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aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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The SECRET to staying in love after a long relationship/marriage. Posted: 9/23/2009 12:51:43 PM
the second poster, is 45yo and looking for an activity partner and she is calling someone else "pathetic" good luck with that

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Talking Sexual...good or bad?...What to do? Posted: 9/19/2009 8:13:04 PM
good conversation is good conversation regardless of what it is about. only talk about things your comfortable talking about, if someone gets a touch too pushy, it might be time to look elsewhere.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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DO men really prefer looks to brains? Posted: 7/20/2009 8:31:34 AM
well.. looks get us attracted. brains keep us attracted. fairly simple.

aries1976ca

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I have to wonder...Do all guys cheat? Posted: 7/16/2009 11:32:14 AM
First off, I'm sorry you've had to go through what you have, at such a young age. It's not fair, but it is what it is, and there is nothing you can do about it, and likely nothing you could change about your situation that could make it better, just gotta look to the future, because you will find happiness, you just gotta be patient. I think your at an age, where the guy your picking are roughly the same age, and whom sex drive is quite high, is there anything you can do to stop them from cheating, probably not... but you can pick a guy that's more mature, and more into making you happy... just have to be more wise in your partner selections. that's all.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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why do men dump women who are too nice to them?? Posted: 7/16/2009 11:26:17 AM
I'd love to find a good woman that cares about her man. they aren't that easy to find.

aries1976ca

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Sports Card Pricing Guides Posted: 7/16/2009 11:05:00 AM
perreault 1/1 pat roy auto/jersey out of 35. those where the other two.

aries1976ca

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Sports Card Pricing Guides Posted: 7/14/2009 2:57:34 PM
i'm extremely limited in what I own now, because of the economic times and such. just recently sold 20 fairly nice hockey cards on ebay that fetched me about $55o cdn. all i have left.. 7 cards in amazing shape from the 33-34 ice kings set. 2 gretzky autos 1 orr auto. 1 triple memoribilia maurice richard limited to 25 copies. 1 gretzky jersey limited to 30 copies. rare pieces of Sittler, Brodeur, Mahovlich, Sundin (all auto Jerseys out of 10 copies) PSA 10 brodeur score rookie PSA 9 patrick roy opc rookie plus 2 other cards I cant remember at the moment. stuff I can move at a moment's notice .

aries1976ca

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Staying off ex's facebook and myspace Posted: 7/14/2009 2:47:14 PM
kinda funny, I see girls I dated all the time on here. I just feel bad for whom dates them next, and hope they don't make the same mistakes I do. just gotta show restraint, and not look at them, because they are part of your past now.

aries1976ca

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what's his deal? Posted: 7/14/2009 2:26:35 PM
to be honest OP. I feel he has someone else already, and well... wanted to see if he can find better or not. chances are you are better off without him, since I'm sure he is in a relationship already... reason he feels like a jerk for kissing you. I think moving on will be the best thing for you, before you get too attached.

aries1976ca

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For all the lost Souls and Broken Hearted Much Love To U Posted: 4/1/2009 8:30:22 AM
in a perfect world, if should be easy to find the person your meant to spend the rest of your life with, but this isn't a perfect world... dating is a struggle like everything else in life... just gotta keep your chin up.

aries1976ca

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Detroit Lions=Worst Football Franchise Ever Posted: 4/1/2009 8:23:17 AM
0-16, living the dream.....

aries1976ca

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BEN & JERRY'S flavors you will never see Posted: 3/25/2009 9:11:13 AM
Dirty San-Cheese Hot Cross Bunions Grape Beyond Rice Pudding Madness Virgin Vanilla Shooters Runny Raspberry Delight

aries1976ca

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30 and never married? Posted: 2/5/2009 3:59:50 PM
been engaged once, but never married. Up til 2 years ago, I always wanted to, but lately I'm not sure. perhaps the right woman will bring that one in me. until then I troll the boards

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Curious about why?? Posted: 2/5/2009 3:47:46 PM
sometimes guys message more than one girl at a time, mostly because you never know how many will return the message. once a guy notices more than one gal responds, he may choice the one he is most compatible with.. and basically ignore the other ones... it's in poor taste not to mention that he is no longer interested, but both sexes are guilty of this.

aries1976ca

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Sports Card Pricing Guides Posted: 2/4/2009 4:13:04 PM
I used to do cards as a side-business. and although older cards do sell well. some newer players are easier to sell immediately... becuase of demand. any player of demand sells.. and books well.

aries1976ca

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Does being in love ever change your personality? Posted: 2/4/2009 4:00:51 PM
I think most guys will morph a bit to what the woman wants, if he really wants her to stick around... For me, I roughly stay the same..

aries1976ca

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reuniting after recent breakup - wait on sex or not? Posted: 2/4/2009 3:51:54 PM
I would wait also.... your right in wanting to fix what ails. and if he really has a problem with it, and just wants to get you back into bed, he really isn't interested in fixing what's broke, just wants what he wants and will do whatever it takes to get it. good luck whatever you decide

aries1976ca

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why would you call me while having sex? Posted: 9/3/2008 10:14:58 PM
a real man wouldn't do this... perhaps he just likes to play games with you, which is very wrong, but it happens. might be time to just look elsewhere and ignore him, maybe he is just doing this because you react to it.

