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shomesomethin

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I have zero experience with older men. Posted: 11/17/2009 10:34:46 PM
Maybe what he means is"I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was!!" Any way as we grow older it is Important to remember that the most important sex organ is the mind.... if the two of you really" click", then he shouldn't have any problems getting it up. and it will only get better with time, and lots of practice! So, if you were to relay this information to him, it may very well help the both of you out!! Good Luck, Shome

shomesomethin

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kinda confused i guess and girls seem to be the best for advice ;) Posted: 11/17/2009 10:23:02 PM
Just a word of advice: neither of you, at your age, knows a damn thing about being in love.... only lust... so you might get laid, but after that only time will tell if it's love or not. You may be better off waiting a while before you fvck!! Good Luck, Shome

shomesomethin

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Why ask a woman for her number? Posted: 11/17/2009 10:15:09 PM
You didn't mention how long it has been since you gave it to him......maybe he was stuck in jail!!! Good Luck!! Shome

shomesomethin

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Why do men lose interest so easily? Posted: 11/17/2009 10:01:52 PM
Men don't.....you are obviously dealing with boys, so please don't categorize the men of POF with the "boyz" that you waste your time with....I have to agree with most all of the above responses^^^^^^^^^^^^ anyway there is hope for you.... youwill grow up one day.... how soon remains to be seen! Good Luck

shomesomethin

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Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:42:10 PM
Personally I would rather star in my own porn, than watch somebody else... if a guy has a woman, but still uses porn, it can only be because he is'nt getting all the wild sex from his woman that he is dreaming about when he jacks off...if he knew how, or tied to communicate better with his woman, then he shouldn't need any porn. Shome

shomesomethin

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finding a girl who enjoys sex Posted: 11/17/2009 9:35:44 PM
Finding a girl who enjoys sex with you... isn't that what you really mean??

shomesomethin

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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/17/2009 9:21:52 PM
Do not let this ***hole see anything but your taillights...rapidly fading into the distance as you HAUL ASS down the road! Peace......Shome

shomesomethin

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How long do you keep fighting? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:17:08 PM
There is no reason at all to fight with anyone you care about...let her go, and move on with your life,(or at least make her think that you have!) Then let her actions tell you how she feels.Talk is cheap...Show, Don't tell...If she wants you it'll be obvious, just don't play hard to get too much. Good luck! Shomesomethin

shomesomethin

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She is confusing me Posted: 11/17/2009 9:08:21 PM
She sounds like she may be a little confusing, perhaps confused a little herself, since she keeps calling you, then she must be interested...... my advice would be to remain open to her... but don't put off dating others just because of her, unless of course she wishes to take it to the next step!!! Peace....Shome

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/25/2009 7:37:05 AM
Find a forum for cops,please, don't you have traffic tickets to write? I'm really sorry that you suffer so much pain at the end of your shift when you have to take the badge off and go back to being a human. I can only pray that you aren't like the majority of your fellow officers who, statistics show, tend to overindulge the bottle, and resort to domestic violence with their families. May God have mercy on your soul, and others like you, for you know not what you're doing. For your own good, take a reading comprehension course.

shomesomethin

Joined: 5/4/2007

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I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 10/25/2009 7:16:03 AM
And I thought I was the only one who questioned this fact! Yes you are very correct. IMO, some of the women on here are very confrontational! Almost as if they have a score to settle with some one. I often wonder just how some one like that could ever get along with anyone!

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/19/2009 10:27:07 PM
SaharaM: I acknowledged that my friend "kicked a trash-can", which prior to his arrest, none of us knew to be illegal! If I'm in my house, and I choose to kick my trash can , or for that matter, any thing else that I own, I will damn well do it, and nobody is going to take me to jail for destroying MY OWN PROPERTY!!! They will have to kill me first, and haul my dead body to the morgue! The cop-mentality/logic that you so righteously purvey shows exactly what you are, a gung-ho, prejudiced, law enforcement officer. In the future, I must ask that you please give your opinions to someone whose own opinions parallell yours...... other law enforcement officers.

