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mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 148 (view)

A girl in an adult career Posted: 5/21/2008 1:47:29 PM
This is just my opinion!!!!!!!!!!!! No......unless you kept a little box with every photo from your shoots, and every movie you will eventually be in.....and before ever going out ask the guy to look thru them to see if he wants to still be with you. I know i wouldnt want to find out down the road that you had been involved with doing some of the things in porn. And i know you said you werent going to do hardcore....only girl girl and pics... but when they flash that big dollar in your face , do you have the ability to say no? So as far as me no.......men (some men) like to feel the girl they are with is clean and virginal (even ladies with children can be looked at that way) but to start out with someone that took it off for money....uhn uhh. just watch girls gone wild....i do feel a turn on by the little hoochies poppin thier tops and such. but i would never want to go out with someone that was so easy to show the world. but then again im just an old dude right.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

I need someone's objective thoughts on this Posted: 4/4/2008 5:59:22 PM
Well I can help a little on both sides of what you might need to know. I too was married to a younger lady....I was married for 13 years. We knew something wasnt right and tried counseling a few times, but that turned into a male bashing forum (always check out several shrinks before starting marriage counseling). I wanted to work things out and try to stay together. She divorced me without explaining why she wanted it. But after it was all said and done, I knew we had grown way too far apart. Yes I loved her and (3 yrs after) she admitted to loving me still. But sometimes it just doesnt work out, even with 3 children. They are not a good reason to stay together. As for him and the teenie boppers. Well he is feeling old. The attention he gets from them makes him think he is young again. If he has been dating one ....well she will get over him in a couple of years when she really looks at him and she will be gone, or do the same thing to him. He feels he is 20 something again, thats why the music and clothes are changing. But outside of his work he gets laughed at by the kids and feels he now needs to proove to them he really is "COOL". Here is what really matters. You need to focus on you and your life. Dont think thyat waiting for him will heal and fix anything. He is gone. Yes he will be back (probably). But it will be after he realizes what he had and how he didnt care about your feelings and emotions. I know at one point it was a great relationship.....but that is gone forever now. Even getting back together...it would never feel the same. You need to focus now on moving on and enjoying life. We dont have a second go or a reset button to hit. Move on, find someone that you like and set your standards high. It will be lonely, it will suck on cold winter nights. DO NOT accept an inferior man. Keep looking till you find someone that is what you really want. Good luck Happy hunting

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 78 (view)

do men like to be approached first? Posted: 4/4/2008 4:10:54 PM
I think men feel the same as women do on this one. Yes ....it is awesome to have a really cute hottie come over and start a conversation. No ....it totally sucks to have an unattractive, boring woman hit on you. As for me...I am way too shy....so I even have problems being confident enough to send e-mails half the time....well most of the time. But when someone that is attractive hits on me it is not only acceptable...its refreshing. Most ladies that I am attracted to dont make the first move....they wait. But if they were attracted to me, I will never know because you guys scare me. Yeah!!! I have self confidence, self image issues. Ex girlfriend and ex wife really messed up my ability to be positive about myself. And for the shrinks out there..... I know I know...get over it...move on. Just find htat really sensitive people seem to keep it longer than those less sensitive or more confident people. But maybe that is why being approached is better for me....huh?

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

In a car that is not yours? Posted: 3/9/2008 11:31:41 AM
maybe he is a clown and does birthday party balloon animls. Wal-mart ran out of regular balloons and........ Maybe he is a male prostitute......... waterballoon fight last weekend......... chronic masturbator, but also a neat freak....... bladder control problem and doesnt know about "depends" adult unergarments...... thinks it makes him look like a stud......... smuggles a lot of drugs over the border..... does a lot of breaking and entering but couldnt find latex gloves to hide the fingerprints...... But more than likely he is just a nasty skank ho that will put his litle fellow into any hole that happens to present itself to him. I dont care if he says its his friends, his ex g/f's parents, or his rabi.....if he let you (supposedly on a date right?) get into the car he doesnt give 2 shits about you or who you are. Run away and take a loooooooong shower......maybe rub some dissinfectant on your butt from those yucky seats too.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

