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lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Discipline - Is yelling at your children wrong? Posted: 2/16/2009 2:52:09 PM
I think yelling at your child only shows them you are not in control of yourself, specially at a young age such as 4. Whatever you are saying by yelling you can still say in a firm,controled tone of voice, its still the same message but it shows you have got control of the situation. Saying that we are all only human,but i personally think there are other ways...

lilxcx

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Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets Posted: 10/1/2008 10:20:45 AM
Wake-up!"A great guy/wonderful catch"? have you heard yourself?-hes married!! The unhappy marriage thing is one of the oldest excuses in the book. The case of "the guilts" was most likely his wife getting suspicious and he had to cool it off with you. Whatever , just wake up-from what youve said youve been lead up the garden path here and not given a thought to his wife. Who cares if he is hedging his bets,is this REALLY what you think you are worth? Get rid, have a bit of respect for yourself because you are being played.

lilxcx

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question for anyone Posted: 9/19/2008 12:21:01 PM
I actually think you should tell her, after all, youve snuck around behind her back for long enough...i think she deserves a bit of honesty off ONE of you. Its a shame though,that you couldnt be doing it for different reasons. Why on earth would you want this man anymore? He has got no respect for either of you, you will just take her place-he will do the same to you-get some self respect and be better then this and walk away. I dont mean to be harsh, but ive got no sympathy for your situation.. you should do the right thing now...not for the wrong reasons though. Ah well,what goes around comes around...

lilxcx

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 9/16/2008 3:11:34 PM
Only if you are dating a battery hen? Intelligence doesnt mean manipulative,or being egotistical, both of these traits imo would belong to someone who wasnt intellligent.

lilxcx

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Trinkets Posted: 9/16/2008 6:08:00 AM
so he needs to buy you things to prove he appreciates you? After 8 weeks? lol.love is unconditional and not so much about "spoiling" someone-for me the little day to day things are more important,and he doesnt have to buy me gifts to show me what i mean. Im sorry but there is so much more to a relationship then material things, and after 8 weeks..you need to look at the bigger picture.

lilxcx

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i love you on first date Posted: 9/16/2008 5:55:10 AM
Means he doesnt know what love is or he desperate...c'mon,lol.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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Would you let your 12 year old child get liposuction? Posted: 9/15/2008 5:39:34 PM
I think thats disgusting, and frankly the parents should of educated her about food and lifestyle better, and not allowed her to get in that situation in the first place. That is the easy way out, it is not a long term solution and it makes me wonder what the hell the world is comming to when parents are allowing their children to become so over weight and unhealthy they would even CONSIDER such a thing on a child.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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How do you find the reasons.... Posted: 9/15/2008 5:21:41 PM
Dont ask yourself "why" it will slowly drive you crazy.Anyway look at it like this, you have already wasted enough time and energy on someone who didnt deserve it, the problem is HIS, it isnt yours so dont try and work it out because it isnt your baggage to carry. I know very well what its like to not have awnsers and to try and work it all out in order to move on, im going through something similar at the moment, but the reality is, it doesnt matter why, it just IS, he made the choice to behave like he did,dont waste any more energy on him, and dont turn it inwards and feel rejected. Be glad that you cant understand in a way, it shows you are a better person. He just sounds like a complete tw@t and you deserve better x

lilxcx

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Where to start? Posted: 4/1/2008 6:20:57 AM
"1. Quit smoking - first, as you well know, it is no good for your OR your baby. Can't quit for yourself - quit for your baby. Second - that money you are wasting on smokes? Diapers for your baby!" i dont smoke i gave up soon as i found out ;o)

lilxcx

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Where to start? Posted: 3/31/2008 8:20:32 AM
Fab-mom, you dont sound harsh at all. I quit my degree because i couldnt pay for it, hes left me in debt, which is why im now panicing. I would like to go back to work, but im not sure where i stand on being employed by anyone while im pregnant? I dont feel like pregnancy is a disease, really its a gift, its just that my life as i knew it has changed forever, i didnt expect for it to turn out like this, and im not sure how to get my head around it, after all it isnt about me now, so i need to pull myself together,i just hope im going to be good enough. You are absolutely right though.

