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Thread: I COULD USE YOUR HELP - '0 TO 60 ... THEN NOTHING'
webdiva911
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I COULD USE YOUR HELP - '0 TO 60 ... THEN NOTHING'
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11/27/2009 4:02:45 PM
Fordman - I beg to disagree with you about the women on here - I am sorry that you have had bad experiences but rest assure so have a lot of the women here - myself including - have had scammer (Nigeria ring a bell to anyone). I too have been scammed on the paying sites - and refuse to give my money to a site that can not guarantee a scam-free environment. At least on here I know I am getting what I paid for and not to expect much but a girl can always dream right?
webdiva911
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I COULD USE YOUR HELP - '0 TO 60 ... THEN NOTHING'
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11/27/2009 3:56:08 PM
It happens to us ladies on here as well. You can be exchanging emails non-stop for 2 hours and bam without warning the next email either goes 'unread' or 'read and deleted' but you never get an answer to question asked - and now POF seems to decide how long they will allow email to sit in your inbox - it used to be 20 days but now I have seen my emails disappear after a day.
It is the site I tell you!
webdiva911
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Time for lunch and Chit Chat at Panera's Catonsville Nov 28th
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11/26/2009 7:58:21 PM
I have been passing the word to the new folks on POF that was not aware of these events. Several are strong "maybes" so let's hope for a good turn out. Again thank you to JLG for hosting!
webdiva911
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Time for lunch and Chit Chat at Panera's Catonsville Nov 28th
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11/26/2009 5:21:07 AM
Wow 103 years old? We better give her first choice who knows if she will make it to 104! LOL
webdiva911
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Time for lunch and Chit Chat at Panera's Catonsville Nov 28th
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11/25/2009 3:43:14 PM
Thank you for putting this all together! Sounds like fun! See you there!
webdiva911
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Time for lunch and Chit Chat at Panera's Catonsville Nov 28th
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11/15/2009 12:22:55 PM
will try my very best to be there. Should we agree on a certain area to meet? a certain shirt color to wear?
webdiva911
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Nottingham's Happy Hour Columbia, MD
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10/4/2009 7:53:48 PM
If I make it, it won't be until almost 9 though - will someone still be there?
webdiva911
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all i get is guyswho wanna have sex????????
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9/1/2008 9:16:53 PM
I think any woman on a dating site has had this problem at one time or another - I know that I actually pulled myself off several sites because hitting delete was getting old! I know for a fact that there is several good guys here - as they are friends of mine - so keep chin up and legs crossed - you will find him.
webdiva911
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Maryland Get together on May 2, 2008 at The Golden Sports Bar, in Ellicott City, M.D.
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4/27/2008 1:56:49 PM
Thank you all - will bring an extra $5 just in case!
webdiva911
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Maryland Get together on May 2, 2008 at The Golden Sports Bar, in Ellicott City, M.D.
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4/26/2008 9:23:19 AM
Maria - is there a cover charge? If so what time does it start to charge and how much? Suzette
webdiva911
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Any one up for Jazz? February show announced
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2/6/2008 9:00:06 AM
Correction - it is the "Faces of Love" forgot to give number to call to reserve tickets - you reserve and pay at door. (410) 674-5664
Because of renovations at the concert’s usual site (Ark and Dove Presbyterian Church, Odenton), this month’s event takes place at Waugh Chapel Community Center, in The Village of Waugh Chapel shopping center. The community center is located near the clock tower.
webdiva911
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Any one up for Jazz? February show announced
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2/6/2008 8:55:21 AM
They are doing a special Valentine show on the 15th. Songs of Love -Ticket prices same as before ($8 advance/$10 at door). Spaghetti Dinner for $5. Waugh Chapel Community Center.
webdiva911
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Would you date a cancer survivor
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1/5/2008 7:59:07 AM
Shyguy - we need more guys like you.
webdiva911
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Any one up for Jazz?
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1/4/2008 5:30:23 AM
It is true - their January 25th show is being held at the Waugh Chapel Community Center at The Village at Waugh Chapel in Gambrills - this is right off MD3/301 - just off I-97.
webdiva911
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New Flirt... Gift
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12/17/2007 4:40:19 AM
She can be found at http://pics.plentyofsite.com/mail_images/15.jpg
webdiva911
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Let an accomplished screenwriter rate your profile. C'mon. Try me!