Why did he do it? Posted: 2/10/2008 1:48:52 PM
HEHEHEHEH WOW!!!!! So lets see if I have this right. He is foolong around on his "wife" with you for years. You are fooling around on your "husband with him for years. And now he is not interested in you anymore. Oh you poor poor dear thing. Men are pig dogs, they should all be shot. Poor innocent you. Poor did nothing wrong you. OMFG........are you serious You and he fk around on your SPOUSES. And now you want us to give you sympathy. You deserved it. He deserves her being a swinger. If you have the balls to fk around, then why not have the balls to be honest with your husband. Not once did you ention how this has affected him did you. No!!!!! because he doesnt count does he princess. Screw the way this has made him feel.....or have you even been honest enough to tell him the truth? I doubt it. I had an ex wife like you.... And you arent worth all the time I spent sending this lovely reply to you. PISS OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love and kisses will

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

She did have sex with him, but still loves me...? Posted: 2/10/2008 1:29:59 PM
OP... I hope your still reading the replies to this string. OK My ex was a cheater. I would come in from the road (im a trucker) early and she wasnt home. So I would go to the bar down the street...because thats where she was always at. She would get drunk find some 18 yr old dude and get her groove on. I cught her dancing and hanging out with guys countless times. I caught her f*ing them 5 times. Oh it was the alcohol....ok I forgive you..... Then she would also get drunk or stoned and decide she wanted to fist fight..knowing I would never hit her back. Then 2 days before our 3 year "dating" anniversary she calls me while fing the upstairs neighbor and tells me to not come home anymore. HEHEHEHEH!!! aint life grand. Partner the only thing you should do right now is focus on yourself. You know what she has done will happen again...it's not like she changed overnight. She will hurt you more and more and more. Just let her go. It will hurt and you will be sad, but trust e. Life will only be better or you afterwards. I'm almost 40 now and the idea of loosing the one I (giggles to himself with the knowledge of what it was) loved scared me to death. Will I be able to find someone else. Will I ever stop loving her. The answer is yes!! You will get over her and find someone new.. Take your time this go around. Realize who you are and what you want out of life. She is out there. Yes a heidi clume look alike, with shloads of cash, that wants your exact person. First things first. This life we are in is "IT"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No second chances, no hitting restart, no next time will be better. This is all we have. (unless your a budist and think you may coe back as a grasshopper) Think about what you want, be self obsorbed about it. Be greedy, and think only of yourself in your decision about who and what you want. She is out there. SOMEWHERE!!!!! Let the past go, and the unhealthy relationships end. Dont get together with someone else that is self obsorbed, or in need of rescuing. YOU need rescuing, by yourself. Make life good for you dude. Sorry to rave on and on....just know what its like to be in your shoes. Ive gotten over bad endings twice now, and I know it will never happen to me again. good luck.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

