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Thread: Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
adensdad
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Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
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9/10/2007 5:28:29 PM
Well the fact is liking chunky gals for being chunky is a bit rare. It is possible to be liked for your other qualities and have your chunkiness accepted to get the rest of you. Lets face it, half or more than half of all people here are chunky. Guys have to look past it sometimes or be one of the 75 guys trying to pick up the one skinny girl. You see that on here sometimes. If you click on an attractive girl, she has about 75 to 150 people who put her on their favorites list. Every guy wants a hot girl but most girls aren't hot. It shouldn't be hard for you to find one that realizes this.
OK here is my advice.
You can't go around constantly aware of your chunkiness. Guys can see you are chunky, you don't have to talk about it or how you need to fix it, or how you wish it wasn't so. Just be upbeat about the things you have to offer. If you are depressed, forget keeping someone new. It's worse to be depressed over your body than to have a body to be depressed about. If you feel that way, keep it to yourself. Maybe the feeling will fade when you are accepted.
Good insight and advice joeintheburbs.
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Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
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9/10/2007 5:25:35 PM
Its actually pretty sad that a woman or man for that matter, in order to get "lots of dates", has to lose weight. I have seen big women and men who look absolutely spectacular.
They look absolutely spectacular to you because you have a female standard of attraction because you're well, a female. The male standard is different, that's all, theres nothing morally wrong with it. I've seen women that practically had nails in their faces but had a thin figure so men went nuts for them. These tendencies and preferences are perfectly natural. They have almost nothing to do with culture. I don't care how much cosmo likes to "promote" a certain body size, they can't tell me when to get an erection. You're just not getting the way men think because you're not trying to get it.
adensdad
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Men that expect to much and only look for look's
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9/7/2007 5:28:21 PM
If often say when we complain about a gender we're really complaining about the human race. We just tend to focus on the other gender more often, so their character faults become more obvious to us. Most everything you're describing about "men" I have found in the women I date michiganrose.
Women tend to glance over a very important reality about Men. We want fairness, not chivalry. If you don't think a man is paying attention to who you are as a person, it's highly likely you are not paying attention to him either. Maybe you say rude things to him. Maybe you engage in playful insults that you think he's enjoying but are really pissing him off. If you do this sort of thing to a man, he's not likely to defend himself, because our culture doesn't consider defending yourself to a woman masculine. Most likely a man you annoy on a date is going to screw you, then never call you again. A big difference between men and women is that we don't have to like you to have sex with you. Usually a man screwing you then never calling you again is not something done out of lack of concern. It's usually quite intentional. He's not calling you after the sex because he doesn't like you. He may even hate you. He screwed you and knows that doing so is causing you to be more emotionally attached than you were previously. He wanted that to happen because you were rude to him or because he just didn't like you in the first place. He knows after having sex with you and not calling you again is going to hurt your feelings. It's a passive-aggressive act of revenge. I know, I've done it more than once myself and didn't feel the least bad about doing it. If a woman is going to be rude to me and treat me like crap, why should I care about her feelings?
adensdad
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North Michigan Forum
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9/7/2007 5:13:27 PM
Great. Thanks. It would be nice if a few more would join and even nicer if some of them could post a message or two.
adensdad
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North Michigan Forum
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5/14/2007 9:04:47 AM
I've started a webforum for people in the Northern Michigan area to hang. Everyone is invited. Not for profit, just for fun. Check it out.
http://northernmich.proboards47.com
adensdad
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Men's reproductive rights petition.
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7/30/2006 5:16:32 PM
http://www.gopetition.com/online/9223.html
Sign it. Pass it on to five people.
adensdad
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Thats why its called fishing !!!!
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7/9/2006 9:29:29 PM
The forum is inadequate regardless. It has no structure. It's just a page with some posts on it. That isn't a forum. In a forum you get to know the people who post. You know how many users there are and everyone is familiar to you. Here, people are floating in and out and no one is replying to any post that is not the title post of a thread. It just doesn't function correctly as a forum.
