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 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Inappropriate text from wife to man at work
Posted: 8/12/2012 2:00:34 AM
The guy isn't bi, I think he is gay. and your wife is in love with him. probably.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
My bf won't stop talking about his ex...
Posted: 8/11/2012 4:30:47 AM
If you haven't learnt this already, I'll tell ya. The passive approach doesn't always work. Sometimes you need to assert yourself, not sit back timidly. You need to command respect. This guy knows what he's doing, unless he's a complete idiot. In that case... well, you know what to do. :)
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Guy texts to cancel date on me 15 mins before meeting time
Posted: 8/3/2012 8:23:36 AM
The OP probably has two accounts, considering the info.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 422 (view)
 
Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 8/3/2012 7:40:46 AM
I wish I was a submissive woman, because it looks cruisy as. Don't have to do anything. Hell yeah! But I can't help but feel slightly aggitated with someone telling me what's what? How do switch off?? Do I drink too much water or what? :O
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Dating and messing around
Posted: 8/3/2012 6:41:50 AM
So every time you asked her out she said "I dunno, I guess so". Then she invites you to dinner and says she "messed around" with some dude. Hell is that? Tell her you don't want to see her again, sounds like a bunch of crap. Why are you asking this question?
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
found out woman is actually married!!
Posted: 7/30/2012 8:25:43 AM
Why don't you ask if she is actually still married before acting out your level 3 stalker tendancies.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Friends with Benefits... Found someone Else
Posted: 7/30/2012 8:20:17 AM
I gotta have to agree with deerdog. Sad but true. Don't say anything, why ruin something that could be great? Can't belive you even asked this question actually!! No way in hell do you tell him this. Don't even mention ex- boyfriends, let alone that!
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Sexiest Song
Posted: 7/24/2012 1:39:19 AM
I'm going to check back to this thread alot and make a burnt CD with them all on it! Feel free to add more! :D
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 72 (view)
 
he says he wants more, but doesnt show it?
Posted: 7/20/2012 9:25:17 PM
This isn't love or even like. What a waste of energy you put into this guy for small returns- and bad qaulity returns at that.

You will have to find out on your own, what you already know. It's your ego, you're trying to redeem yourself- like some sort of challenge. But the challenge has no real rewards. What a huge waste of time. You've got to be very clear in your mind and in your actions what it is you want and don't want. If you are not getting that, you have got to leave and stick with it. That is all.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
my date is flirt with me not serious I think
Posted: 7/20/2012 12:27:06 AM
He is being an idiot.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 27 (view)
 
keeps creating new profiles to message me
Posted: 7/19/2012 10:46:47 AM
Tell him you were born male and yet to get the chop. That oughto sort them out!
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Sexiest Song
Posted: 7/19/2012 4:57:43 AM
Some interesting selections here (ie Cannibal Corpse 'Effing the Knife' or whatever...ooookkkkaaaaaay then). Lol but other then that, very insightful ! ;)
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 135 (view)
 
50 Shades of Grey
Posted: 7/19/2012 4:53:56 AM
I read some reviews and what I gather it's about some really rich hot guy that likes bdsm. Some chick has a crush on him. They do BDSM.

So naturally, I went to the bookstore and just read the rude bits. BORING! However, I will watch the movie as, it does have sex scenes and I'm immature like that.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
man on top 69
Posted: 7/19/2012 4:45:26 AM
Never liked 69 man on top, not because of being trapped (I'm not claustophobic) I just don't like butt in my face.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Six Months Later
Posted: 7/19/2012 4:23:20 AM
^^True. I also thought the same thing when I read "left one day before Valentine's Day". That's a bit sus.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Six Months Later
Posted: 7/19/2012 12:04:41 AM
Well, if you didn't marry her or have kids after almost a decade, I don't blame her for trying to let go of a relationship that was probably more like friends and going nowhere anyways. In all honesty you two would be going nowhere anyways if she had never left in the first place. Don't take her back. You will resent her eventually, and again waste her time and yours, and she will always be on the look out for someone that wants more from her. You're each others comfort zone and probably lacking in the communication department about big issues. My guess is, you will take her back, nothing happens- You are still the same people you were before it happened, but now there will be resentment. Going back to an ex wastes time usually, unless you start talking facts.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 131 (view)
 
