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anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 156 (view)

Friends with benefits rules Posted: 4/23/2013 8:51:09 AM
FWB's?...Just like "Enter at your own risk". Simple...You wanna stay friends because a relationship won't work, but you still want the physical side of things. Neither person needs to justify what the other is doing. IF you think you may contract an STD from your 'friend' then don't sleep with them...this goes for your g/f.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 49 (view)

the look of love...do the eyes say it or not? Posted: 4/6/2013 8:55:48 AM
i mean..can some men produce this look of love for any woman whom they are very attracted to? ...On occasions it is indeed 'A look of love' on most occasions it is a' look of lust '. I once had a man (exclusive) who gave me 'that' look, we had been seeing each other for some month's. He got to the point where he said "I.....looked me in the eye's...then said 'I can't say it' kissed me passionately, stayed the night as he normally did. I surprised him one night and went to his house. He didn't answer the door. I thought that odd so I tapped on his window and found another woman on top of him...I read 'that look' wrong. He maintained that "It was not as it appeared to be".....I know what I saw...A part of me wanted to believe him with the story he later told me. Actions speak louder than words. Look's can be deceiving.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 29 (view)

If you were the other woman - would you want to know? Posted: 4/6/2013 8:33:20 AM
Your now separated fom your husband. Any Drama's he has in his life are now soley 'his' Drama's. Sure it's easy to feel sorry for this other woman, but the bottom line is.....Do you honestly want to get involved with HIS Drama? Move ahead with your own life and don't carry the burden of someone elses life. All will be revealed, it's just a matter of time. I saw an email from her questioning him on his dodgy behaviour and saying he had better not be up to something .....Who's to say there is not a 4th person involved here?

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 58 (view)

Unhappy in a relationship or happy and single? Posted: 2/22/2013 7:02:49 AM
One of my married g/f's said to me one day "I don't want to get to your age and be alone" I told her I love being 'alone' and would much prefer my lifestyle rather than live her's. I'm happily single...She is unhappily married, but say's she like's the married status, because it's rare to find married couples! Go figure

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 20 (view)

Jealousy Posted: 2/21/2013 7:44:17 AM
I have been seeing a women for about 6 weeks now. ...That's plenty of time to figure out if you want to be exclusive or not. Had you brought this subject up earlier then I doubt you would be in this predicument. I smell a rat...IF she was that into YOU, then she would explain to this other guy that she has met someone...AND is exclusive with this person. Neither of you are doing each other any favours. Your both free agent's and can do whatever tickles your fancy. It's time to 'Man Up' and discuss with her about how you feel. To be honest I really don't think she is on the same planet as you...Who am I to say?

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 60 (view)

Best friends is now pal with cheating ex's fiancé. Whats going on? Posted: 2/20/2013 7:54:22 AM
The question must be asked..."How long did you and her date?" If she became engaged to a guy she was seeing after only 5 month's then I would be sceptical. I know where you are coming from When my ex left me I confided in my besty...every little detail, every emotion...then I found out she was sleeping with my ex!!! This guy who knew you would need your support is a people pleaser...Whoever has the best offer is the one he supports. To think you have known for 20 years?...You don't know him at all...He is NO friend of your's.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 9 (view)

How to Propose to a Man Posted: 2/20/2013 7:39:40 AM
I would propose to him the way I would like to be proposed to. A slow cruise by Gondola in Venice leading up to a pre arranged picnic where the water's end safely enough to embark. Away from the city light's...just the 2 of us...then whilst holding him in my arm's...I would ask him to marry me. If he said 'yes' then we would make love under the star's. If he said no then I would show him the bread knife I brought along for the picnic.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 5 (view)

Any advice all is welcome Posted: 2/18/2013 8:16:37 AM
Dislexic? Me don't think so. Me think's drunk friend wrote profile or perhap's even drunk OP wrote profile. "Wantingtoplay011"...You can change your user name and you can edit your profile. Look's like home schooling is not alway's the way to go. Who want's to turn their neck to view your pic's? Nobody in their right mind could take your profile seriously!

