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Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

Flashdance Flashback Photos and Feedback Posted: 11/17/2008 11:05:48 AM
ECKIE628, whatever happened to: BAG OF BONES SCRAWNY CRACKER A...S BULIMIC ANOREXIC SKIRBY WRINKE FACE P.O.W. BLOW HIM Over SPLINTERS Do you guys really think that a "few" doesn't matter to a gal??

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 195 (view)

Who likes coffee for a frist date?? Posted: 8/30/2008 9:51:43 AM
This is soooo "overused". I will know enough about a person, by phone talk, or e-mailing!! I can't spend my precious time in another Tim Horton's!! Let's be honest...the only reason "they" want to do a coffee, is to size you up! If you look "good enough" okay..if not...no good money "wasted". How about a little lunch, good conversation and go from there...really HOW IMMATURE!!!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Are we in a recession yet? Posted: 7/18/2008 8:40:50 AM
Has anyone been to a gas station or in a food store lately??? We've been in a RECESSION for over a year now...and the next step before a full-blown depression is INFLATION!! Give it 6 months and we will be there too!! Just SAVE your money, people, I've seen it happen before!!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 345 (view)

Men who arrive for the 1st date with a rose.....do women like it? Posted: 7/14/2008 8:47:38 AM
I think that is so lovely!! It shows that the guy thought enough of you to do this! A man once did this each time we met, and I never forgot that! He always was very thoughtful...but his employment took him elswhere, and I lost a keeper!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 21 (view)

Date undertipped-what to do??!! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:38:19 AM
To GENTLEMAN JACK, you're the reason gals don't trust a man! What an attitude....how did your mother raise U?

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Date undertipped-what to do??!! Posted: 7/12/2008 9:36:15 AM
You did exactly what I would have done!! I would say, that if you continue to see the guy...at some point you might want to mention the situation to him, mentioning that you feel embarassed by the incident. There is no reason why he can't leave at least a 10 percent tip! You shouldn't have to. This may say something about him!! Beware, considering this was a FIRST date!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 56 (view)

Accepting My Alone-ness: How Can I Do So? Posted: 7/11/2008 9:06:09 AM
The last 5 0r 6 replies have said it all! I couldn't do better myself. Learn to like/love yourself before you expect anyone else to....and at that, don't bet the rent! Only you can make YOU happy!! After almost 2 yrs. on this site.....I miss my late husband even more than I did before. All these men want is to love THEMSELVES! Fill your life with your family and friends, and it's not that bad doing things by yourself....at least if you aren't in the mood, YOU DON'T HAVE TO CARE, LOL LOL.

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Msg: 51 (view)

Why Men Don't Write Long First Msg's Posted: 7/9/2008 3:57:08 PM
Probably because they don't want you trying to figure them out! The more a guy writes, the more you can tell about him.....lies or not. If he's lucky...he can get in and out quickly, so he thinks!!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

Does intelligence turn you on? Posted: 7/9/2008 10:43:57 AM
Yes, absolutely it does! If I know that the man is intelligent...it will also lead to good communication, which is a must for me! Intelligence doesn't mean that the guy has to have 3 college degrees. I know college grads who can't put 2 sentences together, in a row. Intelligence comes from maturity, having the ability to think before one speaks, and a confidence in himself! Many men are intimidated by a female who is an intelligent gal, but.....that's too bad, because some of the nicest gals I know are intelligent enough to be able to give a MAN everything he needs.

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Msg: 677 (view)

If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 7/8/2008 8:44:58 AM
For heaven's sake, you all need to GROW the F...K up!! Just because a person is not a good speller or an inept typist, doesn't mean that he/she is not worth giving consideration. Remember, you are on a FREE site, where anything is possible!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Do large women like large men? Posted: 7/5/2008 8:22:16 AM
I can't speak for all women...but, I can speak for older women. We LOVE heavier set men. WE are not vain, do not care about PHYSICAL appeal...we are interested in what is in a man's heart! Young gals are materialistic! They want "arm candy" like the guys do, but after years of maturity, we know what makes us tick....and it has nothing to do with physique!! My late husband of 40 yrs. was a heavy man, somewhat heavy when we met and throughout our marriage! Kind of a little larger "Dr. Phil". I am a full-figured gal, and I loved having someone to grab onto. I still LOVE a heavy guy, but can't seem to find any....anyone HELP?

