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Now playing beside persons photos are war video game ads that detracted from the persons photo and information that is being viewed such that I was turned off even continue to desire to look at that profile I ask the founder Does war and love combine on a dating site? To me this is becoming plenty of dead fish! Because all that I seen was death and destruction in those war video games ads. I welcome other opionions and experiences in regards to war or destruction ads in profiles windows. Thank you, AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 25 (view)   North Texas school district will let teachers carry guns Posted: 8/16/2008 8:45:26 AM What is the principal of teachers carrying guns? "ONCE WE SHOOT A FEW OF THEM, THEN THEY'LL GET THE MESSAGE, EH" I apologize to Americans for Canadianizing that with the "EH" but it seemed befitting for such a dumb idea. Instead of correcting the contributing factors they are adding to it. Imagine if there is a shot out and teachers are shooting and shooter(s) are shooting...guess who is in the middle? unarmed students it could easily contribute to more deaths. Anyone that knows handguns. knows that a moving target is almost impossible to shoot. A handgun against an automatic assualt rifle. I think not a good chance of changing the odds. A handgun as a threat to a unstable predator? I think not. Getting to the bottom of the fact that almost all of the mass shootings have been by persons on anti-depressants (google it), now that may be the smoking gun that we can find preventation from anti depressants kill as they trigger suicides and then on top they put the person in an anestitized walking dream state, read: Dr. Anne Blake Tracy a formost expert on antidepressants and expert witness at the columbine massacre trial www.drugawareness.org  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 45 (view)   CLEANING YOUR Colon a bad thing or good thing ????? Posted: 8/15/2008 9:42:42 AM Hi crazy times, what was the cause of what happened to you? I didn't get a colonscopy because it enters the colon and it can puncture it. Did you get surgery, I mean was your colon punctured? Like to let others know with some facts, please. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 11 (view)   BUYING VITAMIN C WILL SOON BE ILLEGAL IN CANADA Posted: 8/15/2008 9:36:08 AM Drs only know what they are taught. The Universities receive large grants for each doctors education and for research on chemical based drugs. The doctors are only taught about chemical based drugs and usually the brand of the funding drug co.. I have spoked to Doctors and they tell me, I just don't know anything about these substances and that is a speciality of knowledge in itself and takes years to learn. Blaming the Doctors is losing an ally. The new C51 is taking away the current level of testing on new drugs before the drug is released so that the doctor has no idea that the drug he is giving his patient is making his patient a guinea pig. When a person works in a profession then they must adhere to the codes set out by the profession or lose their license. Dr.s come out of University with huge debt loads and they truly believe that what they are doing is helping people to get better....from what they were taught. Each time a person goes into a Dr and tells him/her the supplements they are taking then that is a form of educating the doctor. The doctors have nothing to do with C51. The drug co's and our governments do because it means research money and grants for doctors education so blame them that is who is responsible. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 14 (view)   BYE POLAR Posted: 8/13/2008 7:20:34 PM University of Calgary (Canada) did a preliminary study with 10 people suffering from bipolar disorder - and achieved the same quick and dramatic improvement. read the natural remedies: http://www.truehealth.org/break02.html  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 10 (view)   Anxiety attacks Posted: 8/13/2008 6:39:36 PM Are mostly caused by a perceived or real threat to one's being. If its a perceived threat such as the woman that said she believed she would be fired everyday on the way to work then this is a belief system error. However, the question is, How did that belief system error come into existence? It the original contributing factor that has to be healed for relief to be permanent. The original contributing factor often creates distrust between your "self" and you. When a husband and/or wife have one or both distrust between them then suspicion sets in and the mind creates all kinds of scenarios of impending harm or threat that do not exist in reality. The breathing is important because if you breathe in deep into your nose and up your sinus and listen to you breath then you mind will concentrate on listening to your breath and take your mind off of the feeling of anxiety. Given sufficient break from the mind listening to the anxiety producing message and listening to the breath then the sound of breath will predominate in the mind. The more you consciously breathe each time you feel the anxiety coming on then the more the body and mind will kick in sooner and sooner to breathe on it's own without you having to force your self to breathe. Item 2: The cause of the anxiety may be emotional including an emotional trauma such as a loss of a loved one. This is best dealt with using EFT (emotional freedom technique) which you can with a little practice do all on your own or get a caring friend that wants to learn and use it also. Google it and you should see a chart on how to apply it. I help child abuse victims that are adults apply it and it has a near 100% success rate. It was used in 9-11, Vietnam, Oklahoma bombing victims with success. From when the first contributing factor occurred to now the anxiety attacks start to cause other disorders and so often it takes a few different theraputic modalities to gain healing. Beings heal by treating the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual at the same period of time. Psychiatrist treat one part, the MD's another, the ministry another, but emotions are not treated and if the originating area is not treated then it will pull the others down. Love is a choice so I wish you to chose love. Breathe in love of all the people that love and care for and about you knowing now that you are fully supported by all the people that love you. Breathe repeat breathing in love love is in all of us breathe your love brings love out of others breathe  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 39 (view)   Bill C51 Posted: 8/12/2008 10:47:27 AM Merrylass it is said, "Ignorance is bliss". Just because you worked for the gov't does not mean you should believe whatever comes out of the governments mouth or legislation. What do you know about Codex Alimentarius and Nafta and C52? To understand peoples rightful trepedations about C51 one has to look at the many different legislations that dovetale to create a set of laws that can be drawn upon without legal recourse. 3 cancer scientists from the US Cancer Institute found files that the causes of cancer were known, they left the institute and published a book but the institute went to Court and got a ban in the US on the book. The 3 sold it in Canada and the institute went back to Court and it was stopped from being sold in Canada because under Nafta whatever is decided by a Court on one signatory country then it applies to the other 2 (Mexico, US, Canada) so the book actually could not be sold in any other the 3 could go to jail for contempt of Court. Shawn Buckley LLB or BC can give you more than I on the over all and broader applications of C51. He may have a website. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 38 (view)   Bill C51 Posted: 8/12/2008 10:38:28 AM Thetick68 Are you a lawyer? How does C51 and C52 dovetale in effects? We all agree about labelling of % of ingredient is essential for informed decisions by the purchaser but Canadians don't read food labels and stop buying chemical additive laced canned foods. Without education of what a chemical substance and it's combination with other chemicals has in terms of effects on the human consumer then the label is rendered useless. Just because you read the legislation does not make you an expert in interpreting it's effects based on Health Canada's history of cow towing to government pressure to approve substances in our food supply that is harmful to us. You have to look at the track record to know what will be the likely experience of the public will be when a department of the government that you all trust and know to be totally honest at all time never haven ever ever ever never ever taken graft or payoffs or fudged the books or passed laws to benefit a few is control of decisions about supplements. What is your objection to being ripped off for your health by Health Canada's allowing chemicals in your food and water including florides? Where is the legislation protecting your from these? Now all of sudden your want to claim that the legislation being passed is to protect you from vitamins minerals and herbs....think about who is writting and going to adminster and control the application of the legislation. The police do not have the powers that Health Canada inspectors will have. they have to get a Court Order from a Judge by showing sufficient facts as evidence that a crime is occuring or a breach of the law. But these inspectors will not. Does that not ring alarm bells when a health inspector has powers above the police? Look beyond the words in the legislation and look at Health Canada's abominal track record except for Dr. Shiva Chopra and other scientists that fought the good battle against their own employer to stop bovine hormone and it's harmful effects on humans and ask your self.....do I trust the government of the future to watch out from my life? To many people claim to be experts because they read a lot of something and have a lot a knowledge on how to read something but do not know the broader ramifications of legislation and how it will be administered. I hope that you take the time to get info on Hopewell bi polar remedy that Health Canada pulled from selves and the Supreme Court decided it worked and Health Canada had to withdraw seizing any more of it. One of foremost experts on Bi Polar disorder, a Harvard Prof and MD/psychiatrist, stated that everyone of his patients would commit suicide without this remedy. He only took the worst cases that all other Dr's failed to be able to control the disorder. How much impact does big drug co's have on politicians when it promises jobs and gobs of money? The biggest profit is in chemical based drugs but 85% of all remedies are natural and they want that part of the pie because .....guess. I agree with those in the forum that state that store clerks lacking knowledge are recommending vitamins and this means that the person is not getting value for their dollar. This legislation is not going to make law that you will get the right amount of substance for your dollar. It is not done in any other food product including junk such as potato chips and pepsi. The lawyer, Shawn Buckley, was a Health Canada lawyer before going onto defend Hopewell before the Supreme Court. The new legislation does not have in it any recourse for the "alleged" breaker of the law to go to Court. To fully understand the issue of Bill C51, you must read Codex Alimentarius legislation to see how these both dovetale in application. C51 is a US and Canada issue because of NAFTA and you would have to read that also, to know the full ramifications of C51. