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 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Spontaneous dates
Posted: 3/18/2013 5:21:02 AM
I'd really like that.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Ladies I need your input on this.
Posted: 3/15/2013 11:54:23 PM
I like a more experienced guy who knows what & how to do it and is adaptable to how i want it.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Casual sex and FWB
Posted: 2/25/2013 12:13:18 AM
I can do it if I know thats what kind of relationship it will be. I've also had more serious relationships turn out to be better as FWB. As long as both people feel the same way it can work. BUt there are so many kinds of relationships. There are just **** buddies, super casual which isn;t my type. I like to really get to be friends and have long term FWB. Or even not super long when someone gets a bf or gf but have no bad feelings against each other. THats one thing I like, the fighting and etc isn't there in my FWB so I am happier, tho, I do get lonely. So it can be a tradeoff. It all gets so confusing lol.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Not ready to hang up my spurs.
Posted: 2/25/2013 12:07:01 AM
^^^^^^^ Thats not nice.
I have been single with a boyfriend here & there for many years. Ive had many FWB, which works for me. My sex drive is higher now than when I was in my 30's even. And I have more, easier and better orgasms. I'm very open sexually too. BUT, I wonder sometimes if I would be this way if I would be married to the same man for 20,30 ++ years. I wonder if I just would be bored of him & what he can do for me sexually. There are things people can't change about their opinions of different sex acts and how they do certain things that can't be changed. I know plenty of men & women who are bored after years or even less, but usually have young children and either stay or divorce or cheat. It's sad that its so prevelent.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 258 (view)
 
How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2013 9:36:25 PM
I have never had a problem with guys I've been with. Every so often a guy I know can just either doesn't really want to at that moment or just can't. It happens occassionaly, but, he can just cum a different way then. But if u did a forum search it's been talked about before. Some guys don't cum or don't like oral that much, or don't want to cum that way. So to each his own .
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 80 (view)
 
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 9:29:35 PM
Someone not being attentive to what is actually going on between us. Meaning he is just getting his, his own way & not paying attention enough to notice my reactions or things I am saying. Guys who just have their regular routine sex. No imagination or no want to change anything or try new things. Even if they say they know they are like this yet it fine for them. Those would be the major reasons I wouldn't stay around long.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Feeling the flood
Posted: 2/17/2013 9:44:43 PM
I think maybe she's a bit confused thinking she is supposed to "cum" like a guy with fluid. But gushing and squirting isn't something that happens to everyone. That's what a flood would be I'm guessing. As long as u are having orgasms thats good. If you want to try and see if u can squirt and/or gush then read up about it and try.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 306 (view)
 
Do women enjoy masterbation and being watched?
Posted: 2/17/2013 9:41:23 PM
YES. I really do, I love to see the look in their eyes that they get, glazed over as they watch. It excites me so much to see how it excites them. But, now I really only masturbate when I'm with a guy or w phone sex. I got kind of spoiled and alone isn't so much fun anymore.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/17/2013 9:22:26 PM
Yes it has but I'm not going to get into all the ways. I happen not to watch porn but most of the guys I know do. Some it seems to be too much to me lol. But a good thing that has come out of it is that I think some guys really learn how to do some things very well, without practicing a lot, by paying attention to porn. So, some young guys really have surprised me with their sexual knowledge. They just need someone to practice on to perfect their moves. But on the other end is the guys who become addicted to porn, even let it ruin their marriages because they won't get treatment.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Do women really like anal?
Posted: 2/17/2013 8:32:04 PM
Yes I have had some anal sex that made me scream in ecstasy. The rest of the time I have anal I just orgasm & gush like crazy. If the guy isn't real experienced then I make sure I get positioned right and get the rhythm going. "Luvthemgloworms" or whatever his name is up above said women do it for the man & can't get pleasure from it. It are sooo wrong there. During anal the penis hits the gspot area and the engored clitoral tissue that is around the area. Plus the anus has lots of it's own nerve endings that make it feel really good. Get the position right & it can feel great.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Putting out too soon????
Posted: 2/17/2013 8:28:35 PM
I agree that's total rubbish. I have my own proof. My late husband and I slept together on the first meeting and we were together 9 years until he passed away. And, I have had more recent realtionships where I also did, and they didn't work out but not because of sleeping together on the first meeting. I will have sex with someone when I feel it's right. If it's the first time I meet him then let it be that. That's not how I gauge a relationship and neither do the guy's I want to be with. If they do feel that way then, I made a mistake and oh well we had fun anyway. Nothing is perfect and you can't know if you sleep with someone on the 6th date that things will work out either. It takes more than when you had sex for a relationship to develop.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Fist
Posted: 2/17/2013 8:12:07 PM
You probably would be surprised how many girls like it. That's how it usually is when something isn't totally vanilla. I believe it's not the size of the vagina but how your pelvic bones,tendond, etc are arranged. I have had quite a few guys want to do it. Many have that fantasy. Also guys have told me about girls they have and girls that squirted & gushed like mad. But, I just cant, even with a small hands.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Webcamming
Posted: 2/17/2013 7:59:48 PM
Since the OP is asking if it's sexually pleasant or a tease, it seems like he's not talking about just talking about other things than sex much lol.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Webcamming
Posted: 2/17/2013 7:33:00 PM
There are other web sites that you can go on where women want to cam. I mean sex cam. I'm not sure this is the right site for that. It can be fun with guys I know, but in the end yes, it is a tease. At least for me it is. I used to cam when I first got it but now it's boring.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Bring back the bush
Posted: 2/17/2013 6:51:30 PM
I like myself all smooth better & I like a guy as smooth as he's able to get. Mmmm. No one has ever mistaken me for a young girl lol. As I've gotten older or from years of hair removal, or both, there's not as much hair either, so it doesn't look as good that way.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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much older women
Posted: 2/14/2013 6:58:31 PM
I have been with more than a couple guys more than 30 yrs younger than me. My funnest & I say the best FWB of 4 years is over 30 yrs younger. I get a long very good with young guys, for whatever reason. I have been trying to find a guy closer to my age but I really get no interest from them. I am looking for a real relationship.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Any advice? Erectile Dysfunction.
Posted: 2/14/2013 4:08:21 PM
As other's said go to an endocrinologist & a new urologists. Someone will help you. I would not use a****ring unless a Dr tells you to. You could damage tissues and at this age you don't want to do that. Find the right Dr.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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How far will you go to please your lover ?
Posted: 2/14/2013 3:16:39 PM
I am a very open person. Very, very when the other person is too.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 291 (view)
 
