online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

     
Posted In Forum:
Home   login   MyForums  
Show ALL Forums  
 
 Author Thread: Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder)
 clairedaloo
Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 409 (view)
 
Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder)
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:55:56 PM
and by the way i am a leo
 clairedaloo
Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 407 (view)
 
Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder)
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:44:32 PM
try asking someone with the condition instead !
LIKe me !
Yes i have the condition and have had it for 20 years .
my partner who i met on this site incidently loves me and deals with me well !
the way to deal with someone with this condition is a great understanding and alot of thoughtfulness .
we dont ask for this condition nor do we enjoy this condition !
All i can say is my partner ignores me when i am at my worst and humours me .this often gets me back on track .
he is a special guy with great understanding we met as friends and talked for a long time before we dated .I completely trust him and he makes me feel secure and that is generally what we need .
We dont need bad publicity as i have read in these threads we are human we just have a medical condition.
We dont enjoy having it and we dont mean alot of what we do or say .
we want the same as anyone else to be loved and trusted to find the man / woman of our dreams who will love us reguardless
I acknoweledged my problem and take the relevant medication and will have it for the rest of my life but circumstances of my life gave me this condition i wasnt born with it !
My best advice talking is the best thing in the world and alot of understanding but someone who sees past this slight problem is the person you need to be with !
 clairedaloo
Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Running the numbers - marriages vs. LTR's
Posted: 6/13/2007 9:09:54 AM
yes i suppose when u find out someone has been married several occassions it is a put of but there also could be reasons for it .In todays world i suppose there r more reasons than one . its easy to say there not new to the concept but they r in a way nobody nows wat the future holds or wether the fact marriage does change some things .somethings are not always that persons fault .
everyone in life deserves to find there perfect match and its about trial and error i ve been in two marriages and one long term relationship but that does nt mean i cant substain a relationship or failed to make it work .
people who think that way are nt looking at the fuller picture.
you have to c that persons reasoning for the breakdowns wether it was a marriage or ltr
 
Show ALL Forums