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 Author Thread: Central London Christmas Mingle - 21st December
 fun_woman25
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Central London Christmas Mingle - 21st December
Posted: 12/3/2012 8:42:44 AM
where is the event link?
 fun_woman25
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dating on ant depressants?
Posted: 12/3/2012 6:39:57 AM
I think maybe its like long term fighting within whatever issues you have internally and get over them if never to make it easier to cope with i'm waiting on therapy hm and on kinda a sleep anti depressant i dunno wait and see my problem is not being able to see past the past to the future and not letting go of pain.
 fun_woman25
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dating on ant depressants?
Posted: 11/26/2012 3:45:01 PM
smart response I wouldnt judge anyone on it.
 fun_woman25
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dating on ant depressants?
Posted: 11/26/2012 9:02:49 AM
I don't think its something to laugh at.
 fun_woman25
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dating on ant depressants?
Posted: 11/26/2012 8:56:17 AM
would people with depression?that it affected them on and off?what are you views on people on anti depressants and how it affects love ect?also if they had no job and this affected them more?would you see them as a looser and write tem off?
 fun_woman25
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Paving the way for your ex to come back
Posted: 10/26/2012 5:21:57 AM
giving up hoping moving on with my life !!!!pointless waiting for to long you'll go mad!things end for a reason right?
 fun_woman25
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When Will the Job situation improve in the UK?
Posted: 10/25/2012 7:18:21 AM
Well I have got dyslexia and ADHD so no my grammar isn't perfect and I am applying all over the place!
 fun_woman25
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When Will the Job situation improve in the UK?
Posted: 10/24/2012 12:06:06 AM
The situation is so depressed and disheartening I haven't had a job in a year. What the hell do I with a degree in creative writing?maybe abroad for jobs better plan.
 fun_woman25
Joined: 4/9/2012
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Nightmare Dates
Posted: 9/27/2012 4:59:00 AM
one guy tried bite me and my hair!what a nutter then rang me for about three hours sent 40 texts I said I would ring the police..wierd.
 fun_woman25
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Dining Solo in Public
Posted: 9/27/2012 4:48:23 AM
I do it sometimes its fine I did it south america when I was there alot.
 fun_woman25
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Nightmare Dates
Posted: 8/26/2012 9:07:51 AM
serious jokes with the LIDL bag
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 8/16/2012 4:57:38 AM
to the lady above thankyou for ur insight your right its just the reality of everday thankyou!im trying to move on and date at moment!my health hasnt been so good iether, and I miss I hope be hypotinised but i'm not sure how the human heart or ind can forget or more is less supressing something surely u need to go through it to forget it not block it out?
 fun_woman25
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Feeling alone and the fear of it
Posted: 8/6/2012 1:41:43 PM
i think it takes two people to make mistakes and yes I'm starting to move forward and be happy in some ways i lament indeed but attempting!planning going swimming reading lots of books ect seeing my friends
 fun_woman25
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Feeling alone and the fear of it
Posted: 8/6/2012 5:24:47 AM
or jaded?yes im there already wow are u a female body builder?cool
 fun_woman25
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Feeling alone and the fear of it
Posted: 8/6/2012 5:14:05 AM
Are we all terrfied of the future and past locked in memories?do we think we can feel what we did before or something stronger and is it possible?Im starting to doubt the idea of it all!any suggestions!?
 fun_woman25
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Motorcylces and dating
Posted: 8/6/2012 4:38:03 AM
any nice men in uk i love motor bikes:0)
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 8/1/2012 4:56:58 AM
I see its just before that I had a terrible realtionship anyways about helping others thats very valid point going to some volunteering and i care alot for my family/friends. As for moving on kinda met one guy but dont wanna have sex with them argh- and not sure what I feel so may bail!which is unfair but it seems hes just after one thing anwyays- and yes I suppose '26' seems young to some people but if you been through alot in self esteem and many thing throughout life and other issues its hard to rationlize a loss and when someone says they love you - you find it hard to let go of even if they never did !
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 7/31/2012 4:33:12 AM
i guess does anyone have advice on dating then even if ur a bit sad?
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 7/29/2012 1:50:52 PM
in reference to sex I cant do it becauses i just feel sad and stuck in the past or not comfortable with the man so Im avoiding it and yes I know self esteem isnt very high and yes I did contribute to the end of it well some of it but he had a temper and was paranoid !