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12/6/2007 3:07:03 PM
Chris - Thank you - I will switch out the photo. Suzette
webdiva911
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If You NEEDED a Date for an Event,.............,
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12/6/2007 12:06:52 PM
Moraima AGAIN you did not read my response carefully - Default because I am single that I am always placed at table with all the single men of all ages. I did not call them yukky because they were older - I called them that for hitting on me AND being my father's age. I did not generalized anyone - seems you have the problem with doing that.
Sometimes your job or position requires that you attend these annual functions - so to tell me to stay home is not an option - plus usually when you do attend there is no mingling about during the speaker and award presentations PLUS there are assigned seats during dinner - you just can not swap seats and sit with someone who interest you.
I do make it a habit to mingle before event and after function so that is not what the problem is - I responded that it would be nice to have a person there that I know will be able to keep up with conversation and keep my interest and maybe a guarantee dance partner.
Before you response to my post again. Read it carefully and then read it again. Thank you.
webdiva911
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Let an accomplished screenwriter rate your profile. C'mon. Try me!
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12/6/2007 10:35:37 AM
Chris, I know you have been busy but if you get a chance could you please review/critique (be nice) my profile as well? Thank you very much. Suzette
webdiva911
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Any one up for Jazz?
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12/6/2007 6:27:24 AM
I know that the Ark and Dove School of Music, Odenton, Md., holds monthly Jazz Nights - cost is $8 in advance/$10 at the door - usually on last Friday of month from 7-9 p.m. Food & Drink is available - complete dinner for $5. Non-Smoking and nice atomsphere. Could be a good location for a PoF get together - not too far from Columbia - Bowie - Baltimore - etc. If anyone interested the next event is on the 21st of December - I heard their January and February show will be held in Wauph Chapel.
webdiva911
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If You NEEDED a Date for an Event,.............,
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12/6/2007 5:26:05 AM
Moraima - you did not read all of my comment clearly - I have nothing in common with men who are 20-30 years older than me and have lost a wife. Most of these guys try hitting on me and it is yukky as they are old enough to be my own father! They are talking about what they have been doing in their retirement years while I am still hard at work.
I have no problem going to events where 'couples' are not the norm - I too find very interesting folks - I was talking about where they pair you up by default and you have no choice but to sit and talk to this person - after 5 minutes you have all their details and background but you are stuck there for 4 hours making polite chit chat.
What does large families have to do with being Amish? I have a large family and I am not Amish.
webdiva911
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If You NEEDED a Date for an Event,.............,
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12/5/2007 8:07:10 AM
"Amish Date" I like that. I have pondered this question recently as I have several functions to attend and it seems that it is usually couples that show up. Since I have no one in my life I usually get placed at the table with all the widowers (20+ years or older than me) - we have nothing in common so conversations are lacking. It would be nice to have someone there to talk with - maybe share a dance or two.
webdiva911
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Would you date a cancer survivor
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12/4/2007 9:01:38 PM
As a cancer survivor myself I hope that the majority of the answers here lean towards the positive!
webdiva911
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Middle-aged men with younger children
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7/29/2007 5:50:06 AM
For the protection of your girls - I would say pre-teen age children who live with their mother and who I have on an occasion - in your profile. And then in your early communication stages you can mention their sex and age.
webdiva911
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Whats this 1st date & I want a kiss bullsh*t
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7/29/2007 5:46:28 AM
I grew up in a large family (Polish) where we greeted everyone with a kiss or hug. I still greet my friends that way. BUT I agree that a first date especially a first meet is no place to be man handled or mauled by date.
And as I told my one date who tried to deep throat kiss me every chance he had - if I wanted tongue I would have ordered it off the menu!
webdiva911
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Who got caught cheatting?
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5/6/2007 8:21:00 AM
My ex cheated on me not once but three times. I have had exboyfriends cheat on me as well. If a relationship is not working out I will end it before I start dating another guy.
webdiva911
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Artbutus/Catonsville/Baltimore/Hanover get together
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5/6/2007 7:53:38 AM
I was there - several folks showed up - it was a long night.
webdiva911
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Artbutus/Catonsville/Baltimore/Hanover get together
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5/6/2007 7:52:30 AM
Did not see until too late. All my Fridays are booked with meetings and Saturdays are full too.