50 Shades of Grey
Posted: 7/18/2012 11:37:31 PM
Here's a better book to read:

"Praise" by Andrew McGahan

hahaha it's gritty as
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Sexiest Song
Posted: 7/18/2012 10:59:31 PM
What song really makes you feel sexy or in the mood? And, is it sexy because of the words? beat? rythym? The music video? The singer? or you heard it at some point that stirs up good memories ? Or simply just because? What's your feel good song.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Is it easy to meet other women when youve just started exploring the fact your Bi ?????
Posted: 7/18/2012 9:59:13 PM
I find women aged 25 and under are more curious about exploring that side . The older ones are usually straight up lesbian or just into men by then. So, anywhere there are young women partying usually lol. There's lesbian night clubs too, many are bi however most are lesbian. Some lesbians are really against bi women using them for an experiment though, so just have that in mind.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
The Sweet Spot
Posted: 7/18/2012 9:47:27 PM
Besides the obvious? Neck.

I also like hands running through my hair while kissing, and teasing strokes on my thighs. I find guys don't tease enough, it's usually kissing then: 'hand straight to boobs. hand straight to va-jay-jay'. Boring.

However, I really never liked the ear thing tough. I once got turned off cos he stuck his tongue in my ear. Dafuq. I suddenly had a headache.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Can Someone Explain Dr Phil's Advice
Posted: 7/18/2012 8:57:14 PM
The payback you are getting is avoiding reality. Facing reality means change.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Do men secretly hate being used for sex
Posted: 7/18/2012 12:43:57 PM
^^There's some truth in what you say though.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Safety for bdsm
Posted: 7/18/2012 12:34:41 PM
^^^okay, whatever floats ya boat but. ..asking for a 'Master' like all serious like that? Wow. Some dudes going to come along and she'll end up rolled up in a rug thrown over a bridge.

Going on in here.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Safety for bdsm
Posted: 7/18/2012 8:20:38 AM
WTF? Master? Am I missing something here...


I am a true submission but only had one master who I cared for deeply it ended badly.I was very hurt and it took a long time for me to heal and get my head around who I really was.


UMMMM isn't that what BDSM is all about? Getting hurt? What, did he start acting nice and ruined it for you??
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Kurt Cobain
Posted: 7/18/2012 7:56:00 AM
It's an awsome quote.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Do men secretly hate being used for sex
Posted: 7/18/2012 7:10:46 AM
Just the way I like it. :)
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 93 (view)
 
silly fantacies
Posted: 7/18/2012 7:07:34 AM
under or near a waterfall with hot guy, a full bright moon glistening everything. The sound of the waterfall crashing down really loudly is exhilarating plus, I dunno I like water- and the hot naked guy.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
is it me?
Posted: 7/18/2012 2:02:23 AM
Don't wait for the permission or approval of others, give it to yourself.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Should I be concerned that she may have lost interest?
Posted: 7/18/2012 12:59:03 AM
Start dating others asap. Sounds like she is stringing you along as plan B.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Imaginary love triangle??
Posted: 7/18/2012 12:42:32 AM
Actually don't tell him about the whole Dana thing you did. It looks a little level 3 stalker and is pretty wierd. Just move on.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Does being in a relationship and in Love bring the best out of you ?
Posted: 7/18/2012 12:29:02 AM
You should always aim to bring out the best in yourself no matter if single or not. Being in a relationship doesn't bring out the best in you if it wasn't there to begin with- you're then putting alot of pressure on someone else to make you feel happy about yourself. That can turn out really bad.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Girlfriend's wild past eating me alive, HELP!
Posted: 7/17/2012 11:52:56 PM
Wow. If you can't trust her and deep down never will, I don't think that's a good place to be in. She cheated on you after twice? Or where you fwb and unofficially together while this happened? I don' know her and I don't know you, but if you can see a real change in her since you two are both are officially together now it may work. It's a big plus that she didn't lie to you about her past on her part, she doesn't seem the type to like to bullsh^t and that is rare enough.

