The woman I was out to meet was insisting that we see eachother today. She was very nervous and openly eager to see me again, if not all weekend. Smiling and obviously happy she told me she'd email me as soon as she woke up today.

Maybe she had a late night or maybe she's busy today but it just seems so backwards from the way she was acting the other night. I don't get it? I keep telling myself to let it go and forget about her, I mean she's obviously not..? Well what I am trying to say is that she hasn't kept her word, she hasn't replied and her phone is off. That's not really condusive to being interested in someone is it?

They don't owe him anything, he still has the right to vent about it. I don't see where he said they owe him anything or they should change something, all he wants in consideration and understanding. That is not asking to much. I don't think anyone would expect any less of anyone else.

Hotness does not overcome dull, boring or shallowness

Not ALL women are golddiggers...............if this is where its headed....

Im just gonna vent, respond if you feel necessary. I work 40+ hours a week mon-fri I have my daughter and her sister fri-sun. I dont have alot of time to date, but damn dont punish me/us for taking care of business. I work 40+hours a week so I am able to give her mother the child support she needs to provide for her. I have her fri-mon because I love her and think getting someone to watch her while I go out , is wrong on many different levels. I can basically only date sunday night thru thursday night.

i'd say it's probably dumb to post photos with other people in them because of the reason you mentioned. unless they are unaware that the other person is much better looking than themselves.

I emailed him a couple of weeks ago, and asked if he had changed his mind. He said "no, not at all, dear". Then nothing, no call, no email since. he probably has changed his mind, right? I feel I opened the door by emailing him after no call, when I asked if he had changed his mind. He does have my number.

Why do men email on PoF only to ask for a personal email? This IS email!

when it says ethnicity...I see they put CAUCASIAN. I look at the picture and their features and even name are Iranian, Indian, Hispanic.

I think men are men regardless of skin color. However....I can also say that if you date a black men 9/10 times they may display some stereotypical behavior. You may not be in that category but the women you are approaching are probably attractive, successful, tired of the crap, and expanding their horizons with a new flavour

Over the last year or two i've found myself being attracted to black women that are NOT attracted to black men(no it's not a "want what you can have"type of thing), because i find out that their not interested in black guys way after i've let them know i'm interested in them, it's annoying and weird, i feel like i'm in the "twighlight zone"...lolol,..has anything similar happened to you?

Why not call them on it?? Maybe a little public humiliation will be just the jolt they need to man up and be honest!! (This would apply to both male and female)

It has been just over two weeks ago when I told him That I could no longer see him for I just was not feeling a connection. He has called me everyday and sometimes 3-4 times a day and I have not returned his calls.........Do I need to call him and tell him to stop this nonsense???

I really do not want to mean but I am wondering if that is what I need to do???

When you find a woman who you have been dating and you profess to love them and want to spend the rest of your life waking up beside them ... why ... oh please tell me why...would you continue to go "online"?

We've all heard those subtle letdowns before or know someone who has. But as for the so-called nice guy or recipient of this fateful label, he is left to figure out what it is about him that is so nice and so perfect for the friend zone, but nothing more.

My question is if somebody reads but does not delete your email is it worthwhile to send a follow up email. Or is no response pretty much always going to be I am not interested regardless of if your email gets deleted or not.

Do you go on the date anyway, hoping your mood will improve if the date goes well? Can the date go well if you're not feeling like you're at your peak? Can you fake it?
Would you cancel the date and reschedule for another time?

I think I am a "conditioned" loner.....
I've been on my own for so long......I now prefer my own company most the time!

The thing is, she's a single mom and at the time of the second date she was out of work. When he told his male friends about her situation, they convinced him that she was a golddigger, white trash, etc. He went to her house, let her know that he wasn't into her and told her all about the discussions and what his friends thought of her. He even said that she wasn't "good enough for him". He texted her a few times after but she never replied.

He has now "reevaluated" her and decided that the friends were wrong and she's exactly what he was looking for.

I was meeting someone for the first time at a coffee shop and after a little bit of chit-chat, he pulls out his cell phone and startes checking all hi text messages. He took a good few minutes doing this too. When he was finished, I asked him what he was doing, and he said, "Oh my friends are just funny, was that rude?"

i dont know how a girl can do that

for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor?

Why does a man think it is okay to attack someone when they politely tell them they are not interested in dating someone with kids.

All of the men that I've encountered lately are "too busy" to date. They act interested, but can't seem to break away from work long enough to actually go out.

Why won't Women Date Nice Romantic Overweight Gentlemen

Do you find it harder to find males/females that you consider your brand of "cool" now that your 30s are pretty well cemented in? I don't even mean partying or going out or drinking like crazy or anything so silly and stupid like that... just what you see as cool. As your own sense of hip.

So second date we decided to meet at the bar. First hour was okay , then he started telling me to down my drinks. I had 7 drinks in less then 2 hrs...and started getting the feeling he wanted to get me drunk so he can have his way with me. So I said I was going to the washroom and left throught the back door....did I do the right thing or was I just a ****?

Generally, however... which thought do you live with? "It's all gonna be okay" or "They're all a buncha idiots and I'm gonna die alone and pissed off." If you tend to arm wrestle with each, which one usually wins over? Pessimist, optimist, six of one half dozen on another (RIP Patrick McGoohan...), what mindset helps you get by?

And yes, SOME men would be uncomfortable with a younger woman who's rich.

LOL! HE moved her in with HIM after three weeks, and she’s the crazy one?!

I think that 20:1 ratio represents the number of fat, bald, short, old, and broke men who want thin, long haired, tall, young, and rich women. Otherwise, I think it is an even number of men to women.