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Thread: The Touch
DeerTaint
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The Touch
Posted: 6/7/2012 8:46:59 PM
I always have that 'today I am not the one" look about me.
DeerTaint
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Advice on getting responses from good looking women
Posted: 6/7/2012 8:39:44 PM
there's a site called name your price. I suggest you go take a look. they don't care what you look like as long as you pay.
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I really really like him...
Posted: 6/7/2012 8:36:17 PM
Oh someone who looks like a beaver mascot for the Smurfs calling me a troll? That's rich. I'm a garden gnome. Get it straight.
DeerTaint
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What would you do or how would you feel if this happens to you
Posted: 6/7/2012 8:29:10 PM
Myspace? people still use that?
You must have short hair u must have money u must have this and that or your not worth it and your a looser?Now what if the tables where turn if a man did that i won't date u u have a big butt or you have way to much make up us men know for a fact if we insulted a woman like that we would get slapped for it and it would be conciderd as abuse on the womans part .But yet when your a nice guy your chatting with that person and getting to know who that person is then bang this person pulls a 360 around you then your like wth then you get blocked that tells me that person has some major issues. And trust me i seen some pretty interested things on thease sites to write a noval or to.But be honest here why would any one do this are they that bad where they put them selfs as single and looking but turn around do something else that also tells a person maybe they have a xbf or xgf or still with there patner but yet seeking for another i have no idea what a messed up world we have
Yeah, but are you a "nice guy"?? lmao Look, just because you trust a big butt and smile, don't me she wants to ride into the sunset with you. Put your pole back in the pond and don't take it so serious when someone is just chatting with you. I mean you do have all those windcatchers in the background. Perhaps they are thinking you are doing a raindance or something. POF isn't real life. Keep repeating that and you'll be a happier person.
Spell check and other aspects of the written word would do you well to invest in. Even a period at the end of a sentence would help.
DeerTaint
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Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/7/2012 7:57:25 PM
Yes, I've actually become desperate, and apparently it's a crime deserving of the most brutal and ostracizing social punishment. It's a crime to have a burning desire to love and be loved to the point of feeling depravity. If someone in front of you is DESPERATE for food, wouldn't you feed them? If they're DESPERATE for water, wouldn't you give them a drink? If someone is DESPERATE for medical attention to the point of impending fatality, don't we as a society take care of each other? What if someone is DESPERATE to love and be loved? The kind of love that can only be shared between a significant other. That hole that really nothing else can fill. Physical contact, honor, respect, partnership, romance and perhaps more that can be shared between two people. I don't just want it, I CRAVE it. I NEED it to the point where this life cannot be worth living without it. But of course not. Denied, shunned, guilty for having a soul, for feeling something, for the thought of hope, for being human, to know my emotions. If my word is worth anything at all, I`d spend all the riches on the earth worth of it in solid gold to prove my honesty, and deepest hearts desire. I just need someone to take it from me..
Oh FFS. WTF is wrong with 20 somethings nowadays? Someone is not going to hand you a girl with a bow and say "here you are, now love her". You gotta put in a little work. This whole attitude is defeatist. Life is not a Morrissey song. You think you got it bad, do you? There are children dying, there are wars, and you are here whining cause you can't find someone to love. Well boofreaking hoo. You don't even like yourself, but you want someone to love? I mean this in the most sincere way but eff off!
DeerTaint
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question for the women....could be graphic
Posted: 6/7/2012 6:35:42 PM
I've never seen a thread discussing how gross women are for sending pictures of their morning clit.
hahahaha Morning clit...
DeerTaint
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Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/7/2012 6:28:57 PM
and to this day Morrissey still has a strong following of women.
and he would rather follow the boys than the women.
DeerTaint
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Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/7/2012 5:57:23 PM
You play in a band and can't meet women? Really? That means you aren't really trying. You kind of look like David Arquette to me. He got Courtney. But he blew it by being immature. Anyway, when you play with your band, do you ever go and mingle afterwards?
DeerTaint
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Profile Review Please
Posted: 6/7/2012 5:51:04 PM
Headline is boring.
You need better pics.
You mention that you are moving. So that to me seems you would not want to get serious with anyone. Most will probably pass you by.
You mention that your are poor. LOL Sorry, take that out. Nobody needs to know your financial situation. Nobody is going to assume you are rich since you are a student.
I would suggest (and you probably won't like this) stick to people you go to school with to date. They are in the same boat with you. After you move, then focus on looking for a mate.
DeerTaint
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profile review please, not sure where I'm going wrong
Posted: 6/7/2012 5:45:33 PM
Headline is pretty generic, change that.
You need to make the first line of your profile catchy as it shows up in searches. You can leave out how many kids you have in your text as you already answered about having kids in the standard settings.
You mention nothing about the type of woman you are looking for nor do you include anything for a first date.
You need more and better pics. The ones you have are all dark and can barely tell what you look like.
As far as messages, you're not alone. Men are the ones that go fishing and get very little return. You have to make it somewhat interesting to make someone reply to you. Perhaps mention something about their profile and what about them interests you.