Maybe a mid week - Wednesday get together would be better - break up the work week.
What does everyone say?
Try for the 23rd? That should give us time to plan something.
webdiva911
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older women younger men
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5/2/2007 12:25:01 PM
I do have one restriction though - I will not date anyone in the same age catergory as my own children. That to me is unexcusable - no matter what.
webdiva911
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older women younger men
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5/2/2007 12:22:24 PM
So not true. I think that the big age gaps are a good thing. Us men at certain ages are boring and set in our ways to women of the same age. I know for me, I am not at all good enough, nor fun enough for a woman in her 30's and early 40's. Have realized this over the past 2 years. Stubborn I have been and realized I need and can only date women around 44 and up. They seem to think men my age are fun and good enough. Boggles my mind how the same things are said about all men of all ages by women.
A woman in her 30's thinks a man in his 20's is more fun, a woman in her 40's thinks a man in his 30's is more fun and a woman in her 50's thinks a man in his 40's is more fun...than men their age. How so? I dunno what it is. Confuses me big time.
I get more older, alot older, women who seem to think I am good looking, and younger women, about 18-21, who think I am good looking BUT the younger ones say I am too old, the older ones say I am old enough...lol, I think ok and yet women in their 30's say I am not good enough....what gives I ask.
I disagree with this statement "a woman in her 40's thinks...." I am in my 40's - 45 to be exact - and I would love to find a man in their 40's or older who is interested in me and not just to have sex while looking for a younger woman to hang on their sleeve - and it seems the guys in their 30's that approach me they too all want sex as well AND then they talk about wanting kids - been there done that - too old to start again. Age is but a number - the character and maturity of a person is what I look for.
How a person treats the person they are with - whether they are younger or older than you - that gives me a wonderful feeling.
Age gaps can happen to folks as little as 2 years apart depending on where and how they were raised.
As I get older I am looking younger and younger - that really throws some folks off because I look younger in person even more. So you can not base things on looks. I know that my ex is really looking old (My kids exact words) because his character is not a good one and chasing after woman 20 years younger takes a toll on the body.
Just be yourself and not peg hole yourself into thinking you will always be dating someone older/younger - I know when the right one comes along that age will not matter one bit.
webdiva911
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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date
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5/2/2007 11:02:45 AM
Catonsville has a great restuarant on Frederick Road called "Mathews 1600" - just down from Rolling Road and very easy to get from I-695. There is a huge bar side that is casual for a quick get together after work (smoking allowed) or the dining room side with soft jazz and fireplace (no smoking) plus they have banquet rooms and more. I have food allergies and the cook staff has always treated me well and gone out of their way to ensure my time there is pleasurable. It is like getting 5 star food/service on a 2 star budget - you can get a great dinner - wine - desserts - appetizers - plus leave tip for 2 for under $100.
The Candelight Inn is just down the road and much more expensive.
webdiva911
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Artbutus/Catonsville/Baltimore/Hanover get together
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5/2/2007 10:52:15 AM
This is my first attempt so I do not know what to expect.
webdiva911
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Artbutus/Catonsville/Baltimore/Hanover get together
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5/2/2007 10:51:29 AM
Cancun does still do their buffet for a quarter a plate - that usually runs until 7 pm though - they also do the 2 for 1 drinks until that time. Since the fire they have redesigned the place and now even have dancers behind screens on the rock side - pretty wild.
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Artbutus/Catonsville/Baltimore/Hanover get together
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4/24/2007 5:45:26 AM
Not sure - band plays until 10 I think.
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Artbutus/Catonsville/Baltimore/Hanover get together
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4/22/2007 5:39:09 PM
Let's all get together on Wednesday May 2, 2007 at the Fishhead Cantina "Paradise Pavilion" - It is located at 4802 Benson Ave. Arbutus MD. 21227, Phone: 410-247-2474
Music starts at 8:30 - NO COVER CHARGE and Happy Hour prices until 11 p.m.
See http://www.fishheadcantina.com/bandschedule.html for more details.
Since we are all 'fishes' let's plan on meeting and connecting. Wear something fish related to stand out. Say we meet at 7:30 so we can talk and connect before band starts playing.
The Band "No Axe to Grind" will be performing that night. Band plays Rock-n-Roll.
webdiva911
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Wierd sandwiches we ate as kids or anything else!
