and tribulations. Neither of us drink,(well she might have a glass or three of wine a month...me less)nor do we smoke cigarettes, though she toyed with them until she found she was pregnant with our 1st, then never again. Me, only tens years off, sometimes still craving...the other, been a while. We both have advanced degrees. I had mine, have helped as she finished a second, which should get a job where she wants to live...back in S.E.Asia. The separation is mutually caused. she wants me to find another...she keeps saying so. Maybe it is another way of saying she still loves me, we do love each other, but the flames are embers now,but, as for me finding another,it won't be easy...I didn't say this in my profile, but, when I have sat down and seriously tested, I usually don't chart. The irony is that I was the victim of a street-gang homicide attempt that not only affect my personality to some degree,(I am working, I believe successfully at it)but, it is unlikely that everything will come back. The story is too long, and this is supposed to be about you. So our vision is differing. I still want to help "save the world". I have plenty of faults , but, often admit when I am wrong so quick, I'm not sure how it is taken. I told her I would never promise to be monogamous, yet, I have never cheated on her. I taught...I was chased by students...(not a brag, just fact)...Are you wrong? I don't know you. We tend to stereo-type, but, many boys, playing at men, will use the separation thing. I think you have to know the person, and know them well...ask him if he is willing for you to meet him. Of course the whole thing could be bitter. Our distant ancestors rarely stayed together more that 6-12 years, but, raising children was different back then. Are we so different? Look at the divorce rates. You will need to know a lot. I think I understand what you are saying, however, NEVER is a long time. Would you stay together if after a few years you fought constantly? If one or the other cheated?Love and partnerships are complicated things. Maybe you should not be judgmental. After all. anyone who claims never to have erred or maybe thought about another, even briefly, is in my opinion, not being honest. Maybe you should let them write...and write...and write...;show what it is that makes up and guides their soul. There just might be a legitimate reason. If not, perhaps you will see it. Be well. Good luck and may you be guided in whatever you decide. John

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