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Joined: 4/18/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

Fetishes - Friend or Foe ? Posted: 10/27/2009 3:52:55 PM
Love fetish play.I think it is something that must be discussed between both the man and woman before any play begins.I'd give about anything a try once.

Joined: 4/18/2007

Msg: 114 (view)

Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay? Posted: 10/26/2009 3:09:10 PM
Yes,I love anal simulation.I have done this with women I have been with.No,That doesn't make one gay.The only thing makes one gay is being with another man.Never had a desire for that.Love women.

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Those Golden Shower Posted: 10/26/2009 3:02:01 PM
It exciting because it a sense of something naughty and taboo.To some it's a power and submission thing.I have received from women and have given.It washes right off.Just some naughty play.

Joined: 4/18/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

How do you get over someone? Posted: 10/26/2009 2:50:35 PM
I wrote to my lady online 3 months before we first meet.She was the most incredible woman I had ever met.She was so passionate.I feel deeply in love with her.I asked her to marry me and she said,"yes"It seemed like after that she wasn't as passionate.Just after that 6 months I asked her to marry me, we have parted but not by my choice.I feel like she ripped my heart out and jumped on it.I really have no desire for a relationship anymore.I'd rather just have a good friend anymore.No relationship and no sex to make thing complicated.

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this is for the people who had their hearts broken Posted: 10/21/2009 10:39:48 AM
I have recently had my heart broken.I don't think I have ever been as sad as I'm now.I always said I never wanted to get married but along come a woman I fell deeply for.We wrote each other on the computer for 3 months before we met in person.So we had a relationship for almost a year.I bought her an engagement ring and she said,yes.Suddenly,She finds faults with everything I do.She broke it off with me.I'm not even a boyfriend anymore.

Joined: 4/18/2007

Msg: 107 (view)

She asked for money at the end of the date! Posted: 9/30/2009 1:13:16 PM
I can't say that has ever happen to me.That would be shocking though.Why bother with such a woman.I'd say forget about her.

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Msg: 285 (view)

Men in their 40's, attracted to women in their 40's? Posted: 9/8/2009 10:02:17 AM
I'm in my 40's and my woman is in her 40's.I really wouldn't want a woman who is in her 20's.That's young enough to be my daughter.Any women in her 60's is to close to my mom age.

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Msg: 149 (view)

What do you all think about golden showers? Posted: 9/8/2009 9:54:52 AM
I love them.Have given and received.Washes right off

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Msg: 177 (view)

Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 9/8/2009 9:48:57 AM
There is nothing wrong with a woman giving anal stimulation to a man.That doesn't make you gay.What make one gay is having sex with the same sex.

Joined: 4/18/2007

Msg: 669 (view)

Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 9/8/2009 9:44:05 AM
My lady has cooked me a lot of good meal and I have cooked for her also.I don't see gender roles in our relationship,She is just who she is and I am who I am.

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Msg: 146 (view)

My fiance went with a hooker before he met me Posted: 6/26/2009 12:02:46 PM
He was with a hooker before you.Before is the key word.I don't ask my girlfriend about her past and she doesn't ask mine.I would never cheat on her.The past is the past.

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Msg: 104 (view)

What do you all think about golden showers? Posted: 5/26/2009 9:48:15 AM
I love that about my girlfriend.I love when she gives me a golden showers.I tried it once on her.Pee play is fun and it washes right off.

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Msg: 39 (view)

Friend dumped 3 weeks before the wedding Posted: 5/26/2009 9:39:39 AM
She needs to move on.That must be hard though.One can't force someone to be with a person when they do not want to be.

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Msg: 339 (view)

why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 3:25:51 PM
Actually I don't like a woman to be shaved down there.I shaved one time.Never will again.I never itched so much before.

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Msg: 355 (view)

How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 5/21/2009 3:21:35 PM
You should just ask him.I told my girlfriend I like it and I sometimes spank her too.I can't imagine a guy getting upset over something this mild.