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/17/2009 10:30:43 PM
SaharaM: If you would slow down, take the time to read the whole post, instead of between the lines, you might see what you are refusing to understand, and that is the cops used their database of his arrest record, not CONVICTION RECORD....that means that every time you or any body else gets detained or arrested (even if the charges are later dropped) it has been entered in a Database of information, all of which can be used by some gung-ho LEO's to pre-judge anyone they choose, anytime they choose to do it!! And that is OPPRESSIVE.....are you getting it yet? Databases, a.k.a. Intelligence Dossiers( by the Fed. Govt.) have an effect similar to hard drugs: when the initial high wears off, the authorities start wanting more. Police began compiling a database of people who, authorities believe "might break the law sometime in the future." I believe this is a form of profiling, and it's been going on for years...just ask the blacks. All one has to do these days, is be found in or near a "hotspot" of crime, pulled over, frisked, photographed ,questioned, then released and it's entered in a file. This database, I believe is for police to create geographically specific short lists of "potential" suspects, when crimes do occur. In other words, if some guy has been pulled over at the corner of, say, 5th Ave. and 20th street, maybe 3-4 times in the past year, and then a crime occurs at 5th Ave. and 20th street, and the cops have no leads, who are they going to start focusing on??? Is it just me, or does anybody else think this is going a little bit too far?

shomesomethin

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I don't know where to begin..... Posted: 10/17/2009 9:42:15 PM
^^^^^HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

shomesomethin

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What am I doing wrong on this site? Posted: 10/17/2009 9:39:08 PM
You say you've been on here sooooooooo long??? You haven't been here a month yet!!! WTF??? Be careful what you wish fo, you just might get it! Wait till you have to deal with some of the crybabies on here, like those who pi$$ and moan just because youdon't answer their e-mails, or you turn them down because they aren't your type! Good Luck

shomesomethin

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just need a lil advice... Posted: 10/17/2009 9:30:54 PM
Grow up! Quit trippin on the little stuff! And pray to God he's not an A$$HOLE, 'cause if he is and he finds out that he's the center of all your happiness, then you dear, are in for a whole lotta heartache.

shomesomethin

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What you bring to the table Posted: 10/17/2009 9:25:11 PM
The whole idea that anyone should bring anything to the table financially is the biggest joke I have ever heard, this is known as conditional love. Conditional love has absolutely no place in this world, and is exactly the problem with most of the world today.

shomesomethin

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Chivalry and Expectations...Too much? Posted: 10/17/2009 9:01:01 PM
Your friend is jaded, thats all. Chivalry will be alive as long as I am. Maybe your friend should associate with a different type of men!

shomesomethin

Joined: 5/4/2007

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tell me i have done the right thing and that i'm not crazy! Posted: 10/17/2009 8:58:14 PM
you have done the right thing and you are not crazy! feel better now?

shomesomethin

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being stalked by bf's co-worker(REAL PROBLEM) Posted: 10/17/2009 8:56:00 PM
have your boy friend come over, then call the other guy and have him come over, then let your boyfriend take care of business.

shomesomethin

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Naive? Posted: 10/17/2009 8:53:43 PM
He's lying about one thing, he's not breaking up with her.

shomesomethin

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Safe Oral Sex Posted: 10/17/2009 8:42:20 PM
If you feel like you need to use a condom, then you probably should'nt be giving head at all, why don't you both go get tested together, and wait for the results. I guess you didn't know that most condoms advertise that they aren't for the prevention of STD's.

shomesomethin

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Phone etiquette Posted: 10/17/2009 8:30:34 PM
I say a 10 min maximum on the first call, then as soon as you get off, politely say "thank you" and hang up, immediatly, and move on to the next phone sex date...tonight I'm trying to break my record of 5 in one night!

shomesomethin

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Why do women try to make men feel quilty? Posted: 10/17/2009 8:22:51 PM
because they can!!! Once a controlling type of woman finds out a man has a conscience ( some actually do) she'll use it to her advantage whenever possible.

shomesomethin

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A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ? Posted: 10/17/2009 8:17:33 PM
3rd date??? If I'm not gettin head after 10 minutes into the first date, I'll be droppin her off on the side o'the road sumwhere!!! No if's and's or butts 'bout it!!!