Once You Finally Do Her Posted: 2/7/2008 7:25:20 PM
Fantasy and fantasizing is really men (or women) acting out thier internal dreams without fear of rejection or embarrasment........kinda. (well it's also remembering some really awesome sex) I do fantasize about someone before and long after. My ex wife messed me up pretty badly, but some of the sexual things that happened are still very erotic. I am guessing you meant this in a sexual way. Granted I do fantasize about watching her live in her car, while I sell off all her shit.....but then I feel bad and move on. hehehehe The answer for me is "YES" I do. It isnt about after you "do her" which if that is how you feel sex or intimacy is like....well i feel sad now. Sex between 2 people should always be incredible. Weather it is a 1 night stand, or your 50th aniversary. Sex is the most intimate thing 2 people can do with each each other...unless your a proctologist Seems like we as humans have drifted away from letting sex be incredible. Too many dumbass men hanging out in hoochie clubs wanting to just get off and go home. Too many women thinking that sex is all we want, so they give it up so that we will give them some attention. Personally, sometimes, I would rather to just have foreplay and go home without the "happy ending" and know she is laying there dripping with sweat, still trying to get her hands to stop making a fist, then to have her lay there "during" wondering if she will still have time to watch scrubs @ 7. WHEW!!!! get off my soapbox....sorry bout that.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Could you be in a relationship with a long haul truck driver? Posted: 1/9/2008 11:56:20 PM
WOW!! so many steriotypes in this world.... I'm sure the young lady who unfortunately had a father and uncles that were road whores probably has a swastika in her garage and a few oil soaked crosses too. How many of you would consider starting a relationship with someone in the military? Kind of the same thing. I was active duty for 12 years... and overseas for a little over 5 years of that. YES... many of those guys found the mama san or the cheap call girl very often. They are gone for months and years at a time. look at how long the war in Iraq has been churning. So has most of you ladies dumped those good for nothing GI's???? Hell no.. (for those of you that think im kicking the military, dont send me hate mail....I'm 10,000 times more patriotic than you and served my time..so **** off). It seems we tend to gravitate towards hate whenever we have boring lives....like miss skank with the messed up life. Steriotypes........ cops will beat you for no reason.... priests will rape your children...... sailors are all gay...... lawyers are all crooked and bloodthirsty..... doctors only want your money and are unfeeling........ hookers give blowjobs for 5 bucks.........hahahahahah does anyone think these are all true? if you do I feel sorry for you, and maybe you should ask your mommy if you can go outside more. I am now a long haul driver... and yes many of those guys do the hooker thing. Actually as for the guys that do fool around I see most are "good buddies" (gay). But miss elvis has her percentages wrong. 90% dont do hookers or fool around on the road. Most of the drivers I know are very good loyal family oriented people. Yes ...we have many that arent Yes...we have some that do lot lizzards (hookers) Yes ....some are good buddies(gay) Hey!!! some are strung out on meth and crack(drug addicts) But all are humans. And those local guys you find in your town, city, whatever, have the same oportunities to pick up nasty hookers too. So please stop doing the "truckers are whores" crap. As ar as dating one.....well if you are patient enough to wait for someone then yeah. go for it. If you need constant attention and someone there every day after work... well you might want to find someone else. If you want to travel and see the U.S. hey...ride with them. Truckers (not truckies dumbass) are just like everyone else out there. The only difference is what type of job we do and how we manage our time home. We are men and women with emotions and feelings just like anyone else. We think and act just like you normal people. Yes....they imported us from mars and some are from venus......but we are adjusting quite well. As far as the nasty skank that appears to have some sort of mental problem kynie or kylee or whatever wierd name that is.......(did you guys see those messed up elvis glasses she is wearing...OMG) .....GET A LIFE!!!!

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 96 (view)

If you loved her would you share her sexually Posted: 1/4/2008 2:37:21 PM
As far as what you should do. I would write your daughter off as a lost cause. File for custody of the baby and take him from her. X is an entry drug and can and probably will lead to more damaging drugs. As for the guy that is dating her and love..... She is just an ignorant child...of course she thinks swinging is cool.....he told her it was. He loves to get attention and to get off. He has his little young piece of ass and wants to show off to others. I am 40...well almost. And even though I dont do swing parties I would never try to drug a little girl to get her to get naked for me. The guy is scum and should have his mr. happy snatched off with some rusty pliars. Your daughter wont listen because all girls her age know everything. (sorry 20 somethings reading this) TAKE THE KID!!!!!!!! after that what she and he does is none of your buisness. in 5 or 10 years when she gets kicked out of the methadone clinc for hooking inside and comes dragging ass back to you then try to fix your relationship. All you can do for her is lock her up in ther basement or let her live her life. But the baby is innocent and needs someone that is at lesast thinking.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 2 (view)