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 37 (view)   Bill C51 Posted: 8/12/2008 10:09:26 AM westernrose, there is a difference between fear mongering and people speaking out of fear and that is intent. People misinterpret in their own mind what is said before them and then pass that onto others. So blaming the anti-bill C51 lobby for the natural fear and its effect on interpretation by many of the public is not right. I went to a gathering in Toronto with a panel that included Dr. Chopra, who led Health Canada scientists fight to stop Bovine hormone from ending up in peoples' milk and he simply stated facts from the gov'ts own publications. He did not pump up the crowd with fear. The lawyer Shawn Buckley BC, said that he was concerned about the inaccuracies being conveyed because it threatens the credibility of those that are trying to get the facts out about Bill C51. Are you a lawyer? Just because you read C51 does not mean that you understood or comprehend the broader legal ramifications of what the legislation states. You have a narrow interpretation of what it states. Have you taken the time to be aware of other facts that render the legislation dangerous such as the health inspectors will be largely recent grads without the depth of knowledge to assess whether charges be laid or not? Have you ever read about the government of Canada stopping the Health Canada scientists from not allowing approval of a substance that they have proven causes harm to humans? Read David Suzuki's comments about how genetically modified foods were removed from Health Canada because the scientists refused to approve these, instead it was put into Agriculture Canada where no testing and or tracking of effects on humans will occur. I think you need to look at the behaviour of governments first and then decide if they are the guardians of truth and what is best for the Canadian humans. They have a horrible track record. If it weren't for the activists of I believe Pollution Probe the government would have continued to sell toys with "phalates" in the plastic toys. If what the activists that put out credible facts, and not rhetoric, are correct then will you be in fear? Fear can be healthy, if you have children you know this. A mothers fear of harmful toxic household products causes her to put them out of reach of her children. The government has the same obligation but read the contents of much of the food products today and look at the chemicals in them. What for? We bloody well know that chemicals combine and create other chemicals that contribute to cancer but the government continues to allow more and more chemicals in our food supply. I do want you to know that you deserve great credit for taking the time to read C51 and not swallow the brainwashing or fear of others. Find a credibile activist and get the facts as well as a lawyer's understanding of the broader application of the legislation then decide for your self. Be informed is being forarmed. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 252 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/5/2008 9:58:16 PM Bigshrek, you make many valid points; the one that concerns me the most is that Li had taken off on a bus based journeys many times according to his wife so he could have killed more than McLean. There are tons of missing persons and their families remain in pain for life until they inter their loved one's body and have closure. This is another reason that solutions such as "they should have executed him in the bus" are reckless and vigilanty in nature because that person is only thinking of himself. There was a statement. "I don't think" that profiling resulted in any serial killer ever being caught. A thinking person would ask, "What reason(s)?" This might give people some clues: I am the private investigator that has been working on the Chris Jenkins case of the "Green River Murders". This is the only case that had the final conclusion of the case changed from cause of death unknown, to homicide. I know Pat Brown, she is a great human being, in fact, she assisted me back in the early days of the investigation. Her public take on the case back then, was that Chris and some of the other missing college aged males, where very possibly victims of a serial killer. She even had a name of a particular person of interest, that I had spent quite a bit of time on. He went to prison in Missouri for some bizarre and illegal sexual acts. That being said, there is an emormous amount of evidence and information, including a confession, and a witness to Chris' murder that indeed, there is an organized group responsible for a number of disappearences around the country. Perhaps the term "serial killer" is misleading, and a better term for these ruthless individuals, would be "organized crime" with abduction and murder being one of the essential elements of their criminal enterprize. This is an organized group, and the residue of evidence left behind at various crime scenes, have left much more than just a "smiley face." The smiley face is just something the media has hung it's hat on. Although I do like Pat Brown, and she is extremely knowledgable in her field, she would probably be the first to admit, that there are always new and more evolving patterns of criminal enterprize that sometimes even sidetrack the experts. These investigations are ongoing, and the killing appears to be ongoing. Law enforcement, to date, has turned it's back on these cases, as, one: they are hugely complex, and two, in some cases, including the Jenkins case, there were police officer(s) involved at certain degrees of culpability. Kevin Gannon, Tony Duarte, and myself, have sacrificed alomost all thay we own to stay connected to these cases. None of us are makeing anything on them. I am not currently working in concert with Mr. Gannon in these investigations, but am involved at another level, in the state of Minnesota, and other connected cases. Posted by: chuck loesch at June 26, 2008 2:32 PM Profiles aren't always correct. Perfect and most ominus example is Gary Leon Ridgeway the "Green River Killer". If investigators in King County Washington followed the profile like a Christian follows the Bible, Gary Ridgeway would still be butchering Prostitutes from the SEATAC Strip. After a decade of frustration the lead investigator personally went back a reviewed an interview Seattle's own "Favorite" son Ted Bundy. Bundy's profile which he did just before he was executed in Florida's Electric chair said don't go by the FBI profile and that it was garbage. Seventeen years later after the interview with Bundy when the lead investigator finally interviewed Ridgeway after his final arrest. He asked him some of the profile questions Bundy had theorized... perfect match. The investigators felt like real idiots they hadn't gave Bundy's profile a fair shot. Probably would have saved at least a couple of dozen lives. I really believe this is a situation were a serial Killer or maybe a pair of them are at work. Too many pieces of the puzzle fit. The smiley faces the fact that all deaths occur during odd moon cycles and during the same time of the year. But, at most I think it is a pair of killers working together. People say that Big college boys couldn't be victims, but, they are all extremely drunk when their deaths occur. Also, I don't think that all 40 of these deaths are from this serial killer. Some are probably just coincidence. If I were the police I would focus my investigation on the 12 or so victims that had a smiley face at the scene. From all accounts there seems to be more evidence at these crime scenes. Hopefully this Killer(s) will be caught soon. Posted by: J. Nelson at July 2, 2008 1:43 PM If you read on ritual murders then you will find police being killed for getting to close to the answers. google: Officer Ted Gunderson satanic ritual murders Why has the socialpsycho profile system not worked? is the essential question. This science is only about 7yrs old so it will take years and computerization to be more useful than it has. That means Li and other's info. input is essential to continued development of data for use in creating a usable profile system. There have been arrests using the sociopsycho profile system but rarely. If you ever have searched for something lost in your home for days then you know how valuable it is to motivation to have system that can come up with clues otherwises you would throw up your arms in defeat. A detective cannot do this with a killer because he knows that they often kill again and other lives are at stake so sociopsycho is another tool to keep his efforts alive with the hope of preventive investigation. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 251 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/5/2008 9:40:43 PM Loonytunz, Li had difficulty speaking english, his minister said on CBC that Li worked 6mths after Li arrived in Canada at his Church that gave him a start here. That station has to be wrong. I am saying that there is an accumulative set of factors that contributed to Li's state and I don't know what these are so I brought up real possibilities such as isolation resulting from language deficiencies and cultural differences, etc.. Look at immigrant suicide stats by going to stats Canada's website. Compare them to heritage Canadians. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 239 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/5/2008 11:14:08 AM I clipped this for another site: Anonymous said... I'm surprised that nobody mentioned the popular culture's influence on this crime. In the movie "The Legend of Zorro" (which was showing in the bus) Zorro's brother's head is cut off and pickled in a jar. Perhaps this guy lost touch with reality and thought it would be cool to chop off someone's head like in the movies. Curse the main stream media. Me: I read an article in a Toronto newspaper that in Indonesia that everytime a horror movie is released that the hospitals emergency psych wards are jammed as the horror puts these people into a psychosis/psychotic state. What is with their brains that makes them succeptable to being pushed over the edge by what they see? Ask the bus riders. There is what is called hypnotic suggestion. A friend of mine is in the hospital from a great deal of bodily injury from a major fall. He was found lying on his room floor. He told me that he fell asleep whilst CSI was on TV because the background music was putting him to sleep. He had a reality quality dream where a man was going to kill his son so he put his legs off the bed, his feet onto the floor, and he got tangled in the tubes in his arms, he ripped those out of his arms, he was not going to let anything stop him from saving his son, then he got tangled in the bed sheets around his legs and as he fell forward came out of the dream and partially broke his fall and he laid on the floor for a long time as the nurses had closed his room door because he had complained of the corridor noise. He was certain that the CSI story had integrated into his sleep state dream and a script was followed to save his son. It near cost him his life. This is another reason that we as a society need his assessment to occur and to have killed him is to lose this valuable information. Sleep deprivation plus isolation plus hunger plus suicidal thoughts plus a TV transmitted movie with a decapatation in it could have been the perfect combination of factors to bring about this end. Executing him could cost more human lives if we lose this opportunity to learn the factors that added up to this outcome and others that are experiencing combinations of some of the same factors then seek mental emotional spiritual health therapies to reduce possible harmful outcomes. