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 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 215 (view)
 
Bad Blow-Jobs
Posted: 2/4/2008 12:56:30 PM
Going the opposite direction here, A wonderful lady, to remain annomus, has somehow learned to perform this sexual act with professional success. while we were first dating, we did not want to sleep together just for the sake of having sex, however we were doing lots of other stuff. One evening after a great night being out to dinner and a comedy club we were being intimate in the car. Before we parted I recieved 3 spine tingling Blow Jobs. It was great, It felt wonderful, I have never been with a woman that has ever come close to her level of oral satisfaction. I am smiling now! Ahhh
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 223 (view)
 
Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder)
Posted: 1/30/2008 8:00:21 PM


I was told I was one and her therapist told her I was one......... gosh, since I am now divorced from her and she still has problems, am I still the one with this disorder
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
i want out of this alcoholic nightmare
Posted: 1/29/2008 5:09:27 PM
Boisegoodbadboy………….. Cruising the forums and noticed your reply here. I applaud your wisdom to leave the relationship; however, you are incorrect regarding Al-Anon.

For the record it was founded by Bob Wilson, founder of AA’s, wife. She started this group to help the partners and family members of the men and women who came to the AA meetings. She noticed these people setting alone. She formed to the group to offer support to this group. It has been around for over 65 years. I have attended AA for 10 years and am sober today, after divorce and all life has to offer.

You may have had or know someone who had a bad experience with Al-Anon but they may have been involved in a bad group or didn’t follow the advice the received. I am not going to take your inventory, but please do not comment of subjects with the opinion that you are an expert. As for the AA recovery process being helpful less than 5% of the time. What have you seen that works better that equals the number of people that AA helped and continues to help?
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 222 (view)
 
How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 1/28/2008 11:18:48 AM
Pasted from the expert; Author, Ian Kerner, "She Comes First, The thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman"

Men need to stop thinking vaginally and start acting clitorally; they need to focus on stimulation rather than penetration and postpone their gratification until a woman has been fully satisfied.

Lest you think the importance of such courtesy is over-exaggerated, simply recall Lorena Bobbitt who, when questioned by police as to why she cut off her husband's penis, responded, "He always has an orgasm and doesn't wait for me. It's unfair.
 Custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Real Men of Genius salutes you, Mr. Internet Dating Guy!
Posted: 10/24/2007 7:51:51 PM
Plzbsane........... I dont drink any more and loved your ad........ pure genius! and a little to real, you just left out checking your email to discover no one has replied to your futile attempt at trying to be clever....... LOL
 Custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Customized, read this :-)
Posted: 10/13/2007 12:49:49 PM
Thanks Chic, I appreciate your perspective, I will make some chancges and see what happens......... this is kind of strange here, but strange for all of us........... Have a good weekend, Mark
 Custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 66 (view)
 
help! boyfriend staying over another girls???
Posted: 10/11/2007 10:18:56 AM
Your answer is simple............... SHOW HIM THIS THREAD

if he doesn't wake up, Leave him!
 Custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar?
Posted: 10/11/2007 10:11:09 AM
Answer- YES
I was 24, met lots of ladies and yes, I was a player. I talked to many and could identify the ladies also as genuine, or teasers.

We met on monday, talked on phone wednesday (3 hours), first date on Thursday, dated 1 year, then engaged for 1 year, then married for 19 with 4 children. Nothing in life is a guarantee. Marriage is a "learn on the job" institution.

I have several friends that met there wives in a bar and seem to be happily married with families. Iwish you well, you will find the right one. I did and plan to again.

Best wishes, Custom
 Custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Customized, read this :-)
Posted: 10/11/2007 9:42:21 AM
OK, I have been in the fish bowl for about 6 months. I have talked/met some very nice ladies. However, am interested in others opinions on my profile. Details about me not shown are;
Growing faith involved in my church
Have four children, 3 sons at home,1 daughter in College
Divorced after 20 years
Iowa farm boy,
Very social, youth football coach
Sober 9 1/2 years, (is this a bad thing?)
Basically starting over, Let ex have home and all material items in it.

So let me know what you think, really,
Thanks, Mark
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
What are men really looking for on these sites
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:34:09 AM
Loyallatina,

Oh come on, relax. Dating web sites are 25% serious, 25% curious and 50% entertainment. Keeping this in mind, you have only 25% chance of talking with someone and then your chances go up from there. We all are interested in meeting that someone, but you also need to be open about what your mate may do, and you for that matter, after the first date.

You noticed they were back on line, because, YOU were back on line! Be open and honest with your date, the two of you are not exclusive yet. It needs to be discussed and talked about, it will give you insight to the person you are with. The dating site is one thing you have in common, so talk about it.

Enjoy each others company, enjoy the journey of getting to know each other, and work on your self confidence. You must have enough self confidence to realize that what he is risking in loosing you, is not worth what you are risking in keeping him.

In the mean time, enjoy the entertainment value of Dating web sites..........
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
How do I help my children deal with divorce?
Posted: 9/14/2007 9:46:07 PM
Peanut,
My advice on this is to take the "High Road". You had a tragic event happen at your home. You did nothing wrong, and filing the police report was neccesary. The police naturally asked you if you have any idea who may have done this and you mentioned your EX to them, and it could have been others as well. Be honest with your kids, it is the high road. but in the mean time. I liked the quote "All this bad talking about the ex i think is funny. The ex was good enough to have sex with and good enough to make kids with. But now there scum of the earth LOL>" We have lived lives with the best intentions, and sometimes they do not work out, period. We move on. No I am not being "Poly Anna" here, just move on and be positive, grow up and make you sure you sometimes ask questions of what your kids are thinking, it will impress them that you care enough to ask. and if you do make bad comments about there dad, apologize for it. You have a whole lot of life left together, like it or not, so start setting the openness bar high now.
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 69 (view)
 
I have a honest qustion and you cant laugh k
Posted: 7/14/2007 9:04:27 AM
being a virgin and having sex are two different issues..... you need to be comfortable with talking about sex to enjoy it completely with your partner. I encourage you to date to see what is out there, Do not come to the conclusion that you want to meet the one for marriage/sex. Many(most) young men do not recognize the value of what you have, even if they still have theirs. Ask them how they lost theirs. you will get a temperature of there comfort level regarding sex. My 19 year marriage to a virgin was not good in the bedroom. She was never comfortable talking about sex or direction on her pleasures. I am happy now to be enjoying this part of my life much more completely. She was 23 when we met, She told me of her virginity and I stopped at every red light she shined. It was understood between us, that intercoarse was her call the first time. She lost her virginity to me before we were engaged, we both talked about our values and goals, family raising ideals, ect. And knew we were going down a long term road. She also didnt want to deal with the extra emotion on her wedding night. Hope this helps......... good luck........
 custommann1
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Something fishy going on here......rate my profile please?
Posted: 4/28/2007 4:55:44 AM
Hi, noticed your comment here, I have similar observation, like these are "POD" people or something.......lol! The new technology is very interesting, the computers are so smart, web developers are offering more and more all the time. Gosh, this should be wonderful................except it can't replace walking up to someone and saying "Hi, how are you".
 
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