Now it's up to you to see if you can work on your future together rather then dwell on her past. If not, I'd say you will probably have to break up with her. It would be for the best if it means that she won't have to live in guilt and good for you since it seems you can't get past it. I can understand where you're coming from though, but there is not much left to do except: break up or accept it.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Imaginary love triangle??
Posted: 7/16/2012 8:15:14 AM
Hilarious. I suggest just dumping him now you know how he is, and come clean about what you did in the process. Next time, if you think a guy is mucking you around, don't even bother with all that and just not go out with him.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 44 (view)
 
he says he wants more, but doesnt show it?
Posted: 7/16/2012 8:08:00 AM
Step outside yourself and the situation. What advice would you give your sister or your bestfriend, or even your future daughter who was going through the same situation?

The guy is playing with your mind, and knows exactly when to tone it down or wind it up depending on your reaction. You ignore him, he quickly texts
"aww I thought we was friends :(". or something equally lame . . and you're there sucked in again reassuring him (he don't need it).

He knows he has you wrapped around around his little finger.. and more. Start dating others asap. This guy is a wanker. Get rid of him. Stop making excuses for peoples shitty behaviour.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Can a relationship be too perfect?
Posted: 7/16/2012 7:28:33 AM
^^^True

Also, maybe the zoloft has given her a clearer mind, if it wasn't clear before. Maybe she doesn't feel so co-dependant now she's on it. Afterall, anti-depressants are supposed to make you not depressed? On the other hand, like you said, could be having a mania. Why is she on it? Doesn't matter anymore, because it will happen again and again with this one. Could be a blessing in disguise for you.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
When Do You Call???
Posted: 7/15/2012 9:01:07 AM
1 day, no longer then 2 days at the most, unless you're into the mind games.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Vibrators and Orgasms
Posted: 7/15/2012 5:28:53 AM
if there was i don't think they'd admit that on here. It would be extremely rare. But stranger things have happened.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
he says he wants more, but doesnt show it?
Posted: 7/15/2012 12:21:45 AM
You know what to do, why didn't you trust your instincts. It's lazy just going with the flow when you have a gut feeling it's not in the direction you want. It's not fear, it's just a plain lazy way of being in a relationship. Communication is nothing if the actions are out of sinc with them. I have the feeling you know what to do just by the way you wrote that post.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Whats the Best Travel Advise You Could Give or Heard?
Posted: 7/14/2012 10:06:29 PM
That you always pack too much. Before you leave, remove half your club wear and heels. Also remember that you're probably going to buy stuff while you're there so leave space.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Best Condoms
Posted: 7/14/2012 9:26:01 AM
SKYN!!!

black box, gold letters :)
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 32 (view)
 
I NEED ADVICE.. PLEASE :(
Posted: 7/14/2012 8:59:31 AM

She is not trying to make you jealous.

SHE is jealous that you have moved on and found
happiness.

Now its a game to make you wonder and want her
back- which you are falling right in too.

If you pay attention then she is winning- she takes
your mind away from more important things which
is concentrating on your new relationship.