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 235 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/5/2008 9:37:50 AM To person that said, What have we learned from Mansion and Dahlmer? That these two person are not in anyway the same. Mansion did not murder anyone by his own hands, if at all. Dahlmer murdered each one by his own hands and was a serial killer. That is the start of what we have learned. The murders put onto manson were the spawn of a man that killed a biker and the druggy women that thought that they could create a divergence away from him by doing a number of killings. Dahlmer practiced cannibalism, the druggie group associated with the murders didn't. Dahlmer was opportunistic in selecting his victims and the druggies had a plan that went awry. The police have hired psycholgists that do profiles on killers that are yet to be caught so that the police have some basis with which to start selecting potential perpetrators. These profiles are based on patterns of previous psycho killers so that is a major benefit of not killing each of them so that we can learn patterns of behaviour that identify the killer asap. We also want to try to find them before they kill and many killers have sought mental health services because of their delusions of killing but the mental health professionals have declared them sound so the mental health professionals are continuing to learn to recongize the killing delusions earlier. What did bullying ever accomplish? War. What did war every accomplish? Killing. What did killing ever accomplish? More killing. This is a vicisious cycle that leads to more killing so some wise person said, maybe we should study mental illness and see if we can decrease the kill rate. Sound dumb to some, especially bullies. But again the facts speak for their self....murder rates per capita have dropped since the death penalty has been abolished. The police and mental health community in a major washington state city developed a protocol to get the mentally ill homeless to the mental facility when they are acting up from dropping off their meds. There is a place for keeping the mentally insane and studying them for the purpose of improving policing in thier regards. It is a crying shame that no one recognized this mans deteroriation sooner...perhaps because his language skills in english were isolating him from telling others than his wife...which one forum writer indicates was fighting with him so she may not have understood the signs of mental illness. The scientists might determine that there is a need to develope immigrant based commercials to bring to the immigrant non english speaking communities info about mental illness signs to catch some of them before they get to Li's stage. Common sense is that you learn to kill indirectly when you support the killing of others including by death penalty. You are a willing participant in the killing of another human. And that is what manson did. He never personally carried it out but he knew about it and allowed it but did not lead it what makes a society better than him if it does this? How many innocents persons were killed by the gov't with the people of Canada's lust for vengeance that later were proved to be innocent? To many! How many have been saved in recent years, that would have been killed by death penalty, but were released as found innocent? I can think of 5 so far. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 234 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/5/2008 9:00:08 AM Hi Loonytunz, I learned that the word normal is a concocted term that defines that life is a moving target, every changing and so is normal. Do you recall when homosexuality was not normal and was defined as and treated as a mental illness? I do realize the likelyhood that this man had a hunting knife for a purpose other than for his employment. That could include self defense. He may have been fear ridden since he came to Canada (strange land strange people, isolation) and paranoia set in. He feared that when he was travelling he might be attacked so he brought a knife. He may have carried that same knife when he was a newspaper carrier incase he was robbed. His mental health deteriorated and in his mind he was defending himself against what Mclean represented to him in his mind which God only knows that delusion unless Li reveals his delusions to the doctors/scientist assessors. What was Li hunting for when he got on that bus? Peace of mind by ridding himself of his mental/ emotional/ spiritual torment(s) that he carried for God only knows how long? We are all hunting for happiness, love, joy, peace, something. Some are just more isolated and unable to get their needs met especially immigrants without language skills. I feel the same as you do about wanting to kill the person that does henious murder (or pedophilia) on innocents as a opposed to ie: gangs killing gang members. However, I look at the facts on capital punishment, How did it save humans from beign murdered? What did it produce is THE more important question? The police chiefs across Canada warned the gov't that the previous year record of 49 murders would be more than tripled once the death penalty deterant was removed. The murder rate per capita has dropped ever since. The US has plenty of death penalty states and their murder rates are atrocious. The leaders set the example for the rest of society, if the leaders can kill then......? All mentally ill are a societal issue. Catch their illness early and identify psycopathic traits such as cruelty to animals without concience to the animals suffering then decrease the number that get to Li's stage. We can only try to reduce the numbers of murders as humans have human failings including failing to be human to humans. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 219 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/4/2008 11:33:44 AM Countrybaby: this is from a website: schizophrenia vs possession: There is a spiritual world. I got involved in it many years ago through the Ouija Board. I was a kind, happy, college girl at the time. After the spirit contact I was filled with hate and suicidal thoughts. I prayed for my deliverance and fought with all my might for my spiritual freedom and sanity. I prayed and fought for two years while I had bad dreams and spiritual torture. Then one night I was awakened by a sudden jerk of the muscles in my body and I knew I was delivered. The spirit that was torturing me was gone. You can tell me how all this was my subconscious and there was no spirit. I will NEVER believe you. I know there is a spiritual world and the spirits can and do hurt people. If there were only more people in the mental health field who recognized that there is a spiritual side to psychology--everyone would be better off. Oh yes, I know there is the New Age meditation and concentrating on the "white light" in Yoga and other practices some areas that psychological counseling embraces. That can contribute to summoning of the spirits if the person participating is spiritually sensitive. Psychology is contributing to a spiritual problem when it confirms these practices as "healing." That is the true shame. I am telling you that there are many, many people out there who make a normal practice of channeling the spirits. There is major interest in channeling and communication with the dead. Once these people are in spirit possession--maybe psychology can make the voices a little more silent, but it will NEVER recognize the true problem--a spirit that is torturing a person. That is the ultimate shame because with the right spiritual help, they could be free of pills and get their sanity back. It is worth it to read about your question so that you can learn to discern between the two. In Africa, schizophrenics are considered to be in touch with God so that if a person has a question that no one else can answer then they ask a schizophrenic. The psychiatrist that coined the word schizophrenia withdrew his support for this term in the last 10 years. He said that he and the other doctors working on mental illnesses had lumped together a set of symptoms that they then coined schizophrenia. In later years they started to recognize new symptoms in those same persons that were not included in schizophrenia therefore some had other mental illnesses. He said if they had not of done this then many other mental illnesses/diseases would have been discovered and these people would have received very different treatments. Therefore the labelling of all that shared these common symptoms has held these persons back from receiving the treatments that may rid them of their different diseases and instead of being stuck on schizo drugs for life. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 216 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/4/2008 11:11:45 AM I would not be to quick to label him schizo. I suggest you google: Mkultra McGill University Dr. Cameron as this is another way to induce this outcome. The man could have been in the Chinese military and been trained to kill for instance. His methodology was consistent with the slaughter of an animal and so he could have done this or seen this on a farm in China either as a child or older. Again, it's important that a longer term assessment be done on him, I think the victim's family deserves as much as can be found out as to the reason they lost their loved one. We as a society need the same for us to recognize any early signs, if they exist, to prevent even lesser outcomes than this horrible way of losing one's life. God help him. He is going to need it. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 212 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/4/2008 10:26:42 AM Re read my post. No where does it say that Mclean taunted Li. I was talking about during his pretravel to find a job. Li's mind might have misinterpreted Mclean's laughter to be the same as those that laughed at his english and cultural differences. I am not blaming the victim. I am saying that Li "could" have been reminded of his painful past experiences by Mclean's laughter which triggered him to select McLean specifically and not others, which Li had a smoke break with outside the bus prior to Li reseating himself beside McLean specifically. I realize reading any of these postings can trigger our own "feelings of being blamed for something we did not do" but that is not the purpose of my posting. It is to open discussion. So please do discuss it, without blaming me for your own feelings and reactions to my posting. Thank you. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 209 (view)   Horror on Canadian bus as man beheaded.... Posted: 8/4/2008 9:53:01 AM Race could have played a role in that Li's english was hard to understand and some may have made fun of him. Immigrants often experience isolation to various degrees and in some areas but not others. Immigrant suicide rates are closer to aboriginal rates than with heritage populations. Being mocked whilst feeling isolated can drive a native to drink and commit suicide so it raises the possibility that Li suffered some of this. He may have also felt being a carrier was below his station in life which he held back in China and Chinese are honour and respect conscious and thus he went to find a better job elsewhere. That may have been a humiliating experience. It reminds me of the recent Japanese man that attacked and killed large numbers of people in Japan. Li may not have slept for days during his travel to find the new job and his return so he may have been sleep deprived. Mclean's ipod headphones may have been putting out the ts,ts,ts, sounds that anyone that has sat beside a user may hear and this may have drove Li over the edge into a delusional state. The voice of the singer on a song may have had a voice that put Li into auditory hallucinations. During the smoke break off the bus, Li may have taken Mclean's laughter as just another person degrading him as Mclean had been know to laugh about life itself. He may have been involved with animal slaughter in China or been in the military. The possibilities of cause are many but two. Li was seen causing Mclean's death. Our best hope is for scientists to study Li to find out what went wrong in his brain and mind that Li could take such a heneous action without his conscience kicking in and stopping him. Given that he is silent now perhaps he was silently suffering without his wife, minister and employer ever realizing the pain he was in. Given what he did, the pain must have been unbearable and that makes a mind irrational and like actions follow. Perhaps, the assessment will be best if Li had his wife and then his minister present so he can gain his voice to speak of what he was experiencing so we may find this used to identify other potential perpetrators before they go beserk whether silent as Li was or loudly. Pray for him that he spill out what moved him to such actions so that others may be saved. Amen. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 193 (view)   The instant chemistry demand Posted: 7/4/2008 6:44:50 PM I also see a significant number of female profiles re: chemistry. I often respond with, "Relationships form over time" "Chemistry is spontaneous and lacks longevity" "Arranged marriages last a lifetime more often than North American marriages and there is no chemistry involved in their decision. The two people become one over time as they bond together." I found that the majority of women and men that put chemistry as a requirement put it there because they fear long term relationship committments.  