You obviously have never been in a real forum and you don't understand what I mean by the reply icon. It's a night and day thing. Everyone replies to every post in my forum. It's just a better system.
Plus you get emails telling you whenever you get a reply. And you can "quote reply" and "quick reply" so you theres no confusion about which post you're replying to.
There's no moderator of the michigan board. Any post that gets edited here is edited automatically.
adensdad
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Thats why its called fishing !!!!
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7/5/2006 9:56:14 AM
Plus I can segregate it my michigan region. I can have a Northern Michigan board. A middle michigan board. a southern michigan board and a UP board.
adensdad
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Thats why its called fishing !!!!
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7/5/2006 9:55:19 AM
Plus you can edit your posts or delete them whenever you want. You can send personal messages. Post in a shoutbox. Use the Karma feature. A spellchecker. Create a massive smiley library to use. The main thing is the "NEW" icon, which tells you where to find all the anything you haven't read.
adensdad
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Thats why its called fishing !!!!
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7/5/2006 9:46:25 AM
Well, they aren't getting replies Ripley. This one wasn't getting replies until I made my comment.
I think the POF forums are just inadequate in many respects. I enjoy the sort of users that come here. They aren't the regular message board addicts. They're normal folk. Not people who are super political or standing on a soap box with some sort of stance. They're just normal people dealing with dating issues.
The problem is that the forums just lack the features message boards tend to have that encourage responses and the users getting to know one another. The only usb tags are the quote tags, and even they work without the name of the person you're replying to included in the quote. There are many other usb tags but they don't work here. In most forums you can post images in your post, you can provide links to anything you want and there are iindicators to tell you whenever there is a new post anywhere and where to find them. Plus there are no categories in the michigan POF forum, which prevents people from knowing the context of a certain thread.
Let me ask this: If I were to set up a michigan singles forum (probably a proboards forum) which had lots of features and a good category style, would anyone be interested in it? It would be rather easy for me to do as I've started forums in the past and it wouldn't cost me anything. I could start the forum, then link users from Michigan POF over there.
adensdad
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Northern Michigan
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7/4/2006 8:56:09 PM
I get quite a few responses, but they're always from outside my "dating range." I'd prefer someone within 50 miles or so.
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Thats why its called fishing !!!!
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7/4/2006 8:51:50 PM
lol!
No insult Jonathan, but you start too many threads for this type of forum. Try to be more selective in your thread topics because some of your topics just aren't very interesting or urgent. This wouldn't be a big deal, but too many users come in and out of POF forums for the page to be moved too quickly. If people keep starting threads just because they want to make sure someone reads their posts it will move the page too quick and other more urgent or interesting threads may be ignored.
I've been posting here for a few months now and still haven't started a single thread. If I come up with something I am sure will be intriguing to all the users, or If I have a problem I need help on, I'll start a thread. But starting threads pumps other threads off the first page.
Not to imply that you have nothing to say of course. It's just that each of the title posts for these threads you start are pretty much right on topic with the subject of the first thread you wrote. You could have just posted your new insight in the older thread.
adensdad
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What is wrong with being an Atheist??
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7/4/2006 8:40:09 PM
lmfao! you will know when your a*s burns for eternity, maybe you came from an ape but i sure as hell did'nt
Odd, you look like an ape to me.
adensdad
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If a man lets you go, should you take him back?
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7/4/2006 8:34:28 PM
If a man dumps you or lets you go, should you take him back? He says he still loves you, and made a mistake, should you still take him back? He had some issues and he worked them out. I still love him with all of my heart. We broke apart on good terms, and were still friends through out the whole break up. I know he is the one for me but he still let me go and didnt want me for some point. Should I still take him back? He says he's changed. His issues were not a big deal but he thought they were and he said he fixed them. My heart is broken and I miss him, but I don't want to get hurt again. Should I take him back?