Please Review my Profile Posted: 1/2/2008 10:49:15 PM
WOW!!!!!!!!! ok where do we start. I guess first the photos. Its ok that you love your dog, but no photos of you kissing it. you and your mates in the pub should go since women like to think that we men dont drink and have good times.....but seriously it takes any and all focus off of you the panoramic view of the countryside is pretty but they cant see your face. You need a fairly close shot of your face and "eyes" Women love to see and look into your eyes. as far as the essay....whew lottsa work to do. try to sell yourself and your interests...not your future and job. Delete the add to the list comment at the end. sounds like you have too many lady friends and none close enough to be a girlfriend. try to explain to the ladies what you would like them to be like explain what you are like a little more in depth show your funny side and your adventurous side. your type of relationship your looking for, maybe how you love or like my profile is a bit long and drones on but i cover every base for those that want to find out about me. so try to give more personal love style info take some better glamour shots of your face and get rid of any and all negative comments god luck and keep tryinf

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

sounds during sex/lovemaking Posted: 1/2/2008 9:51:57 PM
Not all men are silent. I may not wake the neighborhood, but you will know what is good and what isnt. I feel that making noise and raw animal sounds enhances lovemaking. It helps enhance the pleasure one is feeling at the time. And yes dirty talk between an established couple is also awesome and helps the other truly understand your inner desires. Try asking your partner to be more verbal....maybe be more verbal yourself...(not saying you arent) sometimes the best way to lead is by example. If he is shy try to open him up slowly by talking a little ask him to tell you or express in moans when it feels good. work on him a little while with patience and soon you too may be in the next "porky's" movie......heheheheh good lick.....ummm i mean luck

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

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Do these sites actually work? Posted: 1/1/2008 8:23:59 PM
yes and no. I have dated a few ladies from pof. have a few friends still from here. nothing long term has happened but rome wasnt built....you know. keep looking and remember to send e-mails to the ones you like. maybe they are shy too. yes the internet does work and many a happy marriage...kinky weekend...good friends have come from it. just dont be too anxious. as with life it may take a few hrs before the perfect woman responds to you

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

losing erection with a condom Posted: 1/1/2008 8:14:48 PM
Dude I hate condoms. They do the same thing for me. I never really use them. Granted I dont have sex that often either..... Try washing the condom off....or buying the non spermicidal ones... maybe the chemicals are affecting you. Or get your own can of spermididal foam. I am sure if she understands condoms are wierding you out she will go for alternatives. lets see.....pull and pray......abstinance....nah that wouldnt work. If you are worried about diseases why are you wanting to put it inside her anyway.....gheesh...is she that active sexually? Go to the clinic and get the cootie tests done. If you are a couple it is worth it. If she is just another piece of ass to you then just move along to the next conquest. im not saying she is just saying its worth the investment either way. dont need anything falling off that you may need in the future (lepper joke there).. another reason could be psychological. have you had bad break up stuff from the past. any not so good performances? are you still emotional over another relationship? could be many many reasons as to why. I agree with the guy who says try to masturbate using a condom. If it works by hand then it may be something other than the latex that is effecting you. if all else fails do what i do. grab your cowboy hat and ride bareback.....nothing replaces real life like real life.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

Why do men do this?? Posted: 12/23/2007 8:01:40 PM
I hope I understand your question. 1st are these men just men that you have talked to on the internet, or are they real life in the flesh men you have dated? My response is not a defense for men but a possible reason that I have experienced myself. I am a bit shy and have a hard time coming on strong enough for a lot of you modern day women. I tend to send a short "hey I'M interested" e-mail and then wait to see if I get a nibble. If not then I suspect no interest or too buisy. So I move on. If I do talk with someone on the internet a few times I "dont" do the possesive thing and expect immediate exclusivity. I keep my options open. Not because I am seeing if something better comes along. Just that sometimes people on the net can be whoever they want to be at first. Eventually the real you comes out and maybe they arent really who I want to spend my life with. If I have talked with ladies before and they seems distant and/or she didnt want to push towards the information sharing. That to me is important at first to see if the connection is worth the time. I am by no means after a booty call or FWB.. in fact I am actually getting pretty tired of all the damn sexual stress that comes with relationships. Seems like 80% of the ladies I have talked to either bring up sex to me first, or stress the need for me to not talk about sex. I never said anything about sex. But in todays society it seems we are all so strung out over "SEX". I could go on and on over that subject and my views, but I wont. Anyway maybe these guys have been talking to someone that expressed more interest in them than you did. Maybe you had a bad day and seemed uninterested. You need to remember you arent the only lady here. And if they are popping up to talk with you again maybe you should be happy that your windsong stayed on thier minds...heheh If they pop up for a bootycall ....well if you arent into it then just block em and move on. 10 million men and 10 million women in this world. ABSOLUTELY NO TIME TO STRESS OVER A FEW ***holeS.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 13 (view)