aries1976ca

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To Send Flowers or Not To Posted: 7/26/2008 7:54:25 PM
yeah, I would sent them to her. if she's spooked by it, and it's over a month, she might have a hidden agenda, and it might be time to move on. If she accepts them graciously, she will kinda know where you stand, and as some have said previously, know you are thinking of her.. If you want the opportunity to give her a few butterflies, this is a great way to give them to her. Something colorful and pretty will always succeed. C-

aries1976ca

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I have plans every time they're asked about doing something Posted: 7/26/2008 7:38:51 PM
I agree. everybody should have time to see in person If there is something there or not, If someone is giving you the cold shoulder, it might be time to move on. If someone suddenly doesn't have time to date at all, or find someone new, they also shouldn't have time to fool around on this site. C -

aries1976ca

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Kissing a new girl for the first time... Posted: 7/23/2008 5:42:26 PM
not all men are aggressive, most are, some aren't. sometimes its good for a woman to take the lead, chivalry isn't dead. chivalry just needs a jump start.

aries1976ca

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Thoughts on CC Sabathia to the Brewers Posted: 7/13/2008 2:51:48 AM
cubs pickup of rich harden, is looking like a move equaled to the sabathia pickup.

aries1976ca

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How lonely did you feel when you discovered plenty of fish? Posted: 6/27/2008 1:08:53 PM
When I joined, I had just moved cross-country, so I really didnt know anyone. I had that empty feeling at first. now i'm much better situated I think. takes time.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Guys, Do you really want us to be honest after the first date? Posted: 6/23/2008 11:32:17 PM
it's better in the long run to be honest at all times. male or female.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Need some advice guys... Posted: 6/23/2008 11:31:01 PM
perhaps he was seeing someone else at the same time as you. he cant be really hurting, if he is doing the same thing you did to him. just a thought.

aries1976ca

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why don't more guys give massages? Posted: 6/23/2008 11:26:05 PM
when it comes to massages. some guys get it, and some don't. some have the touch, some have no clue. if your man isnt very good, i wouldnt expect miracles. but if he is, exploit it :)

aries1976ca

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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on Posted: 6/23/2008 11:23:48 PM
if i go to a bar and see two girls grinding it. I might watch for a second or two, and continue what i was doing before i saw them. If i go to a bar, it's for a quick drink, or just to be there for the company i'm with. If I go to a bar with a gal, i'm there to pay attention to the gal i'm with.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Red heads... Posted: 6/23/2008 11:21:53 PM
in my minimla experience, lol red heads seem to stay closer to whom they are. dont know too many red heads that really die there hair a different color often.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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What signs do you send when you find a guy attractive? Posted: 4/6/2008 5:21:45 PM
Note to Self: never meet red cassandra. if I do, wear a Batting Helmet.

aries1976ca

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The Day the Penis asked for a Raise! Posted: 4/6/2008 5:10:44 PM
i suddenly think about the song written and performed by rodney carrington. Dear penis, I dont think i like you anymore..............

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Send me jokes! PLEASE! Posted: 4/6/2008 5:07:33 PM
Why couldnt miss piggy sing at the opera the night after meeting kermit? she had a frog in her throat. whats the difference between a pick pocket, and a peeping tom? one snatches watchs, and one watches snatchs. what do you call a pedifile pirate? Arrrrrrrrrrrr Kelly. what's the difference between oral and anal sex? one makes your day, one makes your hole week. Why did the moron put empty beer bottles in the fridge? for friends that don't drink. How are a Tornado and Marriage similar? Starts with a lot of sucking and blowing, in the end, you lose your house. Whats the deffination of a male chauvinistic pig? a man that hates every bone in a woman's body, except his own. hope these make you feel better C-

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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What makes a woman good in bed? Posted: 4/6/2008 4:49:24 PM
that is what a towel is for.

aries1976ca

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A little confused about re: 'let's meet' - then nothing... Posted: 4/3/2008 2:56:38 PM
maybe he was talking to a few woman at the same time, and he met one and they decided to be exclusive, and he just didn't tell you about it, and left it at what it was.

aries1976ca

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Predict your 2008 Stanley cup winner. Posted: 4/1/2008 1:49:56 PM
san jose shark / new jersey devil final and i'm a leafs fan. in calgary.

aries1976ca

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Would you give up sex for a 50-inch plasma TV? Posted: 4/1/2008 1:46:48 PM
cassandra it wouldn't be abstinence, it would be birth-control

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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would u buy those products to make u bigger and why Posted: 4/1/2008 1:37:47 PM
well, if i used the products ever. id be able to poke holes in walls.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Would you give up sex for a 50-inch plasma TV? Posted: 4/1/2008 1:36:18 PM
just remind me to not get a Wii system for my new TV.. gulp

aries1976ca

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What do women do that pushes you away? Posted: 3/31/2008 10:00:16 PM
Throwing bricks at me. hmm, sticks and stones might break my bones, but how about a 20lb piece of cinder???