lilxcx

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Where to start? Posted: 3/31/2008 7:56:15 AM
Hi guys, How are you all? Well, it turns out im going to be a single mum. I am 24, i had a career,was doing a degree, had a roof over my head and pretty much had my life on track. Babys father wanted us to start a family,we talked about it, he said he'd support us and we'd be a proper family etc. I believed him. When i got pregnant he changed,got very short tempered,shouting at me over the smallest things ,squareing up to me,punching doors and things.He began to stay out all night,telling me he could do better then me etc, and I would sit there in tears and he would just sit there and laugh at me. Anyway, he decided to walk out on us and now im alone. I have had to quit my degree as he hadnt been paying the rent on our flat and its all been left to me, so i cant afford to pay for it any longer. I stopped working full time when i got pregnant as he wanted me to stay at home (and like an idiot i went along with it), and i have now have nothing. I have had three months of hell from him, and i have lost my confidence, so im sitting here feeling scared and wondering what im going to do, and what i did wrong to make him change like that. I want to do the best for my child and give it the best start in life possible, but i feel guilty because of the situation i will be bringing it into, i already feel ive let my baby down. I have so much to sort out and i dont know where to start, all i know is im scared im going to mess-up and my best wont be good enough. Does anyone have any advice on how to cope and get your head round being a single parent? How do you through feeling lonely and scared, or do you get through it simply because you have no choice? Clearly i have been nieve and stupid but i need to get my act together for my child. Im not the first and i doubt ill be the last but im finding it very difficult to cope with the idea, even though i have no choice,and i never thought id feel this lonely or lost either. so any positive tips or advice would be really great xxx

lilxcx

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do u listen to peoples advise Posted: 9/18/2007 3:22:30 PM
I will CONSIDER it,depending on the person,then useually go and do my own thing,regardless,and then think "damn,i shoulda listened to him/her". But thats the only way to learn really,making your own mistakes.

lilxcx

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When we were at School Posted: 9/18/2007 3:13:32 PM
"Does anyone remember a Teacher being wrong about something at school? " They were useually wrong as far as i was concerned, specially when giving me detentions.

lilxcx

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unethical or not? Posted: 9/18/2007 3:11:15 PM
"does anyone else know? " ^^ If hes treating you still,and you are his patient,he can get into a bit of bother about it,"not professional,unethical,abuseing his position" Quite a lil list there is. If as you say,you are no longer patient/client,then you go for it mate,no worries at all.x

lilxcx

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Dreams aren't meant to come true Posted: 9/18/2007 2:53:53 PM
Dreams come true if you make them come true,anyone can do and acheive anything they put their mind to,so yeah,dreams are just dreams unless youve got the determination to make them reality.

lilxcx

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My, you smell good enough to eat! Posted: 9/17/2007 2:10:25 PM
"Issey miyake, Jean paul Gaultier" ^^they are both yummy

lilxcx

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My, you smell good enough to eat! Posted: 9/17/2007 1:48:42 PM
Dkny be delicious-the green one,poison,or ghost.They are the only ones i wear,i dont think they are exactly expensive purfumes. Saying that i have prada purfume and it smells awfull on me. (anyone smelt the gwen stafani purfume? that awfull,smells like old lady purfume) There was something about this subject on here before about different smells and purfumes and how they affect different people but i cant remember what was said. As for on a man...well its the same thing different things smell different on different people...generally prefer more expensive though to cheap stuff

lilxcx

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How Do You Define Intelligence? Posted: 9/16/2007 2:26:56 PM
Hmmm yeah it is hard to define (or maybe im not clever enough) lol. Nah seriously,intelligence to me is not about what you scored in an i.q test, everyone is intelligent in a different way. Me i left school with two g.c.s.es ( In english,my spelling is rubbish but the content was good),I didnt take school seriously because it bored me. So,no qualifications,cant spell so well,and my maths is alarmingly bad,HOWEVER,play me any song and ill sit and write the notation and bars out for ya,ive got a big portfolio of qualifications in my profession,im doing an nvq3 and a degree,and hand me a novel mate,ill read it in a day.(Plenty of education in the university of life to) Swings and roundabouts see,its the way you think,your ability to express yourself...its the big picture. I swear i hear somewhere if you are good at maths and science you are not going to be very good at english and music...or something.

