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Posted: 7/5/2007 6:09:28 AM
hey everyone its me the OP thanx for all of ur comments I read every single one carefully. I think i'm gonna take the advice most of u gave me of waiting for a while but i'm not going to wait for anymore than a couple of years at the most. I'm much happier anyway now, I'm with the most lovin carin nice guy in the world, an ex I should never have finished with it was just hard coz of the distance but we both wana giv it anuva go.
Does anyone know the best way to put wieght on quickly. Coz I'm very skinny, I weigh 7 stone, I think maybe putting a bit of weight on may make them bigger but I never seem 2 put any weight on just stay the same or lose weight x
Posted: 6/30/2007 3:37:58 AM
I doubt all the men want small boobs but whats so bad about them being fake? most of the men that have posted have said they don't want a woman with fake boobs. why? It doesn't make the person fake. obviously with ridiciously big fake boobs I understand but with a size c why wouldn't u want to date a nice girl just because shes got fake boobs if (as most of u have said it) the boobs don't matter, it's the person.
Yea its true I won't be moaning when I'm older as they won't sag as much, but by then I hopefully will have settled down so It won't matter. What matters to me more is feeling good about myself while i'm young and in my prime and have fun. I'd much rather look and feel good while i'm young living out my life than have perfect boobs when i'm 40.
I'm not sure if u will understand where i'm cumin from coz its hard 2 explain but whats the point in me being misrable when I should be enjoying my best years n my replacement for the boobs is them not sagging when i'm older? when i'm older, hopfully i'll have kids and a husband to care about, my boobs wont matter at all whereas now, I want to love myself, go out and have fun but i can't do that feeling this self consicious. I hope u all understand my point of view.
Posted: 6/27/2007 2:29:36 AM
it removed a big reason for insecurity for me, and maybe that's what you are looking for as well. The person most important to please is yourself; there simply is no substitute for being able to look in the mirror and like what you see. It really does change the world.
^^This is how i feel, i want to b able 2 look in the mirror and go 'i'm gorgeous'. I know it costs a lot but i'd pay anything to feel good about myself. me getting them done has got nothin whatsoever to do with tryin to impress men in fact i'd rather get them done and stay single so I can concentrate on other things in life coz atm i've had enough of men.
Like I said in a previous post, I know its not gonna change my life but it will give me confidence because I will be proud of my body. As for the nipple sensitivity being decreased, that doesn't really bother me at all and neither does having to get them done again every 10 years, I know it will be worth it.
I've read up on all the facts and i'm very aware of anything that can go wrong and i've watched plenty of programs about young women getting them done and they all seem so much more confident and they have no regreats.
Posted: 6/26/2007 5:38:50 AM
i'd like to thank everyone for your helpful opinions and advice I've taken it all in and I appeciate it. Of course I would prefer to have natural boobs rather than fake but how long will it take? I know te best advice is to wait a few years but I don't think I could stand much more waiting. I can't even have sex with the lights on coz I'm that self conscious about them they are so tiny just like 2 little lumps pointing out I can't bare to look at them. The majority of u think I shouldn't get them done but i'm sure if u were in my shoes feeling the way I'm feeling, you'd at least consider it.
Thanks also to everyone who said i'm pretty, it means a lot bcoz atm I don't feel very attractive. Does anyone know any natural ways that I could try to make them bigger? I don't want to use padding bcoz that still doesn't solve the problem wen it comes to taking my clothes off and isn't that just as fake as implants just without the cost? plus it won't make me feel as good.
Maybe I will wait for a while coz I know its the right thing to do, but I can't wait for much longer its really getting me down. some of u think it won't give me confidence. Obviously its not going to change me completley but it will give me a hell of a boost and make me feel sexy and womanly thats all I want. and the boost it will give my sex life, I'll be so much more confident in the bedroom and not feel embarrassed.
I'm not going to get them huge, that would just be silly, I want to keep them as natural as possible.
So if anyone knows any other ways to make them bigger, i'd really appreciate it
Posted: 6/25/2007 7:54:11 AM
: OP: I am in the same situation as you, and have been enquiring about getting the same thing done.
For me, it is a self-confidence issue.
And as far as the guys go, I believe about 90% of them prefer large boobs.
I don't even feel comfortable going out on a date, because I know it will be an issue.
As for the padding; sure, that is fine until the clothes come off.
Just my 2 cents worth.
Thank u someone who knows where I'm coming from. some ppl seem 2 think that i'm doing this for men, bcoz men prefer bigger boobs but thats totally not why i'm doing it, i'm doing it for myself. selfish, maybe but it will give me my confidence back. I know it won't change me, and I don't want i to, I just want to love my body is that a crime?
I agree with icequeen about the padding 2. yea mayb it will help but what happens when the clothes do come off? I feel embarrassed and don't like men looking at them
Posted: 6/25/2007 4:10:54 AM
sori bt had 2 b said, to the ppl that want this thread deleted bcoz its about pity, ur wrong, I want ppls honest opinions on what I should do and I want 2 explain 2 them why I want this boob job and want 2 know if there is anyone else out there in my situation that I can talk 2 so if u dnt like it, don't read it!!
Posted: 6/25/2007 4:06:11 AM
thanx I really appreciate everyones opinions, I thought most ppl would disagree tho is there anyone that does agree???
I know they are false, but it wouldn't make me a false person, in fact I'm one of the nicest ppl u'll meet will do almost anythin 4 anyone n once I get em done, the'll b part of me.
I know my body may change, I doubt it though, I'm 7 stone n can't put any weight on no matter how much I eat. I was bullied in school for being fat when I was younger, so I went on a crash diet while my body was still trying to grow which I think is the reason y my boobs are so tiny. So u see all my confidence was completly knockd down n hen stamped all over n now i'm skinny wiv no boobs an feel so unattractive.
Posted: 6/25/2007 3:41:12 AM
I know that a lot of ppl disagree with havin breast implants.
There is nothing you can buy which will give you self confidence if you don't already have it to begin with.
I def think they will boost my self-confidence. I'll be able to wear what I want, won't be self conscious wearing anything revealing, and I will b proud of my body rather than ashamed. Its embarrassin gettin asked 4 ID wheneva I want to go out 4 a drink, even sumtimes if I wana buy a pack of cigs!
If i'm getting the boob job for myself, to make me feel good and make me feel like a woman is there really anything wrong with that?
Posted: 6/25/2007 3:20:39 AM
yea i've given it time tho, well it feels like ages I can't even look at myself topless.
And all the tops I want 2 buy i can't bcoz i've got no cleavage n it wud just hang off me. I think the money would be worth it, I would have so much more self-confidence and wouldn't have 2 hide my body coz everythin else is perfect to me...except no boobs
Posted: 6/25/2007 3:06:30 AM
I have always been reli self-conscious about how small my boobs are and a lot of the time, it also affects my sex life. It seems like all men want big boobs coz u can't do much wiv small boobs and it makes me feel unattractive and not sexy at all.
I have now decided that I am gonna get a boob job to boost my self- confidence and make me feel sexy.
I was wondering what all u men really think about small boobs coz i fink my previous bf's were just bein polite and does anyone hav any opinions on the subject xx
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