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one day at a time

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Single 46 year old full-time Dad has a few questions. Posted: 3/5/2008 6:25:09 PM
I have two boys that are 5 & 8. and I fell the same way. I have decided to stay by myself (just another year or two) until they get older and I have the time available to be fair to a partner. I have tried and tried but I think nothing has really worked out becuase of my children and they come first. Good luck in your search.

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Any mothers whose children don't live with them fulltime? Posted: 2/18/2008 6:02:38 PM
My son lives with his father because I work 10-12 hrs a day and I go to school 3 nights a week. Dad is self employed and can make his schedule around our son's. Dad has him during the winter and I have him during the summer when I don't have school.

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I love him but we can't have sex! Posted: 11/25/2007 10:41:56 AM
I want to thank everyone for their post! I had no idea on how to confront him and this weekend I did. I read back on the different replies and they were so true I just did not want to see it. I come to find out he is a loner, has no interest in sex and has a lot of issues that he needs to fix within himself including drinking on every night off that I did not know about. I told him I think he needs some time to himself. He needs to be clear within him of what he really wants. I have came to a stand-point, I would not be able to live like this including I must have intimacy. I explained to him that I want to take a break. I rather be friends than miserable and bitter. FYI....I did tell him about this post and I did let him read all of the response and he really took the different advice to heart.

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I love him but we can't have sex! Posted: 11/22/2007 10:04:04 PM
Thats ok, I have a sense a humor

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I love him but we can't have sex! Posted: 11/22/2007 9:23:26 PM
Your right.....He works about 70hrs a week and he loves photography and trying to become proficiant with it. I guess I should just continue to love him and just deal with it (that what toys are for). I must say he did not even wisper a word when I gained some weight and stood by me until I lost it. Thanks to everyone that gave me the advice.

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I love him but we can't have sex! Posted: 11/22/2007 8:58:04 PM
Its very hard to deal with this because I am in love and what to feel that connection. Especially when I have an idea that he is going to ask me to marry him on Christmas.

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I love him but we can't have sex! Posted: 11/22/2007 8:46:23 PM
I have been dating this guy for nine months. I am 29 and he is 39. We have a great time together. We talk for hours and it only seems for minutes. I can't get enough of him and I think about him all the time. The minute I leave I miss him and he has expressed the same. The other night we have exchange the love word and it happened so natural. I have never felt this way before. I know I am in love but there is TWO big problems. The first problem is he will not have oral sex. Over a year ago he went to have oral sex with this woman . When he went down to please her he did not know she had a bacteria infection and because of that she smelled like fish. He said he felt sick and sat up and vomitted. Now everyime he thinks of oral sex he gags and gets turned off. He knows I am VERY clen and well taken care of down there but he said he just can't. I even stuck his finger in me and had him taste it and he cringed. The second problem is he can not get hard. I tried oral, pornos and even masterbation in front of him nothing works. I asked him if he was gay or had a problem he said no its just from stress. If I do get him hard its only for about 5 seconds which does me no good. I am a very sexual person and I think being intimate with your lover is a very important role in a relationship. I have a problem, should I bring up the conversation about Viagra? Can I accept just love with no intimacy except for kissing and touching? Could you accept this? What would you do? Please help!!!!!!

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boobs Posted: 6/25/2007 2:43:41 PM
I got implants 01/07 and its the best thing I ever did. My only advice is, do it for you not for anyone else.

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pennypack park (little city) meet & greet Posted: 6/15/2007 2:33:19 PM
I am bringing my son Steven (7). Are u bringing your kids?

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pennypack park (little city) meet & greet Posted: 6/13/2007 3:00:49 PM
I live in Northeast Philadelphia about 5 minutes from Pennypack. I can give someone a ride if they need it as well. E-mail me at pittman19124@yahoo.com if I can help.

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how can i grab a guy's attention? Posted: 6/12/2007 5:02:18 PM
Well I think denial is your problem briandrain22. This is the third comment that you have something to say about peoples figures. You need to look at yourself. Your personality stinks and I don't think you can half the woman's attention on this site. Grow Up!

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