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Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 6/27/2008 6:44:32 PM | try asking someone with the condition instead ! LIKe me ! Yes i have the condition and have had it for 20 years . my partner who i met on this site incidently loves me and deals with me well ! the way to deal with someone with this condition is a great understanding and alot of thoughtfulness . we dont ask for this condition nor do we enjoy this condition ! All i can say is my partner ignores me when i am at my worst and humours me .this often gets me back on track . he is a special guy with great understanding we met as friends and talked for a long time before we dated .I completely trust him and he makes me feel secure and that is generally what we need . We dont need bad publicity as i have read in these threads we are human we just have a medical condition. We dont enjoy having it and we dont mean alot of what we do or say . we want the same as anyone else to be loved and trusted to find the man / woman of our dreams who will love us reguardless I acknoweledged my problem and take the relevant medication and will have it for the rest of my life but circumstances of my life gave me this condition i wasnt born with it ! My best advice talking is the best thing in the world and alot of understanding but someone who sees past this slight problem is the person you need to be with ! | | | |
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