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 7/29/2012 11:30:40 AM
moving the hell on I would love to do I seem to be stuck in a spiralling rut
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 7/29/2012 6:52:54 AM
yeah i no its just so hard why u want revenge on her?lol:modhammer:
 fun_woman25
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Its been a year since it ended
Posted: 7/29/2012 6:06:27 AM
Basically were together three years now he wont talk to me I cant even enjoy sex anymore or even want to and my dreams and nightmares are of him coming back- he wont he hates me what the hell do I do?
 fun_woman25
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POF AND ADHD?
Posted: 7/13/2012 4:16:55 PM
where does it refer that i want to beat something up?i dont hit anyone thankyou.
 fun_woman25
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POF AND ADHD?
Posted: 7/13/2012 2:11:12 PM
I have dyslexia !
 fun_woman25
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POF AND ADHD?
Posted: 7/13/2012 6:43:19 AM
thankyou ur right!
 fun_woman25
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POF AND ADHD?
Posted: 7/13/2012 6:09:51 AM
I have put I have ADHD on my profile is that to soon or not?How would it affect said date?or man?and sometimes I get pretty down and sometimes really hyper and a bit dark!most of the time i'm friendly and would anything for anyone and want everyone to be and am very loyal and am obessesive over final fantasy and sharks!In the past an ex was a bit controlling and thought maybe i needed this but in the end he treated me like a child which is wrong and he was pretty cold i wanna know the correct balance its all about secuirty the idea of being protected?
 fun_woman25
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Drunken Sadness
Posted: 6/24/2012 5:15:07 AM
I know what u mean-how do u get over it?
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/24/2012 5:06:14 AM
yeah I know its true anywys no point in dwelling in the past.
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/22/2012 5:58:56 AM
yes i know but soetimes things are difficult to deal with!
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/21/2012 6:06:32 AM
yeah it comes and goes I do date sometimes and am at moment but nothing ever feels that right and then the cracks of the past come through and I feel sad and remmeber how I felt and that nothing feels that way but its because we get used to a pattern of life and reassurance even if its wrong !sometimes i wanna go back even though it was hard meh:/ gota just keep moving onwards if someone goes away then there not worth it?
 fun_woman25
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a funny story on dating
Posted: 6/18/2012 7:46:23 AM
A short story on men and Internet dating



A tall red head checked her phone nervously looking around at all the men at the train station. She had been on an Internet dating site and she was twenty years old with long reddie ginger hair and a pale complexion her eyes were a hazel green and she had a flat face with freckles childish and pinched, almost Elvin she was nearly six feet tall and very skinny like her body was stretched and with large thin feet and skinny legs but her beauty was her uniqueness. Her profile on datings.com had been pined over, feared and then written in an excited and slightly embarrassed way and put up with a photo of her in sunglasses and another of her at uni with her friends blotted out as they wouldn’t have wanted to be on the World Wide Web without permission. Her names was Elsie and her date was a man called Marc he was tall mixed race and handsome. Marc had messaged her first but not in a sleazy way like other men or a one liner like ‘what’s up? Babe you’re cute. Or even worse. He had been casual but interesting and not rude or aggressive she immediately liked the way he typed and the way he looked, he had dark eyes almost oriental and hair braided down to his waist he was slim but muscular wore tight jeans and listened to all types of music and enjoyed writing. Marc arrived five minutes late smoking a cigarette and causally put it out under his black boots, he wore tight grey jeans and a black coat he was striking and his hair almost clung to him in its braids, Elsie pushed her hands forward and greeted the tall and handsome twenty three year old. The area was Kilburn the pair headed off to a small bar called ‘powers’ across from the bronsbury station. Elsie drank baileys and Marc drank corona they chatted about music, politics the weather unit hour’s lectures and as Marc was repeating a year annoying lectures strange characters and odd professionals behind the desks in the library and there teachers and there odd coffee drinking habits. After a few drinks they decided to drink wine and Elsie made a lunge for the handsome and aloof male before her, Marc taken aback by the girl now sitting on his lap with her arms around his neck and her lips strapped to like they had been sewn on gasped, but Elsie holding on for dear life wouldn’t give up and so the two kissed in a awkward but slightly passionate embrace until Marc got up to go and smoke and blow his smoke in circles at the busy London road in front of himself. Later