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When does hangout turn to dating? Posted: 1/4/2009 8:47:40 PM
Hmmmm, that's a tough one.....I would say that if you have kissed someone....you are on a date:)

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Your pattern to commitment.... Posted: 1/4/2009 8:46:09 PM
I'm not sure I follow the question?

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 1/4/2009 8:43:58 PM
Because you have to date man people to find the right person, and as lond as exclusivity hasn't been discussed....and agred upon, it's fine. Gosh...I would feel a lot of pressure acepting a date if I thought that it meant that I had to be exclusive immed!

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copied profile...creepy? Posted: 1/4/2009 8:39:58 PM
That is super creepy! imo.....

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Is he married??? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:35:45 AM
I don't try to reach him by phoe.....my phone doesn't call Mexico. Sometimes I think that there is a rather long delay between phone calls. I just think that if there was not a wife, he would have called me last nigh to say "of course not!" Even that could have been a lie, but when he didn't call......I didn"t know what else to think.

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Is he married??? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:16:54 AM
umm, if he's married......I'll see him, let me think.......never!!!!:) He was supposed to fly here (Boston) from Mexico next week for a visit, but he has some 'splaining to do, and he doesn't seem to be trying, so I'm thinking.......married.

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Is he married??? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:12:41 AM
But my question is.........do you think he's married? That really is my only question right now.

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Is he married??? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:10:57 AM
Umm, I totally care. I 1. don't want to waste my time 2. have morals and would NEVER want to date someone else's husband. I'm not looking for a thrill ride...but to each his own.

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Is he married??? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:02:50 AM
So I met a very handsome and wealthy man in Miami, who seemed to be very into me. He wanted to fly me to Mexico (where he is from) or Miami for a visit. Instead he is coming here (because I could not make it to either city, and wanted him to do the traveling). We last say each other 3 weeks ago, and he has emailed almost every day a few times a day (brief) and called a few times too. He tends to write at times that are during his workday. Also I asked him for his address to send a thank you and he gave me his work address. My friend and I started to talk about all of this last night, and I wanted to see if he would call me late at night so I texted him at 11pm his time and said: I have a question, can you call me please? He responded right away: can I call you tomorrow? I am in a meeting in my office. I wrote back: A metting? At 11pm...with who. I didn't get a response so I wrote back: I wonder if you might be married....are you? No response. Could it be anything but? Was I crazy to ask? I feel like if he was not, he would have sent me a quick text saying no, I'll call you torrow....anyone have any thoughts?

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/21/2007 8:22:48 PM
I think he'll call, and if he doesn't, there's always someone else. Actually, they are aready in place!

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/21/2007 11:22:06 AM
Okay......sorry to be so need for advice but:)...I have not hear from him since Thursday night, and now it's Monday....I am going to let him contact me because he said that his work is very, very busy right now....but....should I feel like I am getting blown off?

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/21/2007 5:06:30 AM
Well, I think that I can gather from the fact that he is visiting (is and only if.....) he shows up, that he is interested. With men, you never know though....they could be willing to fly long distance for some ahem.....action. Of which he won't be seeing any anyway.... I'm not conceited, but yes, I am aware that people find me attractive. I've done acting and modeling so it's just all part of that, not a big deal. I am the girl with the brown hair by the way, I thought that people would gather that from my profile as it says that I have brown hair:) He hasn't called since Thursday night so we'll see what happens. I think it's a bit funny that he let the whole weekend go by without calling (note to self)

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 6:19:04 PM
yes, he could be a player....but so could anyone. It's a tough one, because usually people of like levels of attractiveness are attracted to each other.....so the person I'm with is probably going to be pretty cute....

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 6:16:51 PM
I think that you're right. Just because you are incredibly wealthy (and hot) does not mean that you are not lonely. I think that it would be reasonable to think that I am on par with him as far as being a total package. I'm educated, have class, and am attractive myself (or so I have been told:) Who knows if he has issues with committment....it seems like that is exactly what he is looking for, which was one of the reasons that I was a bit surprised he does not call more. I thought that he would want to keep tabs on me when I was away from him. His priority is definitly running his company (which of course it should be). I guess only time will tell, but I am letting him pursue me. I guess that will illustrate whether or not he is truly interested....

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 4:48:36 PM
I think that you are probably right, but how do you know these things? From what I told you, how do you know that he is a commitmentphobe? I was hoping that they were only in America ....seriously. I guess it's a worldwide thing though. Is there any way that he could not be one? I know that I'm just grasping at straws, but I would love to have a romance....the problem is that I will wind up getting my heart broken.....that is just so me... I wish that life were not so complicated!

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 2:32:34 PM
I think that your right, and that's the thing. There is no way that he knows who I am to fall in love with me. The outside stuff is not love. Yes, I think that he is infatuated and it's quite possible that he would fall in love just as fast as he would fall out. I know because I've had it happen before and that is why I am just so suspect of this whole thing. I think on one hand I try to reason and say "there is a lot about me to love....but he doesn't know it yet." You are probably right about your hunch (marriage) because within a day or two of meeting me he was already talking about marriage and my moving to mexico (to which I said that I was rooted here, and how in the world could he talk about marriage?" Still, I'm a fool for a (seeming) prince charming, but I don't think that they exist (not in that fairy tale weay at least)

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 2:07:15 PM
I guess I have no way of knowing for sure, but I do not believe (in any way) that he could be a drug king. He owns a legit business....

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 2:05:36 PM
I don't think that he's a lonely guy at all....he is very good looking, and very wealthy. Think yacht. I could care less whether he has a yacht or not, but the fact of the matter is he does very well. When I speak to him, he is very into me, yes, I can tell that. I can't call him,my phone does't call Mexico. I guess guys just don't always call as much as we would like.....but when he does call, it's great..

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 1:36:29 PM
Do most guys call or write every day.....or do they try to play it cool like girls?

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 1:18:27 PM
He's actually flyin to Boston from Mexico....so yes, there must be at least some interest. The love think is weird. There is just no way that someone who just met me could love me....maybe he's confusing love with lust...

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 12:59:39 PM
Oh, by the way.....I'm not the one "falling in love...." he said te amo to me.....spanish for "I love you" I am always a little suspect of when guys say thigs like that right away...

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 12:58:10 PM
I agree with you Ron. I really don't know what I think about him yet. Obviously I am interested or I wouldn't be asking about him, but who knows if he would be good for me. It's just so easy to wonder what the other person thinks of you. I am very much a lady and reserved, so he is not under the impression that there will be alot of "action" once he gets here (now will there be:) I was just curious if that is normal for men. Do they usually call or email every day when they are really interested, or do they space it out a bit?

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Could he be for real? falling in love... Posted: 5/20/2007 12:38:09 PM
Recently I met a very good looking man while in Miami for the weekend. He hung out with my friends and I, and expressed interest in seeing me again either in Miami, or in Mexico. He lives in both... I told him that I was too busy to travel to either for a while, and he asked if he could visit my city (Boston). Nothing physical happened during our time together (just a kiss) and he said that he was very, very interested in me. Since my return home he has texted me several times a day, and called as well (it's been just over a week) The last time we spoke was Thursday night. He told me that night that he would be visiting Boston on June 1st (to see me). I feel like if he were really into me he would call more, but on the other hand, I think that men probably really can't stand to be on the phone... Does it mean that he might be really interested if he's willing to fly 7 hours to see me (and stay in a hotel?

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