DeerTaint
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Looking for review
Posted: 6/7/2012 5:37:05 PM
I would suggest changing your pictures. Your main should be just you from shoulders up facing forward sans hat or sunglasses. Take out any with females in them.
The text is pretty good but I would take out the bit about you being a nice guy finishing last. Maybe expand on the type of woman you want to date.
DeerTaint
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Same as everyone else, seeking suggestions on how to improve my ad.
Posted: 6/7/2012 5:33:23 PM
First, why do you have a pic of someone that isn't you, a famous actor, in your pics?
Next, take out anything about previous relationships. It's in your first line...that shows up in search results. So you're shooting yourself in the foot before you even start. Also take out anything negative.
DeerTaint
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question for the women....could be graphic
Posted: 6/7/2012 5:26:00 PM
Has that ever (even-once) worked??
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I think it did work ONCE. Than that guy told his friends and those friends told their friends and so on and so on...so, yes, I believe it worked once.
DeerTaint
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No Pic no interest. Am I being fair?
Posted: 6/7/2012 4:42:18 PM
I really cannot fathom how someone can have no pictures of themselves and expect to get any sort of attention on a dating site,
I bet I get more mail than you from men AND women. I had about 25 new emails today so far...and you?
how are you managing to use a computer and make a profile on a dating site
and just like that...I did. I read the "dating sties for dummies" manual.
Unless you're a supermodel or a celebrity.
I only play one on POF.
Any profile that had no picture, I wouldn't waste my time with.
Well then we thank you in advance.
DeerTaint
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Am I wrong?
Posted: 6/7/2012 4:32:30 PM
I get where you care coming from OP. I am not a fan of facial hair. But with that said, it wouldn't of bothered me to the point that I would demand someone I've never met to shave. I also wouldn't travel 2 hours to meet someone for the first time either. You should of met him with hairy legs and underarms and see how he felt about that. Goose meet gander.
DeerTaint
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How long to wait to ask again...
Posted: 6/7/2012 1:51:44 PM
As soon as possible. You like a person, don't play games because if you do, some other guy with gladly lend her his balls to play with.
DeerTaint
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What to do???
Posted: 6/7/2012 1:45:59 PM
Welcome to the new age of dating...where if you leave you computer/phone etc out in the open, anyone has the right to look at it.
Anyways, so the point of this question was? To find out if it was okay to snoop, or to find out if it's okay for him to cheat and if you should be okay with it? Which do you want validation for?
DeerTaint
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I really really like him...
Posted: 6/7/2012 1:28:57 PM
^You want the truth OP, or can't you handle that? From what I've read about you from what YOU posted, you are a drama and attention whore. You like it. Doesn't matter where it comes from whether it be your mother...or military men thousands of miles away. You enjoy the sensationalism of being a wanna be Jerry Springer contestant. So you in drama queen fashion, start threads about wacky scenarios. By the weekend it will be some other inbred, silly scenario. That's how you portray yourself on here. If you are going to be goofy...then own it. Stop looking for validation for being ditsy.
DeerTaint
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Trying to get my ex back.
Posted: 6/7/2012 1:07:10 PM
You both need grow up. You talk about mario brothers and whatnot. There is so much immaturity on both parts. . Just another example of "20 something's problems". I'll pass.
DeerTaint
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I have not displayed a picture but do have pics to share once I feel there is a connection
Posted: 6/7/2012 12:52:27 PM
Freaking hilarious!!!
Dear deertaint...or is it Dear taint?
To be honest, I did grapple with this major decision that would change my presence here on POF for all eternity. I chose Deer rather than Dear because I figured, most people love Bambi and I would be more approachable. Whereas, DeArTaint, could be any taint and that would be a whole different set of suitors. So Deer is what I went with. I'm sure Walt Disney would approve. Besides aren't most taint, dear?
DeerTaint
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open relationships
Posted: 6/7/2012 12:42:21 PM
It seems she's gone.
Probably got caught cheating. LOL
DeerTaint
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Re-Add the ability to put a Title in sending a message!
Posted: 6/7/2012 12:36:04 PM
Won't matter if you can't piece together a decent email or if the person doesn't find your pictures/profile aesthetically pleasing.
DeerTaint
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Is this a red flag?
Posted: 6/7/2012 12:24:15 PM
Is this the person you want to spend your every waking moment with? Seems he's got his hands full already and full of all sorts of baggage and drama. Aren't there any guys not living with their exes who don't have dead wives in their recent memory where you live? But if he's your soul mate, go for it.
vvvv Go read her history. She was asking about being needy or smothering. I don't know how she would be able to fit in with this guy has so much going on.
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Naughty pics
Posted: 6/7/2012 12:05:57 PM
Most aren't worth being photographed. Just go post them on towerload if you want a reaction.
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is anyone else ready to give up on here
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:45:51 AM
When I say freak factor, it wasn't necessarily because of the way they looked. It was more of creepy guys that acted like they've never talked to a female before, who thought it was a swingers party hitting on me. Very much like my inbox.
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suggestion on viewing
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:42:02 AM
Instead I think we should all be thankful that we even get to do anything on here for free.