Taking the info you've provided in itself, I don't see anything wrong with taking him back. But I would advise you to be wary of a lopsided balance of power in the new relationship. He may percieve that he can let you go and pick you back up again whenever he wants, which may cause him to feel he is less obligated to show you respect. Not to say this will happen, this guy could be a really great, kindhearted fellow, but be wary.
adensdad
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Important Radio Question
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7/4/2006 8:29:45 PM
Most of the deletions in POF forums are automatic. A keyword or the presence of a URL will usually do it, as it they're afraid people are posting links to sites they feel are the competition, or introducing forums that will lessen the amount of time people spend in POF. The site is a business, so I suppose I can't blame them.
For instance, try to type in the word M#Sp#ce sometime (without the #'s of course). It's an automatic thing.
adensdad
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What is wrong with being an Atheist??
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7/1/2006 7:04:07 PM
You raise some very good questions 2eyes. A very insightful post indeed.
Marriage is a universal phoenomenon across cultures and funerals nearly are. For instance, in Soviet Union- a state dedicated to atheism- they still held marriage ceremonies.
So do pair bond rituals and a remembrance rituals come from religion or do societies merely incorporate their particular religions into rituals that are almost inherent human phoenomenons- behaviors that all societies take part in to hold themselves in a certain sort of structure? I suppose we cannot know for certain. I think it is the latter though.
adensdad
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What is Love??
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7/1/2006 6:18:32 PM
Wow! that is an amazing Poem? Who wrote it?
adensdad
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how do you respond to a woman that send you a naked photo
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7/1/2006 6:12:04 PM
I would say that I was flattered to have someone share something that intimate with me. And even if she shares her nudity with others, it still wouldn't take away from the fact that she did share it with me. Sounds corny, I know. :0)
No, I think that is a legitimate feeling. Of course, sentimentality comes in all forms. Who is anyone to define this circumstance as something sleasy? It could certainly be intended as a guesture of affection. Why not? And a person would certainly not be odd for finding it a guesture of affection or liking.
adensdad
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Divorce can be devastating,but you can make it through !!
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7/1/2006 6:07:42 PM
I don't know if I can say that the death of a spouse would be an identicle experience or the identicle advice would apply, because it has never happened to me.
From what I understand, no one ever gets over the loss of a loved one. No matter what.
It would be self-destructive in my view to try to do things in your life to help you forget about that person entirely. I just don't think it would work. But that doesn't mean you should avoid relationships. The fact that you are a widow is now a big part of who you are however, and will always be a part of who you are. So when finding a new partner you need to find someone who is supportive of the fact that you are a widow, regardless of how much time has passed.
adensdad
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Are women looking for a real relationship?
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7/1/2006 6:02:15 PM
I don't know to be honest. I think it depends on who you are and what you want. Not sure there is a standard "good relationship" any more than there is a standard good meal or good car.
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Divorce can be devastating,but you can make it through !!
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7/1/2006 8:46:15 AM
The most dangerous thing a person going through a divorce can do in my view, is to start a new relationship as quickly as they can. People often do this to comfort themselves but it's self destructive. The quicker one starts a new relationship, the less they introspect about who they are and what happened to them in the marriage.
The fact is a marriage, or any other huge lifestyle change should transform you into a different person. Personal evolution is a part of life. Things happen to us and we become different people, stronger people. A void opens up inside of us and when we fill that void up ourselves, it's always filled with useful things. When we look for someone else to fill that void, they will leave eventually and the void will only be larger.
adensdad
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What is Love??
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7/1/2006 8:39:08 AM
"Love" only really exists in a metaphysical sense. In psychology, the term used for all amoration between people is "liking." When we experience liking at the same time we experience other favorable intense mental states concerning another person, we tend to label it "love."
"Emotion" is a compilated abstract term. Meaning a name given for something when this, this and this is happening at the same time.
It's like the eskimos with snow. They have some 9 or ten different words for snow. When it is humid and the snow is falling sideways, that's one thing. When it is arrid and the snow is floating down slowly, that's another thing. To us it's snowing and it is humid. They're seperate and the elements are identified individually by us. But they don't.