Yup!
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 317 (view)
 
can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 7/11/2012 10:22:44 PM
^^ like doing a knitting needle lol :P
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Too Tall?
Posted: 7/11/2012 10:17:15 PM
Superficially speaking alone, if a guy has a 6 pack and nice arms/shoulders , can get away with being 5'6 or whatever. I find many who are 6"+ tend to be too skinny. I prefer muscle mass over excessive height 8D
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Did Him Now MIA
Posted: 7/11/2012 8:13:24 PM
So what? You had sex with a hot guy. Boo hoo

You probably had a gut feeling he was talking shit but went with it anyway- you're making a huge deal out of nothing. Just admit to yourself he was a wierdo but he was a just a goodlooking wierdo, and goodlooking wierdos are for a good time not a long time unless you like drama. Be greatful he didn't respond to your texts lol!
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Head games vs sincere interest?
Posted: 7/11/2012 9:28:17 AM
Love yourself first- if you love yourself you won't feel inadequate and fall for old games. Mind games work on triggering insecurity about yourself in some form. In return your always trying to redeem yourself to whatever scum comes along and stuffs you around- they'll pat you on the back - you then feel you achieved something because you went from insecure to confident in 2 seconds, but "at somebody elses will" - when confidence is controlled by others you will always be suspectable games.

I know you probably heard the saying "love yourself" a million times, but really think about what that means and how much power you gain from that. Once you know yourself and find strength within, not many people can stuff you around- this goes for players and your run-of-the-mill daily idiots. Just remember that actions speaks louder then words and trust your instincts. Not enough people do that.

Don't take anything too seriously when it comes to flirting, games, whatever- have fun with it.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 53 (view)
 
A kiss for me, what's your make or break act?
Posted: 7/10/2012 1:08:36 AM
I would kiss on the first date if I felt like it..

Since when was someone insecure because they kissed- would that not mean you are dumb too. Many things are clues to insecurity, but being true to your wants is not one of them. I'm not one for mind games. But I forgive you for thinking the way you do. The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect. You are imperfect, and so am I. So do what you feel works for you and be happy. Because that's what counts when all is done and dusted.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 213 (view)
 
Lets play is he a jerk or not a jerk!!!!
Posted: 7/9/2012 12:31:28 PM
First thing I thought after reading that 1st text is "mind-games" don't care what anyone says.

As if you would just say '.....FYI I'm seeing others" and the cherry on the cake: "you passed my maturity test" PUKE!!!- totally trying to play mind games- then all that other crap- next time just let rip that he isn't the master of the mind like he thinks and delete the number- no further analysis required.

Can't belive some replies on here about that guy having good intentions and being honest. If he was honest he would have just said 'thanks but no thanks' but he instead tried to play mind games for a bit- drag it out- before disapearing when she didn't play into them. Good on her.

 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
A kiss for me, what's your make or break act?
Posted: 7/6/2012 1:44:36 PM
^^^I'll clarify, you find out if sometimes you get that half closed-eyed-eyelash-flutter involuntarily. Well during these involuntary flutters you get a huge set off eyes staring back at you unblinking- and it snaps you of your sexy zone- and you stare back freaked and get turned off- and they still don't blink. That's fuked up.

And if he is just straight up staring and not looking away or blinking- it's like- "are you feeling this or you just lookin at me" or "Has he ever done this before? Why does he look so wide eyed?" because it's just WEIRD and they look like a grasshopper on top of it (could be tripping)? But, If I find out they're eyes are open I let them no they should close them asap. Think it's funny though when I put them on the spot about that- but it's best to not let them go around doing that psycho stuff. So no biggie.

I'll let it slide if it doesn't happen again.
Turn off though.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Insecurity and Anxiety
Posted: 7/6/2012 11:08:42 AM
I think it's okay to pursue guys, but yeah, then you got to step back. Remember to step back. Same goes with guys pursueing women. If you don't step back you're smothering and your not giving an opportinuty for them to step forward, and you won't know until you back off to see if they are going to make an effort. Human nature. Men are hunters? Humans are hunters. Ever analysed a male player doing a routine- they know this and use it for evil, on multiple dummy's? They'll pursue and back off, the woman chases. It works the other way around too. Simple human nature. People are crazy.

Just know that if your putting in more then your fair share and getting nada in return it's game over.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Dating cut off
Posted: 7/6/2012 10:50:29 AM
4-8 years, by then you should be pretty sure. But then again, does one ever reallly know? doodoodoodoo doodoodoodoo
 
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