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 5 (view)

Obvious interest, but seems to avoid meeting. Posted: 2/18/2013 8:08:56 AM
Perhap's she is uncomfortable with her look's/weight? Have you seen pic's of her? Are the pic's up to date if you have seen some?

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 21 (view)

What should I do? Posted: 2/18/2013 8:04:33 AM
LiterateHiker.....Nice info there from Google on adolescents. The OP is not an Adolescent...he's 25 year's of age! From my own experience OP I was in fact in a relationship with a man 8 year's my junior. (He was 23 and I was 31). I was at the time single with 3 children...he was not when I met him. He made a decision to leave his g/f of 4 years to begin a relationship with me. On same day's he showed maturity and on other day's he showed immaturity...Most of us have this pattern regardless of our age. We lasted for 9 year's...most day's we were very happy. The night our relationship ended had nothing to do with age differences. I have had many younger guy's tell me that they can relate better toward's a mature woman more so then a young woman. What's the difference between a young woman and an older woman? Experience and understanding. There is nothing wrong with dating older women...it's only society that make's it an issue.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 105 (view)

What do you wish for your ex? Posted: 2/18/2013 7:31:14 AM
My wish has already come true...My ex has now realized after many year's that a 'religious sect' is a place where desperate people go to get sucked in. Thank heaven's it didn't destroy his life completely. He lost one family and eventually threw away the other. I sought of feel sorry for him in a way because his son's see him as an aquaintance...Kharma perhaps?

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 40 (view)

choosing between 2 women Posted: 2/16/2013 7:05:11 AM
Sam and I both had a kid in the time we were apart. ...So there is a 3rd person involved.....Your child. To refer to your child as a 'kid' is just an insult to the child. This is a no brainer.....Sam want's the limelight...she is playing on your feeling's. Sally on the other hand does not want to be serious with you...and quite frankly nor does Sam...Sam want's to make a point "I don't want you, but I also don't want anyone to have you"...kick both of them to the kurb and concentrate on raising your child.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 160 (view)

My wife cheated on me,I'm still married to her but now I'm looking Posted: 2/16/2013 6:44:02 AM
OP Every cheater or wanna be cheater has their story, trying to justify their need to cheat. If you had an open marriage sure...go for it. It appears you do not. Someone here said you had moral's by staying together for your children's sake...The children 'think' mum and dad are crazy about each other and have no idea that their marriage is falling apart. Let's face it YOU are here looking for a bit on the side. You know it's wrong but are hoping that some lonely, desperate, loveless woman will walk into your life and make things 'all better'. What happen's when this lonely woman threaten's to spill the bean's when she starts to get heavy and want's more? IF your not in love with your wife anymore then YOU need to take the necessary step's to leave the marriage. Your a very selfish person and have no regard for the woman you are about to persue.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 14 (view)

Marriage based on lust? Posted: 2/13/2013 7:56:24 AM
he's told me he was married for 18 years and the only thing that kept the marriage going was the sex. He stopped loving her about 5 years before they split ..I don't believe that for one second How can you be in a relationship for so long based purely on sex? How can you have good sex for so long with a person you have absolutely no emotions for? Why did they split in the end? I think it's a case of staying together for the sake of the kids and house...and having sex was on the side. OP you certainly don't look 60 I'll give you that and it may have cost you a lot of money to look wrinkle free but don't think for one minute that this guy see's you as a 20 year old...He brought up the subject of sex and you have not even met him yet! Chances are (If he is around your age...he maybe impotent) and is trying in vain to hold on to his sexual fantasies. Honestly he is trying to suss out your sexual desires...