If a person is experiencing stress at the same time they are thinking about someone or something they don't like that is combined and called "hatred," or "anger" if is is accompanied by thoughts of actions to harm that thing or person. If we are experiencing elation at the same time we are attracted to a person and we find favor with that person we call that "love."
All "emotions" are a bunch of things happening at the same time. A state of mood (stress, anxiety or elation) accompanied by thoughts about something or someone (favor or disfavor) accompanied by an arousal state or a motivation to do something (I want to see this person, I do not want to see this person, I want to hurt this person ect). You can make any combination of these elements happen at the same time and basically make "emotions" out of them.
So basically loving someone is entirely up to the person who loves, and their interpretation of their experiences/feelings regarding another person. For instance, we often meet people, have one conversation and feel practically the same things for a person that others feel after marriage, or a long, caring relationship. But then we tell ourselves it isn't "love" because of the social definitions regarding how much time it should take. So, I'm sure if one really introspected about it they could say they love people of the opposite sex all the time.
Getting someone to "love" you is quite another matter. And one I would suggest a person who enjoys their sanity avoid thinking about too much.
adensdad
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What Do You Think?
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6/29/2006 11:10:20 PM
Well, this may be difficult for some people to understand but we find the stars, trees beautiful because it helps the species for us to be at peace with the world we live in. It's sociobiology. Same reason we find babies cute. If we didn't find them cute the species wouldn't survive. So "beautiful" is in the sociobiological eye of the beholder. The tree isn't beautiful, we are conditioned to find it beautiful.
I'm sure flies consider crap beautiful. I'm sure Polar Bears find a chunk of ice beautiful. It's sobioliological conditioning.
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What is your favorite season in Michigan and why?
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6/29/2006 11:01:11 PM
I'll have to go against the pack and say winter. Simply because there are no tourists and all the retarded people stay inside where I don't have to look at them.
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how do you respond to a woman that send you a naked photo
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6/29/2006 10:45:26 PM
hmm...it really depends.
Did you just begin talking to this person? Or have you been messaging for awhile. She could have just sent you the naked pic to spike up the conversation. I think the only thing to fear here is desperation. I've talked to girls in IMs before that wanted me to look at their breasts in webcams, and those girls actually ended up in some rather solid relationships, so I'm not sure showing nakedness means someone is a "tramp." Some girls just consider that fun behavior. She could just be trying to loosen up the talk a bit.
adensdad
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Stopped looking
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6/29/2006 10:39:22 PM
Guys, bringing up someone's age is a petty debate topic. If that's all you can retaliate with you simply can't debate.
People need to remember to adress the person they respond to in these posts. It gets confusing trying to read some of them when I can't tell who's responding to who.
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Northern Michigan
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6/29/2006 10:28:21 PM
Cheboygan sucks, but I'll wear my home with pride. Nice to see a NM thread. I'm very active in the Michigan forum. At least 15 posts per week.
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pic's of men without a shirt??
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6/23/2006 9:21:08 PM
hmm...well, why do women show photos of their nice car? Or hanging out with their friends? Those things will certainly turn a man away rather than attract him.
As far as the cleavage shot women...I think we would be suprised at how many messages they get. You're not seeing the male standard of attraction here.
I have a well built chest and stuff but I don't display a pic of that kind of thing because...well, I simply don't walk around life without my shirt all the time. I think I would end up getting messages from women who wouldn't be interested in me if they saw me normally and on a date, it would be awkward. I just put a big pick of my face there. Like it or don't like it. You can obviously see from it that I'm thin and in shape from the jawline. You can see the expression that is on my face 90% of the time. You can see my son, which will be the subject of most conversation with me. The photo is honest.