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 12 (view)   ROOT CANALS POSE HEALTH THREAT ?? Posted: 7/4/2008 12:51:55 PM I had a tooth infection, the bacteria went into my blood stream and into my heart... so cardio-vascular from root canals is not rubbish. A lawyer friend of mine passed out and a heart monitor machine showed his heart to be okay. I told him about my loss of health including heart pains from the bacteria travelling fr0m my teeth through my blood to my heart. The next day his dentist told him that his root canal had become infected and that it likely was the contributing factor to his heart ailment and passing out and that it takes up to 9 months for the infection to completely clear out. Another friend that was on a plane to Rome Italy passed out and was in the hospital there for 3 months, a bacteria that started in his root canal moved into his heart. Any horse buyer will first check the teeth of the horse looking for signs that the horse has disease elsewhere in it's body. We have to know that if we suspected disease in the mouth then we must take action to clear it up immediately or we risk death or damage to our health and organs including heart kidney liver...brain. Jim  AdvisorX Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 21 (view)   CLEANING YOUR Colon a bad thing or good thing ????? Posted: 7/3/2008 8:58:26 AM The founder of quack watch found guilty in a Court of Law: http://www.canlyme.com/quackwatch.html Try http://www.westonaprice.org/ a non profit activist group of scientists and caring persons to compare information so you can make a more informed decision. Best of health to you Jim, AdvisorX  AdvisorX Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 43 (view)   If you found a maggot in your food what would you do Posted: 6/29/2008 7:07:24 AM I would ask the maggot to move over so I could get in on the food also, after all I'm paying and the maggot isn't. I would call the staff and other customers over and show them then ask for the manage as to what he is going to do about this in writing, then take your chicken and call a health inspector for others safety and take it to a lawyer. I would short the shares in KFC....uccck.....their chicken lost it's appeal 30 years ago. Jim  AdvisorX Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 79 (view)   Is it getting to expensive to continue to live single? Posted: 6/28/2008 3:22:41 PM As a concerned person and a business person, I have held the view that the greatest single disease in Toronto is lonliness and its effects on health such as substance abuse and suicide. That many condo owners are working excessive hours and stesses and have little disposable income to socialize and meet a life partner. But when the economy falls then a significant number of these single person condos owners will not be able to afford to carry their condo and will lose it. They will then find accomodations in condos where the owner needs that person's rent to afford to carry their condo ownership, etc. costs. In moving together with no mortgage payments then they will have more disposable income and less stress and socialize more resulting in more singles getting married including the person that they moved in and are renting from. Sometimes, bad can be converted or turns out to be a blessing. People are not conscious that money can become near worthless in a hyperinflation scenario and that no matter how much they saved they cannot make it on their own. This happened in the Wermar German Republic period where it took a wheelbarrow of money to buy a loaf of bread. God help us not to experience this. Jim  AdvisorX Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 11 (view)   Citizen's Supporting Their Rights to Health Choices Posted: 6/28/2008 3:02:24 PM 3 DDD's you have the fundamentals of recovery and maintainance figured out so congratulations. I hold that there are 6 billion people on the planet so there are tons of possible solutions that we are yet to encounter. The solutions maybe in the jungles, in a far away city, in an insect, a plant, in the ocean....so we who seek healing move onwards to try solutions.....improvements in health come before those that are truth seekers and venturesome....those stuck in the drug system languish and the numbe of drugs they on expand over the years and the drug's side effects increase. They are one solution one health system stuck and only know what some doctor that only knows chemical based drugs solutions largely. My heart goes out to them as they are headed for the worst.....I've been there. I am largely back and my intent is to be fully healthy as I was created by God to be. I said a prayer that you come sooner than later upon your solution and have joy in your life. Have you tried EFT (emotional freedom technique)? its on the net and can be done by you on your self for pain reduction. It is one of the most amazing discoveries in the last 50 years and cost zero. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 151 (view)   Migraines? Posted: 6/24/2008 8:53:01 AM Are related to a pain in the ass. Get your colon cleaned. If you are using any supplements such as vitamin and minerals or herbs be aware that the Canadian gov't is passing a law to take your rights of access to these away from you under Bill C51 & 52. 26thJune 7PM Ontario Institute in Education auditorium there are speakers explaining the facts of these new laws to stop these being passed. Be informed or lose your rights as gov'ts are passing more laws that restrict your rights and freedoms beyond this one. Go to a health food store and they will have info on this. Big pharma wants these to be only sold in drug stores which will push the price up beyond the reach of most citizens. Be there, support you own democratic rights! Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 373 (view)   18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 6/23/2008 12:34:08 PM I can only tell you that those that I have met that married young to older men regret their decision later on in life because they feel they didn't have a chance to experience their youth and limited themselves to one man. But that is Canadian women that i have heard this from. In other cultures, there is acceptance of younger women marrying older men because marriage is not of convenience but of a sacred duty to have and raise children and that it is all work for the couple in each of their respective roles. These marriages last a lifetime and the kids are well brought up. So though I personally would not marry a young woman because I enjoyed my youth and it's not fair to take away from these younger people the opportunity to live those amazing experiences that one needs youth to survive. On the other hand, all people are not me and many would be happy to have a steady consistent provider and father for their children and their self. Many a single parent mother in NAmerica would trade places with these women for this. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 5 (view)   Trigeminal neuralgia and pain management Posted: 6/22/2008 6:07:34 PM Yes, I suffer it from trauma to the nerve from the application of an phosphoric acid etching used by my dentist. I have had 2 years of it. I have had 4 teeth out to decrease it and this has worked to a degree but not completely. Yesterday, I did 10 minites of "Emotional Freedom Technique" "EFT" and this brought the inflammation and pain down 40% immediately. I intend to do more tonight to see if it reduces it further. I am scheduled to have 2 more teeth extracted July 4 so if this works meanwhile I will cancel those extractions. EFT can be done one your self with no one present because it is that simple. JimVella, AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 150 (view)   Migraines? Posted: 6/22/2008 5:59:48 PM In Japan, they eliminate migranes by giving the person collonics and nothing else. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 8 (view)   Citizen's Supporting Their Rights to Health Choices Posted: 6/21/2008 4:48:48 PM I think you have to have some sense of humour or the whole big corporate conspiracy's tentacles into our foods and water, etc. would drive you nuts if you were the type to tackle such issues. I am referring to your "real funny vaccines were never scientifically proven" statement. It is funny especially when the uninformed push them on everyone else just because they had their "free" flu shot...paid out of their tax dollars. And I also agree that charlatans abound where money is to be made. But I would rather get ripped off with a natural substance than a chemical drug reaction! Speaking of charlatans, Did you know that the founding Rockefeller sold petroleum based health products, and was alleged to be a horse thief? I suppose petroleum jelly has it's place and he was of that place? (anus) Anyway, I hope that you attend the 26June 7PM OISE auditorium gathering of speakers on taking away our rights under bill C51 to have freedom of access to natural substances. Especially to hear Dr. Chopra xUnhealth Canada to tell about how the gov't approves toxic substances for human use and consumption. flyer is on: www.consumerhealth.org Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 45 (view)   Social Anxiety Disorder Posted: 6/20/2008 7:33:23 PM Try the very simple "Emotional Freedom Technique" it takes about 1hour 1 time and can alleviate an anxiety on the spot. You can learn it quickly to do it on your self without any help from anyone. Essentially, a finger's nail is tapped onto accupunture points located on the side of your finger nails of one hand then the face then collar bone then under the arm, etc, all on the same side of your body. Whilst you must stay present with your upset feeling(s) of anxiousness and the following is repeated each time you tap, "I completely accept myself even though I feel upset about......". There is a few more words and motions to do including specific eye movements whilst staying in the feelings of upset. But essentially what i said is close. It works on the parasympathetic nervous system and releases the stored energy related to the upset that intensifies your experience when certain feelings are triggered. I hope that you gain back your life and have love. Jim Oh the other one is to "consciously breathe" when you feel the anxiety feelings begin and "listen to the sound of your breath" and "feel your breath as it moves up your nose. Pull your breath up your nose hard and fill your sinuses and when you feel your sinuses opening up then pull the breath up your nose, into your sinus, through your brain to the back of your head, down your neck, down your spine, down your legs and out your feet. Breath is energy and it will clear your mind and stimulate the pineal pituary and hypothalmus located in the brain and healing hormones will be released and you will get an increasing sense of wellbeing....oh and breathe in all the love of those that love you....your friends, family, co workers,...breath love through you and in you until your cells fell loved. Love is calming. Jim Again.  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 1 (view)   Toxic: fish oil, vitamins, minerals, herbs, natural diet substances, etc. Posted: 6/20/2008 6:52:25 PM Toxic Says Canadian Gov't and is about to pass a law to ban these from being readily accessable to Canadians and then this law Bill C-51 will be repeated in the US. Instead only if any of these are approved by Unhealth Canada then will these be only sold in drugs stores if at all. Dr. Chopra formerly with Health Canada led the scientists fight against the Gov'ts pressure to approve what it wants approved even if it is toxic will be speaking on 26June08 OISE auditorium 7PM and listen to him about what the gov'ts plan to declare as toxic: vitamins, and herbs and suppliments including fish oils. You have a right to be informed about toxicity of natural substances but no one not even the damn gov't has the right to approve toxic whatevers for your consumption or chose for you what you can and cannot put in your body. This is not longer our gov't . It is their gov't......corporations including big pharma taking over health suppliment companies and then getting legislation passed to extend their control where these are only sold in their drug stores. Guess, what business the company that controls Shopper's Drug Mart is in? Tobacco. Does owners that sell drugs and tobacco mix with owners of health foods....these are the opposite consciousness. One is addictive and one is freeing of one's health to move up. Come to OISE, learn about the con of Unhealth Canada, learn how the gov't is going to take your right to chose away, and get involved on the level that you can....every little bit helps defeat the gov't bill c-51. Thank you, Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 5 (view)   Citizen's Supporting Their Rights to Health Choices Posted: 6/20/2008 6:32:21 PM Thanks Redwood, I emailed on your page. Good info in it. I appreciate your concern for fellow humans and this is the 3rd time they have tried this, petitions stopped them in previous occassions. Even the King reads petitions. And they are n't the kings they think they are. The question is, do most people accept being a peon and that the King won't listen to them so they allow their freedoms and rights to be taken away? Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 1 (view)   Citizen's Supporting Their Rights to Health Choices Posted: 6/19/2008 6:26:21 PM Democracy is not a small number of people's responsibility, it's all citizens. The Canadian gov't wants to pass a law to stop citizens from their right to chose where they purchase natural health substances. When the number of citizens that support a democracy drop below a certain level then power is left exclusively in a small groups hands and they pass legislation that they think is best.....best for WHO?.......you or best for.....guess them? Look at our Canadian gov'ts' record to do a reality check on WHO it's best for? We the citizens of Canada face a declining democracy that has been eroded over time so that at each drop citizens become accustomed to another loss of their rights. I want to pick something that is currently relative that we can see democracy in action by citizens. Are you aware that their gov't is currently moving towards passing Bill C-51? It is not in the mainstream media but essentially the informed citizenry that are organizing to stop this legislation see it as taking every citizen's rights to access and choice of where they can purchase a health related product of their choice. For instance, vitamin, minerals and herbs will no longer be available under the new law in health food stores. Instead these will be purchased at drug stores and we see many of these being not even available in the drug stores. Big pharma controls 15% of all remedies currently. Pharma wants the 85% which are natural substance based. Bill C-51 will give them this opportunity. Persons that purchase these natural substances are often low income and these substances are their only hope out of a life time of chemical drugs for their conditions. The general public has lost confidence in chemical based drugs. Natural substances are a massive growing competition for chemical based drug sales and the drug companies's profits are already reeling from massive lawsuit losses for drugs that included outright lies that some of these drugs delivered healthy results when they knew that there were significant harmful side effects. An informed citizen is a tool that can protect their own rights. Don't be the gov'ts tool. Be your own. Be informed. Be active in protecting your own democratic rights. Come and hear Dr. Chopra xUnHealth Canada that lead the fight within it against the gov't trying to force approval of bovine hormone that would have ended up in milk and it's health consequencies, amongst other fights he and other health canada scientists were involved with to stop the gov't from forcing them to approve products harmful to or potentially harmful to your health. OISE auditorium 26June08. Be a citizen and join any group to put gov't back into our hands...any group! or you will continue to see legislation passed to reduce your rights and freedoms. God bless, we are going to need His support to save our democracy. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 17 (view)   China is NOT drilling off of Florida coast Posted: 6/16/2008 7:58:29 PM Dick Cheney, the master of deception, that got the US and England into a invasion of Iraq using fabricated intelligence data, is the originator of this China drillling story. He retracted it late last week. I have a question, if the US can drill the shit out of the rest of the world and install dictators to protects it's oil interests then this should be also expressed so that people see that both are problematic unless oil is oil and drilling is drilling no matter who drills for it. In Canada, oil is drilled by companies from alll over the planet and Canada lost it's soverignty to the new North American Union governing body as did the US. That is more of a threat to US soverignty than the Chinese. It is irrelevant if the Chinese drill in Florida if they follow US laws. US oil Co's such as Exxon sell them oil and any oil they discover will only displace that which they purchase for US co's anyway. Don't be sanctimonous about US gov't ethics when it comes to oil. Florida's oil is a pinch in the ocean compared to the gulf of mexico and louisiana oil. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 57 (view)   He Stood Me Up Posted: 6/15/2008 7:30:08 AM I would like to share my experiences and knowledge about people that relates to your experience. His behaviour is people behaviour, not mens but both. When you are in a place where there is people and you see a man that interests you then you get to observe his behaviour when he is with others. If his behaviour is unacceptable to you then your interest is lost. Dating sites give no such opportunity. People in good faith contact others and responses range for acceptable to nasty. Meeting a lot of people through these type of sites produces the same range of experiences. You meet someone you like or your like a lot. All goes well and it's terrific between you then they disappear with no rhyme or reason given. After a few times of these painful experiences, one becomes unsure of their own personal ability to assess and judge suitability of one's selection. Loss of sureness in one's ability starts to affect behaviour with the next person and emotions rule. Do I want to be hurt again, what can I rely on to be sure because the previous persons I met that I was sure of didn't work out or they disappeared? Mix this in with extra busy crammed lives and limited time to find a suitable partner for life and the longer that the partner has not be found then the demands of nature take precedent to find that opposite sex partner now! Loneliness is painful and it can send a person into an emotional tivy that produces flaky behaviours in the most unflaky person. Fear of more and long term loneliness moves people in the worst behaviours that if you described this persons behavior to his friends you might find that they have a totally different experience and knowledge of him than you describe. Time is the greatest healer. We have to give time for relationships to form. They are not like TV relationships where spontanaity rules. People have their own picadillos which they tend to repress initially as the opposite sex person that they are with might be turned off before they know each other. First time meetings are a delicate dance of showing one's good side and retaining ones identify because of the repression of one's other traits that may cause the loss of their very needed companion in ones life. Don't be fooled by fools that say that they don't need another person in their life....we are God created social beings and we need others and males and females are exact biological fits for each other or the human race would not exist. This is plain sight truths and it's truths that drive us to fulfill our God given needs. Blessings on your path of fulfilling God's greatest gift Love....He loved us so much He sacrificed His Son. Love requires sacrifice, the more you are there for this man then the more his confidence will be restored in himself and you will have an opportunity to have a lifetime partner. Be frank with him and tell him that how you feel when he is inconsistent and be patient. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 564 (view)   why do men think they can use women for sex? Posted: 6/10/2008 5:11:43 PM Suspend your concepts of men until you have finished reading this. First of all, they are males first and later in life develope into men. So to understand their behaviour you have to understand them as males, not men. Typically most women do not understand the nature of males and worse they apply expectations to males that is consistent with female nature and when their male fails to act consistent with their female expectations then they try to feminize their male, often unknowingly. Males often do the same. Males don't "think" about sex. Sexual thoughts come into males' minds automatically on their own. Nature hardwired male sexual thoughts into their mental and physical programs so that it comes into their mind about 30 times a day every day 365 days per year 366 days in a leap year 24 hours a day, they even ejaculate in their sleep without being conscious it occurred. Women have menstruation that effects the frequency of their sexual thoughts and men have no like interruption. Males produce sperm constantly. Females are born with their eggs and begin in puberty to release an egg monthly. Males are compelled by their sex drive to move a female to have intercourse and females are unconsciously programmed to avoid pregnancy by just any male to father their offspring. I am just trying to give you a few biological differences that bring males to behave as they do. However, as God's creation we are gifted with a higher reasoning capacity to insure for instance that our babies are born into a circumstance that gives them the highest survival rate which means 2 parents. This would normally have been a factor in a females decision to risk pregancy in pre-birth control era and they would have not participate in sex randomly with a male(s) except for those that are unhealthy mental-emotional-spiritually. Pre birth control women has a common reason to not be promiscous against their own female nature programing and sluts who did not care if they got pregnant were not competition for the healthy males then but birthcontrol caused a level playing field and a male is susceptable to being manipulated by those females because they know that sex is frequently on the mind of males and if she offers him sex then his male nature takes over, as it was designed to do, and his nature will direct him towards the female that wants to have intercourse noowwww! Females that want to have a male in a permanent relationship to be the father for thier offspring are finding less and less males available to this end because birthcontrol allows the males to be satisfied sexually without the responsibility of fatherhood which is financially and physically burdensome. I would do it again and again because I love my children but with more and more adults being from divorced families, the males and females are scared of failing at parenthood as a result of their failed marriage. Females also are less and less willing to delay having their materialistic wants NOW as a result of having to financially support children. They are more and more waiting until they are heading towards 4o to have their first child, risking having a down syndrome child. What you are living in is an artificial reality as current birthcontrol is artificial meaning that nature did not create these devices but Jews only have sex at a point in the females cycle monthly and from what i hear they appreciate it more because it's not like going to a fridge to get a sandwhich whenever you like to, instead their is anticipation and desire is built up over the month and they are excited to have sex at that time that is best for that woman. Jim, AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 12 (view)   Why is my ex-husband contacting me when made the decision to abandon my family? Posted: 6/10/2008 4:34:45 PM Your x-husband is unable to escape what is driving his nasty behaviour. However, by putting onto you he alleviates some of the pain from whatever major hurt in his past. S&M is about hurt, being hurt and hurting, he's hurt inside and he is driven by his pain to share his hurt with those that he loves, probably as those that loved him hurt him. I have a counselling background and know that when a hurt person is seperated from those that he or she loves then this ads hurt ontop of the hurt that they were