What the hell is wrong with me? I know I do not deserve any of this so why do I keep putting myself in this situation.

When my relationship ended I told myself that I wanted to stay single for a very long time which of course didn't happen.

While working at my new company I started talking to this new girl, …. She was not my type at all but there was something about her that caught my attention.

She was totally in love with me and I was starting to fall in love with her.

So today I get an email from her saying how she is so down because (of course) her BF treated her like crap and yelled at her and that she wants to speak to me.

I replied that I really like her, but I didn't want to rush into anything.

I recently had a friend of mine tell me that she absolutley loved it when a guy would lick or start eating her thru her panties? Just wondering if other women enjoy this and if so why??? Doesn't it feel a lot better if he is licking the actual **** rather than licking panties on the ****???.

Click on any profile so that you can actually read it. See the big green button that says "send quick message"??

I'm sorry but I am a big fan of the rule "you never plow the same field twice".

At 20 you DEFINTELY DO NOT go backwards.

Once your girlfriend has sex with another guy, it doesn't matter if she cheated....

The question: Should I send an 'Are you ok?' text or is over, over no matter the circumstances even though we specifically left open the possibility of contact in the future (albeit face-to-face contact)?

It kind of makes me think “what if I had taken the other route, with the other person? would things have been different?”. What sucks is that I’ll never know and I’ll have to live with my decisions. Yet being aware of this doesn’t make my future decisions any easier either.

She bails on plans with me, doesn't work and has a lot of mental issues.

I woke up in the morning feeling really guilty and not really knowing why.!

I think I feel that she will think I only used her for a night of passion when that was not my intention. I'm not a one night stand guy and didn't want that to happen but it did after too much alcohol.

I have stuck with it in the hope that the 'click' would come but I really can't see it.

I haven't spoken to her in a few days now as I don't think she was impressed…

Is it time to just call it off and apologise for wasting her time?

first date she invites me back to her place and we have sex.... do you think this is wrong on a first date? then 2nd and 3rd dates she acts weird... like she barely talks to me and then she just won't say much of nothing. we are broke up now but was she just wanting the sex? some girls are so hard to read.

If I were you I'd be like...Umm I'll pass. Thanks for the free sex.

What do you think? What should I do, can this relationship work?

If I acted in the same manner I would be considered clingy or unreasonable. so is there a double standard.

I like what you write on the forums,- and on your profile.
Im certain you are right,- about listening to your Gut instincts, - however what can you do,- when you are in deep trouble.
All your sences are realing,- you are starting to hyperventilate, and you are making excuses, which the other person cannot hear, will not comprehend, nor accept.
This may sound extreme,- but i think you can assist me.
Im not a worldly person, but I have had a very bad experience, an it went on for avery long time, due to my inability to make him go away, and secondly I was so embrarassed,- to speak of it.

Last night she said, I guess your wondering about sex together. I said, I guess your are thinking some things through, right? She ays YES YES exactly.

I am getting mixed messagges here.
Any insight from the ladies on what she is thinking through and how I proceed? Anyone have a similar experience?

Continuously lied to and being treated like a doormat.

I also want to learn how to use my camera so I need a model to pose for me, interested?"

People say she's only in my head
It's gonna take time but I'll forget
They say I need to get on with my life
But they don't realize

'Cause when you're dialing 6 numbers just to hang up the phone
Driving cross town just to see if she's home
Waking a friend in the dead of the night
Just to hear him say it's gonna be alright

When you're finding things to do not to fall asleep
'Cause you know she'll be there in your dreams
That's when she's more than a memory

Took a match to everything she ever wrote
Watched her words go up in smoke
Tore all her pictures off the wall
That ain't helping me at all

'Cause when you're talking out loud but nobody's there
You look like hell and you just don't care
Drinking more than you ever drank
Sinking down lower than you ever sank

When you find yourself falling down upon your knees
Praying to God, begging Him please
That's when she's more than a memory
She's more, she's more

'Cause when you're dialing her number just to hang up the phone
Driving cross town just to see if she's home
Waking a friend in the dead of the night
Just to hear him say it's gonna be alright

When you're finding things to do not to fall asleep
'Cause you know she's waiting in your dreams
That's when she's more than a memory

People say she's only in my head
It's gonna take time but I'll forget

But thanks for the confidence boosting comment really appreciated!!!