Do women enjoy masterbation and being watched?
Posted: 1/18/2013 12:32:10 AM
I love it. It's gotten to the point that if I'm not being watched or having phone sex it's just not as much fun.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Hair pulling during doggystyle
Posted: 1/18/2013 12:20:32 AM
I don't really like hair pulling. It huts me. I'll sometimes let a guy do it real gentle. Ass spanking is fine. Just not hard enough to leave marks later on. I'm sensitive and don't like pain. Pound me hard, give me some light spanks, and no guy has ever complained or not done it again.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Guys: Tgirls hot or not??
Posted: 1/8/2013 8:31:05 PM
^^^^^^^^ HUH it isn't up to them to know how they feel??? If they have felt that way since they were a small child, who knows nothing about any of this, do u think they made it up? It's up to someone else to tell them how they feel then? It has nothing at all to do with their parents. It's an anomaly in the way they hormones messed up during the pregnancy. Nothing the parents did or could do about it. The problem that happens according to some gurls I talk to, is that they just become sex objects for guys to use as a new something to try out, instead of seen as a real person looking for love like everyone else. So there is a lot of being used going on.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Everything you want in a partner but no chemistry--will it work?
Posted: 1/3/2013 3:28:46 PM
No, it wouldn't work for me. I have tried at various times in my life, sometimes there was a small spark but I knew even that wouldn't grow. This is one reason people end up in loveless marriages.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 282 (view)
 
How many women suck their own nipples?
Posted: 1/3/2013 1:34:40 AM
Because I am very large busted I can just barely lick, but not suck. I't weird though since I really don't feel , even though my nipples are very sensitive. I just do it for the visuals ;-)
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 410 (view)
 
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/1/2013 11:51:18 PM
I have no problem at all. I am more sexual now than I was when I was younger. I like younger guys also. Not on hormones. Some women never were really sexual, so , perhaps she never was really into it in the first place. But, it doesn't mean us women who love sex have no self control & are sex addicts who cannot control their urges & just have sex with any guy. Most women have standards. Even if we want no strings attached, or casual or FWB most women would still choose the person for reasons other than him just having a penis.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 944 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 1/1/2013 11:30:11 PM
MANAROUNDTOWN haha u are SO I just have to laugh. HAHA. Not sure there are many virginal areas around here either. HAHA . Since u think it's nasty I think that takes you out of the dating pool pretty quickly. Before u post u should be Manaroundreadingcorrectinformation instead.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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happy ending massages
Posted: 1/1/2013 10:27:59 PM
To me this is cheating. I doubt my bf would like me to meet up with a guy to only get fingered. Hey honey I'm home.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Should I feel guilty?
Posted: 12/31/2012 3:49:55 AM
You seem to be really rushing into having such strong feelings for a girl you went out with once. Sounds like you need to slow down. Peop;e here are talking love etc. One date is still just that. Meeting a person that you would like to hang out with again. I have FWB so I'm not as judgemental as the ppl here. Go on your 2nd date, see how it goes. If it goes well then just let ur FWB know u can't hang out anymore. Don't just ignore her. I hate that, lol. It's just common courtesy to let her know whats going on. Don't stress urself out over this or feel like some ppl here are acting.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 71 (view)
 