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what makes a good profile
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6/22/2006 10:52:03 PM
People may not get that's your daughter in the photo unless they click the profile. So maybe you should consider a different display image and just keep that one in the profile. Otherwise I think it's good. You're certainly the type my mom would contact and she's around your age.
adensdad
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What is wrong with being an Atheist??
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6/22/2006 10:42:27 PM
Atheists have nothing better to do than to stomp on other people's rights. I am not that religious but I do believe in a higher power..AND Guardian Angels...if it were not for them...I would have been dead right now..
Just don't step on my rights to believe...
Arealangel, 80% of americans believe in God. Is it possible that an 80% majority can be persecuted by the 20% minority? That's like five girls live in a dorm room and four run to the Housing director and complain that the one girl is being prejudicial to all four of them.
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Would You Respond To Someone Who Doesn't Have A Photo?
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6/22/2006 10:36:44 PM
I usually just make small talk. If they compliment me I say "thank you." If they ask me a question I answer. But no, I'm usually not very anxious to meet someone who doesn't display a photo. In my experience women who don't show a photo have a reason for not showing it.
If they do show a photo I make sure to ask them how recent the photo is. Many women will show a photo from high school that doesn't look anything like the 26 year old version.
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Would you date a woman with white kids?
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6/22/2006 10:23:50 PM
Yes you`re wrong. You`re obviously the wrong kind of mother for those kids. Kids dont have a choice in who their parents are. If you want to spread your legs for every ethnicisity in the world because YOU ARE ATTRACTED to that type of person then go for it but dont make your kids suffer for your lack of better judgment.
Kids only care about what color a person is if some ignorant adult (like you) tells them they should care.
Kids have enough instability in their lives with things like just moving from one neighborhood to another. Kids look to their parents for reassurance that their world is intact and as it should be. You are getting your perental responsibilities and your sexual urges mixed up. Almost everyone I know, both black and white , do not prefer to raise children that are not their own, especially if the child is of a differing race than theirs.
Who cares? Most people also like "the milkshake song," and think the apostles wrote the new testement. Most people are morons.
Chances are that the only reason that a black guy would be interested in you to begin with is because you`re sending out all the signals that you want to get laid by him. Black, white or green, a guy would be crazy to turn down a booty call. Just because I laid this little black chick in ohio doesnt mean I want to raise her 5 little mixed kids. Shes a fun gal but shes looking for daddy for those kids too. What she should have did was tell the first kids daddy to wear a rubber before she opened wide.
Did it ever occure to you that some single parents don't consider their children a mistake? I'm a single parent and I haven't considered a moment of it a burden. In many ways, it's easier to raise a child in a "split family."
Now that shes got all these kids she is going to be hard pressed to find any dude who is going to want to do anything with her but to do her. Thats where you`re at in life right now. If youre not receiving welfare for the kids then I would sugest that you give those kids back to their white daddy and then go live the life. At least then you wont have any problems. But hey, if the kids stop you from getting the man of your dreams then you could do like that one chick in prison did to her kids. What was it again, drove the car into the lake?
Is it that time of the month Wizard?
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where to meet new people?
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6/17/2006 11:07:43 PM
Jesus. I just read that 28-40 thing and was thinking, "Jeeze, why do these older women all want to date men who are older?" then I realized that I was 28 myself. It was a bad aging epiphany.
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What is wrong with being an Atheist??
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6/17/2006 11:01:06 PM
Chicaboom=nazi
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Where has all the Tom-Boys gone?
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6/17/2006 10:46:12 PM
I'm curious as to what the motivation is. Are you interested in finding a "tomboy" because they're fun to spend time with? Or do you believe that a "tomboy" will somehow be more empathetic to your tastes as a man or a sexual being?
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Where has all the Tom-Boys gone?
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6/13/2006 8:36:17 PM
I'd love a woman who can fix my car. I don't know diddly about cars.
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looking outside of michigan
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6/13/2006 8:34:33 PM
I'd prefer not to even date outta county.
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One thing for sure:
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6/13/2006 8:32:59 PM
I don't give up so easily. I post only in the michigan forum. If others keep it up the forum will grow.
