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Canadian_Hottie_30

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Question about being induced!! Posted: 9/7/2005 5:57:21 AM
Cyndi 62...I'm sorry but I have to disagree. Baby and body DON'T always know when they're ready....I know this as a medical professional AND a mother. It's not healthy for a fetus to remain in the uterus past a certain point. My baby, at 8lbs 8oz was certainly ready.....he'd been ready for awhile. The cord was wrapped around his neck.....and after 32 hours of steady induction they finally went in and took him out. Believe me, he was ready to come out!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Question for everyone ... Posted: 9/6/2005 10:48:48 PM
I don't assume EVER, that we're exclusive, unless we discuss it. I expect the same from him.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Question about being induced!! Posted: 9/6/2005 10:46:45 PM
I too, was induced and my best piece of advise is, REFUSE to go home once the process has started. Many people don't know this, but your doctor isn't completely liable for anything that happens when you're at home..... When my doc suggested I go home and 'wait' a bit, I said, "I'll tie myself to a waiting room chair if I have to, but I'm not leaving here without a baby in my arms." I got to stay.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Hunting date ? Posted: 9/5/2005 10:39:29 PM
Frrosty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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a question on womens attire Posted: 9/5/2005 10:37:05 PM
I don't dress provocatively at all....in fact, this past summer, I was headed out to a function one evening, in my parents' town. I wore a halter top and it gasp showed some cleavage. My Dad's jaw dropped and I spent the entire night feeling self conscious. I asked my Mom, "Is this halter really that bad??" and she said, "Not at all, it's just different than what you would normally wear." I'm kind of a tomboy, but I'm trying to "grow" into my "womanhood"

Canadian_Hottie_30

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The Double Standard Posted: 9/5/2005 10:33:52 PM
country I soooo hear you! I grew up with 2 brothers.....and I know I can do everything they can do!!

Canadian_Hottie_30

Joined: 2/27/2005

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Getting hard to find these!!! Posted: 9/5/2005 10:21:36 PM
1. Hot or cold? Sometimes both 2. What kind of home do you live in? A duplex 3. Novels or mags in the bathroom? Neither 4. Do you still have your high school friends? Two of them 5. Babies? Have one, want one more 6. Favorite sounds? Rain, thunder, the ocean waves, a baby laughing 7. Worst feeling in the world? Betrayal, fear that someone is not alright 8. First thing you think of in the morning? How the night could have possibly passed so fast 9. How many rings before you answer the phone? Most times I don't answer it 10. What is most important in life? My child 11. Chocolate or vanilla? Vanilla 12. How do you drive? Like Mario 13. What do you sleep with? Nothing 14. Storms, cool or scary? Very cool 15. What was your first car? 1979 Dodge Omni lol 16. Do you eat the stems of broccoli? Yes 17. If you could change one thing on your body what would it be? my arms would be smaller and people would stop asking me where I worked out 18. Are you pursuing anyone right now? no 19. Is the glass half empty or half full? always 1/2 full 21. Do you type with your fingers on the right keys? yes 22. What’s under your bed? The body of the last person that cut me off in traffic 23. Say at least one nice thing about the person who made this That I'm grateful because I think these are fun? lol! 24. Dishes, washing or drying? Wash. They can dry by themselves 25. What is the last thing you remember thinking about falling asleep lastnight? I was reading and don't remember falling asleep 25. What color is your shower curtain? Butter yellow 26. Last time you talked to your mom? Saturday 27. A talent not many people know you have? I'm a fantastic arm wrestler 28. Shy or outgoing? Very outgoing 29. Ever make up silly threads so you can find out what "someone" thinks or answers? All the time 30. Do you think that is wrong? Not at all