What do you do when your date goes home with another guy? Posted: 12/6/2007 2:39:01 PM
well when you get to class wait for her to sit first. Then when she isnt looking walk up behind her, turn around, and FART on the back of her neck......hehehheheheh Just to let her know she's is a shithead Dude.... why ask this question. Walk away and be happy the nasty skank didnt do that to you 6 months or a year into a relationship. Oh and you should refer to old dude as your ex friend......F**K him too NEXT!!!!!!!!

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Foreplay techniques Posted: 11/28/2007 7:36:10 AM
HHHHMMMMMM......... I guess my technique of driving my hotwheels over her body isnt quite the same as the hand thing huh? Many diff. ways to get that effect. try the old blindfold, using diff. objects to get the effect. (feathers, silk, riding crops, blowing hot/cold with your breath, hair, etc etc) can also try warming your hands with a hot towel (really hot water and have it in sink till ready to use). basically what your doing is gently teasing. experiment with teasing and to bring soft touches, gentle pain, and quick temperature changes when teasing. Never had a bare....bear skin rug before....where does that come into play?

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 2 (view)

Please Review Me! Posted: 11/18/2007 4:04:14 PM
Matt Matt Matt, Where do we begin. 1st. youre age and location are displayed in the window beside your photo...no need for redundant info. The photo of you without your glasses is much more handsome than the other main. Switch it to the main. and also with the room shot of you standing. Keep in mind others pay attention to the background...nothing wrong just may be a more exciting area of your home to use as a backdrop. And by the way....I am NOT gay...just trying to help you out. What type of woman are you looking for? You didnt say. What are some really interesting things about you. You do IT work and like rugby. OK who is the inner Matt. Some ladies may think you sit in front of your computer and watch rugby while writing code for a new program update....and if that is what you do all the time....well find a cool hobby Tell the ladies what you like outside the home, office. How do you love? What is your favorite color? What is the wind speed velocity of an unladen swallow....heheheheheh (python joke) just try to think of what you would want to find out about a girl youre interested in and then turn the tables on yourself. best of luck my friend will

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 289 (view)

Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 11/17/2007 11:41:47 PM
not gonna really say anything just watch this vid and answer the same question in reverse http://glumbert.com/media/sizematter

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

Oppion needed...Be nice..but truthful Posted: 11/17/2007 11:10:51 PM
10,000 POSSIBILITIES. OK all of us will have differant views and ideas on this. And truly talking with him is the best and only "real" answer. The main thing you need to do is to look at your relationship with him so far. AND PLEASE!!! dont add or brighten it up to make it feel better to you. If you guys are done let it go. If he is a very emotional man then you should just let him know you want to help. If he has abandoned you intimately, and emotionally.....well you know the answer to that ....right? Sometimes good things end....sometimes they need work to be better. As far as my personal opinion.........(all you haters and self proclaimed shrinks leave me alone) I am divorced...and my kids had a VERY rough time dealing with it. BUT as far as me and my relationship afterwards....well they are 2 completely differant things. I fell back on my g/f to comfort, support, and help guide me. If it is a truly wonderous relationship...he will want you in his buisness... To HL with the men that say "my woman dont get in my buisness" unless you live in "the hood" and he's your "daddy" and your his "shawty" Seems like people get into this role playing thing trying to "front" and forget that life is only as good as we make it ourselves. Talk to the man....ask him what the fk is up and get into his life. If he pushes you away and wont let you into his mind and heart....well get out. As far as the sex goes.....how long have you 2 been together? Doesnt really matter.......intimacy comes ion many flavors Does he still need you to hold him and comfort him? If he is having a hard time right now he needs a shoulder. If he isnt asking or needing yours ......maybe ......? Many people carry these torches for thier ex's for yrs. Some wont let go ever...and just want to feel in control and able to "mess with ya". Do you think he has feelings for his ex still? Does he try to control parts of her life......if the answer is yes do you REALLY belive it wont happen to you? Basically you need to TALK to him. Communication is everything. Dont act like you want to pry or have something for ammunition later...be concerned as you obviously are. tell him you want to help and that you are feeling left out and alone. And more than like;ly you already know the answer within you. So dig deep.......think about it alll(big picture) and ake your decision. I hope at least one or two sentences here may help.... OK all you other bloggers bring on the hate mail