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 67 (view)

giving in Posted: 2/3/2013 8:37:55 AM
Been on POF for almost a month, met a real nice guy ...This does not say that OP has been seeing/corresponding with this guy for a month...It say's OP has been on POF for a month. OP If you are not comfortable taking thing's to the next level then don't. If he is not prepared to wine and dine you and get to really know you then he is not worth it. Only a month on here and you found a date...good on you. It goes to show that if you hang around then you may just find yourself a good man and not a 'nice' man.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 101 (view)

Do you still love your ex? Posted: 2/3/2013 8:29:58 AM
No I don't still love my ex husband. I don't even see him as a friend just an aquaintance. The strange thing is that even my 3 son's see him 'as an aquaintance'. The ex husband catches up with his son's every other week (Their ages are 25,28,30)...they play golf together and he visit's his grandchildren. When the emotional arrow hit's any of my son's they come to me. When I suggest they talk thing's over with their father I get .....I can't talk to dad about thing's like this. That's pretty sad. Would I remarry this man? Yes I would...When hell freezes over.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 57 (view)

Anybody ever hear of a GF who refuses to go to a conert...EVER? Posted: 2/3/2013 8:20:18 AM
Mr Orionthehunter9...Firstly you need to find your sense of humour. At least I don't put 'Bacholer's Degree' on my profile...like every second person does. It's quite clear that this fellow's woman is not into concert's...Is that a crime? Here he is whining because she won't go to concert's with him. Perhap's she has a phobia with crowd's, or it just isn't her thing. It's just like hiking, camping, hunting,opera,ballet...We all have our like's and dislikes. She doesn't like concert's and OP need's to understand that not everybody likes the same thing's he likes.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 31 (view)

not used to being in a LTR anymore..how do I do it? Posted: 2/3/2013 8:07:42 AM
I had been on my lonesome for over 10 year's when I decided enough was enough when I met a rather charming man. The 'man' turned out to be a child in a man's body.....clingy, manipulative, controlling and very jealous and insecure. It lasted a whole 9 month's. This experience has put me back to where I was initially.....HAPPY! The void in my life has been replaced by spending more time with my family and friends and less time dating.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 50 (view)

Has Immigrants Affected the UK as much as it has in the US? Posted: 2/2/2013 7:31:21 AM
I live in Australia...My son (25 year's of age, working in the building industry, $ in the bank) cannot get a house to rent! The Sudanese arrive here...get a house, a government handout, new car and so on...Then we get our fellow New Zealander's. They come here to work at the mines...bring their family and BINGO have made a nice life for themselves. We (Australian's) have WAR Veteran's sleeping on park benches.....

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 12 (view)

Mr invisible Posted: 2/2/2013 7:11:45 AM
lonelyonetampa...Geez talk about once bitten... I am neither single nor committed ...You say yourself you don't want anything serious, so why are you here? For FUN? It took me about a good 6 month's on here before I actually decided to date.....I met a man who was quite clearly not over his ex and was banned from seeing his children. I met another who had a drinking problem, then there was the one who had financial difficulties, then there was the one who texted 50,000 times a day, then there was the one who thought he was 18 year's old and was in desperate need of a reality check...This is why these day's I just do the forum's! Sure some women on here want attention...most men on here want a physch!

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 45 (view)

Anybody ever hear of a GF who refuses to go to a conert...EVER? Posted: 2/2/2013 6:54:06 AM
Op...Don't you have any mates you can go 'concert' with? Your g/f has made it quite clear it's not her thing. she knew she would likely have to wait 5 days to see me a different day, so she would rather not see me then hang out at a concert for a few hours cause I was going either way. Ive just never heard of a thing .....Are you feeling bruised because she is not cooperating with YOUR need's and want's? My son's g/f doesn't go to his soccer matches because "It's not her thing"...She leaves him with the boy's and uses the time to visit her friend's.....Geez it's not a crime. He doesn't whinge and spit the dummy. As someone else suggested you sound controlling. So wipe away those crocodile tear's and man up. You don't need a can of "Harden UP" you need the industrial one..."Harden the Fu*k UP"

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 58 (view)

Should I keep seeing this guy? Posted: 2/2/2013 6:32:29 AM
^^^Don't forget the "Booty who doesn't want to meet your family or doesn't give a sh*t about your day"

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 48 (view)