lilxcx

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Cocaine! Posted: 9/13/2007 7:57:21 AM
"if most of the illegal drugs in this country were legalized the crime rates and the prison population would be reduced" The prison population would be reduced,as it would if you made murder or drink driveing legal,but the crime rate? Nah,people would still have to pay for the drugs,those that couldnt afford it will still turn to crime to pay for it. Except weed,that should be legal,but things like heroin and crack,if that was legal,youd just encourage it.

lilxcx

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Cocaine! Posted: 9/13/2007 7:50:29 AM
"f addicts were made to sign on to a gp for their fix and only allowed to inject or use at the clinic addiction levels would fall." No,they wouldnt.Everyone would go "woo-hoo! f*ck me,all this time ive been paying for it and here they are giving it out free!" Imagine the effect that would have on the NHS,which frankly,seems to be in a bit of a pickle as it is. There are already things like methadone programmes for heroine addicts,all thats doing is given addicts top up,because they get their meth for free,and go n score some skagtop of it,or,they get addicted to methadone instead.It rarely works.

lilxcx

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More Croydon Than Celtic.....Your Roots ? Posted: 9/13/2007 7:37:42 AM
My dads Irish,but i was born here,i grew up here,and so this is where im from,and where my roots are(although i dont like that term at all,plants and trees have roots,not people)I do have alot of irish in my blood though and steriotypical traits,but nah,im about as****ey as they come mate.haha.

lilxcx

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Cocaine! Posted: 9/13/2007 7:08:56 AM
"My question here.. is do you think its TOO easy for youngsters to get their hands or Illegal drugs?" No,i personally dont,at least not more easy then it ever has been.Its not like you get dealers advertiseing themselves or doing the rounds like an icecream van,but drugs are everywhere if you know how to look,as they always have beenand the stuff teenagers are going to be snorting...i expect about 10 percent of it is actually coke,the way the cheap stuff is cut. I have a mate who is an addict,he gets the best stuff though,and hes now in debt up to his eyeballs because of it. Anyways,listen,you can warn and explain to your kids all you like (like my parents did me)But at the end of the day the choice is out of your hands,you best just hope they have enough common sense to know when to say no. I dont think alot has changed these days i think there is just more publicity about it all.

lilxcx

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charities/are we being taken for a ride Posted: 9/12/2007 3:46:14 PM
"Feck the ignorant who haven't a clue but are judgemental anyway....I think the poster of the msg you are responding to is one of those sort of people" Hmmm,no,i just read it wrong.lol. "and msg two was soooo flaming the OP and being troll-like " Troll like? For reading a post wrong and posting? Righty-o. "..(I'm watching that violation reports thread missus.......she knows who she is" To clarify,you are directing that at me?as in, message 2? Because i havent got a clue what your on about?

lilxcx

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charities/are we being taken for a ride Posted: 9/12/2007 3:38:29 PM
"in my opinion a charity that makes money by charging ridiculous prices for for basic needs is not a genuine charity" Oh i see,more the point they are trying to ripp you off then expecting you to support yourself.My bad.(Sorry x) Hmmmm...Well,of corse you are going to get prats who try to make a profit out of other peoples misey and exploit people who do want to help,those sort of people have always been around,you just have to avoid them and dont fall for it. Why dont you find another charity then,most likely if you are that experienced in what you do they will be crying out for ya,genuine charitys i mean. "then again there are no corrupt government officials or business men in africa are there?" No,Just like theres none over here.