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

SERIOUS QUESTION: WHAT IS IT ABOUT A WOMAN, THAT MAKES A MAN FALL DEEPLY IN LOVE Posted: 10/28/2007 6:56:29 PM
For me it was instantanious. When I met my ex-wife I only saw her eyes in my rear view mirror for 20 minutes and spoke maybe 10 words to her. But I knew. My ex-g/f of 3 yrs was pretty much the same. I talked to her on the phone twice (for buisness) and saw her from behind (no not her butt). And I knew she was right for me. Some men (those of us that dont live under rocks and in dark corners) have certain things that just fall into place. I am very picky of who I want to see. But when I say that it doesnt mean a model with a barbie figure. My ex g/f was over 300 lbs when I first met her. I am however attracted to a lovely face. But what is attractive to one man is unatractive to another. I have never fallen in love because of sex. I do enjoy intimacy very much. And when I am starting a relationship it does come up in conversations. If we couldnt be compatable sexually it would hurt the relationship. But stand by your own set of rules for that. I see a lot of ladies here saying no sex, or keep looking if you want sex. Well I understand there are a lot of perverts here. I see one already answered your question earlier. But not all men are after a pieceof butt. I am trult searching for someone to share the rest of my life with. And I will know when I see her......hopefully...hehehe Dont fall for that pathetic excuse some of these guys give that "if you want this to work you will have sex with me". Men sometimes are pig dogs. But sometimes they are ok. You be you. Dont try to fit or fix what you think is a problem. If the guy doesnt like what and who you are...well he isnt worth your time. Someday you will be walking along...and pass a guy staring at you with his mouth dropped wide open....if you say hello he will just stammer and stutter.... GUESS WHAT? he just fell in love

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 32 (view)

What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 10/10/2007 9:21:45 PM
Hehehe............feel like a schoolkid writing mean notes about a classmate. OK. all in all I feel Flex is probably a nice guy. He appears to have his buisness life in check and has done quite well for himself. His photos show he has taken care of himself and is a handsome man. On the downside. Update your age you are looking for flex. As you say yourself...a "man your age" does not need a 25 year old. Im 39 and would struggle with a 25 yr old. (trust me) What exactly are you looking for? Your wording makes me feel you are after a friends with benefits, or a sugarbaby. (In which case the 25 yr old would work) You dont need to stress the religion thing either. In todays society there are not a whole lot of strict religious ladies running around. Your tourism photo shows you do get out of the office, and house. Maybe a shot of you really being off work.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

sex Posted: 10/10/2007 8:50:41 PM
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I may really need a relationship, and I may be getting older, but I AM NOT DEAD. Sex is by far not on the top of the list. But why would you want a relationship without some sort of intimacy (sex) be it penetration, or other techniques. I dont have sex with my grandmother and we love each other. Maybe that is what was meant. Sorry to intrude on this post...........................Damn, I didnt know it was do you love your granny..............need to read these more thourougly next time...............

