...."Is it THEM, or is it ME?"

But you see the problem with that is then these women might be perceived to be racist or narrow minded by men of their own race and they would not be interested in these women. Thus, this sort of women want to hide their narrow mindedness and show to the whole world what an "accepting" sort of person they are when truly they are far from it.

As mentioned by some of you above - - there is this taboo with East Indian men that they are narrow minded or that their views towards women are not in par with Western/American standards. I think that this is completely unfair because for those of us (like myself) who have lived here for the most part of our lives, our views are very open minded (perhaps even more open minded than most Caucasian or African American men).

I'm 38 and it's hard finding women my age who I find attractive. When I do a search on here most of the women just look overweight or don't seem to have any sense of style. It just seems like when alot of women get to my age they could care less what they come off as.

You're done and now you get the pretty beige box with text in it. See, took longert to describe than to actually do. :)