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The Silent Treatment or Giving an explanation WHY it is a No Posted: 5/20/2007 12:48:14 PM
There have been many many posts on here about women who tried to decline gracefully with some sort of explanation and the men got exceedingly rude and vulgar. I think fade away and ignore is the best policy. Men are into what they want when they want it. They are not into polite and respectful explanations - yours or theirs.

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would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 5/20/2007 12:43:23 PM
No, No, No you shouldn't marry a divorced woman!!! They are too good for you. You should run off an join a monestary.

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Question from a recent dumpee Posted: 5/20/2007 12:39:25 PM
You really haven't given enough background on this for anyone to give you any meaningful advice.

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Why do people post blurry or small pics of themselves??? Posted: 5/20/2007 8:45:03 AM
Why does the moderator remove your photo when you post a good full length likeness of yourself? That happened to me. Why do some people post old photos of themselves taken 20 years ago? Why do some people post photos of other people that are not even themselves? Why do some guys take your photo and post it on a porn site or adult site without your permission? The Answer is, this is the Internet. Anything can happen.

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The W-I-D-E gray line. Posted: 5/12/2007 5:54:31 AM
If you look around you, you will see many nice women married to men who didn't have a lot of money. I agree with the above person who commented that men only complain about money when what they are doing isn't working well. What doesn't work well for men your age is wanting women half your age. Of course to get one of them you have to have a ton of money and rightly so. If you want to have superficial desires so should they.

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This internet is a dangerous thing Posted: 5/12/2007 5:41:52 AM
If your boyfriend wanted to marry you he would already have done so. You are involved in a relationship with no future. If I were you I would not make any sudden moves. I would plan my exit strategy very carefully regarding how you are going to support yourself and where you are going to live. You need to plan your future regarding your financial, physical, mental and spiritual development. Worrying about getting another boyfriend should be the last thing on your mind.

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TO TOUCH OR NOT TO TOUCH Posted: 5/12/2007 5:30:15 AM
You are being insensitive to the real issue here which is why you would continue to involve yourself in this matter in the first place. It's ok to share an account of an incident you encountered with a weirdo, but to actually ask advice about handling it shows a lack of maturity and principles on your part. This man has fetishes that are best handled by a professional psychologist or just leave him alone with his towels. I certainly would never again be a guest in his home.

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Dropping the Standards Posted: 5/12/2007 5:14:15 AM
Many nice and available women complain about men who post photos with females hanging on them as though they can't let go long enough to have any other relationship. Certainly you want your new woman to respect your obligations to family females, but not for it to be a constant threesome. I would think a dating site is one place where you could let go of mamma or daughter long enough to get your picture taken alone.

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Play dumb ladies, Don't show how smart u really are, you might get a man that way. Posted: 5/12/2007 5:02:46 AM
It is not necessary to play dumb when interacting with a man. It is only necessary to understand the mentality of the creature you are dealing with and adjust your interaction to what is possible - not what is impossible. You don't hide your intelligence when interacting with your dog or cat, but neither do you discuss the physics of electromagnetism with them or the best way to write a national healthcare plan, etc. Likewise, men have a completely different brain structure than women and some of them don't possess the brain cells that deal with certain things. This is a new science and a woman can't really be smart until she learns it. There are a couple of excellent books out on it.

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