Should I keep seeing this guy? Posted: 2/1/2013 9:17:13 AM
You are a separated woman who has introduced your children to a man you see "Off and on"...Red flag number 1 You hang out at HIS place quite often however he does not want to hang out at YOUR place...Red flag number 2. I would like to go on a date once and a while. ...Red flag number 3. he says I just want to be alone tonight and I have to cancel sorry. ...Red flag number 4. So I am starting to have doubts about where the relationship is going ...There appears to be just ONE relationship here and it's a sexual relationship. The guy is quite clearly 'using' you for sex and you are allowing this to happen! Don't continue this and hope it changes because it won't. Think about your children.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 81 (view)

He refuses to take any blame! Posted: 2/1/2013 8:54:50 AM
I was in a five year relationship with a pathological liar. .....Five year's is a long time to stay with a liar. Still it was your choice. He continued to chastise me and play games with me, one day wanting me back and the next name calling and treating me like dirt. Bought you a kitten? This man is manipulative and making you feel guilty. You should not have moved in with him so suddenly. I hope you learn to choose between a caring person and a controlling arse wipe. A caring person would not try to 'buy you'. If you REALLY wanted him out of your life then you would do what ever was necessary...Get a new cell number, move address...unless you are telling us and yourself that he really loves you and got extremely jealous of you being with someone else. This is something you should have discussed BEFORE you moved in with him and when he showed jealousy tendencies YOU should have moved out!

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 13 (view)

Former Girlfriend Is My Best Friend Posted: 2/1/2013 8:37:23 AM
SEVERAL WOMEN I'VE MET ON POF HAVE TOLD ME THAT I'M MUCH BETTER LOOKING IN PERSON THAN ON MY PROFILE ...Well good on them. Your friend obviously doesn't feel the same way or else she would have made her move by now. You have been friends 'for a couple/few years' and NOW you realize you maybe attracted to her? I think your standard's bar is too high...lower it and see people for who they really are not what you want them to be.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 44 (view)

Why is my ex girlfriend behaving like this? Posted: 1/3/2013 7:48:02 AM
the conversations (started by me ...Why are you still texting your ex? Are you suffering from the old "We can still be friends" thing? She is being polite in answering your text's but clearly she is not interested in your life and wishes to continue on with her life. We have arranged to meet for coffe ...Why? What do you mean by . I am not sure how things are going to go ? It's coffee! Are you expecting more than coffee?

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 9 (view)

End it? Posted: 12/2/2012 8:08:38 AM
From your history you said you stopped dating this guy in August because he could not show affection...Yet here you are 3 odd months later still with him and he is still the same as he was 3 months ago??? He doesnt like staying the night. ...I find this disturbing. I also find the fact that you say It is usually up to me to make plans to meet. You are investing way too much into this 'relationship' ...Does HE even know it's a relationship he's in? Stop wasting yout time on someone who doesn't give a crap about you.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 26 (view)

She wants to wear a tux and be a groomsman at the wedding!!! Posted: 12/2/2012 7:55:00 AM
my nephew wants his cousin in his wedding but not as a bridemaid but as a groomsman. .....This is the wedding of your nephew and his bride to be. If they are ok with the arrangement then why are you so troubled? It's THEIR day not your's, so butt out of their arrangements and accept their friend's and relative's for who they are and not what YOU want them to be.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 61 (view)

My wife cheated on me,I'm still married to her but now I'm looking Posted: 12/2/2012 7:42:49 AM
Op Op...Come out where ever you are! You started this thread and then disappeared! Let's take a look at your revised profile I'm 45 and married and want to stay that way. ...BUT you are looking for LONG TERM. You have no profile pic, want to stay married (even though your wife cheated on you some four year's ago).....I have my doubt's about that and would not be surprised if it were the other way around. It seeem's you were with your sweetheart for 10 years before you had children together. Man up...Face poster's on this thread you started and be honest with yourself.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 75 (view)

Asking for hot pics and not meeting Posted: 12/1/2012 8:23:50 AM
You have enough pic's on your profile so why would you want to send more to a person who has contacted you? You say in your profile that you are into nature, yet NO nature shot's??? All of your pic's are staged...Hair and makeup all perfect. Step down from your step of perfection and show the real natural you. There is no doubt you are very attractive, but are you a 'show pony'?

