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Joined: 5/12/2007

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GF kissed another guy... what do i do? Posted: 6/29/2009 11:35:44 AM
Open relationship! How european! If there's anything that American movies have shown me it's that during a romantic hour and a half, anything can happen! In the two and a half hour dramas, so much occurs that it's no wonder the woman sleeps in three beds, with five different guys... Seriously though, sounds like a drama queen to me. There was no reason for you to know, and frankly if she's making such an episode of it, it's really for the effect, not for the end result (you). Seen it plenty of times. Just another way of making life interesting. May seem strange, but the reality I'm finding with each passing day is that people have very wild ranges to their relationships. It all comes down to You. You broke up with her over it, you seem to feel it matters, you did what you felt you had to... just as she did. C'est la vie. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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Photos: Your Friends. Your kids. Posted: 6/29/2009 11:27:04 AM
Lol! No joke, and yeah, old photos are just as bad, neh? Personally I love the profiles that act like an homage to a deltoid, or a pec, a tattoo or a hairdo. "I'm really proud of this One feature! Hooray!" I mean yours is nice and crisp, clean and shows exactly what a woman would want to see. Those warm inviting eyes, blah blah blah. A very good picture, a very natural picture. Finally some real dialogue.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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Photos: Your Friends. Your kids. Posted: 6/29/2009 10:55:16 AM
If I were insecure in my personality, I suppose I'd go after other folks for theirs as well. And if I had to post three times to get a point across, I'd refrain from high fiving nearby folks everytime I hit the submit button. Women can detect overly critical****weeds when they're trying to prove alpha status in a forum... through text. In any event, my point herein was simply profile pictures and how they should show the individual, not their circle of friends. While it's cool to include a group photo in the mix, when every photo involves your immediate crowd of fellow losers, it starts to look like the individual has no confidence in their appearance. For example: The primary profile photo shown by 2fly4 has to include naked belly, not face, not entire body, but that belly. That extremely overflexed, strained, I wish it were more but I don't actually do anything, washboard stomach. If I were you, I'd work on my physical and mental attributes, thusly improving my standing with the world, not just the Plenty of Fish forums. I wouldn't mind this bloody forum so much, if it weren't for all the alpha wannabees running around trying to have pissing matches with everybody and their valid point. If puppies like you would simply take off, find themselves a date and quit hassling guys like me with triple posts about absolutely nothing, maybe this world would slowly see some improvement in the quality of individual women are forced to date. Frankly though, the fact is that Plenty of Fish, along with many other forums is going to be dryjammed with asshats that must make an idiotic point... fortunately, I'll take care of it in one good post, rather than three useless ones... Go do some situps.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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Photos: Your Friends. Your kids. Posted: 6/25/2009 1:02:22 PM
No, sorry, completely untrue. Guys do their hair, bling it up, check their angles, correct their pictures, crop the bad spots out, smudge the zits, etc. Guys and Girls are all guilty of exactly what I described. Self promoting is fine. That's what this site is all about. I cannot stand the men and women who seem to think we're interested in dating their friends or children. While some may argue that their friends and children are an extension of them, I say: Reality Check bone head. If your friends and children are such an effect upon you that I can't actually have a relationship with you any longer, then get off this site and go take care of those who truly matter because obviously you don't know why you're here. Looking for a new mommy? No problem, you mentioned the kids, now move along. Start working out how to build a relationship between YOU and your new mommy. **** the kid, they'll figure it out like they always do. Too many people forget where they have to live for others and where they have to live for themselves. I digress. I disagree completely with dolcegrande, on the basis that he has segregated men from women and he's named himself after Starbucks callouts. Takes all kinds.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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Photos: Your Friends. Your kids. Posted: 6/25/2009 12:46:11 PM
Which one are you? You've got a different hair colour in each picture, a different look in each picture, and there's a different person's face next to yours in every picture! This complete lack of consistency is hard to read. That's so cool, you've got such an exciting life! On the flipside, you're so insecure you wouldn't dare show a photo of yourself unless it was prone to causing envy... in your mom. I don't have anything against a person with a photo in their profile that shows off say them, their friends, their kids, and their therapist all enjoying a party or some such. My problem is when every single photo looks like an amateur photoshoot and you can't bloody well tell who's who because everybody looks like a douche (massive Jackie-O shades, popped collars, etc) In short: Keep your friends out of it. Also, I don't care to see your kid. Thanks for letting us know you have baggage, but frankly if I know what you look like, I can guess what the kid looks like... unless you were mating with hellspawn, beasts or aliens, in which case I'll prepare to be surprised. If that seems callous, maybe it's because I feel your kid can develop their own profile when they're ready, and don't really need your sorry self, advertising their presence. In short: Keep your kids out of it. What's the matter folks? Nobody feels you're photogenic enough on your own? Maybe, you're just trying to prove something (see!? I moved on!)? Get over yourself, and get a real profile pic. What? Not how you considered it? This isn't Facebook.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/23/2008 12:00:34 PM
I can positively say that if I was a woman, I would not swallow every man's cum simply on the basis that I was 'working towards something' . Some men seem to think like primates, in that their penis is wet and warm and life is good, all is good, just can't wait, say a few bits here and there, explode, wow, awesome, want a drink? How about some gum? It's a two way thing. If a woman isn't going to swallow your cum, chances are, you're not making her cum. It's got to be a two way experience. Sure there are****cravers, penis worshipers, women who live for it. These women are typically employed, and paid well (with makeup and fluffing available). Meaning you won't typically encounter them. Most women like knowing they're providing more than... a service. I mean to say it should mean something, it's something special, or amazing, or etc. Think about when you give head. If you answered 'I don't give head' then buddy... you're asking too much by this authors opinion, and I can already address why most (if not all) are not providing the complete fellatio package with consumption services. You want porn star service, you've got to be a porn star yourself. A physical experience can never be a half way deal. Guys don't like ragdoll women, and women don't like doing it in ONE position ALL the time. On a side note: If every night, a woman sat you down for a shotglass full of warm syrup laden with lemon, or at worst, baking soda, I think you may have something to say about 'the end goal'. Sometimes the ends don't justify the means, and sometimes the means justify the ends. Holy crap, long post... okay, Summarization(){ If male want female to drink cum abridged: Play with Female's titties, speak soft kind words (or raving loud words), and caress other parts of body as accessible (including throat and face). Looking into eyes is optional. Don't stare. Golden Rule. Never, under any circumstances, whether it's her birthday or yours, surprise them. This is viewed as bad practice. }