Canadian_Hottie_30

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people getting together. Posted: 9/5/2005 10:11:29 PM
Sounds like Canada.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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What is the strangest about where you live? Posted: 9/5/2005 10:10:43 PM
The Zombie like lines at the Tim Horton's Drive Thru every morning, than again at noon, and finally around 3-4pm. I could set my watch to it.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Children and priorities in a relationship Posted: 9/5/2005 9:41:51 PM
Rockmegently, I don't believe in "common law" or living together. I had that experience twice actually, (once with my son's father) and I won't do it again. The next time I end up living with a man, we'll be married. (You asked my opinion) :) Cheers! CH

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Halloween Costume Idea's Posted: 9/5/2005 9:09:53 PM
Last year we went as a bridesmaid and best man from an 80's wedding. It was hilarious! We had an entire wedding party, complete with the bride. To top it off we were "drunken bridesmaids" which meant that one of our heels was broken (try dancing in THAT!) My dress was bright fuscia pink with a BIG ugly bow around the waist, and poofy sleeves. It was fun!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Women wanting a fairy tale life style. Posted: 9/5/2005 9:01:46 PM
I always thought that one day my marriage would probably look more like "Home Improvement" or possibly "everybody loves raymond" more so than Friends.....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Do you ever think of long lost loves? Posted: 9/5/2005 8:55:24 PM
I think that everyone has "one of those people' in their lives...... Mine happened when I was 26. I met him online actually, which progressed to phone calls, which progressed to visits. He was wonderful, but we didn't last. I thought about him for years afterward, and finally, we got in touch again.....this time we both had someone in our lives, and knew that it wasn't going to go further..... He'll be one that I'll always wonder about "what if".....seems the timing was always wrong. But then I believe everything happens for a reason. Still, I'll always have a soft spot for him.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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After 3 months??? get a call..... Posted: 9/5/2005 8:46:24 PM
My g/f had a 'weekend stand' with a British Soldier who was out one evening.....they exchanged numbers...but never used them A year later, he called her. They got together, and stayed together for 4 years..... I'd give it a shot.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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How to get rid of annoying bar guys! Posted: 9/5/2005 8:43:31 PM
I put my arms out in front of me in a large circle, smile and say, "This is MY bubble, and you're in it..please step away from the bubble." I'm not kidding, I really have done this...

Canadian_Hottie_30

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The Double Standard Posted: 9/5/2005 8:35:16 PM
"I" was actually the one with the double standard for awhile...I have a son, and yet I refused to date anyone that had children.... It wasn't out of 'ignorance' but rather experience from the past. Glad I'm over that now.....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Alone and ok with it Posted: 9/5/2005 12:41:57 AM
I've gotten to the oint now that I realize that I'm not going to "die" without someone in my life! There are definitely things I love about never having been married......I have to say though, I've had ALOT of fulfillment from raising a son...and I'm sure that in many ways, he's taken the place of a different kind of relationship....physically AND emotionally.... That said, I love adventure, and I don't mind my own company, and that of friends and family....so yes, if I had to stay single for the rest of my life, it wouldn't kill me....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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women saying I love you Posted: 9/5/2005 12:39:15 AM
The appropriate time for a first "I love you' is NOT after sex, during sex, or anywhere around sex.....that's just "my" opinion. Too many misinterpretations (like what you're dealing with right now). And when someone has said, "I love you" in the past, and I haven't felt it back...I won't say it back.....instead I'll say something along the lines of, "That's always a nice thing to hear, thank you for that."

Canadian_Hottie_30

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ITS THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR Posted: 9/5/2005 12:36:02 AM
I'm a bit sad about it really....grade 4 came so fast! And now that school's in, that means that sigh hockey is sigh just around the corner. SIGH.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Does building an emotional wall help? Posted: 9/5/2005 12:16:46 AM
I think the problem with building walls, is that after awhile, you can't remember how to take them down, even if you'd like too......

