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Joined: 4/13/2007

Msg: 399 (view)

Want a man's opinion of your profile? Posted: 4/17/2007 9:21:38 PM
Hey, I would love it if you could give me some advice when you get a chance. Thanks :)

Joined: 4/13/2007

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Lying about number of sex partners Posted: 4/17/2007 8:52:33 PM
I wouldn't feel comfortable lying about it. I'd only want to have the discussion with someone I loved and trusted. My boyfriends so far have been respectful enough NOT to demand a number. If they did, I'd almost be offended. What does it -truly- matter? It's over and done with, and can't be changed. All that they REALLY need to know is that I play it safe and am disease-free.

Joined: 4/13/2007

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Guys mentioning sex too soon Posted: 4/17/2007 8:46:07 PM
I've noticed that guys who make the best sexual partners never have to mention sex. DITTO! It comes naturally if it's mean to happen, IMO. And the best sexual partners, know how to interpret your signals without being pushy about it.

Joined: 4/13/2007

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No Responses Posted: 4/17/2007 8:31:06 PM
I'm not a guy (or a lesbian), but I'll put in my 2 cents anyway, haha. You seem like a cute and sweet girl, honestly, so I can't imagine why you wouldn't get any responses. I'd try breaking up that first paragraph some, so intead of one long block of text, it's 3 short ones. Why? Because as garf suggested, guys' minds are simple

Joined: 4/13/2007

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Constructive and honest review of my profile Posted: 4/17/2007 8:13:15 PM
You had a few grammatical errors/inconsistencies in there. There's a bit of redundancy as well. Also, I wouldn't start it off immediately with what you DISlike - that instantly puts a negative flavor in there. Also, I don't think there's any reason to put all that business about how you aren't working a paying job because you MIGHT be getting a cochlear implant, when you have an "update" 2 sentences below saying you WON'T be getting the implant. Here's how I would say it: Currently I do volunteer work for the Minnesota Literacy Council, teaching computers to immigrants. I really like open-minded people who are tolerant of others, have good sense of humor, and are very playful as well. Also, they have to like cats. I personally wouldn't want a dog as a pet. I do hope to find a long term relationship, but I'm open to anything really other than a straight on intimate encounter...

Joined: 4/13/2007

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Well everyone else is doing it. Posted: 4/17/2007 8:07:17 PM
Hey garf... I'd appreciate some words, if you will :)

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I'm curious now too ... Posted: 4/17/2007 7:59:55 PM
I think your profile is good, you seem to know what you want and not want to waste time, which might scare some women off - but at the same time, it'll serve to weed out those who aren't right for you.

Joined: 4/13/2007

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The girl needs help. Posted: 4/17/2007 7:57:19 PM
Would any kind soul like to feed me some constructive criticism? Before you do: Yeah, I do have restrictions. I'm not trying to be a **** or "find superman" - but I've had all of the things I'm asking for before and it worked beautifully, and so I know it can happen again.

Joined: 4/13/2007

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How do men feel about a woman with bi-racial children??? Posted: 4/17/2007 7:45:19 PM
Amber, whatever you do, don't see your children's race as a "problem". You deserve someone that will feel comfortable walking down the street with children that, as a previous poster said, are "obviously not his". Their color shouldn't be a problem to whoever you spend your life with. And if it is, it's their "problem" and they're not worth the time.

Joined: 4/13/2007

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Would you cuddle if it NEVER lead to sex? Posted: 4/17/2007 7:34:06 PM
I'm a cuddle-whore... And proud, haha. Just a light physical touch - stroking hair, massaging, spooning, the whole fine art - releases those endorphins that make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. To me, that can be BETTER than straight up sex at times - if it's done with the right person. If it leads to sex, hallelujah haha... but if not - so what!?

Joined: 4/13/2007

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affection and kissing Posted: 4/17/2007 7:27:15 PM
I've never been the type for PDAs. I naturally get the urge to inch away if a boyfriend wants to kiss or hold me in public. In my past few relationships I've gotten better at fighting that urge and relaxing a bit, so that if anything, I don't hurt the guy, haha. But in private, you better believe I am the cuddliest girl around. I love to hug, massage, snuggle, fall sleep in each other's arms... To me that gooey stuff is what holds the relationship together. After all, without it, what are you except very good friends with rings on your fingers that might clumsily sleep together on occasion?

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