already carrying most of their life and that excessive volume of hurts will move that person to behaviours that are of the nature you describe. Sounds to me that you married a wounded man, and just as with an animal that is wounded they will turn and run at you. Your children carry his DNA, his mentality, his history, it is in the children's best interest that their father be healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically. For your children's sake, take the materials that he has sent you, email logs, the ad, etc.. and present to the Court in the most positive light that for the children he is their father and that it is in their best interest that their father be healthy and that he be ordered for assessment in the children's and his best interest long term. The children when they become teens onwards will seek him out and if that experience is negative then it could devastate them for life such traumas are the makings of dealing with the overwhelming pain of being hurt by one or both of the two most important persons in every humans life...their mother and their father. Coventant House NYork did a study on teen suicide. There is only one common factor with male and female teens that attempt or succeed at suicide and that is the "absence of their father". The father maybe in the home but is inattentive to the child's emotional mental spiritual needs and the child needs their father's love and approval so badly that they take on misbehaving and if that doesn't work with their father then they run away and if that doesn't work then they commit suicide. Just because your X is no longer your husband doesn't mean that he is no longer the children's father and they have no attachment to him. I would suggest that emotionally he is like a child where if he doesn't get his way then he will disattach himself as he had to do in his own abandonment whenever in his life by his loved ones. He is likely unable to accept that he is harming himself more than the children and you by his behaviour because they don't have to live with him and he has to live with his ugly self. You are stuck in an unkind situation. Do everything you can legally to get a Court to Order him into an assessment for his and your common children's best interests. Try the George Hull Family Centres for an assessment of your children and your self now so you can take it into Court in support of him being assessed. Explain to the assessor the effect of the father's behaviour and how to best help and or deal with him. I will pray for you all as that is all I can do. God Bless your children and you and their father. jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 74 (view)   Codex Alimentarius AKA Bill C-51 vitamin ban Posted: 6/10/2008 10:34:10 AM As you may know their corporate sneaky gov't is about to pass Bill C51 and C52 to take vitamins, minerals and herbs out of the health stores and put into drug stores (big pharma influences our gov't but not you or I..unless we group together). Libby Gardon, president of 35 year old charity consumer health org, is one of the leaders fighting for our rights to chose our own medicine against gov't intervention. She needs persons to flyer for the 26June 7PM O.I.S.E. auditorium gathering with Helke Ferrie and Dr. Chopra (fired from Health Canada for unwillingness to approve chemicals in our foods). They will speak on big pharma's takeover of alternative health industry to limit us to their chemical unnatural supplements crap. A petition signing 3 times in past has stopped this legislation from being passed. This time big pharma and their Canadian gov't didn't inform the public yet. Given that we found out late to organize the same high amount of signatories, Libby needs your help, contact her through google: consumer health organization. Blessings  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 17 (view)   Tell me, what is your opinion on Globalization ? Posted: 5/17/2008 7:36:01 AM "Globalization" is for the naive, the word that is. There is no "globalization", there is de-democratization globally. For instance, Canada-US-Mexico's citizens never voted for the "Peace and Prosperity Agreement" which moves these 3 countries under 1 set of laws and rules, etc. and more importantly that citizens did not have a voice in. What we see is a non-elected body making laws for citizens of these 3 countries. In Europe, there was votes by citizens in the formation of the European Union but in the aforementioned citizens are not being told of the ramifications of the unification of laws under a foreign body or power. NAmerica is being unified without it's citizens being informed via the mass media except Lou Dobbs CNN. The heads of the Counsel of Canadians and the Canadian Action Party and the NDP told me that they are not able to get the mass media to print about the North American Union. So these are on the net. The gov'ts rely on the investment markets to place their debt paper and those that control the investment firms that sell gov't debt paper into the markets want a Union of the Americas, a Union of Asian Countries, and they have a European Union already. Each will have their own regional gov't as the EUnion does already and then there will be a governing body over these 3 governing bodies.....and you will not be able to elect any official in all of these 4 higherachial governing bodies. They globalized corporations do and will have more control over these 4 governing bodies. Just to give you a flavour of the laws that can get passed without your knowledge by these 4 governing bodies, "Natives shall not be entitled to any of the proceeds of gambing on the reserves." This means that at some future date that the governing body can revoke current share revenue or profit agreements between domestic governments and aboriginal governing bodies, this was in NAFTA according to a promonent benefits consultant in an article in Benefits Canada magazine. According to the Reverend for the Toronto Police, the UN passed a law that the agent of consent to have sex is 9 years of age.....the UN in some future revamped form will be the governing body over the 3 other governing body. In a conversation with a Canadian that lived in SAfrica and was one of the military's top defence stratigests, he stated that same law. When the full 4 new global governing bodies are in full power then we will see the completion of what we see in a minor form currently, the commoditization of all including human life. Owning of human life and that means enslavement. Anyone will be able to buy or sell human's legally, that is what prostitution is.....it's a person selling their self except now it will be a global market. The same will occur on all skills and the market price will fluctuate according to demand just as you see with the gas station price signs that rotate in a flash with market price. All commerce will be done with "debt card" so that controllers of the 4 new governing bodies get a % of all commerce done globally. UK police announced in "The Guardian" a reputable newspaper that UK police will be micro chipped. The Toronto Star had an article "Medical Science wants to micro-chip you" about the new US gov't approved micro-chip for human implantation. The Patriarch of the Greek Orthodox Church told the Prime minister of Greece that there will be no European Union single identity number for Greek Citizens and the PM offered to have a Greece Single identity card number and the Partiarch said no there will be NO SINGLE IDENTITY NUMBER FOR GREEK CITIZENS because it begins with three numbers that are related to enslavement. In Toronto, I was at the Silver Dollar Tavern to hear an singer and I joked with the door man that wanted to rubber stamp my wrist that at least it is better than in Europe where you have to be chipped to enter a VIP club. He went into a rage, "I got chipped in Europe to get in a VIP club and it bloody well hurt like mad!" Globalization is known in the highest circles as the ultimate control by an ultimate economic governing body that has nothing to do with democracy. Be aware and be wary of words, ie: globalization. Meaning of words is being changed and to their opposite. Keep in mind that we do not control the defining of words and that a governing body decides this and then it is put out via the mass mediums. That body is advised by social scientists that understand the impact of words on the mind of the listener so they design manipulative wording to motivate humans towards the governing bodies objectives. When words with like sounding pronunciations are spoken orally then the listener is unable to immediately know which of the like words the speaker is referring to but those in the know do. ie: Freedom becomes Freedum. Globalization will turn out to be "Freedum" for the 6billion human masses. Look at TV and media content and if your intelligence is still switched on and you are a questioning person then your mind will ask, "Who would want to see this junk? Its junk for the mind." (Look at MTV and critical question it's content) The younger generations are being dumbed down except where the controllers want the young to head towards, which is "disconnected from humanity", look at the young on the subways with their Ipods and they are not present with others on the same train. The sound levels are such that it can carry through most of the subway car and what the outsider hears is a constant repeated rift or sound. If you were listening to a vinyl analog record and it repeated the same rift over and over again then you would get upset and jump up and move the arm over because the record has a scratch and it is skipping back to the same rift but Ipod listeners will listen to repetition incessantly. Repeatition in this way is hypnotic and "drums in" the same sounds over and over into and imbeds that sound in the ipod listeners brain area for "numbers" as digital music is numerical and contains only two numbers "0" and "1", repeated over and over again in different order to make up the variations in sounds and computer processes. Those that spend significant portions of their lives around electro-magnetic computing devices are deeply affected by the absorption of.....well do some of your own research and find out about all of the aforementioned so you can decide for your self what "globalization" is and where it is taking humans of which you still may be one of the decreasing numbers of full functioning critical thinking humans. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 18 (view)   Pot smoking leads to Teen Depression/Suicide..... Posted: 5/12/2008 1:04:18 PM I was in the drug culture in the 60's and 70's and a partaker in pot smoking. That is when it was 4% THC (a soft drug) and now it's up to 18% THC (a hard drug). I found that many of my associations and friends are myopic on the subject of pot and get angry when it's negative effects are brought to their attention. They remind me of babies when someone tries to take their bottles away! The same happens with persons that use alcohol excessively, they get angry when anyone threatens their consumption. My daughters fiancee was a daily pot smoker, never been sick in his life, suddenly his health hit the skids and he had to stop smoking and doing exercise and losing the paunch that he got from the "munchies".....he went into a tail spin depression but did come through health wise. Why the depression? Because he had to "be in reality" like the rest of us non-dopers and all that he had escaped came before his mind at once The drug is not necessarily the problem but it is a contributing factor for escapists especially. Escaping periodically, that may work but to many are frequent users and are out of the greater reality that they must function in for survival reasons. The worst of pots drug's effects is that The Canadian Mental Health Research has identified that young persons, genetically predestined to become schizophrenics at an older age, then the pot brings the mental illness on years earlier and with children from 11-17 using it then imagine the impact on them of losing their minds and to their parents and friends and community and the cost to society. If you are unwilling to look in the face of the young kids that are entering hospital mental health wards or psychiatric facilities then you are a liar! a liar to your self! and may have distributed some pot that ended in the hands of one of those kids and now they are in a lockup mental health facility. THINK of the KIDS for once instead of your own self and your desire to be high and may your soul enter heaven for your change of mind and not risk wasting future generations of children's lives. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 154 (view)   What would you say is the number one reason a women would reject a guy for? Posted: 5/11/2008 11:05:53 PM The number one reason is that guy is stupid enough to believe that the #1 reason matters. What matters is the reason(s) you are acceptable to women. Each woman will have a different reason and each woman with each different male will have a different reason per each male. When God make all men equal, he didn't make them all the same and that includes women. It means that knowing the number one reason does not mean you get the woman you want to chose because when you eliminate #1 reason there is still #2-#100. Say to each woman, I am always learning about relationships, what is it that you find important in the man you want to be with permanently? I find this this and this important......if they are turned off then you either are with the wrong woman or you have a mistaken view of what is healthy in a relationship with a woman. If you just get this right then you are 50% there and often once you get past that point the difficulty in reaching the top is that much easier. Blessings, in your learning experience. Jim, AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 512 (view)   Nature Posted: 5/8/2008 7:58:03 PM Nature produces variations so that the variations in living can be met successfully including that each person is unique unto their self and that makes them specialized to a degree where to survive they need other specialized persons so one gathers food whilst the other prepares the food. Together their outcome is higher than one person trying to do all tasks and finding out that there are many things that they are not proficient at because their natural capacities are to low to do those tasks or non-existant such as a male not gestating a baby. Our natural sensory systems are measuring the other person and then these are filtered through beliefs and mistaken beliefs that over time get identified when the person(s) that you are certain is right for you seperates from you and this causes a loss of confidence in your own ability to judge whom is the right person/mate for you. If this happens often enough then the person is going to develope an aversion to this decision and withdraw to safety such as not committing because committing has been hurtful. Complexs develope over time so that a person with some low areas end up with many other issues such as anxiety over the entire process of meeting, mate selection or rejection and vice versa, etc. How do we overcome nature when nature has preprogrammed us to make selections based on its' criteria and then we have programs that come from movies, books, basically many forms of multimedia and may mixed in with from our parents? Accept that we are only disappointed based on unmet expectations therefore don't expect anything. Go to met a person that might become a friend or might introduce you to her or his friend. If you expect that if you can make a new friendship then you can make a new relationship because your long term mate is your best friend or you are with the wrong person. 2ndly be respectful and be humane even if the person is not a fit or is disrespectful.....you take the high road. Persons with class of the heart tend to attract a healthier mate.....and a longer relationship. Consciously Breathe by listening to the air as it rushes up your nose with each breath when you feel anxiety or fear come on. Be you, as no one can do you better than you, after all who knows you better than you? Sorry, run out of time, must move on....Blessings in your interactions at your meetings and may you be chosen by someone who loves you. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 1 (view)   Brian Mulroney's Chief of Staff and RCMP Head charged w. fraud Posted: 12/7/2007 9:38:06 AM www.glenkealey.com FROM GLEN KEALEY'S ARCHIVES "Who was GLEN KEALEY?" Everyone I meet today still ask me about how it was that I managed to have the three top RCMP Commissioners charged with corruption by an Ottawa court in 1991, and what happened to them and to the four Senators, the four Cabinet ministers and former Prime Minister Brian Mulroney's Chief of Staff who were charged, simultaneously, with conspiracy to commit fraud upon the Canadian people. The following is a synopsis of how I came to be involved and the 15-year investigation I undertook that followed. In 1959 I began a 14 year career with Gestetner Canada, a British firm that manufactured and sold duplicating/ copying equipment worldwide. After spending time on service and customer relations in Toronto, I was promoted to sales and then sales management, in Montreal and Ottawa. I left Gestetner in 1973 to open a company of my own called Safari Office Products and operated it for a year and a half. Lacking challenge doing this I had stints managing the sale of printing and typesetting equipment and then ran a couple of copy centre operations of which I was part owner. It was in one of these businesses that I conceived the Micot project, a $160 million "Intelligent Building Complex". This was in 1981, long before the advent of the Internet. I put together a fund-raising program that raised the interest of bridge financing partners. Together we then raised a firm commitment for the $160 million construction cost (from blue chip pension funds) of MICOT, the Hotel/Office/ Showroom/Convention/Retail/Education "city-within-a-city" to be constructed on a 200,000 sq. ft. site directly across the Ottawa river from Parliament Hill. It would enclose 1.5 million square feet of "intelligent space" (pre-wired on a ten foot grid for computers and communications) and the two towers would rise to 24 stories. After acquiring the land from a school board and building a replacement school worth $3.6 million, the MICOT project (Manager's Institute of Communicating Office Technologies) was ready to proceed. In 1986, letters of Intent suggested that the project would be fully rented prior to opening day (3 years for construction) and that my remaining shares would then be worth $23 million; with further projected personal income amounting to more than $1 million annually. This is when I was approached by the Mulroney Tory government (by Roch LaSalle, the then Minister of Public Works) who requested that I pay the Tories 5% of the cost of the project ($8 million), plus a $5,000 messenger fee for himself personally. I refused outright, and subsequently the Tories, due to their secret insider Masonic contacts, took actions that then prevented the confirmed financing from going ahead. That is when I realised that I, in fact, must have lied to my children, as had my own care-givers lied to me, when I had led them to believe that in Canada we lived in "a democratic country ruled by law". I then understood that, to the contrary, we live in "a fascist country ruled by criminals" and I vowed that sometime before I died, I needed to get to the bottom of this newly arrived at understanding. To make a long story shorter let me just state that the Minister of Public Works's secretary had contacted me at my office and asked me to meet with LaSalle, at Nate's Restaurant, in Ottawa, for breakfast. Once there, LaSalle stated "the time has come for the Government to help your project ...and that will take some money." After a brief sales pitch made to me by LaSalle, on how lucky I was to be dealing directly with him as opposed to dealing through a third party, and with emphasis being placed on the fact that help would come my way as soon as I paid his up-front courier fee of $5000 cash (known in sales as "closing on a minor point"), he sat back and waited for my response. When I said "no way", that I would never pay a bribe and then also reminded him that our project was not a government project; that it was private sector in its function, and also, that immediately it would create 5,000 jobs for which he could take credit, LaSalle laughed and restated "when you're ready for your project to go ahead, call my secretary and bring the money to our next meeting". (Later, I offered, took, and passed, a 3.5-hour polygraph test administered to me by the Royal Canadian Mounted Police, based on the events that had transpired at this meeting). I then proceeded to my office where, by phone to Montreal, I informed my two partners, the financier and the architect. Both suggested that I might have been a little rash in turning him down (my own business experience was in technology and printing; theirs was in the construction industry of which I knew nothing). No matter, I was the President of the project and, as a result of our Unanimous Shareholders Agreement, my partners could not act against my wishes without breaching our contract. Later, they tried to steal control of the project away from me, but lost in the courts; the resulting publicity causing the project to die before its construction. However, they did make a large profit on the sale of the land to Bell Canada. When this bribe request first occurred I had put it down to the actions of a lone crook who happened to be in political office. After completing my investigation of all the facts surrounding the request for a bribe (5 years), I presented all of the evidence confirming the existence of a vast criminal conspiracy which I had compiled to a criminal court in Ottawa. The court agreed with me that the problem was systemic. Immediately warrants were issued for 16 people, including: a) the top 3 Commissioners of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police (ceasing and limiting police investigations of a political nature); b) the Prime Minister's Chief of Staff; c) 4 Top Senators; d) 4 Cabinet Ministers (called Secretaries in the USA) and other backroom flunkies, (all for Fraud upon the Government). However, once backroom Masons in the Just-us Department got involved, only 1 Senator was eventually sent to trial (Senator Cogger was eventually found guilty), while the rest scattered like the rats they were, on former Prime Minister Brian Mulroney's sinking political battleship. Most of the corrupt cops then went to work as auditors, either for banks or accounting firms (a la Arthur Andersen). My first suspicion that Freemasonry was somehow involved came to me as a result of an interview I did with the National Editor of the Toronto Globe and Mail, Paul Polango, in my home-office, in 1991. His interest in the role that Freemasonry had played, or not played, in my investigation which led to charges of "ceasing and limiting police investigations" being laid by the court in Ottawa against the top three Commissioners of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police had sparked my interest in Masons. Later, following my first sleep-over at the home of the then Globe reporter Stevie (Stephanie) Cameron, done at her invitation in order to fill her in on my knowledge of corruption during the Mulroney years, I was intrigued by the role that her husband had played in writing the unconstitutional Meech Lake Accord, on behalf of the same politicians that Stevie was, purportedly, investigating. As well, Stevie's holidays in a villa in the south of France also piqued my curiosity. Finally, the contacts that I had made during my years in business and subsequent to my faxing campaign to the then 91 Embassies in Ottawa during the Gustafson Lake native/Privy Council/ Rockefeller/media standoff in British Columbia, helped me to further understand the "missing links" in my ongoing research into The Grand Canal massive water diversion project, and former Prime Minister Brian Mulroney's employment by the world's first food cartel led by Archer Daniels Midland (ADM). ADM is the original spelling of the name Adam. It is Freemasonry's code word, along with "d y k e", meaning "containing the flow and diverting" from the original. As a result of all of the evidence discerned from the above, Freemasonry became my prime suspect. Furthermore, my personal contacts with MLA Gilles Rocheleau, the former mayor of Hull, Quebec, who later became the Minister for Public Security for the Province of Quebec, helped me to understand the links that existed