Joined: 5/12/2007

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Why do guys say they are interested then flake after one e-mail? Posted: 9/30/2008 12:14:52 AM
Guys typically aren't looking for just e-mail friends. Given today's extensive social networking sites, we also have several email friends on the go. It shouldn't be a surprise if you've faded to the background after a few emails. Women do it too. It's unsurprising that I would get a few emails requesting details regarding lifestyle, relations, etc and when they realize that I am what I am, I don't receive any more inquests to my personal doings. So it goes. The ones who keep emailing are the ones you should really be concerned with anyhow. Sure that one that 'got away' may seem nice, but if it was really meant to be, they come back and keep emailing, right? Set it free and all that jazz.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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What will get your romantic attention Posted: 9/30/2008 12:10:50 AM
Seems like all the guys herein have the same sort of response. It's a natural effect. One fellow mentioned running hands through hair and smiling for no reason. Typically if the woman is doing this, it's a sign that things are working out on both ends. That said, again, it's a natural thing. Not to put a negative spin on things, but while there are some things that can trigger it in a partner, I have to say: If you're not finding the reactions after a few weeks, maybe a few months if you want to 'give it time', evac. A guy will make the effort, or it's not going to happen.... Now if the romance was there and it faded, that's another story. In that instance, it's about making it fresh, reminding yourselves (as a couple) why you're together. Hate to get longwinded: My relationship recently experienced some distance as we both left town on business. Hasn't happened before. What a difference a day (or several) apart can make. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Joined: 5/12/2007

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why do guys say they are interested and then n/call Posted: 9/30/2008 12:04:54 AM
Having never posted a response, I'm not too familiar with how honest people get online here. My guess is, the individual in question got himself a positive while out on business. To be 'understanding' would mean to wait and hear whatever explanation is awaiting you. Alternatively it could be the 'super heinous didn't see it coming situation'. Wherein while out of town he was being a nice guy trying to help someone with a flat tire when he was ambushed by slavers and shipped to Guatemala where he is now picking cocoa beans for his daily meals. Anyhow, if guys have an interested girl in the waiting, they don't typically keep them waiting unless they've got more than one 'in waiting'. Although he could be in Guatemala. Maybe Rio?

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