lilxcx

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dating in the real world - is it scary? Posted: 9/12/2007 3:17:58 PM
"i'm sorry but maybe i didn't make my question clear enough. i wasn't talking about scary as in it being a personal safety issue...i meant emotionally scary." Of corse it is,because on here its probably easier to feel secure,your aving a nice conversation over a screen,and theres nothing to it,no worries. But thats what makes it better to meet someone in the "real world" as you say it.The nerves,the starting from scratch,its all part of the ride (or not,if you dont get on haha) I think alot of people get so used to socialiseing on here,it becomes their security,and they rely on it.It shouldnt be like that though,because the real world is outside,nothing worth having is not worth taking a risk for,and again,i couldnt have real emotional security on here chatting to someone before i met them,because it isnt real untill you have.

lilxcx

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Do you think we can keep our pounds and pence now? Posted: 9/12/2007 3:10:28 PM
"lilxcx- Getting rid of coins would be kind of difficult since we do not have small denomination notes here in England." Well,we should have then.;o) I dont know,but c'mon,how annoying is it to have a load of pennies lurking in the bottom of your wallet? They stay in there for months,and the amount grows because i would rather break into a note then faff about and count them out. Yes we should have small denominations of notes here.

lilxcx

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charities/are we being taken for a ride Posted: 9/12/2007 2:58:31 PM
Its a charity.You donate your time,and your money,for a better corse. Did you imagine they would fly you over there and pay for everything? "the privilege of me working voluntary" Well it isnt ment to be a privilege for you though,you are ment to go there to help. "additionally i have to pay for my flight over there, i have to pay for medical insurance, i have to pay for my vacinations and malaria tablets" Once again,its a charity,people who go and do this work do pay,and support themselves,because you are a VOLUNTEER,which means you dont get anything. " it's a disgrace that someone has the gaul to make money from people who are willing to give their time and skills to help their nation " Yeah but doesnt the money go to the charity? what is the alternative? Take money from the charity and give it to volunteers to live on while they are over there helping? Volunteery work is just that,you GIVE,you dont recieve,so no i dont think you are being taken for a ride there,because if you want to go and help,you cant expect for them to support you while you do this can you-otherwise it wouldnt be a charity?

lilxcx

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Do you think we can keep our pounds and pence now? Posted: 9/12/2007 2:44:41 PM
"the pounds and pence so many of us love" I prefer scores or fiftys my own self.Pounds and pennys just make you wallet heavy,plus they dont stay shiney for long.Lets do away with all of them and only have notes.

lilxcx

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dating in the real world - is it scary? Posted: 9/12/2007 2:41:55 PM
Wow its come to something when someone asks if dating someone from "the real world" Is scarier then dating someone from the internet. Pickle,i aprreciate what you are saying and your situation,but do you really SERIOUSLY believe dating someone from here (the net) is safer the dating someone you meet in real life? On the internet,you can spend TIME chatting to someone,thinking you are getting to know them,being lulled into a false sense of security when infact everything they say could be lies,and you believe it because you think you know them through words on a screen. Lunatics are everywhere mate,that same guy who came round to fix your boiler (oioi!!haha) could also be online chatting up birds,you just never know.At least if you meet someone from "The real world" You know the setting is the "real world" and not cyber space,where,lets face it,anything goes.Plus,you see that person IN PERSON,from the word go,you can read their expressions,body language etc. Im sorry but i dont believe you can really get to know someone on here,you can know what they TELL YOU,but with out face-to-face contact,its not real,its just words on a screen. "do you think that going out with someone that you know hardly anything about is scary? " Of corse it is a lil nerve racking,but you dont REALLY know anyone on the net till you meet them either,so its the same thing,only one is face-to-face from the word go,i much prefer that.Be brave and go for it,dont hide behind a screen,is what i say.

lilxcx

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Stress heads Posted: 9/12/2007 2:20:55 PM
The way i look at it is...stressing does not change anything (except give you higher blood pressure).It will not solve your problems,it will only add to them,you dont think as clearly and you tend to blow things up out of preportion. Far better to think "well,in 100 years time,whos gonna care?" And chill with it,then you can think much clearer,and keep things in check,things are only as big a problem or issue as you make them,so i try and find humour in most things when they go wrong.Choice of laughing or crying,im laughing every time mate because life is too short to stress out.

