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Nemphridite

Joined: 4/18/2007

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Ladies, can a man cheat on you and still be in love with you? Posted: 8/28/2007 9:15:12 PM
This question is not gender specific. No one can cheat if they love another ... if they claim to then they have no idea what love is.

Nemphridite

Joined: 4/18/2007

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Weird Questions Asked Posted: 8/28/2007 9:10:32 PM
Run as fast as you can and don't let him catch the direction you are headed in! That is not a normal guy, better luck next time!

Nemphridite

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Ever have a crush on a cartoon? Posted: 8/28/2007 8:59:10 PM
Aladdin ... I so wanted to be Princess Jasmine

Nemphridite

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Would you give a guy w/physical disability a chance? Posted: 8/26/2007 10:45:06 PM
Hi Tyler I'm really sorry you have had that experience, but I can tell you that not every woman is like the ones you have apparently met. My cousin is profoundly deaf and he had several relationships before he met his (now) wife and the mother of his daughter. I personally meant what I said and I'm sure others did too. Seriously, we have nothing to gain by lying on this issue and, if we weren't genuine in our responses, why would we even bother posting? Please don't take offense because I am only opening up another thought, but is it possible that your problem attracting women is not because you have a hearing disability, but is because of the way in which you approach them? Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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OK Ladies........... here is one for ya.... Posted: 8/24/2007 9:22:28 PM
I hope you have called her by now!! I get peeved with guys who play the 3 day game. If I give out my number I give permission to call at any respectable hour of the day. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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Question for all you mom's out there. Posted: 8/24/2007 9:12:40 PM
It depends on the guy and the girl. Best way is to treat her with respect and, if you are serious about the issue of premarital sex, talk openly to her parents (I don't mean saying straight up the first time you meet them that you won't have sex with their daughter!) Ask her parents permission to take her on a date, tell them exactly where you are taking her and have her home on time. Invite them for dinner at your place or go to dinner at her place. Once you get to know them you may find her father takes you aside to lay ground rules. Take the opportunity then to reassure him of your intentions and be willing to stick to their rules. I remember when I was 13 (nearly 14) meeting a 21 yr old guy who was very sweet. He had no intentions of bedding me, but (understandably) my parents freaked and told me I wasn't to see him. It didn't stop me initally, but at the end of the day I told him I couldn't see him because of my parents views. Ironically I had my virginity taken by a 21 yr old when I was 15 and never heard from him again. Parents worry about the intentions of 21 yr old men, but if you really like her and are willing to wait the best thing to do is build a relationship with her parents and ALWAYS do what you say you will. Good luck Nemph

Nemphridite

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Single Guys asking out taken Women Posted: 8/24/2007 8:55:49 PM
If a girl is taken or not interested she will generally tell you she has a boyfriend. Don't let it stop you from asking, not many girls I know would take offence and it is the best way to score a date with a single girl who might just have been eyeing you off across the bar! Good luck Nemph

Nemphridite

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Marrage question: Posted: 8/24/2007 8:49:08 PM
What girl ever wants to miss out on the pretty dress and pampering she gets on a wedding day!!! But, seriously, I think marriage signifies your commitment to each other and the "piece of paper" is inconsequential. When you wed you are saying before friends and family that this is the person I love and want to spend my life with. I have never been married, but it is something I still hold hopes for. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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First POF date, need womens views on something... Posted: 8/24/2007 8:41:33 PM
Definitely she was nervous. While I will now look people in the eye when talking to them there was a time when, due to confidence and self-esteem issues, I would not look people in the eye and would also put my hand near or covering my mouth whenever I spoke! A good friend explained to me that these are indicators that you are worried that what you are saying is not worthwhile and you don't have confidence in yourself. If you enjoyed the date and had the impression she did too then definitely call her and help her see that you enjoy her company and are attracted to her personally. Good luck! Nemph

Nemphridite

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Difference forms of discipline... Posted: 8/24/2007 8:23:39 PM
Absolutely Pucks, but every child is different too. You will have noted, I'm sure, that for me it is not my first option, but is sometimes what works for me and my child. Perhaps if I have another child it would be different. Discipline, after all, has to be tailored to what your child responds to. I think the value in these discussions is that you get to see how other people deal with behavioural issues and can maybe try some that might work better than simply smacking or not smacking. Parenting doesn't come with a manual and raising an upstanding citizen is sometimes a matter of trial and error. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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Difference forms of discipline... Posted: 8/24/2007 7:15:25 AM
I remember a time way before I had a child saying I would NEVER spank. Then I had one. I have tried just about every accepted method of discipline and occasionally a spanking is the only thing that works. My son is an intelligent, happy 7 yr old and spanking is certainly not my first option, but sometimes a quick smack on the bottom is the quickest, easiest way to deal with bad behaviour. I find I only have to spank when he is deliberately continuing with bad behaviour after being told several times to stop it. When it comes to more serious offences like lying or stealing, a serious discussion about why he did what he did, why it was wrong and how he would feel if someone did the same thing to him followed by an extended loss of privileges is far more effective. Nemph

Nemphridite

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Would you give a guy w/physical disability a chance? Posted: 8/24/2007 7:00:00 AM
If I was attracted to their personality a disability certainly wouldn't deter me. Physical beauty fades with time anyway, true inner beauty shines brighter with each passing year. Good luck finding a beautiful person to share your life with. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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Need opinions and support Posted: 8/24/2007 6:52:24 AM
I agree with other posters, don't allow such an insignificant thing to damage your confidence. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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Why so callus? Posted: 8/24/2007 6:49:28 AM
I tend not to chat to guys looking for an intimate encounter because it suggests to me they are looking for casual s*x. I figure if a guy is looking for more than that they will have listed friendships or dating. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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those 6 little words Posted: 8/24/2007 6:36:22 AM
Suzanne hit the nail on the head, they enjoy your company, but feel no spark. I have had many male friends in that category. It certainly does not mean they want you to lose respect for people. If you think there is something they are not telling you then try asking friends that know you really well to give you an honest assessment of your personality. It may be that you are shy and not good at communicating an attraction for someone or have some irritating habits. Most women I know love being treated well by men and opening doors or showing respect in other ways certainly would not rule them out as partner material. Good luck finding the right woman for you. Cheers Nemph

Nemphridite

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she killed my baby Posted: 8/23/2007 4:28:03 PM
All I have to say is abortion is not a form of contraception and women who use it as such should take a good hard look at themselves. There are circumstances where abortion is justified, but it should never be a decision made lightly. Nemph

Nemphridite

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ruddy hell kevin, whats a labour leader to do ! Posted: 8/20/2007 7:06:14 PM
Kevin has my vote! He even owned up that he was too p*ssed to remember what happened ... haven't we all done something like that?!? If Johnny "the little Hitler" Howard had been caught out he would have spent thousands of dollars on a top PR company to deny, deny, deny, then he'd organise a terror attack with his mate Kevin "Adolf" Andrews to take everyone's mind off it! I say Kevin has shown himself to be a red blooded Aussie male who had to cop it sweet and spend some dough on flowers every week for the missus for the next year :P Nemph

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