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 109 (view)

Plenty Of G/fs but never a long terms result! Posted: 12/1/2012 8:11:57 AM
I'm gonna take some things off my POF profile and see if that changes things. ...You can start by putting up a nice pic of yourself, instead of a half nude shot. Seem's you are looking for a woman who has the same interests as you and that's fair enough. What you fail to see is that mostwomen around your age or younger, generally have custody of their children and their world is revolved around their children. Your ex wife I assume has custody of your child, so this free's YOU up to go traveling etc. My ex lived the 'travelling oversea's life' whilst I was committed to remain at home with our 3 children. It wasn't AGE that stopped me from travelling, it was a thing called responsibility. YOU need to sort out your priorities. What do you consider long term? As a previous poster pointed out 5 long term relationships in 7 years?

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 18 (view)

When a female co-worker says the following to you... Posted: 11/25/2012 6:26:14 AM
OP You don't exactly tell us what your conversation's are about. For her to call you a player must mean that you have spoken about several women you have been with and they didn't work out. I guess it'a a matter of too much information. Girl's don't like it when they are compared to other's and they don't appreciate your life's history with women you have been randomly associated with.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 10 (view)

Plenty Of G/fs but never a long terms result! Posted: 11/25/2012 6:10:00 AM
I just don't get approached by older women and to be fair find them a bit.....well, dull! .....I had to laugh at this Romeo. Take a look at your setting's! Women your age cannot contact you because you have your setting's set at 6 year's younger than yourself! You boast about having a second wife 24 year's younger than you...that didn't last...Maybe she couldn't compete with such a stud. You may think you look younger than what you really are but, truth be told you don't!. Yes I write this in frustration because the only real love you will ever have is for yourself. Not every woman is into a shirtless man with false teeth!

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 6 (view)

My wife cheated on me,I'm still married to her but now I'm looking Posted: 11/23/2012 7:33:55 AM
So let me see OP.....Your wife cheated on you 4 year's ago and now it is time for payback? Why the delay? You say "I could not understand her not thinking about looosing our family" Here is a little snip from your profile I want to be secretely part of their life and them mine. I would also like to share very discrete love affair that would be long term. ...Are YOU not doing the SAME thing? It seem's this marriage was over 4 year's ago, but you both remain in it for whatever reason.....Financial comes to mind.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 15 (view)

what should i do in this situation? Posted: 11/23/2012 7:14:36 AM
the girl im talking to feels threatened by the other bcus shes really pretty. ...The girl you are talking to seem's to be very insecure about herself. This type of persona can end up being very controlling and jealous and alway's needing reassurance. Given that she is probably around the same age as you (20) it's not surprising. She is a young woman competing with other young women, but not realising she has her own unique qualities...one of which has caught your attention! She need's to accept who she is and as a great man once wrote "if you compare yourself with other's then you may become vain and bitter, for alway's there will be greater and lesser person's than yourself".....

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 75 (view)

Ex-girlfriend won't give back deceased mothers ring Posted: 11/22/2012 8:30:46 AM
I gave her my recently deceased mothers ring, it didn't really mean anything except "hey, I like you enough to give you this thing that means a lot to me" kind of thing. ....You used your deceased mother's ring as a sympathy ploy hoping that she would 'feel the same way as you did'. How can you say it didn't really mean anything . It obviously meant a lot to you. Now she is seeing the ring as a 'gift' and does not have any obligation to return it. What did the ring really mean to you? IF my deceased mother left me a ring...I would give it to nobody. The sentimental value of the ring would be enough to make it 'off limit's' to anyone. She's a 'poor' college student.....So buy the ring back! I'm a bit confused about the So we start having problems and decide just to be friends. ...Yet you still appear to be living together...leading separate lives. Why is she at your house having dinner when you are livid about the ring? Forget the "What YOU did for her".....We only hear YOUR side...I'm sure she did thing's for you too! Nothing in life is free.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 11 (view)