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/17/2009 7:56:01 PM
^^^^yes he did get anger mgmt. classes. His previous arrest record,not conviction record, had 2 previous arrests for alcohol related incidents in other states, (open container in public) but no convictions. As far as the couple, no they don't have any history of domestic problems, they have been together for 8 yrs., unmarried. I looked up his convition record on casenet.gov, which shows details for all records for any convictions, found no violence of any kind, just traffic, no felonies either. My comments about the big city cops (kansas city, in this case-which is by no means a real "big city") meant that in high-crime areas the cops don't have to go looking for people to bust.... their busy enough as it is. In the low crime areas, cops try to find/create situations that can result in arrests. Arrests add up, thus giving the individual officers "promotional points" shall we say, a way to make rank, along with time in service. Johnson county itself is about 35x35 miles in size and has about 10-15 cities within it, with an average of 70 officers per city. The sheriff's dept. itself has 450 deputies to cover the entire county, that is roughly 1200 cops covering roughly 1200 sq. miles. With that many cops competing for brownie points in such a small, low crime area, they have plenty of examples just like I gave in the op. That is where the title of this post comes from, because they have begun to change the laws there so that what once was not a crime may now be a crime, without you even knowing it. I wouldn't have believed this story either, if I hadn't been there when it happened. However instead of hearing all this "cop-mentality" crap from some of you, (who will be crying the blues when something this absurd happens to you...and it will, eventually, unless of course you're wealthy, or related to the law-enforcement community!) I would like to hear about any similar incidents concerning questionable law-enforcement practices.

shomesomethin

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Post a JOKE Posted: 10/17/2009 12:49:52 AM
What did the blind man say when he walked past the fish market??? Hello Ladies!! What does a three ring circus and a whorehouse have in common??? One is a cunning display of stunts....the other is a stunning display of cvnts!!! It was her first day of sunday school, and dear little Sally, who was just 7 yrs. old, had a question for the teacher, who happened to be a nun, Sister Mary Ellen. "Yes Sally?" asked sister Mary Ellen. "What is it?" "Sister Mary Ellen?" aksed Sally..."When we die, and go up to heaven to see God...... will we go up head first? or feet first?" Sister Mary Ellen thought to herself....Well bless her heart, that's an innocent enough question! Then said "Why, we go head first, of course, Sally, but why do you ask?". Sally replied"That's what I thought too, but last night, I got up to go potty in the middle of the night, and on the way, I looked in momma and daddy's room......and when I opened the door mommy was screaming, over and over, "Oh God, I'm coming!!!"... and she had her legs up in the air, like she was going up feet first... but my daddy was on top of her, holding her down..... and she was thrashin around, trying to push him off, but he held her down any way..... then he grunted real loud, and layed real still, until she put her legs down, and pushed him off of her. Then she started crying real softly," Oh God.... why didn't you wait for me.... I was almost there!"

shomesomethin

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this is for the people who had their hearts broken Posted: 10/16/2009 11:54:30 PM
Yes dear, grow up and move on. Never give your all to anyone, unless they are giving you so much that you feel like you want to give back just as much in order to be fair to them... got it? Please, read that statement over and over until you have it memorized. Good Luck&Happy Fishing

shomesomethin

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/16/2009 11:46:04 PM
Well this is just great!!! 96 pages of predominately "shallow" people giving there lame excuses about why they won't talk to, or meet up with someone who has no pix... What a joke some people areSo none of you people ever considered thatmaybe everyone can't afford a digital camera or a scanner, to post pictures on POF, does that mean they should'nt be able to meet anyone on here? I guess I shouldn't be surprised.... people on here are no different than anywhere else... about 75% have absolutely no common sense, and about 95% don't know how to think before they open their mouth. May God have mercy on all of you pitiful lost souls.

shomesomethin

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Don't know what to do? I'm not in control... Posted: 10/16/2009 11:22:38 PM
Dude, your problem is obvious....God is for worshiping, not people. Don't be foolish enough to center all your emotions around another person, you will be perpetually frustrated. Another thing....the chinese are very old-fashioned, you cannot compete with her family, and the bond they have, so give it up and move on.

shomesomethin

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I can't understand this woman and her actions HELP!! Posted: 10/16/2009 11:10:51 PM
You are talking about a "child" not a woman, children crave immediate attention, and stay close to those who give it to them. Try ignoring her, and see if she doesnt burn up your phone.... but you really should just move on and don't trip on it.

shomesomethin

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Liberal vs conservative Posted: 10/16/2009 10:56:44 PM
Hey, FormerHunk LOL... what happened to that "Truth in Advertising" thread we were on 15 mins. ago??? I can't find it now....

