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lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Aftermath of Spring Fling Sing: Allstars Meet and Greet, 4/2/09 Posted: 4/3/2009 12:09:58 PM
we missed you Terri

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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the list on your profile Posted: 2/7/2009 8:05:01 AM
I enjoy reading profiles and do it often. Im finding that many of them contain a list: she should , she should not: smoke be fat be poor be short and countless other restrictions Im just putting my 2 cents in that maybe your not getting mail becuase somebody dont match your list. If i am on it one catagory i will not mail nor will i respond. Anyone else feel like this? It great we all have things we would like in our potiential mate but id feel real bad if i missed out on a guy because i like blue eyes and his eyes were brown.. Have a great day Happy fishing..

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Adults living at home with Mom and Dad Posted: 1/25/2009 11:01:17 AM
judge not till you walk in my shoes.. I am seperated have been for a while. I had some finacial problems ( tickets on a car I couldnt pas inspection with) and lost my place i lived. Ive moved in with my mother and my 2 children. its allowing me to get back on my feet slowly but surely.Ya know we all get troubles hwo many of us woman have a dead beat? Im one of then I do it all on my own.

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Girls who state their looking for friends Posted: 11/2/2008 12:22:35 PM
it usually means just that. She needs a compainion . Maybe she is marreid or dating someone already and needs more but dont want the whole relationsship thing....( sex and love) and she dont want to cheat she really wants a freind to hang out with and go places with..

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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smokers contacting non-smokers - is it ok? Posted: 11/2/2008 7:13:43 AM
should contact anyway like someone said they dont ahve a filter on that one.

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Has the internet helped or hurt chances of meeting someone? Posted: 2/9/2008 5:18:27 PM
I think it helps , but its not perfect. Never will be , but then is anything?

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Please Shed Some Light on This Posted: 2/9/2008 5:12:11 PM
hes probaly married

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/27/2007 6:26:16 PM
I met him on yahoo messenger in 2005. Only one i ever met with out a picture. We had talked for 6 weeks on a pretty regular basis . When i finally met him in person i was not disappointed at all. We have been seeing each other ever since. We do break up from time to time . But all in all it was a good turn out.

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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smokers dating non smokers!!!! Posted: 7/12/2007 12:33:02 PM
i smoke he dont i just dont smoke when im with him and shower before i go and use lots of mints he smoked before hes ok with it , im just respectful that he dont want it around him and he respects i keep it from around him.

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Does friends with benefits ever work? Posted: 5/22/2007 7:27:55 AM
I started a relationship with a man 2 years ago. We fell fast and furious both of us.We were having an affair actually. At first it was a true affair, meeting up , going out talking and of course sex. Myself knowing he was married and that it most likely would never go any where. I suppressed my feelings a bit.About 3 months into it. He ccalled me late one night which wasnt hs norm and had me meet him. When i did he told me he loved me and he wanted to do right by me ( leave his wife). When i knew he had feelings for me also i suppose i had permission not to supress my feelings anymore.Yet from that time on he went back and forth. One time saying he loved me, another time saying it was just the sex. I got discouraged often and id stop it and date someone else. Always ended that because i really wanted to be with him. Even if we never lived to gether or married. I was content to be his mistress as long as i was wanted. In january of this year he told me he wanted to just be friends. he is actually more afraid to leave than he ever was before. I agreed we would be freinds go out and havce coffe dinner . chat daily. be friends. I dated a few men agin. It was him i wanted. We started having sex agin. he brought it up to be freinds with benifits. I know he dont want to stop our friendship and the sex is awsome. Prolly why i dont want to end it either. Right now were at a point where its no longer enough for me. I cant do the friends with benifits thing. He has no problem doing it. I belive it might work for some but like most are saying emotion always hits one or the other and it is doomed. Sad thing is he is someone i can talk to about anything im so comfortable with him and him with me. Thats a freindship i never want to lose. I am looking for someone who can be there for me more than once a week and genuinly wants to be with me. No conditions. When i do find such a reltionship the benifits will end. Period. the freindship hopefully will survive. Thats the hope we both hold. We ahve talked about it a lot. he knows im loooking and he dont want to lose the friendship either. its going to be real hard to do. having an affair is hard to do. You just have to accept your limitations or move on.

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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how much should i tell? Posted: 5/21/2007 1:23:39 PM
I have a friend with benifits. I have come to a point where i want more. I want more companship and everything that goes with dating someone . Thats why i signed up here. I believe in being honest with someone . yet my honesty has not been taken well. I understnd where someone might be a hesitant. I think they should rememebr that i dint have to tell them. I think that would be worse. I have no intention continuing this fwb realtionship sexually if i were to begin dating someone who wasnt just lookign for the same thing i have right now.What should i do, should i wait and see if something comes up then jsut stop having sex with my friend and say nothing? Im not trying to hide anything.I would rather be honest. To be truth ful he will remain my friend, we will meet up and have cooffe and talk. I have decided that i want a change, He knows im looking for something more and he is behind me. He wants me to find the happiness that he cant give me. lil

lilscorpiomo

Joined: 5/14/2007

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Dating a Woman who is going thru a Divorce Posted: 5/20/2007 8:01:25 PM
I to am seperated. Emotionally and physicall y my marriage is over. I jsut dont have papers yet. I began an affair 2 years ago with a married man. I was seperated 7 months at the time. We have a great relationsship physically and emotionally. He has no plans of leaving his wife. Knowing this i have to back off. I can say i love him. Yet i know its not going anywhere. In the past 2 years he has told me his feelings and said he loved me. I think hes afraid to give up the comfort he has. Knowing this isnt going any where i have finally decided that its time for me to move on. why i came here. I will tell anyone intrested that i will keep him always as a friend. It might be hard and i might never really give up my feelings for him. Soometimes its very hard to know when to end something we really love . When we knw that they dont love us like we love them and they arent willing to be to us more than they are.Then we know that its time to move on hurtful as it is.. right now she is just a mine is. A cake man.. he has his cake and eats it to. We know this and love them in spite of it but still we know they dont truely love us the same. If your content in waiting then wait. If not then maybe be strong and find out her true feelings and then go from there. Aske her what are your chances . Really she is only one who can answer your questions. It hurts sure but it also makes it easier to make an informed decision.

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