Canadian_Hottie_30

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whats the funniest thing you've done to your better half to ruin the mood ? Posted: 9/5/2005 12:04:20 AM
I accidentally kneed him in the face.......and caused him to have a bloody nose. I started laughing....but then realized that probably wasn't appropriate lol!! Seriously though, I love to laugh and have fun with it...of course an actual injury makes me feel a little guilty!!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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A poll just for the women how many of you would be willing to travel to meet some one locl or not Posted: 9/4/2005 11:52:27 PM
Well....I live in Canada and I dated someone from England for awhile.....so I guess that would make me "pro travel" if the need arose. lol...

Canadian_Hottie_30

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I don't understand, please help. Posted: 9/4/2005 11:51:03 PM
Honey you have to be careful about posting two of the same threads in different places in the forums. If the mods see this you could be banned for a day......might want to go in and delete this one.. CH (the voice of experience)

Canadian_Hottie_30

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I dont understand, please help. Posted: 9/4/2005 11:44:28 PM
She decided (for whatever reason) that she'd like to see other people. It's possible that she's met someone that caught her attention....it's possible that she was feeling bored with the relationship, or that she just didn't see it headed in the direction she was hoping for..... Either way, she's done you a favor. You are NOW single....embrace it! Enjoy it! Go and do those things that you were wanting to do ....but held back on, due to the fact that you were in a relationship. Yes, it's going to feel really horrible for awhile...because you don't yet have closure....you're going to have to get that, how you do it is up to you.....But do get it.... And then do something "for you"......

Canadian_Hottie_30

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The 5 questions most feared by men are Posted: 9/4/2005 11:41:10 PM
The 5 that have had me shivering.... 1. Do you see a future for us? 2. Are you seeing other people? 3. Would you like to meet my parents? 4. Would you consider moving in with me? 5. Who's that hot girl that you were talking to?

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Your grown child in porn. Posted: 9/4/2005 11:15:45 PM
Yeah why not Pookie...incest "is" best......at least where you're from?

Canadian_Hottie_30

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long tongues Posted: 9/4/2005 11:12:58 PM
I mean seriously though, what would having a long tongue do? I mean....just because a "penis" is longer, doesn't make it better?? Honestly confused on this one....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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*who all has done the sex webcam thing?* Posted: 9/4/2005 11:05:30 PM
That whole webcam thing seems really cheesy to me....but I say, each to their own!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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long tongues Posted: 9/4/2005 11:02:25 PM
wow tme...that's such a sick thought! Yeah....no.....long tongues do absolutely nothing for me...

