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 Author Thread: Saying Good Bye To a Child...
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Saying Good Bye To a Child...
Posted: 5/24/2009 10:45:44 AM
I just want to say that I am so sorry for the pain that your family is having to go thru. Having worked with adults with specials needs and having a special needs child myself I would never judge for the hard choice that you have had to make. You know what is best for you and your family.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Is it just me
Posted: 5/22/2009 10:38:01 PM
The worst has to be the guy that cried on our first date or was it the guy that told me he had spent 4 years in couseling for anger management that I went out with this evening.

Lets see so on my last 2 dates I have had my worst 2 dates ever. I am having great luck.
With the guy that cried thou I did get to hear some great music.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Unreasonable Request?
Posted: 5/22/2009 5:20:01 PM
I have been in this situation and I told him where he could go. Im sorry but if you are confident person it should not matter what your gf/bf wears or if they go out with a ex.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..?
Posted: 5/22/2009 3:36:16 AM
Just because I have started to date you does not give you the right to know everything about me. Now I dont care about if the person Im dating sees whats in my phone and yes you will see guys numbers and if that upsets the person he would just have to get over it. My best friend is my ex. We will never get back together but he is my best friend but we do text and chat. If I dated a guy and he flipped out because I had texts from guys I would let him know that they were friends and if he could not trust me that
It would be the end of the relationship. I want someone who trusts me.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Single Mother of 4
Posted: 5/20/2009 10:13:05 PM
You are very young and have had 4 children-which is a turn off to alot of men

You talked about your ex like he was trash-that is a turn off for guys from what my guy friends tell me.

Maybe you just need to be mom for awhile and work on yourself. It sounds like you are still dealing with the pain that your ex has caused you and I know that a new partner does not like having to deal with the ex issue when it still sounds like it is all very raw to you.

That being said if it is meant to be you will find someone.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 184 (view)
 
Guns...how young is too young?
Posted: 5/20/2009 9:44:54 PM
i do not think that 6 is to young to shoot a gun. I was taught in my home to respect guns. My dad taught me how to shoot a gun when I was 9 and my brother was 6. There were loaded guns kept in my home from the time I was born. It is about how you are taught. I was taught that you respect a gun. My dad had guns because that was how he feed his family was from hunting. I think it is all about respecting a weapon and knowing what can happen if it is used in the wrong manner.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Cash For Sex
Posted: 5/20/2009 8:33:32 PM
I dont see what the big deal is. So she made a little money giving a guy a bj. Who cares? It wasnt my money.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 523 (view)
 
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 8:11:41 PM
I dont see what the big deal is. I have never had a problem with guy I was with looking at a cute girl. Hell I look to.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 90 (view)
 
How can you tell you are over someone?
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:52:19 PM
I called and talked to my best friend about this one( who is my ex-fiancee)

We agreed that when you can talk to them about their new boyfriend/girlfriend and not want to

A. hurt them again like they have hurt you
B. cry your eyes out

We also agree that when you can tell them that you wish for them to be happy and that is all that you want for them and really mean that that you are over them

Dont get me wrong thou. You can be over them but still love them. I will always love my ex. He is my bestfriend and we had to go thru alot to get to that point. You can love someone and not be in love with them. You can still be friends but know that you are not meant to be each with each other.

Most of all it takes time and dont let anyone tell you that you should be over someone. We all heal in our own time. Dont let anyone rush you.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Dating single women with children.
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:17:09 PM
I dont think that your being selfish at all. I think that you know what is best for you right now. That is way better than getting into a relationship with a women who is a single mom and then having major conflict because of her children.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 1553 (view)
 
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 5/20/2009 6:35:26 PM
I would not date anyone that smokes pot. Not because I think that it is wrong because I do think that it should be legal, but because I am allergic to it for some reason.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 135 (view)
 
WER'S DA MOS FREAKY PLACE U'V EVA HAD SEX????????
Posted: 5/15/2009 8:25:15 PM
I would guess in the graveyard on a tombstone. Damn I was drunk that night
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
It was all good until....
Posted: 5/15/2009 10:34:17 AM
He asked me if he could wear my bra.
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 421 (view)
 
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2007 2:04:57 PM
hell yes it is cheating. It will be a cold day in hell when I tell my boyfriend sure honey its ok if she gives you head just dont **** her
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 104 (view)
 
question on sex and first date?
Posted: 5/8/2007 2:01:29 PM
If your really feeling the other person why the hell not
 souldolphindream
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Nudists
Posted: 5/8/2007 1:50:55 PM
I guess that I was just raised were its not really a big deal to be naked. I find that I really dont care if someone sees me naked big deal I was born that way. I think that everyone has a right to there own opinion. Just because you have seen me naked doesnt mean that anyone know me and i can still be a mystery. Vicky
 
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