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Divorce: I Need Help!!!
Posted: 1/25/2006 6:29:18 PM | you think thats bad read this:
I moved here around a year or so ago to fort Morgan, Colorado. I met a gal in front of the library park on our bikes. We rode our bikes for three days and just talked about our lives and our experiences which I found very intriguing and it caught my interest.
So we started a relationship together it went well from the start as time went on I became the general manager of fort Morgan sonic. There was a period of time where she was doing great with lots of smiles then there were times where she had fits I mean more than the normal person would have them.
One day she yelled at me during work which made every body say what the heck you doing with her I stated I loved her very much.
She became pregnant she threw a phone at me so I pressed charges for domestic abuse, we split up that was the first time. And she stayed at her fathers then I modified the order for us to have contact due to the fact she was pregnant and we decided that our child needed a mother and a father in the home but I didn’t lift it all the way just incase future problems arose.
She moved back in with me in my home in fort Morgan she threw fits and she would walk off I didn’t care about that but one day she stated that she was going to go and kill our child I notified the police about the problem and the sheriffs picked her up and brought her back home.
So we had to move into my mothers house next door and while we were over there my sister came up for Christmas to visit and she even noticed my fiancé at the time was even trying to order and control me.
We then moved here to brush, Colorado.
While here in brush her attitude got worse she found a full time job, told me that she would like me to stay home with my son so he could get to know me I was working at the time, so I had to quit work since there needed to be somebody to take care of our child.
Yes her job is going well I think but when she started work or even before, she would not clean or do laundry and when ever I offered to help she would yell at me and get upset she even went to the point of breaking out our bed room windows while I was out side trying some new sand paper, another time she put her head into the baby’s bedroom door, only because I took the diapers out of the bag and put them on the shelf.
The last time she got upset at the fish tank cause she spilt some water on the floor and she threw a pot on the kitchen floor real hard and ruined it I still have the pot. Now she wanted to end the relationship between her and I about a week later.
The way I found out is that she didn’t come home from work one day so I called a friend and he told me that she called from our friends house that babysat our son.
So I went over there and talked to our sitter and she stated that she was nowhere to be found so we talked further. She stated the she was afraid that the Childs mother was going to come back and take our son and go somewhere with nowhere to be found.
So that statement alone put me in defense mode so I told our sitter in her living room that I was not going to allow her to involve our son in this that he does not need the instability. So I put him in the back seat of the car and drove home. After I got half way home I seen her racing after me, I drove in the driveway of where I live.
Our sons mother got out of our sitters car and got our son into the sitters backseat of the car the police were called and the house was dirty cause she wouldn’t let me help her clean it or even help do laundry.
So D.H.S. came over we signed a safety action plan that we would let the sitter keep my son over at her house till I could clean up and we both agreed with the plan. To this day he has not returned home yet
I’m getting supervised visitation which it should be the other way around, cause the courts gave her temporary custody. So I have been visiting our son on camera and tape which I also have been taping the visits to with my mini tape recorder.
One more note D.H.S. has been involved with her and I since our child was born, which I wont go into why cause it would take to much space but I can tell you that it was over a rumor that I don’t think was true in anyway possible but it is making me think.
So may you please ask your readers to comment on my slight problem I’m dealing with.
dang im glad she is out of my life now hopfuly i can finde a decent woman that will treat me right | | | |
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