lilxcx

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Wed Me, Bed Me, Because your mine! Posted: 9/12/2007 2:14:07 PM
Ive been preposed to 5 times.What can i say im a good cook.Of corse i politely said no to them for the reasons you mention,but hey i got some nice rings out of it (yes i kept them- c'mon they were diamonds!) "Nope sorry,i cant marry you,but i will take the ring thankyou muchly" haha.jokes. Its abso-fecking-lutely stark raveing bonkers,imo,to propose to someone that quick,and its probably the reason for divorce being so high (or one reason,out of 10 others anyway). Take a very very speacial man to make me sign on the dotted line,and id have to of known him for some time before id even consider it.

lilxcx

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On the rebound.... Posted: 9/10/2007 4:25:18 PM
"Most of us will have heard that after a longterm relationship we need a rebound person before we are ready for another serious relationship." Imo, if you go for a rebound person,you are just putting off dealing with the problem (ie/your hurtin because you split up with someone,so you find someone else to distract you).Ive never heard of it working out before either,im suprised,because surely you are just lugging baggage from from r.ship to another? The problem doesnt go away you are gonna have to deal with them feelings eventually,surely? Far better to have some time out and sort yourself out rather then useing someone else in the middle to do it for you...Sure its not that black n white though,i dont know,never really saw the point is all.

lilxcx

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Just how tough are you - what scares the hell out of you? Posted: 9/10/2007 3:32:39 PM
"those little silver things that people get on their bathroom floors." Silver fish,arent they called? Only seen one once they are weird. Loads of people are scared of snakes,i dont get it because mines a proper sweetie,seriously hes such a t@rt,like alot of animals they are ok unless you are nervous or scared and they pick up on it and it panics them.also,why do people always think they are slimey?

lilxcx

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Just how tough are you - what scares the hell out of you? Posted: 9/10/2007 3:27:10 PM
The biggest fear is fear itself-or something like that.Feel the fear and face it,and its gone. Even so you still wont get me in hospital unless im unconcious,lol.I hate them. Hospitals,and spiders (not tarantulas-you know where you are with them,my mate has one and its so cute) I mean them big brown house spiders,sneaky buggers they are,and way too clever for my likeing.if i see one of them,fu*k it mate,im long gone. Part from that,and someone i love getting hurt,not alot scares me.

lilxcx

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Men Only School For Strippers..Would You go?... Posted: 9/10/2007 3:09:42 PM
Wouldnt do much for me,its cheesey,seriously. Ive seen male strippers and i wasnt impresed you know,all that baby oil and ponceing about,not my cuppa brew at all. Some women can make it look exotic,and sexy,but men..i would rather he just rip his clothes off then ponce about doing all that cheesey stuff...couldnt keep a straight face. Odd,but thats what i rekon about it.

lilxcx

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Tattoo's and Piercings ........ Turn off or Turn on? Posted: 9/10/2007 3:04:12 PM
It depends on the person,to be honest.Some people it suits,some people it doesnt. I have 5 peirceings,and i wear lil diamond studs in them-lots of it is too common now,EVERYONE seems to have their belly done,which is why i never did.I have 4 tattoos (angel wings on my shoulder blades,a pegasis on my waist,chinese symbol on my hip and one of my guitar on my arm) They all mean something,when im old ill still be rocking 'em and they will still mean the same things to me. Generally they are hot,as long as they arent something too common or cheesey.

lilxcx

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Nothin worse then a bully... Posted: 9/9/2007 3:15:48 PM
"I have to say though that I felt the most shocking part of your story was the other customers' failure to speak out." Yes its shocking really,they all just sat their munching their burgers with their eyes fixxed on the table in frount of them.I did ask the girls mate if she was ok,she said she was ok,but they didnt understand where it had come from.