I have a forum myself. http://benjiduncan.proboards24.com good discussion there if anyone wants to check it out.
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What is wrong with being an Atheist??
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6/8/2006 9:17:30 PM
Actually "satan" is a biblical translation error.
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Your real name and your safety. Ladies, please read.
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6/8/2006 9:15:49 PM
This is paranoid nonsense. The "dark evil stranger" idea is as old as the newspaper. Every single incident gets a story on the news, as rare as it is. Then these stories become the public perseption of reality. You're more at risk of getting electocuted by your computer cords than you are meeting a "crazy psychopath," who wants to kill you simply because he/she saw your picture. "HAHAHAHA SHE TOLD ME HER NAME! I'M GOING TO RAPE HER NOW!"
Most women are raped by people they already know.
Most children are sexually molested by relatives.
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is this wrong?
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6/6/2006 6:30:01 PM
I haven't had sex in four years. You don't see me going "oh boo-hoo, I need affection," and running off to find an orgy with a bunch of retarded drunks.
My ex had five affairs going on with me at the same time. She didn't work and I took care of all the kids and did all the housework. She used to threaten to take my child away if I complained about any of it.
But I never cheated. I'm glad I never did. I can tell this story the rest of my life. I'll be able to look my son in the eye someday and say "When it came to you, I did the best I could. I didn't put myself first, even when it was emotionally convenient."
You are responsible for
your
behavior, not your partners. Two wrongs never make a right. Character is fate.
Adensdad
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Would you forgive your EX when they've committed Adultry?
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5/23/2006 6:28:00 PM
Your ex can rot in hell for all I care and for all you should care. You should forgive for yourself, not for her. It is better for you that you forgive. Hate is emotionally expensive and she seems to cheap to waste it on.
Adensdad
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Why do women seem to want men taller than themselves?
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5/20/2006 9:21:10 PM
I may get some flak for this but here's the reason.
Evolution favors whatever aids the survival and continuation of the species. The physical trait relationships between men and women that fostered more conceptions and survival of offspring were the one's that naturally were passed down as things we are attracted to in mates. Our prehuman ancestors raped much more often than we do. It was one of the primary ways in which they breeded. So on a sociobiological level, men tend to be attracted to women who are smaller and therefore less able to physically defend themselves. Likewise women tend to be attracted to men who can physically dominate them.
Not condoning rape of course, just explaining the desire. All the things we are attracted to can be tied in to sociobiology.
Adensdad
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Your real name and your safety. Ladies, please read.
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5/20/2006 9:05:05 PM
I think this is paranoid nonsense. If a stranger walks up to you in real life are you in danger just because you tell them your name? Some people watch too much television.
Adensdad
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What exactly are men looking for?????
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5/17/2006 6:01:10 PM
I never think much about what I exactly want because I know I wont get it anyway. Basically I'm amendable to a relationship with a person with a vagina, who weighs less than I do, doesn't lie too much and doesn't try to boss me around. I suppose I'd have to throw a few of those priorities away though because that's just the reality of the world we live in. Oh well.
Adensdad
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Do Men put Papaya Creme on their Manhood?
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5/17/2006 5:51:27 PM
I don't understand why it would be more pleasurable.
Adensdad
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Introduce Yourself Here.
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5/10/2006 5:01:47 PM
Hey all. I'm Benji. I'm from the Northern Lower peninsula. Between Petoskey and Cheboygan.
Adensdad
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married men?
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5/10/2006 4:53:37 PM
I don't see what I would have to say to a married person. Married people are too different from myself. They're on a whole 'nother planet.
Adensdad
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michigan colleges
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5/10/2006 4:49:01 PM
North Central Michigan College. I just finished there as the editor in chief of the school paper.
Adensdad
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Where has all the Tom-Boys gone?
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5/10/2006 4:47:28 PM
I don't think they exist anymore. Blame Paris Hilton.
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