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 87 (view)

Dumped before the date! What's going on? Posted: 7/4/2008 8:41:24 AM
How about arranging to meet, and he doesn't show up?? After a year on the dating scene(?), I've come to the conclusion that men are just "players". They only want to see if they can attract someone. Then, they fail to follow through after plenty of "talk". I hate to down ALL men, because some may be sincere....but they are in the minority!!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 400 (view)

Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 7/1/2008 7:34:22 AM
YES, absolutely.....have gotten MANY like yours. My feelings are that if a man isn't willing to correspond with you for at least a week or two, before getting to phone numbers, then they are just interested in a quick look and a fast leap into your bed! I insist, before spending the time getting dressed and driving to meet someone, that I at least want to know something about this person. By e-mailing, you can tell an awful lot about a person...his intellect, his feelings about things in general...and whether you think that you would have anything in common with this person. If they are in that much of a hurry...makes one think,....... doesn't it?

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Msg: 569 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 6/25/2008 8:36:49 AM
Because they SHOULD until they find the ONE! How else are you going to know which man is right for you? What do you want them to do....stay with one dope for the heck of it? You youngsters, think you have all the answers! Ask a person who was married for 40 yrs. and is now widowed......the guys today, can't compare with my generation, where you only DATED one man, until you married. The people today are too immature to tie down with just one, right away.

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Msg: 267 (view)

Should disabilities be listed on profiles? Posted: 6/23/2008 2:09:23 PM
ABSOLUTELY NOT!! For one, diabetes is not a disability...it is a medical condition, as are mental problems, arthritis, etc. It is not the world's business if you are afflicted with any condition. However, if you do meet someone with whom you become interested in and continue to "talk", then the situation should be mentioned, for example, when he suggests a walk in the park, one would tell him/her that they have problems with their legs, knees, etc. if it were to be arthritis related. But, the saddest part of this statement is that just watch how fast the person "drops" you!!! Most people on this and other "free" sites, have no class, no heart...no brains! Go to your paid sites...much better quality of people!!!!:modhammer:

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Msg: 20 (view)

If you're independEnt, why R U here? Posted: 6/10/2008 11:57:04 AM
I'm here because I would LIKE a man in my life....but, I don't NEED a man in my life. The love of my life and partner for 40 yrs. has passed on....and life is too precious to be alone, unless that's what someone wants.

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Msg: 19 (view)

If you're independant, why R U here? Posted: 6/10/2008 11:54:49 AM
Obviously...you "flunked sand-box" in school!!!!! Independant MEANS that a woman is not a wilted lilly....she isn't looking for a man to "complete" her or to "cling" to, which by the way---is what most men say they don't want. It simply means that she would like to have a man in her life..........but, she doesn't NEED a man in her life! Now, on the off chance that you would like a dumb woman, forget about it, 'cause you 'ain't gonna get it! On your next birthday, ask for a DICTIONARY!

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I've found someone through here woo hoooooo Posted: 6/5/2008 9:35:13 AM
Do you have a decent friend??

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Msg: 33 (view)

I want to freeze this......HOW ?? Posted: 6/2/2008 3:28:06 PM
Hi countrygirl, just get a good quality freezer bag. After you have filled it , and make sure you leave at least one inch from top for expansion, zip it almost closed and push out excess air. No need to spend extra money for a gadget. I have kept things for more than 6 mo. with no problem, use a "smoothie" pen, and happy freezing, especially in this day and age. Still have 3 turkeys from last Thanksgiving sales. They stay perfectly!!!