WTF is going on???
Posted: 12/26/2012 2:51:40 AM
I read your profile & yReou are doing the exact opposite of it. Saying you can smell BS a mile away, you aren't looking to jump into a relationship, etc, etc.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Confused
Posted: 12/26/2012 2:23:11 AM
HARBINGERN7 you are telling him not to look for a relationship here, just give them what they need, which I'm guessing is sex. Why does your profile say you are looking for a long term relationship? Seems you are one of those guys who reels in the girls with your lie, then just try them to have sex and they do because they think you are looking more. It's guys like that, that keep girls off these sites. Not nice. When I was on here 4 yrs ago basically that was all the type of guys I talked to & met from here. And why I left. Now I just stay in here.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Fake fun wrestling or boxing with your partner? Turn on or turn off???
Posted: 12/26/2012 2:02:46 AM
I actually have never done this. No one has ever tried to start, or even hint they'd like to. It seems from the comments that guy's & women really like to play that way. I guess I get right down to the kissing and etc lol. I am going to try it when the right moment comes along.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Phone chat lines...anyone ever done it?
Posted: 12/26/2012 1:22:43 AM
I thought they were only for young people. Are there people over 45? My older daughter used to go on a lot some years ago. She did meet a couple really good guys. After a couple years she got engaged to one of the guys. But it's her that ruined the 2 relationships. She is hard to get a long with. My younger daughter goes on some kind of chatline but she talks to girls & guys . The few she was to meet all cancelled. But, the girls are nice. If anyone knows, are there are men over 45 on there? I've struck out on here 4 yrs ago when I was on & now when I rejoined.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 169 (view)
 
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 12/24/2012 8:08:36 PM
Yes, I have used vibes & dildo in guys & they all loved it.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Douche
Posted: 12/17/2012 3:11:32 AM
Check out the links TALL IQ2 posted on the first page & you will see that his pics are stolen. I used to do sperm counts as part of my job. We checked them hourly for a few hours and yes the longer the semen sat the more bleachy/fishy smell that actually could spread to the surrounding areas. And as everyone said, smart women do not douch because it is not good for you and when vaginal secretions & semen mix it gets that bleachy and fishy smell. So maybe ur semen isnt as great as u think it is. It depends on your diet. If u have to steal pics I wonder what u really look like.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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unable to orgasm
Posted: 12/17/2012 2:55:27 AM
A lot of you are mentioning Effexor. I have been on it for a while, I have a pretty high sex drive & it hasn't affected it at all but it has worked pretty good on my depression where the other meds haven't . So don't put it down & say how bad it is. And the brain zaps happen when u stop it but don't taper it down. I took Wellbutrin & that did affect my sex . I coudn't even make myself orgasm. Paxil was almost as bad as Wellbutrin. So, different meds affect people different & me & women different also. Please go to your Dr and discuss it. They probably can change something.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 46 (view)
 
dirty talk
Posted: 12/17/2012 2:38:45 AM
I love dirty talk and so does the guy I'm seeing now. I love when hes fingering me or im using my dildo and or phone sex & he's telling me to cum for him. And how he loves to make me cum & watch me & how sexy I look cumming, or my **** is so beautiful & my tits are gorgeous & how much I turn him on etc. I tell him lots of stuff too. Those are some good ways to start then u can get dirtier if she wants.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 928 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 12/16/2012 2:03:35 AM
I'm a heavy gusher when my gspot gets what it needs. I get excited fast so after kissing, some breast play. Some clit then i tell him to finger me. It's usually 2-3 small gushes then I feel it building up and building up and explode. That's my appetizer lol. Then the real sex starts. mmmmmm
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Question for UNcircumsized guys
Posted: 12/16/2012 1:53:37 AM
He could have adhesions that can form in childhood from improper cleaning, or just form. The 2 uncut guy's I've had the most sex with are totally different in what they like. One the skin goes all the way behind the head & he is more sensitive than uncut but not to the point anyone would really notice & he can take anything. Do anything soft or rougher w no problem. The guy I'm seeing now is opposite. At first I hurt him cuz I pulled the foreskin down to hard, his is more attached at the frenulum. He needs to be handled more with care and more gentle. Sometimes when he cums from hand job he also likes to keep the skin up on the head instead of back behind it. He is very clean and doesn't have adhesions because the skin does retract when I give him oral, but I just can't pull it down too hard. So it could be that some guys like it. BUT, having to keep stopping is wayyy annoying. I think ur ex needed to masturbate or have sex more with it pulled back to get the head a bit toughened up. I think my guy needs to do it too because he can get over excited too. He actually has said he thinks it's better if he was cut, but, I don't think he'll do it at his age.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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videotaping
Posted: 12/16/2012 1:30:25 AM
U are normal. I have mny vids of me & a guy & me alone. It almost seems like it's not me just another girl having fun. One I only listen to the sound & it's super hot. Doesn't sound like me, just a girl getting slammed good lol. Just don't tell your friends. They probably wish they had girls to vid.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Douche
Posted: 12/16/2012 1:26:11 AM
I also reported him for having fake pics. They are not him. And this post shows he doesn't have safe sex.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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unable to orgasm
Posted: 12/16/2012 1:09:36 AM
Talk to your OB/GYNE. Be totally honest about everything. You could even have hormone imbalance. You just never know. Or it could be mental or the men.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Heterosexual Sex with one person who is HIV+
Posted: 10/28/2012 8:00:54 PM
My foster daughter is HIV+ since shes a teen & has sex w her boyfriends. She always took her meds & her viral loads were zero. So there was no active HIV in her. Many couples after years of meds and zero viral loads stop using protection and babies born while on meds are born neg. Since it is much harder for a man to get it from a woman, I dont know if I could be w an HIV man. I guess if we used condom & always came on my tits or stomach, but , really I don't know. I hope I never get into that position.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 319 (view)
 