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Msg: 290 (view)

Do men really like submissive women? Posted: 5/21/2009 3:10:59 PM
It all depends on the man.Not me.My girlfriend takes charge in the bedroom.I like it like that myself

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Msg: 71 (view)

why should the type of job u do matter? Posted: 4/1/2009 3:45:08 PM
Recently i was talking to a person on another site and we were having a good conversation until she asked a couple of questions which i answered honestly they were where do i live and what do i do for a living? I told her where i lived and she was ok with that. But once i told her what i did for a living the conversation then stopped and she signed off. Now my guess is that what i did for a living wasnt good enough for her or anyone else for that matter cause every time i tell someone what i do they always seem to end the conversation. Am i suposed to lie about what i do? I work as a cleaner in an abbatoir (nightshift work). I mean whats so bad about the job its an honest living and i enjoy doing it. Would you not date a woman who works as a boner/slicer or drives a truck or does the same type of job a man does? You should consider yourself a lucky man.Just be yourself.If she doesn't like what you do then just move on.There are plenty of fishes out there.

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Msg: 69 (view)

Fetishes Posted: 3/28/2009 11:49:01 AM
I like to be dominated in the bedroom.I love bondage,spanking,foot worship,golden showers,spitting hair pulling,face slapping and anything the won't case any type of physical harm.

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Msg: 383 (view)

Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless? Posted: 3/28/2009 11:37:42 AM
Of course men feel emotionally when they have sex.I love my girlfriend so for me it's not just physical.Every man is different just like every woman is different.

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Msg: 61 (view)

women who love sports Posted: 3/27/2009 2:26:52 PM
I'm lucky there because my girlfriend hate sports and so do I.I have met many women that love sports.There are men that hate sports and I'm one of them.

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Msg: 70 (view)

is it selfish of me if i don't wan't my girl to be a stripper? Posted: 3/27/2009 2:08:19 PM
I don't blame you I wouldn't want my girl to be a stripper either.

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Msg: 168 (view)

Masturbation=cheating Posted: 3/23/2009 4:38:47 PM
I masturbate but I do not feel it's cheating.I have no problem with my lady masturbating either.

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Msg: 43 (view)

Light choking during sex....anyone? Posted: 3/23/2009 4:33:23 PM
My girlfriend chocks me but not hard.I find it very hot.I love feeling helpless with her in control.

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Msg: 84 (view)

kissing on the first date should be a topic of discussion Posted: 3/23/2009 4:23:15 PM
What's a kiss.I hardly see nothing wrong with kissing on the first date.

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Msg: 36 (view)

Relationships and the Recession ... Posted: 3/20/2009 7:14:09 PM
Last time I checked it was free to walk in the park together.Not very costly to watch a video together.Eat a meal at home.Recession shouldn't make a difference.

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Msg: 796 (view)

Your Pet or YourRelationship? Posted: 3/20/2009 7:08:13 PM
A relationship can last a lifetime.I'm allergic to cats.My last girlfriend had a cat.I'd send the cat on his way.

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Msg: 32 (view)

What do you all think about golden showers? Posted: 3/9/2009 6:55:56 PM
I love having a pretty woman give me a golden showers.I have only received never have given.

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Msg: 670 (view)

Women Who Smoke Posted: 10/30/2008 3:41:57 AM
My last girlfriend was a smoker.She use to blow her smoke in my face and flick her ashes on me teasing me with her smoking. I'm a non-smoker but I find women smoking such a turn on.

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Msg: 165 (view)

Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30? Posted: 10/22/2008 3:42:49 PM
Not to much.I'm almost 45.Just don't have that pep I had 20 years ago.

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Msg: 73 (view)

What's the most you've ever masturbated in a 48 hour time span? Posted: 10/22/2008 3:28:35 PM
Never really count.About 12-15 times probably

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Msg: 627 (view)

Women Who Smoke Posted: 10/22/2008 10:00:43 AM
I don't smoke but I think women smoking is so sexy.I have heard of a lot of non-smoking guys with the same fetish.

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Msg: 554 (view)

Women Who Smoke Posted: 10/5/2008 10:44:18 PM
I don't smoke but I can't understand these other guys.I love seeing women smoking.I have a fetish for sexy women smoking.They look so sexy smoking I think.