lilxcx

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Nothin worse then a bully... Posted: 9/9/2007 3:12:16 PM
"luckily for you and your service user, you came out of it on top this time, but surely all your training has indicated that you shouldn't have behaved like this?" ^^ Yes,my work training has,and although it isnt really the point,i had clocked these two for what they were.I agree with you completely,but even so,i wouldnt change it. "that poor child with them is learning from what he sees" ^^ Yeah thats the thing,this lil boy was joining in with them.Its awfull,im no angel but i was taught to respect people and have mannors.Imagine what he'll be like when he grows up.

lilxcx

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What famous people do you admire (alive or dead) and did any of them inspire you in any way? Posted: 9/9/2007 2:53:30 PM
Dave courtney. For all those who dont know who he is hes the guy they based vinnie jones character on in lock stock and two smoking barrels.He also arranged and did the security for the krays funneral service,and is one of the biggest known "villians" in london.He may be a bit naughty,but hes also a gentleman,real smart and funny as hell.The man represented himself in court and got off of doing a 20 years of bird by the opening lines "you all know me...and im worse then you think". Quality,hes written books and they are absolutely hilerious funny. Dave courtney,hes the mutts nutz he is.

lilxcx

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Swinging - a surprising regional statistic! Posted: 9/8/2007 5:29:20 PM
"i dont think you necessarily have to be into it to get it" Not so much "get it" as be intrested in it i ment. "but you do have to be able to seperate love from sex. " Well yes,but alot of people can do that i guess.What i dont get is,why bother to be in a relationship if you want to go with other people? I guess after a while,people might see it as a way to spice things up,variation,some people as you say can seperate love from sex,many reasons im sure..who knows,whatever floats their boats.

lilxcx

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Nothin worse then a bully... Posted: 9/8/2007 5:05:49 PM
"(welldone to me... this is my longest ever quote on here and feel slightly dizzy for some reason..) " Yeah i know that was a bit of a rant,sorry bout that

lilxcx

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Nothin worse then a bully... Posted: 9/8/2007 4:50:48 PM
Looky its a bit of a novel ive written here(practiceing for my biography lol) But.... Yesterday at work,i took one of the service users i work with out to the cinema and then to Burgerking (gotta love my job). The service user is autistic,epileptic and non-verbal ( says " fuk-off" clear as a bell when he is vexxed,but otherwise,communicates useing makaton). Ok so although he doesnt speak,nothing wrong with the guys hearing,he understands everything thats said just fine. So there we were in Burgerking,minding our buisness,when this couple walk in with a small child. The man looked like he'd cut your throat as easily as shaking your hand,big guy he was,sterio typical hard-nut.The woman was kinda skrawney looking,you know how some people just look DIRTY,like they dont wash and such? The girls working in the joint were foriegn,german i think.Anyway they ordered their food and there must of been a mix up with the order,because this guy starts running his mouth."you fuking stupid biches!cant even speak fuking english you dumb t@rts,what are you working here for?!" and "i ordered ONE coke,not two,fucking dumb sl@G" and "ima fck you up if you dont listen!"He went to their table,sat down,and continued to holla out at these girls like this.Then the mrs joined in "Fcking a$$-holes,aint even given us any fckin source" (gobby for a scrawny bird she was to).Obviously faniced themselves as something a bit special them two did.I was disgusted.Everyone in the place just went silent,while these two kept shouting.Then the kid piped up "yeah,stupid!i hate them i do!".He must of been about 5.It went on,and one of the girls started crying. As we left,they were standing outside,and when we walked past,she made a commment about the guy i was with,she called him a fu*king retard,and something about why was he out in public etc,laughing....his face dropped,honestly he looked shatterd by that.Now, id heard enough of her by then,so i asked the guy i was with to wait for me a bit of a way away, walked over to her,got quite close,and i said "scuse me,what did you just say to my mate over there? I know i didnt hear you right,see i thought you were being disrespectfull,i misheard you,didnt i?" She wasnt quite so full of herself then,she just gawped for a minute and went "Er...oh,er,i didnt know he could hear me" I said "see those two things on the side of his head,there called ears.If u look,ive got two of them as well.That big hole on the front of your face,thats called a very large mouth.We've had no choice but to listen to you for the last 20 minutes love,what makes you think we'd of missed that?" I then suggested very politely and discreetly that perhaps if i could use my fist as a gobstopper,and that might solve the problem.(Yeah i know,my bad.) Would you believe it she actually said she was sorry.Bloke didnt say a word,just tutted and shook his head the whole time.They were nothing but bullys,and everyone knows bullys are cowards. How i behaved was not only unprofessional,it was very naughty i know (for the record,i wouldnt of done anything because she had a sprog with her,i just wanted to make her think).I did not really do the "right" thing,but id do it again in that situation im afraid. Point of the post is,do you turn the other cheek or do you stand up to people like that? Do you personally confront a bully,or do you rise above it (i couldnt do that)?