What if O.J. didn’t do it? Posted: 11/21/2012 8:30:06 AM
There is alway's that "What if it didn't happen like that". People voice their opinion, the Media get's excited BUT only the killer know's the truth. We all have our "What if they didn't do it cases"...Here in Australia it's the 'Azaria Chainberlain' case and in America it is the 'OJ Simpson' case. Truth is nobody really know's. We can make assumptions and, go with our gut or listen to the media voicing their opinion. So many innocent people have been put to death YET other's who are guilty get to continue on with their lives. Jury's have sent innocent people to die. There have been cases where a jurer did not think a person committed a crime YET felt under pressure by other jurer's so went with the flow. The same scene can be put in reverse where one jurer may think the guy/gal is guilty BUT doesn't speak up due to peer pressure. If you asked me? Yes I think he is guilty and I also think that a Dingo did not take Azaria...Based on what I have heard from the media.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 27 (view)

My rear vision mirror fell off. Lol. Posted: 11/21/2012 8:10:43 AM
Just drive around like the guy who almost ripped my car door off reversing into a parking space next to my stationary car. He said to me..."Oh I think we are BOTH at fault here"...How do you figure that out? Your car is verging on VINTAGE so get it repaired properly, especially if you keep it in Prestine condition.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 4 (view)

Chickens/Chooks Posted: 11/19/2012 4:54:28 PM
Thank you for your replies, it's been very helpful. The 2 older girl's are white (don't know the breed) and the chicks are Isa Brown's. I ushered them out of the coop this morning but, they ran straight back inside!

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 100 (view)

Friends with benefits rules Posted: 11/19/2012 8:56:42 AM
cos for 6 months my friend stupidly started an fwb with her ex, 3 weeks ago i saw him on a date and happened to mention it to her, not knowing she had been sleeping with him, ...Of course you knew she was sleeping with him...That's what a FWB is. It's none of your business anyway. You would probably handle things differently...That's YOU. SHE know's there is no committment...He's her ex and has made no promises. IF she see's thing's differently then perhap's she should talk to him and stop sleeping with him.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 1 (view)

Chickens/Chooks Posted: 11/19/2012 8:41:26 AM
I have 2 three year old hen's who usually sleep in their coop at night. I have recently aquired 2 chicks (about 3 months old) who now sleep in the coop and won't leave the coop. I close the coop door at night so the 'older' hen's don't go in there. IF I allowed all four to sleep in the coop would it be safe for my little chicks to have the older ones with them? None of them have 'met' each other...even though the coop is open during the day...The young one's won't venture out. My question is "Are the older hen's a danger to my young girl's?" I understand there is a 'pecking' order, but I would love for all of them together on their perches and would be prepared to leave the coop open at night if I knew the older hen's would be 'nice'. Any advice would be appreciated!

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 17 (view)

Why do women post this on their profile page? Posted: 11/14/2012 7:12:56 AM
Let's see OP...You are 62 and have a Master's degree, yet you cannot figure this one out? Your profile is full of crap, and you have no pic to back it up. Your either a very lonely man or a man who is in a 'used by date' marriage (I think the latter). Perhap's you were trying to contact women that state on their profile.....NOT LOOKING FOR AN INTIMATE ENCOUNTER...and can't get through!

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 14 (view)

How long do I wait? Posted: 11/14/2012 7:01:57 AM
Firstly OP 'welcome' to the Pond where the hungry sharks have been awaiting your arrival. I must disagree with Msg 10 So she has a habit of jumping from relationship to relationship .....OP has stated that this woman was in a very serious relationship before she met him, so I fail to see where the above quote comes from. OP does not say how long he has been dating this woman...This is crutial to know because it can determine whether this maybe a rebound situation. she needed time to figure her own stuff out and when we first started dating she wasn't sure if she was ready to just jump back into a relationship .....Why can't people accept the fact that other's do in FACT need time to evaluate what is going on in their life? I say give her the space she need's, let her think and try and get her head together. If you don't give her the time she ask's for then she could well and truly put you in the "Too hard" basket. Not every request for time alone mean's a split is on the horizon. Have a listen to the band "Chicargo".....Everybody need's a little time away". Somewhere somehow someone felt the way you do right now and wrote this song! I would pull the plug after a month.