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/16/2009 10:30:00 PM
What I'm saying is: every lawyer he contacted asked for at least $10,000 as a retainer, which is apparantly "the minimum" for any felony charge in that county. His only other option would have been to ask for a court appointed lawyer, which in Johnson county requires means either a $10,000 cash only bond or.... remain in custody until court, usually 1 month later at least. (which meant losing his job) Oh yes....the plastic trash can belonged to him, in his g/f's apartment. It was not a case of the g/f pressing charges, it was the city pressing the charges.

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/16/2009 10:06:13 PM
We like many other people didn't believe for a minute that kicking a trash can could be a felony... and as far as the lawyer goes, unless you live in Johnson county Kansas I wouldn't expect you to understand this type of crap, which btw occurs on a daily basis. There are few if any lawyers in that county who will go up against the govt., for obvious reasons.... they want to insure lots of future deals can be made with the county prosecuter. Further more there are few working class folks who can afford a $10,000 dollar cash retainer. Your comments, mr boxer, make it sound as if you are a lawyer ..... or a cop.

shomesomethin

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for the gun control people Posted: 10/16/2009 9:32:57 PM
You all are doing exactly what the govt. wants us to do, fight amongst ourselves, instead of uniting against their oppression! Why don't we join together??? We are dangerously close to living in a police state now!!! WAKE UP A$$HOLES!!

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/16/2009 9:26:00 PM
Would somebody please explain just how this is a troll post??? looking for pity from who?? I'm talking about the local govt. in these United States! Then again I guess it could be all law-enforcement related people who feel I'm describing their attitude....who are voting to delete....

shomesomethin

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What's one thing guys wish girls knew about them? Posted: 10/16/2009 8:33:22 PM
The fact that we can't read your mind, please communicate your needs/desires etc. it makes things much more beneficial to both in the relationship!

shomesomethin

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Does this make me a cougar? Posted: 10/16/2009 8:25:57 PM
To be a cougar by definition: You have to be at least 20 yrs. older than the boy, who btw, must be under 25, ( a perfect age is 21-25). You should also be independently wealthy. You should also have a son whose age is within 8 yrs of your target.

shomesomethin

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The Stand-By Posted: 10/16/2009 8:11:47 PM
Gee, he was just talking to someone else? that sounds like a serious thing they have going !!! Be advised, there are a lot of people on here who think they're in a"relationship" just because they're messaging someone.... Is that crazy or what??? anyway, keep trying... it may take a while, there is lots of deception employed on this site as well. I recently IM'ed with a lady for a week, and she asked me to MOVE in with her!!! Then accused me of being a game player when I quit talking to her every day (as I attempted to gracefully bow out of the picture) Next it was threatening e-mails till I was forced to block her! I don't think you're overreacting, just disregard it and move on. Keep Fishing Good Luck Bob