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I just don't like the site Posted: 5/18/2008 9:37:36 AM
I agree with all who replied to this thread!! If someone wants to "watch a DVD with a glass of wine, on the sofa, you can do that yourself! I thought that the purpose of this site was to meet people who enjoy doing something with someone once in awhile! At least on the paying sites, you get a better quality of people. Try it for a month.

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Msg: 68 (view)

I'LL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN ??? Posted: 4/20/2008 9:30:27 AM
Hi Marie, I think that "treat you like a queen" means that at the cheap movies, you'll get the large popcorn! And, if he just got paid, he might surprise you with a small drink, too! Peace .....Sharon

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 89 (view)

Widows/Widowers - When is it too soon and...... Posted: 3/29/2008 8:43:47 AM
Give this guy a break...are you that horny??

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Msg: 88 (view)

Widows/Widowers - When is it too soon and...... Posted: 3/29/2008 8:41:50 AM
Hi Isca, I've been widowed for three yrs. and I would like to date again. I know it's been 40 years since I've dated, but, I feel that you will know when the time is right!! I have no plans for remarriage, either, and never will. But, I do feel that I am young enough and youthful enough, to not have to sit home all alone, when I could be giving a good, honest man, my time, and accept his. I feel that we could enjoy one another's company, and still live life!! Good luck, (honeydoooo)

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Msg: 92 (view)

Accept Me as I Am....or forget about it? Posted: 3/29/2008 8:33:51 AM
Natgoat, please contact me!!! Honeydooo (Sharon)

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Msg: 91 (view)

Accept Me as I Am....or forget about it? Posted: 3/29/2008 8:31:58 AM
Hi, Natgoat......I loved what you have written in your forum. I can't find your profile, are you a man or woman? If you are a man, please contact me.....I feel that you are not "run of the mill". Honeydoooo (Sharon)

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Msg: 48 (view)

I'LL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN ??? Posted: 1/29/2008 8:14:15 AM
I find that these guy, only know how to "talk a good fight". They can't walk the walk or talk the talk! I've been on this site for a long time, and everytime it looks like there is going to be a "meet", something in their DNA tells them to stop!!!! I really and truly believe that most guys just want to see if they can attract a lady. I even have this written in my profile. I also understand that "times are rough" and a lot of people don't have much money to date. But, it doesn't have to take a lot of money I really am considering going off of this site, and just giving up entirely. I was married for 40 yrs. and that wasn't this hard. Maybe it is in the cards, to find a single girfriend to do things with, I'm SERIOUS!!!!

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Buffalo Single Mingle - Dec 8, 2007 - Jacobis Nite Club, Lackawanna, NY Posted: 11/14/2007 12:06:30 PM
Hi everyone at POF. I've never been to a POF party, but looking forward to trying one! Are we dressing casually, I hope, and I will bring a friend. So please look for a full-figured , attractive blonde, who looks like she just got in from L.A. okay? Hope to see all you good people there!

Joined: 5/10/2007

Msg: 120 (view)

I just think we have all become too fussy Posted: 10/14/2007 11:29:28 AM
Props to Mal Pal on his arcticle re: I think we have all become too fussy. What kind of nerve does a man with his belt hanging under his stomach have in insisting that a full-figured gal is not in his interest? Whatever happened to "what is in his/her heart is what is important"? These men out there today, don't realize what their missing by being insistent! There are some tremendous ladies looking for good, sincere, honest guys to just do something with. It doesn't have to be long-term, or it can, short-tertm, or that can happen, but, you have to date first to see! I've concluded that some people just want to see if they can interest someone, and what a terible tragedy this is. There wasting their lives.

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Msg: 89 (view)

Accept Me as I Am....or forget about it? Posted: 10/7/2007 10:49:54 AM
I don't give a rat's ass anymore! I'm 62, attractive, have my own hair and teeth, and these gittersnipes with a gut hanging over their belts, bald, two teeth, have the nerve to say that they are looking for someone who has a "nice body". I was married for 39 yrs. to a great guy, am widowed and have flab hanging from the birth of children! I've decided "to hell with it" and am going on my way, because they don't deserve me!

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