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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Swinging - a surprising regional statistic! Posted: 9/8/2007 3:31:40 PM
Nope,im too selfish to share,for one reason. For another,what the hell is the point of being in a r .ship if you want to sh@g other people? why not just stay single and have flings or casual? One of them things if your not into it,you wont get it.I dont get it.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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Kurt at 40 how would he be Posted: 9/8/2007 3:25:22 PM
Haha,nirvana.I used to be in a tribute band to them,i have a tattoo of my guitar with a banner saying nirvana i was so into them.If he were still alive i think he'd be a recluse by now,certainly not still making music anyway,you ever see the documentary kurt n courtney? He just couldnt handle the whole fame thing. And Nirvana couldnt of gone on forever,they would of gone seperate ways and done solo stuff like dave.g has imo. Ahhh he was hot though,kurt.R.i.p x

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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profile with face in the picture Posted: 9/6/2007 8:46:43 AM
If you get banned from uploading images how long does that last? Also,if you are banned from uploading them,dont they automatically delete the "offending image",and do you get told via e.mail? Just wondering because i cant upload any pics,but had none deleted or no e.mails.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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dont call me babe or hun Posted: 9/5/2007 3:55:38 PM
Yup,if someone calls me babes,hun,or cutie in a message on here,i cringe to .I dont reply to them either,is a pet hate rather then pet name. In a r.ship its different,from a stranger...wtf is that all about? Cutie is the worse,because i dont do "cute",and "babes" is so corny,cant stand it.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

Films best watched drunk (or off your trolly atleast) Posted: 9/4/2007 4:33:34 PM
"It has to be 'Withnail & I' " ^^^That film is the funniest thing if you are stoned or mashed,that and spaced.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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watching films over and over Posted: 9/4/2007 4:31:33 PM
Greenstreet,mindhunters,Spaced,Shrek,lol,8 mile,dont be a menace to south central while drinking your juice in the hood.If i like a movie i dont ever get tierd of it,so probly all the ones i own could go on this list,which would be some Loooong list. Dont watch them over and over,but never tire of seeing them.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

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Why Do Bald Blokes With Tattoos Appeal To Women So Much? Posted: 9/4/2007 4:16:59 PM
"i think it's that whole bad boy thing .. they want an edgey kind of man ... a little bit of danger .. etc etc .... then they **** and moan because they get treated badly." Ahh here we go,the old steriotypeing thing again. Having a shaved head and tatts does not make a guy a "badboy".Being a badboy does not mean you treat women badly automatically either.

lilxcx

Joined: 4/20/2007

Msg: 63 (view)

Why Do Bald Blokes With Tattoos Appeal To Women So Much? Posted: 9/4/2007 4:11:55 PM
"So my question is why is this and why do they appeal to women so much?" My cuppa tea exactly.Shaved head and tatts-yesyes. If hes got nice eyes to,im going weak at the knees. I think its somehow more masculine maybe, Personal preference i guess also,same as some guys prefer blondes to brunettes. its just a combo that is sexy as hell,have just always liked guys with shaved heads,lol. As for phil mitchel,no thanks,was thinking more pete from greenstreet,or whats-his-face from prison break.

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