does pot make you horny?
Posted: 10/28/2012 7:49:45 PM
Oh yeah, I;m always happy when find out a new guy gets high. I also smoked while having oral OMG try it lol.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Toe curling kiss
Posted: 10/28/2012 7:19:53 PM
Oh yeah Ive had those, where i just get dizzy. Me & the guy I just split up from, i mean just, kissed the greatest. Just together it was the greatest for us both. Plus we had feelings behind it so it made it even more. Its so unfortunate he had problems I just can't put up with & had to just leave him. But I cant forget our kisses.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Mutual/group masturbation
Posted: 10/28/2012 7:07:32 PM
Never in a group but in sex yeah, all the time. It's great for when the guys getting ready for round 2 ill use my dildo on myself to get him up a bit, lol. Or just do it during foreplay or have him pull out & finish on me. Or whatever. Lots of fun. Ive watched guys do it & watched too. Guys sure do love to watch, especially w my dildo so it makes me gush & they can watch close up.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 854 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 10/28/2012 6:49:40 PM
Lexyflexy squirting/gushing doesnt come from the vagina so thats just lots of **** lubrication & juices. The guy above me is lost so no use even addressing it. Ive been gushing since about age 20. Now u finger **** me Ill gush 30 times in then **** and everyting i just keep on going, lol. Guys love it when I ride their face, oral with fingers in is intense, most positions. But I do soak the sheets lol. Ive only squirted as far as my ankle lol.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Repulsive penis ??
Posted: 10/22/2012 10:15:19 AM
I like the way most penis' look. Some are just more beautiful to look at. There are some that are like works of art to me. Really, I could just stare at pictures of them. Lol. I have had some that turned me on by just looking at it more than others just because I liked the way it looked, but, in the end it's not the look that makes sex great. The guy I'm seeing now has a not so pretty penis. It's just isn't so attractive. Kinda funny looking to me But that doesn't stop me from wanting it & enjoying it more than others. I like it because it belongs to him. But I guess if a man has a penis because of it's size or shape that you really cannot enjoy the sex then you can't help that & can't really want to stay unsatisfied. Though I did have sex with a guy who had such a hard curve to the left that it actually hurt me a lot. I tried to find the right angles in different positions but it really hurt. And I was still sore inside the next day. And not in any kind of good way.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 410 (view)
 
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 10/22/2012 9:42:23 AM
I've been very happy many guys have done it to me. I love it mmmmm in any & all positions.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Possible he's telling the truth?
Posted: 10/4/2012 11:54:11 AM
Perhaps he has that Madonna/Whore complex. He's waiting for sex w u, while meeting up w " easy" wome,n to fulfill his needs. Sp he means what he says to u but is also getting his. If I was seriously with a guy I wouldn't like him flirting, camming, sexting or having phone sex w others. That's one of the problems w meeting guys on websites. Its such a habit they have trouble breaking. They may just be bored so playing w women fills the time. If u do a search so.many in forums asking same thing. i
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 131 (view)
 
For women, oral sex from behind?
Posted: 10/4/2012 11:21:48 AM
Back, front, side, from clit to ass. Its all good :-)
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
women: orgasms during intercourse?
Posted: 10/3/2012 9:13:53 PM
I know I'm so lucky that I can cum in every position. YAY.
 
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