between English Freemasonry and the French Jacobins. When alive, Rocheleau's restaurant in Hull (across the river from Ottawa) was called Le Bocage, which phonetically converts to Jacob when read backwards. This name conforms to the rules, or principles, of coding and decoding used by Zoroastrian Freemasonry. The rest was all reader-analyst type "police work" on my part. As a result of my 15 year investigation I have no problem believing that all politicians and all political parties are in fact "Cosmetic Leaders" who take the "public heat" created by the corrupt system's premier "Character Assassins" and opinion makers called the Media. Politicians don't now, nor have they ever run the country themselves. In Canada, they simply follow the instructions of Freemasonry which are sent to them through the Privy Council. Priests of Zoroastrian Freemasonry, with the assistance of their "character assassins" called the Media, benefit most in the short run from this systemic corrupt conspiracy. Glen EP Kealey, National President, Canadian Institute for Political Integrity PO Box 774, KemPTville, Ontario, Canada, K0G 1J0 Tel. (613) 258-2893; Fax. (613) 258-0015 Email : GlenCipiKealey@netscape.net The SculPTor Posted: 4:37 PM  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 50 (view)   Porn is not the illness on the net Posted: 8/28/2007 11:46:17 AM This is the correction: At that point the brain accepts that the porn is within it self and not external. i removed the word: "cannot" thanks, jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 49 (view)   Porn is not the illness on the net Posted: 8/28/2007 11:41:27 AM the electro-magnetic field on the computer and the freqency of the images that are broadcast via the net match those in specific areas of the human brain. The brain's and the computers electro-magnetic fields become one. At that point the brain cannot accepts that the porn is within it self and not external. The brain is also put into an alpha state and that causes a release of certain hormones for our pleasure receptors. This makes viewing on the net more what you might call addictive but what i would call a "severe attachment". The person unlike a herion addict will not go seek day and night to get his/her fix but in the presence of the computer electo-magnetic field will want to go to inter-net porn. When the person is on the net and especially if they are in the adolescent to before peak sexual period of the life then they most often will spend excessive hours viewing such material. That material becomes a substitute for the real person sex and when they are with a real person then the porn images become the predominant factor of what the sexually attractive person should appear to look like sexually and physically, though on a subconscious level. The porn viewer is programmed to what is exciting from the many perfect women that he has viewed or she has viewed. There are 45million internet porn addicts in the US and 40% tha seek treatment are females. Where as with paper and VHS based porn the % of women is minor. Clearly, there is something very different about internet porn. It's the electro-magnetic field. What is physical attraction? Elector-Magnetic? What does sex do? Release pleasure hormones. So does internet based sex. This is producing seperateness between the sexes especially because there are skills and values that must be used to woo a woman to have sex and these skills and understanding are not being learned and developed. Because these are not required for inter net based sex. For women on the net, only payment is required and the male can be abusive to any woman legally on the porn sites. Afterall they don't feel a thing and they always respond with a thank you and want more pay more. Jim  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 29 (view)   What's wrong with women these days? Posted: 8/17/2007 10:08:45 AM may I share this with you, men and women? The real question is, "What seperates you from love?" Both men and women have love within that is available to share with another and both men and women want love from the other and that is the reason that they go to introduction services. The number of men to women is about equal so there is no supply imbalance. Then what is the problem(s) that the opposite sexes are not finding a companion? I would say expectations is #1. Expectations are based on values. Today's values are askewed away from healthy values by mass media generated expectations. Listen to others when they use the word Love. It is almost always followed by an object ie: I love my car. I love her tits. I love her ass. I love my stereo. I love my cat. I love my dog. I have heard from people that immigrate to Canada that tell me that in their country the word love is used sparingly and for humans only. Yes, they love humans. Here, you will find that it's things and animals. Just take that man that left the dog he rescued in his car and a animal officer handcuffed him to something and two men beat him up and busted 3 of his teeth because he left the dog in his car. People supporting the animal officer have protested his being suspended even though that officer put the human in danger of being murdered. More and more people place animal life over human life in the developed countries of Europe and North America. Where as the 5 billion other people in this planet would never put an animal over a human life. I have met a number of women that have female cats that told me, "If my cat didn't like you then I would not go out with you." I concluded that I would never date a woman with a female cat again. One day one of my staff said to me, "I will tell you one thing...I will never date a woman with a female cat again because they put me 2nd." How did these value sifts occur? These were not by accident but were by design. The old adage is, "Divide and Conquer." Meaning a divided population is a conquered population. So the elites wanted to disempower the mass population from taking social action against the changes that we have seen in our societies over the last 30 years that are profoundly detrimental to the peoples in our society except for those that profit by our losses. Feminism has a truly honourable message and objective when it began. The power elite feared it's outcome so they subverted it by funding leaders that would follow their objectives rather than true feminist objectives. In Canada, one day the women within the National Association for the Status of Women came to realize that their leadership was concentrating on issues that were not in their best interest and they revolted and voted in a new leadership. Immediately, the gov't of that time revoked the funding because the Association leadership did not represent the power elites agenda. The previous leadership's objective was to divide the population down the lines of gender so that the men and women would not come to gether to organize for social change but rather would be at each other. The agenda became anti-male and anti-father. If you go to a public library and pull out the newspapers from 1986-1990 and flip through the pages you will see daily bombardment of "man kills" "man beats" "man rapes" "man molests children" "man robs", etc. articles on a scale not seen ever in the mass media. Women bought into the "women will be paid more" "women will be rich" if they are treated equal in society. The facts are that married poor people when the marriage breaks up are only more impoverished than they were because the expenses for the two seperated parties double but their incomes don't. The family is an efficient economic unit where 2-4 persons share the same kitchen, living room, etc.. The family values support public action to stop gov't largess and waste and over taxation and etc... But break down the family and their energies to put out for social change are lost to higher working hours to pay the jump in cost of living due to marriage breakup. Women have not faired better and neither have the men but the women still largely blame the men for their ills rather than seeing that the power elite set this outcome up. Single men and women are more likely to watch more mass medium information that is lader with "buy and you will be loved" type underlying manipulation messages. Materialism is rife in the female population because 85% of the buying is done by females and the mass messages are especially targetting them. And women create much of the new messages. The knowledge of mass manipulation technology is developed in England at an institute where the Nazis propoganda technologies were transfered after the 2nd world war. As new knowledge of how the brain works and the mind works (yes they are diffferent but connected) then those mass programs are improved so that today it is easy to manipulate the public mass mind to accept values that are really degrading. I cannot tell you how many women will not date me once they find out that I do not have a car. Look at realistically, "Would you rather have a good car or a good man." There are ads on every system by women that express in essence, if you don't like pets then I am not interested in you. Their values are askewed/sick. Humans first and animals last. If my daughter had an allergy to a pet then I would get rid of my pet not my daughter (or wife). Love is choice and I chose to love people and I like my cat but never the other way around. Men and women must get their values back on track if they want companionship in their life. People are more difficult to live with than animals because they operate at higher levels of complexity than animals. So learning to live with and deal with human behaviour is part of being human. Being skilled in human relations takes daily practice. Our youth on electronic devices have lost their developement of human interaction skills and parents and teachers are yelled and threatened by our young. Adults are moving in the same states with road rage, etc.. Have you given up on human love. If you are only happy with your animal then yes and you are lowering your own intelligence, emotional intelligence, necessary for human relating. That means you will be more easily manipulated by the mass media materialism messages to buy, buy, buy, etc.. You are being disempowered but you don't know it as you find it easier to just sit in your shitty little existence on your coach watching people eating worms on the latest reality show rather than participating in the greater reality by participating in social change by joining other men and women that still love humans and are acting with love in trying to stop the power elites from depriving thier fellow humans of basics in life. When you act from love with your fellow human beings then you attract love from your fellow human beings so if you want love in your life then get out there and get involved with good works and you to shall experience the love that your life is devoid of. Best wishes in creating a loving relationship, love is not found, it is created by you. sincerely, James Vella, AdvisorX,  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 80 (view)   What makes cheatin rite ? Posted: 7/6/2007 11:08:25 AM When the person that is threatening you with harm or death is mentally ill and the only thing you can do to survive is to cheat him out of the truth that he is asking for by lying. When you tell the truth make sure its to a person that can cope with it and will not harm you physically. I would still rather tell the truth and be wrongly castigated than hide the truth because that person may come around to the truth sometime in the future and often they do. It's how you say the truth rather than what you say. So practice so that cheating is not being done when unnecessary because then you will lose ability to form trusting relationships with others or the opposite sex. AdvisorX  advisorx Joined: 5/10/2007 Msg: 307 (view)   Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 7/5/2007 3:32:21 PM Because Bad Men dump them and they feel justified in doing the same. They become just like those that they dislike To do this they have to cut off their feelings so that they become non-persons, just unfeeling automatons. Sounds convoluted that's because many people think this way yet reality is much straighter than this. Google search: Ken Keyes Jr. Living Love 100th Monkey author for a better understanding. Jim   Show ALL Forums