aries1976ca

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NHL comeback player of the year Posted: 3/31/2008 3:31:09 PM
prospal was me... but his numbers in tampa before getting dealt to philly, were super strong also. adrian aucoin was left for dead, the previous 2 seasons in chicago, re-born in cowtown this season. Conklin is a feel good story, but on any other team, not pittsburgh, he would still stink. mathieu garon, has played great for a less-than spectacular oilers team could even mention roszival in new york, mike richards in his breakout year in philly, and a great year from patrick sharp in chicago.

aries1976ca

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Honestly is this true........... Posted: 3/31/2008 2:57:04 PM
I know from my experience, that I appriciate knowing where I stand right away. If it's a fling, or a relationship that she wants, I can prepare for that, and determine if that is what I want or not at that time. for me, I prefer a relationship, but if I don't have sex for a longer period of time, I might allow myself to allow the other. The last thing I want, is to continually guess on where things stand because of mixed signals... Reason I enjoy a stright up woman more. because I'm not psychic.

aries1976ca

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Who is the most overrated quarterback of all time? Posted: 3/28/2008 10:53:54 PM
kordell stewart.... elvis grbac these guys were terrible.

aries1976ca

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Least favorite MMA fighter Posted: 3/28/2008 10:51:57 PM
dont care for ortiz, or koschek.

aries1976ca

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NHL comeback player of the year Posted: 3/28/2008 10:50:03 PM
i would put my votes as nik antropov daniel cleary adrian aucoin vaclav prospal

aries1976ca

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Struggling To Understand Posted: 3/27/2008 9:52:47 PM
Honestly. I wouldn't do it with another woman. I was raised correctly I guess, when I'm with a woman, she's the only one I want to please... However simple things have distracted me while in the "moment", mostly being sports and fantasy teams (which very well could be the single biggest reason birth-rates have dropped in north america.) .. wondering if i made the better pick upt hat day... you never hear a woman say "tell me all about that waiver wire pickup of yunel escobar... oh baby!" but on a serious note... No, I wouldn't.

aries1976ca

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Would you give up sex for a 50-inch plasma TV? Posted: 3/27/2008 9:45:03 PM
i would give up 6 months of bad sex for a 50" TV i wont give up 6 months of good sex for it... nobody with a half a mind would give up good sex for anything.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Short women... Posted: 3/27/2008 9:43:36 PM
height doesn't bother me, I'm a reasonably tall man at 6'2. i like shorter woman, and i like taller gals, both have there benefits.

aries1976ca

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how do guys search? Posted: 3/27/2008 9:42:16 PM
Well, It's hard to not go for looks at first, it's kinda hard to read a profile without seeing a picture first if applicable. It's the way POF has been set up. You view the picture and you read. I only initiate contact with a woman if I feel there are a bunch of commonalities and interests, If a woman seems slutty or just wants to go out each night and get drunk, I'm not very interested in her. But yeah, most guys do go for looks first, and do woman.. If a woman decides to contact me first, I always give the curtousy in letting her know if I'm interested in getting to know her or not.. I would say for every 10 I contact first, 1 contacts me first.

aries1976ca

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what should the leafs do ? Posted: 1/13/2008 8:17:45 AM
now now people this wasnt meant to be a hate thread. if you must feel hate, maybe you should look into the mirror as you certainly must have issues in your life you need to deal with, if your a real fan of the game, you enjoy the game, regardless if it's a "rival" or someone in the other divison. first off, senator fans, were once leaf fans, sadly canada will never get behind the senators, like they did the flames and oilers in there cup runs.. you guys notice this? i think it's funny the country backed the oils and flamers, but really didnt the sens. even now, people watch because they want to either see the leafs win, or see the leafs lose.. no other team in canada gets that, reason the leafs outdraw any team in canada by a long shot. as for the leafs problems.. until MLSE allows the hockey operation, to do what they allowed the basketball operation to do, in that they allow a young knowledgable man, like bryan colangelo, come in with full power and authority, take over in the hockey end.. and make changes he see's fit, i think it will be a struggle for the leafs. i cant see any big wigs losing there job, because the leafs profiability is still the best in the league, regardless of how the product is on the ice, the owners just get richer, and for them, that's the bottom line.. maybe finishing near the bottom of the league for a couple years, woulndnt be a bad thing long term.

aries1976ca

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what should the leafs do ? Posted: 1/12/2008 10:38:41 PM
curious to see what you puck heads think. after tonight's awful display againest a decent sharks team. leading 2-0 after 2 periods, just to lose 3-2 so much turmoil, and trade rumours, disfunction upstairs, that could of had scotty bowman as the team's president, to the deal's gone wrong from JFJ i wonder.. what's next.

aries1976ca

Joined: 5/11/2007

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Do you think Nascar can be considered a Sport? Posted: 12/26/2007 3:11:32 PM
i dont consider driving a car, a sport. but i do put it under the catagory of entertainment. becuase thats precisely what it is. chris

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