^^From the top of this page
"Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate."
Have you ever HAD to pay to meet anyone from POF. I know I haven't.
DeerTaint
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is anyone else ready to give up on here
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:26:31 AM
Funny story - I once unknowingly walked in on a POF party at a bar here in town not too long ago. The biggest gathering of miscreants I've ever seen in my life.
I felt right at home.
I went to one once for sh!ts and giggles cause it was about 5 blocks from my house. I stayed for the freak factor. It was then I knew, I wouldn't be dating on this site.
DeerTaint
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question for the women....could be graphic
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:23:12 AM
How do you know it's a MORNING hard on - do they pose it beside their bacon and eggs ? LOL
ahahahahaha
DeerTaint
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Why cant I get back on my feet again?
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:21:05 AM
Do you have friends you can talk with and hang out with? Go get a cup of coffee with them and just let it out. Don't keep yourself bottled up and become a hermit. How about just going for a walk by yourself? Just get out of your house.
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No closure and it hurts
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:18:45 AM
Delete his contact info. Like a bandaid, just do it. He doesn't care enough about you to give you an explanation. Don't dwell on it and move on. The sooner the better.
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is anyone else ready to give up on here
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:08:51 AM
OP are you proactive on this site. Like do you email guys or do you just wait around for them to mail you? Go after who you are attracted to, don't wait for him to find you.
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I feel sad . no one like me
Posted: 6/7/2012 10:52:11 AM
Well, you've been here a week. At least you tried.
DeerTaint
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where does sexy stop and sleezy begin?
Posted: 6/7/2012 10:39:12 AM
Sexy is something you are born with. You either are or you aren't. You can't buy sexy.
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I really really like him...
Posted: 6/7/2012 10:08:08 AM
Seems every day you are falling for someone new. Invite him bowling with your mom.
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Do girls really do this?
Posted: 6/7/2012 9:58:35 AM
So foursquare and fb have tracking devices on people now? I will make sure to be careful next time I got to the bathroom.
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Mom Is 50 and Is Competitive with me?!
Posted: 6/6/2012 8:13:09 PM
On the next episode of Jerry Springer...Mom stole my bowling date.
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What do you think?
Posted: 6/6/2012 7:42:21 PM
Put a recent full length pic then there will be no confusion.
DeerTaint
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Is she playing games
Posted: 6/6/2012 7:24:46 PM
Send her a link to this thread.
DeerTaint
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Is there anything with wanting to see someone everyday?
Posted: 6/6/2012 7:11:38 PM
That's smothering. Perhaps a vibrator or a dog to keep you company? How about a boyfriend pillow? I call mine George Glass.
DeerTaint
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a weird philosophy
Posted: 6/6/2012 4:22:11 PM
Well, hopefully you find some girl that finds you "average" enough to marry one day.
i have met plenty of gals that would bankrupt guys like you .
And here is your real motive. You think "10s" are gold diggers.
DeerTaint
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Sarcasm? Wit? Humor? How do I make them Translate to ONLINE
Posted: 6/6/2012 2:28:45 PM
Know your audience. You shouldn't have to explain your humor to anyone. If something is funny, you shouldn't have to type LOL after it.
DeerTaint
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if ur dating someone & they still have profiles & r actively seeking other partners, is that ok o?
Posted: 6/6/2012 1:24:50 PM
You said "was" but it seems like you are still dating him. Ask yourself this...Is the d!ck that good that you are willing to put up with a liar and risk catching things you can't give back?
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open relationships
Posted: 6/6/2012 1:02:33 PM
Open relationships, open sores. You say potatoe...I say potadoh.
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I have not displayed a picture but do have pics to share once I feel there is a connection
Posted: 6/6/2012 11:45:02 AM
And Deertaint, I have read your profile...It is freaking amazing. You don't need a pic :).
LOL thanks.
DeerTaint
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open relationships
Posted: 6/6/2012 11:39:48 AM
Sadly, want to travel, that seems the way things are going. I'm guessing all the married men that contact me are in "open relationships" then? Too bad their wives don't know since the majority of them always say they are "looking for something on the side". LOL
DeerTaint
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moving on?
Posted: 6/6/2012 11:01:22 AM
Sounds like you are far from ready to date. Concentrate on getting a job and then concentrate on dating.
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open relationships
Posted: 6/6/2012 10:59:10 AM
LOL @ afraid of cheating again. Ummm okay. Happy herpes to all involved. Mazel tov.
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open relationships
Posted: 6/6/2012 10:52:47 AM
Why would you agree to something you are not comfortable with?
DeerTaint
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Message restriction got me down!
Posted: 6/6/2012 10:47:38 AM
She didn't block you, the site did.
Actually the filters she enabled blocked him from contacting her.
So you could say she blocked all guys that have an established pattern of contacting IE filters. The site didn't make the user pick this filter.
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Whats with all the tattoos and piercings?
Posted: 6/6/2012 10:23:08 AM
If someone wants to use their body as a pin cushion or coloring book, that's their business. I'm not a fan of either.
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