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 50 (view)

Advice - we got in to a huge fight and she broke up with me and she immediatley had sex with someone Posted: 11/14/2012 6:42:14 AM
This August we got in to a huge fight and she broke up with me. .....Depending on what the fight was about it's debatable about who was disrespecting who. She immediatley had sex with someone she must have been hanging out with for about a month that I did not know about. .....My ex once told me that it didn't take me long to start dating again and he was right. It took just 3 week's for me to date again...The grapevine said 2 day's. I was not going to put my life on hold because he thought it disrespectful. He was the one who left because he could not handle me mourning my father's passing and told me after two day's of his death that "I should be over it by now".....Then he left! Point is unless we know what you argued about which was enough for her to leave you then, it's difficult to even answer this thread. It's easy to say "We argued, SHE broke up with ME and she went with someone else". In my case I was never going to get back with my ex, maybe she had the same thought? she started ignoring my calls at night time .....What about day time? Did you ever call her during the day? Sorry OP but I think there is more to this than you are telling us. You come across as "Mr Innocent" but I think you are leaving a lot out of your story and exaggering a few things.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 91 (view)

Should women accept money from men... Posted: 11/10/2012 7:50:21 AM
NOTHING in life is" free".

anaustralianwoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 19 (view)

a wheelchair and its affect on females Posted: 11/7/2012 7:53:16 AM
op girls dont like guys in wheelchairs im sorry bro ...I'll take a guy in a wheelchair over a guy that hold's a gun any day. Good for you OP.....you are holding a gun because you enjoy hunting and you repair guns for a living!! If people have a problem with that they can sh1t and slide in it. ...That's pretty good advice, BUT I think OP is looking for a woman and not a MAN. I would never meet a person I have seen posing with a gun...Gun's kill. There is no skill involved. See an animal OR person and pull a trigger...A cowardly way to hunt. As for a person wheelchair bound.....Not a problem if I found a connection with them. I work with wheelchair bound people and I dated a wheelchair bound guy.....His motor bike met with a ditch some year's earlier BUT he still knew how to please a woman. Unfortunately the drug's got to him and his life went haywire. If you are confident OP and not depressed then your confidence will shine through.....Keeping in mind that your depression will also shine through.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 11 (view)

a wheelchair and its affect on females Posted: 11/6/2012 8:10:54 AM
I have an insight toward's 'wheelchair bound' people and I see a bit of 'extra' work is required, however I don't like people holding gun's......You have a shot gun in your profile...Why? This can be a turn off for women...Why does a man need to hold a shot gun in his hands? Please don't turn hunting into "Need to eat"...It'a a sport and most women don't like it. Never use your chair as a reason to not meet someone. You have already stated that some women HAVE dated you, so where does the chair come into play?

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 51 (view)

What would you do? Posted: 11/6/2012 7:23:06 AM
True it does say single, but my status is clearly known. .....To who? I'm happy you have changed your profile to 'Divorced' BUT you say you are 'Seeking a relationship' and 'Looking for a true genuine honest man'.....Good luck with that one. Are you not in a relationship already? To be honest I think YOU see this thing as a relationship but I don't think he does.....You need to talk with this man.

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 3 (view)

What would you do? Posted: 11/5/2012 7:34:40 AM
YOUR on here listed as 'Single', so what's your point?

AnAustralianWoman

Joined: 4/26/2012

Msg: 196 (view)

Do these statements mean she is materialistic? Red flag? Posted: 11/5/2012 7:32:04 AM
Wow OP Here you are disecting a woman because she know's what she want's. Let's take a piece from your profile..... I believe in ACCEPTING PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE rather than who they arn't . It appear's YOU have your own guide lines when it come's to dating. You are looking for women up to the age of 37 YET you are 45! True Love win's over poor, disabled and aged. It sound's like you are pursuing a very young and independant woman and I wish you luck, but I think the age groper will win in the end!

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