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

No sex for a month... worried what he'll do Posted: 10/10/2007 8:32:40 PM
OK........the problem here isnt what will he do. he left his wife for another girl because his wife stopped having sex with him WELL.......doesnt that ring any bells for you. During my marriage to my ex. she stopped having sex with me. I went over a year at a time between intimate relations with her. But I didnt leave her because of it. And if I did decide to bail because of sex, I would bail and "then" find the girlfriend. This guy may come off as sweet and nice and wonderful. But are you sure you want a guy that has already proven himself unfaithful in a relationship. I could care less about his special circumstances. You really need to evaluate if you REALLY trust this guy with your emotions. As for what to do if he runs............well if he does good. Get in your car and chase him.....moving targets are always more fun.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

How Do I Get Over Him? Posted: 10/10/2007 6:00:13 PM
I so understand how you feel. Its been a little over 2 yrs since my ex g/f told me not to come home. Why would she do that is the first thing people ask...(women normally ask me what I did to make that happen). My ex g/f was also a drinker, and "smoked" several times a day. She liked to hit when she was drunk. and I cuaght her several times with other men. But stupid me kept doing the "well she was drinking" excuse for her. Does this sound farmiliar...I hit you? Oh baby I am so sorry...I was drunk I didnt know what I was doing last night. Sorry to rant about that. As for missing him. well.....its been over 2 yrs and I think of her every day...several times a day. When I hear a song that reminds me, when I am doing something she enjoyed, when I see something she would like to wear or own. I too cant get my ex out of my head. BUT... I know that if i lowered my self respect and tried to go back to her it would be 1000 times worse. Because then I would know how useless I was. She doesnt deserve me, just as your ex doesnt deserve you. A man that is honest, true, faitful, and a decent human being is out there somewhere. Do not give in, or up. If you find yourself sitting around thinking of him, eating chocolate ice cream, and listening to coldplay....well get out and go do something. Call a girlfriend and hit wal mart. (they are open 24 hrs). envite a few friends over to chill and watch a movie. Watch a REALLY good movie. bad movies seem to get boring and the mind wanders back to the ex. Find something to take your mind off of him. Once that next real man enters your life the pain will end. You will never forget...at least I cant. But you can go on and make your life better. DO NOT accept the next guy that walks in the door. Set your standards and stick to them. And not just, " a man that doesnt hit, and doesnt drink much, and wants to spend some time with me". You want a man that meets you and the rest of his world dissapears, you are the center of his universe. It WILL happen. Just be patient and wait for it. Be strong for yourself and smile.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 145 (view)

3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked Posted: 10/10/2007 5:02:56 PM
OK. 1st you have let the situation go a bit long without "communication". If you want her to know something you should tell her....and then tell her again...and again. If she keeps pushing your feelings aside because of this issue then maybe you should decide if the relationship is really going to last. If you cant tell her what is wrong then when something else comes up (and it will) this will only add to the stress. and before you know it problem solved.....no relationship. If she refuses to respond to your needs then maybe she doesnt care for you as much as you hope. If you really care for her are you willing to change your needs a bit. I am not saying you arent valid in your concerns. My ex wife kept distancing herself from me sexually and it led to a horrible relationship. "YES LADIES" sex is very very very important to us men. If you ladies reading this think men are all sex perverts....well yeah we are. It is how the differances in sexes work. But seeing her respond to you, seeing her enjoy herself, and watching her face and body move is a big part of it for men. Dude....you should just keep talking to her about coming to a mutual situation. Maybe candlelight a few times. Then a dim light in an adjacent room to add light. Then a small lamp....etc and so on. The key here is communication. If she understands your concern, needs, desires, and stress she is more likely to respond. So there is my 2 cents. I hope it helps a little.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 4 (view)

Glance me for a moment... All Critisism welcome...... Posted: 6/22/2007 7:30:24 PM
Dude, All I can say is the chickenfriedfrog name is fkin awesome. Laughed my a off on that one. Your profile looks fairly good as far as your description goes. You may want to throw in some more interests, and add a few pics of your face so the ladies can check out the eyes. You may want to add a paragraph or two more to what you would like to find in a lady. Maybe a few more details about you. But all in all you make your ideas pretty open. On a personal note. I am sorry for your loss of your wife. I know that can be really hard, and I applaud you for gettin back out and making life happy for you and the kids. They do see a difference when daddy is happy again. Good luck brother, hope you find a really good woman.