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Msg: 520 (view)

Women Who Smoke Posted: 10/3/2008 6:44:45 PM
I'm a non-smoker but I find women smoking so hot.My last girlfriend use to smoke.She would blow her smoke in my face and flick her ashes on me.She made me so hot teasing me with her smoking.It a real turn on with me.

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Msg: 210 (view)

Being Choked while having sex Posted: 8/27/2008 10:52:28 AM
I wouldn't mind having a woman chock me.I like to be treated rough.

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Msg: 267 (view)

What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 8/14/2008 8:47:03 AM
No sexual intercourse.Don't like it.I love masterbation,giving oral and BDSM.Treat me rough,please

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Msg: 47 (view)

He spanked me & choked me...is he a perv? Posted: 8/12/2008 11:24:39 PM
Maybe he's a sadist?Did you enjoy it is the question if you didn't then he shouldn't do it.I like to have a woman spank and choke me.I like being treated rough.I don't think he's a prevert.Don't do anything you don't want to do.

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Msg: 438 (view)

Women Who Smoke Posted: 8/10/2008 6:45:56 PM
I'm a non-smoker with a smoking fetish.Women smoking is a big turn on for me.

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My guy wont go down there Posted: 8/10/2008 6:36:24 PM
I don't like sexual intercourse but love giving oral and rimming myself but I do like to know the woman first.

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Msg: 58 (view)

bondage im not into it she is wtf Posted: 8/8/2008 2:43:21 PM
There are many submissive women who love this as well as ones that like tying a guy up.I must admit I like to be the one that gets tied up.You could learn more about the lifestyle by talking with other into it.There are free online sites where people talk about the BDSM lifestyle.

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Msg: 108 (view)

just wanted to get some opinions on a man hitting a women when.... Posted: 8/7/2008 10:56:59 AM
I'd never hit a woman myself. Play wrestling or spanking each other is fine.I wouldn't want to hunt anyone.If she hit me I'd get away from her.

Joined: 4/18/2007

Msg: 152 (view)

is it okay for kids to see you naked? Posted: 8/7/2008 10:02:41 AM
I agree with you.Children should not be seeing adults naked.I don't believe they should be exposed to this.Just my opinion.

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Msg: 48 (view)

Are women as strong as men? Posted: 8/7/2008 9:38:07 AM
I don't know.I'm a big guy but not very strong.I use to go to the gym in my 20's and seen this woman that came in often,She could lift more than me.I had a girl that beat me in arm wrestling in school.I'd love to wrestle a woman.My guess is the man is stronger on the average.

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Are Teachers more apt to be sexually deviant? Posted: 8/3/2008 7:00:56 AM
I spent most of my school years in the 70's.I think it was different back then maybe.I had a lot of male teachers while is school and while I remember a few female teachers.They for the most part were never sexual deviants that I know of.I did have a few that took paddle to me for speaking in class but I don't think it was anything sexual.

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Msg: 112 (view)

woman sues airline for passenger shooting semen in her hair Posted: 8/1/2008 1:35:14 PM
Semen has protein.You might say she use a protein conditioner on her hair

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Msg: 28 (view)

How do I call it off without being mean? Posted: 7/30/2008 8:51:16 AM
Just be honest with him and tell him what you feel.

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Msg: 36 (view)

Keeping a Profile On Site Posted: 7/30/2008 8:41:29 AM
Sounds like may he's hoping something better may come along for him.

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Msg: 139 (view)

How do you deal with lazy men!! Posted: 7/30/2008 8:38:17 AM
If you are working there isn't no reason why he shouldn't help you around the house.

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fighting Posted: 7/29/2008 11:26:05 PM
I don't know of any relationship that people don't have words at some point,I think it crazy to break up over an argument.

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Msg: 105 (view)

Dating an Alcoholic Posted: 7/29/2008 10:18:54 AM
I wouldn't mind if a woman drinks but I wouldn't put up with an alcoholic myself.

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Hetero but homo thoughts Posted: 7/29/2008 10:11:20 AM
If anyone says they have never had a bisexual thought - I would say they are lying! Having those thoughts is very 'normal'! I have to disagree with this.I hear others say this but I never had thought about this.I must not be normal.Just do not find men attractive.I do feel if you are then you should be who you are.Everybody has their own likes or dislikes.

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