drunkenly the two returned to Elsie’s hall’s and talked and then as they were laughing Elsie removed her top and her skinny pale frame was revealed with a lacey red bra Marc took the hint and removed his black cardigan and shirt, his slim body cut the muscles defined and smooth and only a few hairs on his chest he reached for Elsie who excitedly grabbed at his chest and arms with a young immature and lustful drunken glee. Marc was a great lover his tongue which Elsie found darted everywhere epically over her hard nipples and his hands were tentative and strong but not to pushy and he knew how to touch her they made love quickly and passionately and then fell asleep in her small room. The next morning Elsie awoke to an empty bed and her room smelled of stale cigarettes and a durex wrapper lay on the floor discarded just like Elsie now felt hangover cold and lonely not impassioned like the night before. When she entered the kitchen sheepishly there was a note on the table, Elsie quickly grabbed it excitedly it read ‘ sorry had to go and finish an assigment.bummer, last night was great call me Marc xxx’. Elsie was an art student and as a eccentric and excited young woman she decided to shave into her pubic hair a M to show her affection for Marc so when they next met he would see how much she wanted him. However when Marc and Elsie met for a second time and when they were undressed he was less than impressed with her declaration, even fact he was quite afraid and when after there loud hard sex session involving her small desk and chair he made a quiet but quick exit, the moral of the story is perhaps don’t shave an ‘M’ into your pubic regions on a second date.
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/18/2012 7:19:57 AM
dosent seem to change!ever and he hates me totally
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/16/2012 6:28:08 AM
he would always say we will move in together ect but we never did it felt like a circle I wasnt a saint iether but now he wont talk to me and it hurts alot he changed his phone and he would never let me cry :( tell me to shutup I think it went to far. But I still miss him sometimes he was really sweet.
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/16/2012 5:27:17 AM
after three years more of a connection just that almost a power game telling me to go out of room ect.
 fun_woman25
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an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/16/2012 4:52:44 AM
well eternal as in your whole life time?is it impossible to forget sometime even though they werent very nice to you and miss the sex intamacy and being told someone loves you and the feeling of not wanting anything else in the world?then they goaway and cut u off
 fun_woman25
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moving on?
Posted: 6/10/2012 6:45:07 AM
tbh it was working for ages but so hard to let go off now I have all this time but i cant seem feel anything for any men or even fancy people or really want to have sex anymore its really wierd and crap. Keep lamenting over it and remember certain things its driving me mad maybe sometimes you will always love someone and have to force yourself to just be 'happy'??meh:/ the breaking down in tears part sucks
 fun_woman25
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moving on?
Posted: 6/10/2012 5:03:01 AM
i was 22 when I met him he was 27 hes now 31 but yeah I do have depression in my family!who knows but sometimes you merely believe something will last!
 fun_woman25
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Is there anything with wanting to see someone everyday?
Posted: 6/6/2012 7:05:48 PM
I think depends on how u two feel at the time just go with it. Or ask am i seeing you to much?
 fun_woman25
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moving on?
Posted: 6/6/2012 6:17:52 PM
but would to to his other ex's on just not mewell I think maybe was a shock all together!trying to move on now anyways andb e happier in the long I hope
 fun_woman25
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moving on?
Posted: 6/6/2012 11:54:59 AM
thanks yeah im dyselxic not good at spelling and your right it drives you mad!trying to redesign your own life your own interests on your own I guess its a sense of being 'alone' at night is the worst!
 fun_woman25
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moving on?
Posted: 6/6/2012 10:49:54 AM
thanks I do its just the cold lack of contact!every guy I meet i dont seem to fancy anymore!
 fun_woman25
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moving on?
Posted: 6/6/2012 8:50:57 AM
When you had a three year relationship that was up and down and pretty bad at times but you find it hard to forget them and he cuts you off completely changes phone number and email when said would love you forever?. Also have low self esteem so how do I move on?and being unemployed dosent help even just got degree!nearly 26 and feeling old!
 fun_woman25
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Ex tries to keep contact with me
Posted: 6/5/2012 6:39:04 AM
my ex would always message his ex's behind my back so sneaky now he ignores me!:/
 
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