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 Author Thread: WHy must there be liers and cheaters in a relationship?
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
WHy must there be liers and cheaters in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:48:07 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women...how do i let go of this i lived like this for five years and dont know if ill ever trust another man, but how do i explain to my kids why mommy made daddy leave,
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
How could he do this to me???
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:47:27 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women...how do i let go of this i lived like this for five years and dont know if ill ever trust another man, but how do i explain to my kids why mommy made daddy leave,
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Urgent advice required, how do I get past this anger/hurt?
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:46:52 PM
when you find out let me know Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women...how do i let go of this i lived like this for five years and dont know if ill ever trust another man, but how do i explain to my kids why mommy made daddy leave,
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Why am I so stupid?
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:45:31 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women...how do i let go of this i lived like this for five years and dont know if ill ever trust another man, but how do i explain to my kids why mommy made daddy leave,
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
People who can't let go of the past
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:45:04 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women...how do i let go of this i lived like this for five years and dont know if ill ever trust another man, but how do i explain to my kids why mommy made daddy leave,
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Hurt and Lost Trust
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:43:18 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women...
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
12 Steps to recovering from a broken heart
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:42:21 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women... how do you get over 5 years of that??? how do i explain that to my kids??
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Why Is It So Hard To Find A Honest Faithful and Caring Guy these days?
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:40:57 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women... I want someone to step in and take his place so to speak as far as with me and the kids, they are young but they understand so much and they get so attached, but for men there all the same
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
will i ever find real love again
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:36:27 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women... is there ever any justice for those who have been cheated on?? Will I ever find someone to love my kids like i do and step into there dads shoes so when he takes off or cant see them on a weekend b/c of a new flavor of the week, is there men out there like that?
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
broken heart
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:35:03 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women... is there ever any justice for those who have been cheated on??
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat!
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:29:59 PM
Ok I feel as if i am the calendar girl for stupidity reading some of this my two youngest kids dad cheated on me over 5 years and lie to me every bad thing you could imagen, he did, however what sealed his fate was me going to jail defending myself and my kids , and his ad on this web page, in the 5 years i only knew about 4 internet girls, but then going thru the 100 miles from nashville, tn ages 25-35 I see it ....imallurs1976, that was him i even sent him an email but the thing is, I didnt learn Im greatful I did stay as long as i did, if i hadn't then i wouldn't have my beautiful innocent kids, but i kick my own butt for not leaving sooner, he has always been a cheat and a liar and my kids are old enough they are having to go thru all this and its not fair to them, they know when mommy is sad or scared or hurt, and there is nothing i can do to make it better. There dad is the worst kind of father, he let himself and me hurt our kids over 18 other women... is there ever any justice for those who have been cheated on??
 jodymichele323
Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 87 (view)
 
I AGREE
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:21:39 PM
I agree I have three children my oldest is autistic and his dad left the minute our divorce was final but here is the kicker for my youngest two kids I thought life was perfect but then there dad cheated and lied and even hit me he even had me put in jail for defending myself and my kids, even to try and upset me he has an ad on here his sn is imallurs1976... there is just no trust left with men anymore Im looking for someone also one that will tell me the truth and wont hit and will love my kids like i do , are there men out there like that or are they all realistically taken????
 
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