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 3 (view)

When men say no head games what do they mean? Posted: 6/12/2007 7:27:42 PM
Really it depends on the man. Some men are..................jerks. So it may mean they dont a woman that will request "anything" from them. affection, snuggling, pick up thier socks and undies. Some ladies also like to instantly form and change a man into what she is desiring. So if a lady finds a man good looking but boring she may try a date to see if he is maleable. And some are looking for the prince of thier dreams but arent willing to be the princess in return. But for a man that is here for a relationship, it may mean he is not wanting e-mails from ladies that are looking outside of thier marriage. Some women here are just seeking attention because they have married one of the "jerks". But really it boils down to a asking what he meant. If he interests you and you interest him, just ask!! Good luck

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

Profile Advice please? Posted: 6/12/2007 7:10:26 PM
Dave, Try thinking about what it is you are really here to find. If all you want is a nice lady to talk to just hit the chat lines and im sure you will find someone quickly. If you are hpoing to find a relationship then you need to let it be known. Think of a few things you feel are your strong points. I.E. do you do art, or are you great at your job, do you really like rock climbing. Things that someone may also be interested in. Yes a lot of ladies also like gaming, but will not base a relationship on it. Next. Try to explain what the lady you want to meet is like. Explain that and give details. I.E. is she funny, smart, younger, older, what physical details would you like (pretty, skinny, bbw etc). I fyou feel you are insecure and not worthy of a truly greta woman it will show in your profile. Sit and relax.. think about all the great things you posses.. now take a chug from that beer and put it on your profile. As for your pics. try to put a table lamp in front of you so that your face shows up better. Dark images arent the best. try diff locations. And hey!! even change while you are taking pics. doesnt have to be different days , show you in a diff light. You have several with that jersey on. do some with you dressed nice, or sporty, or relaxed. If you look at my profile you will see i have a pic with no shirt. that is because i feel i am overweight. So to try to let the lady decide i put that on here. Basically just loosen up. I am sure you are a nice guy. show that. women "ARE" looking for nice guys. Good luck

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Two women for different reasons... Posted: 5/12/2007 11:44:22 AM
oops that was a response to TheWorldIsMyPlayground post to this thread not to the amin question.. As for my opinion I feel that a man and woman who care for each other should be able to restrain from something as petty as sex untill they are both ready. no 5 years down the road and no intimacy may be pushing it. not many "real" virgins over 18 left. but i do not belive that most men will have a boody call waiting after his serious date is over. Well at least I feel that is unacceptable

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

Two women for different reasons... Posted: 5/12/2007 11:40:29 AM
oh you are so full of shit this is not a common thing among guys. it may be a common thing among pricks. im not exactly a hermit andd have been around a while. if a "REAL" man wants a woman he waits and waits and waiyts till her time is right for intimacy. if you cant keep it in your pants you need to go hide back inthe porn store. No, not all guys use the "but if we dont it will make me hurt". wah wah wah bullshit. you should be asahmed.trying to tell people that crap/

mohawksrule

Joined: 4/22/2007

Msg: 176 (view)

why do men only care about sex??? Posted: 5/5/2007 11:05:51 PM
OK, first we need to say why do almost all men only want sex. I agree that most of men are complete and utter creeps. I have known a lot of other guys in my life, and yes the majority are *holes. But there are some out there that are actually nice guys. What you have to ask yourself is who the heck are you hanging out with? Why are all the guys you meet jerks? Where do you go to find these wonderful humans? Are you in a lot of bars or clubs? If the answer is yes, then of course all of the guys you meet suck. I myself find bars and clubs nasty. Most guys are players, and nasty germ infected pris. The girls I meet are either hood rats, ho's or think that going to a club with most of the skin showing is "just having fun while I'm young". Well yes you are but what happens in 5, 10, 15 years. No one is going to accept a lovely lady with cooties. (you know what I mean). The thing I found is that most people when they are young only think of now and today. You have a loooooooooooooooooooooong life ahead of you. Dont just jump in the sack because some *hole says he needs it. Piss onthe guys who use that sympathetic bullsh You need to find a guy that is "REAL". Meaning if he met you in a bar at 3 am he is not real. If you met trhough friends, family, church, maybe even here. Well he may be ok. But baby girl ya gotsta do what is right for you.

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