shomesomethin

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The laws...they area-changin'... beware! Posted: 10/16/2009 7:47:27 PM
It seems to me as if there are very few Good Guys/Gals in law enforcement these days. In the big cities, within high crime areas, seem to be the only place you will find a genuine human being who wears a badge. Out in the suburbs, the low crime areas, all you find people are who abuse their authority for a living, using only a "revenue/radar" gun to make a living, when they are not arresting people for innocuous crimes. For example, I witnessed a friend of mine get arrested and charged with "domestic violence" and "criminal damage to property" after the neighbors downstairs called the cops when they heard he and his g/f arguing loudly, on a sat. nite at 11:00 pm. What, you ask, did he do wrong? Well, when the cops had seperately questioned him and her and myself,( after finding no visible damage to her or anything else) he admitted to kicking the trash can in a fit of rage. On the police report,my version of events parallelled his and hers both, btw.( which was the evidence the cops were to use against him, had the case gone to trial.) He was charged by the city of Overland Park, Ks. and could not find a lawyer who would take his case, unless he pled guilty, ( a not guilty plea required a $10,000 retainer, being a felony) So he pled guilty to a low level Felony charge, got 2 yrs. supervised probation, with weekly drug and alcohol testing etc.(for a "crime" that involved neither) We came to the conclusion that the police must have been using info. from their "intelligence dossiers", a database of info about his past,(not his conviction record, just his arrest record) we were right. When I questioned the officer about the absurdity of such laws, he stated that the municipal laws were changed in order to become preventive in nature. By charging him now, for a relatively harmless crime, it should prevent him from doing something similar, but more violent in the future. In other words....his life is now a living hell, because the authorities believed he might break the law in the future. Has anyone else experienced or heard of any other such oppression??? Would like to know about any other examples of oppresive laws in your area! This story sounds ridiculous, but is one example of many in the state of Kansas.

shomesomethin

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PHOTOS: Side Pockets - Olathe ~ 5/10/2008 Posted: 10/16/2009 6:30:16 PM
Side Pockets??? Do you mean the one on Santa Fe??? Or the one on old 56 hwy? God I hope not!! I have often heard that all the JOCO Sherrifs Deps. and all the JOCO jailers, and all the little wanna be pigs from the Adult Residential Center, like to hang out at Side Pockets on old 56..... if so, then surely there's a much,much better place to meet!

shomesomethin

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A real woman Posted: 10/15/2009 7:42:22 PM
Oh they're all very real... some real picky, some real ****y, some real mean, some real beautiful outside, yet terribly ugly inside... some real loving, some real caring, some real affectionate, some real understanding, some real superficial, some real facetious, some real material, etc. etc..... The obvious problem is how to uncover these facts before investing so much time or emotion into the wrong ones. The thing is you pretty much have to be a real man to recognize just what a real woman actually amounts to. IMO, if you are in a relationship where you always feel like you trust each other, always communicate well, keep the passion alive, and you can always settle your disagreements in a rational, sane manner, then you have a real woman.

shomesomethin

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What do I do? Posted: 10/15/2009 7:22:45 PM
Why don't the both of you look for a place together? Someplace bigger perhaps?

shomesomethin

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for the gun control people Posted: 10/15/2009 7:18:27 PM
Like FL CO said, they got the wedge in the door in the early 90's and will keep wearing away until there are no more private citizens with guns. And it will happen, I just hope I'm dead before it does.

shomesomethin

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Why is it such a stigma to be an older bachelor? Posted: 10/15/2009 7:06:30 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I agree.... besides a lot of those folks out on the southwest coast seem to be stuck in that state of mind that says .... you aren't" cool or hip or one of us", unless you dress like this, or drive one of those, or make this much money etc. etc. I have always preffered to be a" trendsetter" myself- so to speak, instead of emulating all of these sorry examples of humanity that Hollywood has been showing us for the last 50 years.

shomesomethin

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I need advice please! Posted: 10/15/2009 6:44:07 PM
You may think its love , but it's not..... if it were she would be supportive of you... besides, she could go with you! Nurse are in demand everywhere, especially in war zones!!!

shomesomethin

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What a Nerve A Question for the men Posted: 10/15/2009 6:39:24 PM
Oh yeah, I forgot....unless she IS a useless whore... it really shouldn't bother her!

shomesomethin

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What a Nerve A Question for the men Posted: 10/15/2009 6:36:49 PM
She is much better off without someone so childish in her life!

shomesomethin

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Empty promises Posted: 10/15/2009 6:25:48 PM
No you don't, you just happen to be the" second-string" so to speak. He has more than one woman whom he is "stringing along" and one of the others is already putting out, so naturally he is going to want to spend more time with her, that is, until he gets bored. So......consider yourself lucky....

shomesomethin

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No pic on profile and empty inbox Posted: 10/15/2009 6:18:30 PM
It's pretty much normal for you to be suspicious, as any would be.... try asking him to "meet and greet" and see if he tries to avoid the issue!

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