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Your grown child in porn. Posted: 9/4/2005 10:31:01 PM
I would be mortified, horrified and heartbroken. We'd discuss counseling, I'd wonder where I went wrong as a parent, and hopefully we could figure out a plan to get her back on the 'right path'. Yikes.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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The Animal in You Posted: 9/4/2005 9:57:11 PM
I would normally say something adventurous.......but.....I would say, either some old lady's lapcat...where I would sit with her by a fire, and she would rub my back all day....or I'd be some awesome kid's dog..... Least desirable would be a chinese fighting fish in one of those little containers at the pet store. uggh!!!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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True love Posted: 9/4/2005 9:51:01 PM
I think I've discovered lately that love is not at ALL what I thought...... I used to believe that it was 'butterflies' and a feeling that I wouldn't be able to live without that person......I'd think about them all of the time, and couldn't wait to start planning a future together. Everything he did would be "beautiful" to me......he'd make me laugh all of the time, my whole world would seem brighter somehow..... What I've discovered, is that "falling in love" is very much like that...and it lasts for a short while.... Real Love.....(or the love that comes after falling in love) is very much a roller coaster ride...ups and downs, and ups and downs....somedays you can't believe how lucky you are to be involved with this wonderful person....other days you feel like leaving him in a ditch! Somedays the butterflies are there, other days you have to work on that attraction a bit...a relationship is a mirror of your own self. it will show you which areas you need to improve on...it will show you where you need to grow..... "Real love" is something that I'm only just learning about.....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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wow do i realy affend the ladies out here Posted: 9/4/2005 9:45:33 PM
Sorry honey, but from your profile, it looks like you're trying to sell phone deals, or internet stuff.......just seems kind of odd.. Also, you have a picture of a woman in your profile. Who is that? Why is she in there? As for the IM's....I know I turned mine off just because I hate them and find them annoying....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Unatractive and cursed, at least I think so. Posted: 9/4/2005 9:43:20 PM
What is the topic of this post exactly? I don't mean to be rude..but you're bouncing all over the place... Is it about finding an attractive woman, or is it about feeling depressed over the break up of a relationship? scratching head If it's the the latter, I mean, I can relate to the situation....I had my son with a guy that chronically cheated on me over the course of 4 years......I finally found the strength to leave him and THANK GOD! My life hasn't been linear in it's happiness, but I'm definitely a stronger, wiser and happier person, than I ever would have been if I had chosen to stay. She did you a FAVOR! Now wake up and take notice! And be thankful!!!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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kids and drugs Posted: 9/4/2005 9:32:35 PM
My son is only 10, but we've already discussed drugs and what they do to you. we've also discussed what to say/do if you're approached by someone that has drugs, or is doing drugs. The same goes with alcohol. He's learned how to recognize what some drugs look like...but sadly, I don't have "all" of the information that probably requires. I love that next year he's going to be involved in the DARE program at school with the RCMP, I think that program rocks! In reference to the drinking thread above.....I know that on some weekends, when I asked my Dad for $20, he knew exactly what it was for. He knew that we were drinking at the age of 15 or 16....I wouldn't say that he 'encouraged it' or was completely Ok with it, but his way of thinking was, "I know that you're doing it, but if you get into any kind of trouble, or you can't drive, or don't want to drive with someone that's been drinking, call me, I won't get mad....just call." And I did. A couple of times. I wouldn't be surprised if my son started drinking around the same age....as long as we can keep things "open and real" between us....than we'll deal with it as it arises....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Feel that NOT wanting MORE children May cause some barriers! Posted: 9/4/2005 9:11:27 PM
Hambone, I don't agree with your age range...perhaps it's because the majority of my friends are late 20's early 30's and have only recently gotten married, and have had, or are thinking of having children. People are playing this game a lot later in life than they used to!! As to the OP's question, i know that I once broke it off with someone that "knew" that he didn't want to ever have any more children.....as I wasn't ready to let go of that option in my own life. But there are those out there for sure, that will identify with your situation.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Biological Clocks...is yours ticking? Posted: 9/4/2005 8:51:37 AM
Thanks for all of the responses! Just to address the "age" thing...I'm aware that women are having babies well into their 40's...it's just not something that "I'm" interested in doing. (Thus the 35 cut off age).......I mean, my son will graduate high school just before my 39th birthday.......and I "do" want some life of my own in those later on years...as I didn't have them in my 20's....if that makes any sense..... Great responses, keep em coming!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Need a real man & no head games Posted: 9/3/2005 11:34:53 PM
That term "head games" is annoying to me too.....I mean...dating IS a game, like it or not (most like it).......no one is capable of playing 'games' with you, unless you allow yourself to 'be played with'........

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Biological Clocks...is yours ticking? Posted: 9/3/2005 11:29:21 PM
So there I was, babysitting this newborn tonite...she's 6 weeks old, the little gal of a friend of mine. She's adorable.....such a good baby.....and I watched my son with her (he's 10) and he LOVED her! (He loves all kids but especially babies)...... I'm 31, and still struggling with whether or not I'd like to have another child down the road. I have so many pro's.....and some con's....and it makes my head spin!!! I think to myself, "I'll never regret having another baby....but will I regret NOT having another?" I suppose the added pressure comes from the fact that I do not want to have another child after the age of 35.....which gives me 4 more years to get this decision in place..... Is anyone else out there wrestling with this kind of decision? Have more or not?

