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PenAndPaper

Joined: 5/13/2007

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Is clingy the new relationship thing? Posted: 8/5/2007 9:36:30 PM
I'd be honest with him - he seems extremely possessive and insecure. If he's this way now, it'll only get worse if you two get serious. My advice? Get out when you can and explain your reasoning behind it. Don't leave him hanging. Otherwise, it's likely he'll think you were leading him on.

PenAndPaper

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A prude?????? Am I the only one??? Posted: 6/26/2007 7:23:22 PM
I guess having some self-respect makes me a prude.

PenAndPaper

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Greetings from Missouri Posted: 6/25/2007 9:33:07 AM
Hello George! My name's Leanna. From Ontario, Canada here. How's it going? Welcome to PoF! I hope you enjoy it here.

PenAndPaper

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Is ice cream the new coffee? Posted: 6/25/2007 9:24:04 AM
I've never went on an ice cream date, but I'd like to. I'm (kind of) new to the 'actual' dating scene, so it's all been coffee dates up to this point. I love Java Chips from Starbucks - it's like heaven, in a cup.

PenAndPaper

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Would u guys,be honest? Posted: 6/25/2007 9:09:35 AM
OP, I'm sorry to hear that about your friend, but just make her aware that she's not alone. There's a crapload of people out there with Herpes in loving relationships.

PenAndPaper

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Summertime Flings: Good or bad Posted: 6/25/2007 9:04:16 AM
Definitely a good thing - just make sure it's what you both want, so there's no chance of emotional strain.

PenAndPaper

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Old sheets, baby oil and two bodies. Posted: 6/25/2007 8:59:53 AM
Flavoured massage oil, whip cream, honey, chocolate syrup. - my four favourites! That's all I have to say.

PenAndPaper

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boobs Posted: 6/25/2007 8:51:52 AM
I just turned 20 years old this month and honestly sweetie, I wouldn't recommend it. You say you're not doing it for men, but in your original post, you made it known that the majority of men prefer bigger breasts, which is as far from the truth as possible. I have guy friends who have specifically told me small boobs are the way to go. If I was any more gutsy, I'd get a boob reduction - my boobs are not huge, but they do cause complications, like back aches. Implants will take away your sense of self and may cause health problems that weren't present before. I wouldn't do it (personally); it's too big of a risk. However, do what makes you comfortable - just remember, you're still young and will continue to grow with time.

PenAndPaper

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dating your best friends ex Posted: 6/25/2007 8:29:20 AM
I'm going to be an echoe, I just know it. Personally, it's unlikely I would ever date my best friend's ex - too many complications in the friendship are bound to happen. However, in your case, I would ask first, see what he says, and then give it a shot. Friendships come and go, but relationships are supposed to last. Do what you think is right, but take into consideration the feelings of your best friend. Due to the circumstances of him leaving her though, he shouldn't have too many objections. To be completely honest, he sounds like a jerk for leaving her in the manner that he did.

PenAndPaper

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fall in love with the same person again Posted: 6/25/2007 8:05:45 AM
I think a part of me is still in love with my ex boyfriend. I know it's time to move on though, so I'm looking for someone new. He's an ex for a reason.

PenAndPaper

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What do you do when a guy you are talking to talks about his ex all the time? Posted: 6/24/2007 11:49:57 PM
I would still talk to him, but don't wait aorund forever. I would try to find out if he, a) has feelings for you, and b) why he always talks about her. I'd say him a chance first, see how things progress.

PenAndPaper

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Does it matter how you pay for a date? Posted: 6/24/2007 8:17:19 PM
Definitely. I honestly think the first few dates should be dutch as well, whether it be paid by cash, credit card, or debit card. Some people don't even have a flippin' credit card; for a matter of fact, mine's maxed out. I guess I shouldn't be expecting dates anytime soon.

PenAndPaper

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Does it matter how you pay for a date? Posted: 6/24/2007 8:13:51 PM
Amen to that! Obviously, these women you're dating are gold diggers, so I have to agree with Crazy.

PenAndPaper

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Does it matter how you pay for a date? Posted: 6/24/2007 8:07:07 PM
Oh for the love of god, people actually complain about the way you pay for a date? She should be thankful you're paying at all and should really have the courtesy to button up when it comes to the means of paying for a date. Paying in cash doesn't automatically make someone an unemployed dirtbag.

PenAndPaper

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What is 'trust'? Posted: 6/24/2007 8:02:30 PM
I don't agree with the idea of having someone do whatever they want with 'trust' without any hard feelings involved. I know if someone were to break that 'trust', I'd be plenty upset. It can be a gift, yes; just give it sparingly.

PenAndPaper

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the love word Posted: 6/18/2007 10:50:54 AM
Different people, different experiences. I'm usually the one that iniciates the 'L' word, but I haven't done so in a long time. :)

PenAndPaper

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weight Posted: 6/18/2007 10:41:05 AM
Going by what the success stories show is pretty biased. I'm sure some of the people on PoF rarely use the forums, if at all. I just don't see how taking the statistics from a certain thread is valid. On a side note though, no matter how big, small, short, or tall you are, someone's going to be attracted to you. It's just a matter of time and patience.

PenAndPaper

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Howdy. Posted: 5/19/2007 11:32:23 AM
Hey all, I thought I'd just make a quick post to introduce myself, so here I go. I have had an account on PoF before, but I'm starting fresh. I didn't get to post on the forums much before and decided it was about time I did so. Anyway, my name's Leanna and I'm from Ontario, Canada. Nice to meet you all!

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