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Has anyone here dated a metrosexual? Posted: 9/3/2005 11:23:35 PM
Never heard of the word "metrosexual" before.....but I lived with someone for 3 years, that fits your description. He had more hair products than "I" did....and the personality to go with the hair products for the most part....he definitely should have been in sales...

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Why do women wear makeup? Posted: 9/3/2005 11:18:42 PM
I wear some of it because I need the eyebrow help! lol! Other than that, I can take it or leave it, but hate the 'gucky' liquid foundation that's out there and refuse to wear it. I don't wear mascara everyday, but I will if I'm headed out. Same goes for lipliner. My make up case is pretty bare. Except for the brow pencil, which I would take with me to a deserted island.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Kids and staying back-question please help Posted: 9/2/2005 11:10:47 PM
I think you need to take control of this situation as the parent. I would demand an interview with administration, and find out exactly what's going on. But I also would not allow them to dictate which grade your son's are going to be starting in this year. Walk in as an education "partner", which is exactly what you are!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Name what you are definitely not looking for in a partner! Posted: 9/2/2005 5:30:03 PM
No sense of humor, arrogant, boisterous, negative....

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Married with children Posted: 9/2/2005 5:28:52 PM
I think it's a very cool fantasy, but when you're "in the moment", practically anything goes! It's afterward, when everyone is picking up their clothes and staring at the floor that I would wonder about.....I think it might be better left as a fantasy.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Anyone else love sex and intimacy but prefer sleeping alone? Posted: 9/2/2005 5:27:12 PM
I'm tossed on this one...I like it to a point, but there are definitely nights where I'd love to have my "space"!! Maybe this is what being single for so many years does to a person! I like the idea of the King Sized bed for sure!!!!! lol!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Why Are Men Anal about women having guy friends? Posted: 9/1/2005 9:55:39 PM
My rule of thumb about dating, and having male friends... If I can invite the male friend over for dinner, and have my b/f there at the same time....than it's all good. If I were to be married, and I could invite my male friend to my wedding with no "odd" feelings, than it's all good..... Anything else would be strangely suspicious.

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Do you know your personalities weaknesses / imperfections? And do you do anything about them? Posted: 9/1/2005 9:52:05 PM
I remember years ago, at work, some of the others I was working with were doing this silly "Friends" test (from the characters on friends). You had to guess which character you were most like. I chose Rachel. Everyone in the room snickered and said that hands down I was "Monica". I thought I was 'easygoing', and yet no one agreed with me. My best friend was the first to laugh at the thought of my being " a team player". It definitely made me take a closer look at what I was 'throwing out there' so to speak. I am controlling. I like to be 'the boss', although I really dig people that don't let me get away with it. I procrastinate, and yet I can always finish a deadline at the nick of time. I can be extremely sarcastic, and my words have hurt people in the past. That's something I'm trying to be more aware of........ I'm afraid of committing to anything, and again, I've done more soul searching this year, regarding that, than I ever have before..... I'm definitely not the perfect package, and I understand that......but I'm obviously recognizing these things for a reason!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Men Please Read !!! Posted: 9/1/2005 9:45:19 PM
I agree about the age thing. I think it was much harder for me to find 'date-able' material when I was 24, as compared to 31.........give it some time..these boys just need to grow a bit!

Canadian_Hottie_30

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Single fathers that dont want anymore children speak up!!! Posted: 9/1/2005 9:44:03 PM
I hope that your 'baby making days' are over for better reasons than just being 33!! I mean, lots of people are just getting started at that age! Lots of reasons for 'not' wanting any more children (or any at all really) but hopefully it's not because you're in your early 30's!!! ;)

Canadian_Hottie_30

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what single dad means? Posted: 9/1/2005 12:23:45 PM
I consider it to be the latter...a single guy with kids, and he's involved with them...that's a 'single dad'..... If he wasn't called a single dad, what would he be?

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