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7/18/2006 7:27:02 PM
I used to eat a version similiar - peanut butter, mayo and sweet pickles. My dad got me hooked on them - he is 71 and still eats them. My mom eat peanut butter and onion. It's no wonder I liked weird food. LOL
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Any get togethers in the Dc, Md or Va area?
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6/18/2006 6:31:48 AM
I love Cancun Cantina. Correct not close to metro but is located between I-97 and I-295/95. plus less than 10 miles to my house!
webdiva911
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older women younger men
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5/3/2006 4:20:16 AM
Nik - for a first post this is not too shabby.
webdiva911
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older women younger men
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5/3/2006 4:18:43 AM
Rabid - every person that heard that my ex was hooking up with a girl in her early 20s (He was in his early 40s) called him a lucky dog. While I agree that he is a dog - I would not go so far as to call him lucky (especially since he hooked up with her while we were still married). LOL
I am sorry that you can not seem to find a woman to go with you - But I can tell you that negativity/low self esteem is a TURN OFF to both woman and men.
Be careful in Vegas - you may meet a women in her 20s but come back with more. LOL
webdiva911
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older women younger men
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4/30/2006 10:10:31 AM
What is acceptable in dating men younger than you? In my book they have to be at least 10 years older than my oldest child - and that took a lot of me to accept. Rules when I was growing up was the woman could date only 2 years younger and up to 10 years older - nowadays you see 18 year olds with guys in their 40/50s - and society calls him a lucky dog but if you see a women with a guy that young - you assume she is his mother, aunt or older sister.
webdiva911
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Why do women chicken out when comes time to meet?
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4/30/2006 10:02:56 AM
Trooth - that is why it is best to meet in a public space. First meetings for me are always in public - I usually have a friend or two already there in the background watching out for me if maybe I am a little unsure of meeting but If I promise to meet I do show.
webdiva911
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Why do women chicken out when comes time to meet?
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4/30/2006 9:58:25 AM
MrSmith44 - you have hit it on the head. A Picture may say a thousand words but is its words what you are trying to say or who you really are? Who's words does it interpet(sp)? The viewers or the person in the photograph? I know that I have actually removed myself from several folks favorites as they either never contacted me to get to know who I was/am or their interest in me was not something I was looking for at this time.
webdiva911
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Why do women chicken out when comes time to meet?
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4/30/2006 9:28:44 AM
Hambone - I have several times talked to a person for months - one guy for over a year - but everytime I suggest finally meeting - they back down with one excuse or another.
Now I can take that action as being for several different Reasons: 1) They are married and get a kick out of creating a fanasty with another person and/or never had any intentions of ever meeting 2) They are in prison and won't be release anytime soon 3) Talking to you was a joke to them and they wanted to see how far you would go 4) Their self esteem is low in person but online they are a complete other person.
Now I have also met several of the guys here - once I feel comfortable in who they say/I think they are - some have turned out to be true gentlemen (and I thank you each for that) and some have turned out to be total jerks (You know who you are).
I do not blame the men - I do not blame the women - no blame really should be done - this is life today as we know it. If I were to let all the jerks cloud my view of the true gentleman then no one but myself should be blame.
webdiva911
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what happened to getting to know you first before dating?
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4/30/2006 9:10:02 AM
Hugger151 and Earth Bound Angel - Thank you. I am not the only female out here that feels this way! I too feel that you need to talk and get to know a person before you either meet or are given my phone number. Yes you can be drawn to a photo but it is the personality and behavior of that person that keeps you interested.
I have had both good and bad experiences here - but it has not stopped me from trying again - if I let all the negatives taint me then THEY win. I have made many friends here and when my situation changes and I am able to become more romantically involved those who have stuck with me through thick and thin will be among those I will seriously look at and see if our friendship could go to the next level. If not I am still blessed that they have come into my life and will value their friendship for years to come.
One good thing about this site is meeting a variety of people - and not being stuck in a mindset of only dating one type of person.
I am finding out who I am after being with only one person since 1981 - I am more than just his (ex)spouse or mother to my two kids - I am a women that enjoys many things and am willing to explore things that interest me. If I find a guy to come along - great - but I am never going to be defined who I am by a man again.
webdiva911
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Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud
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11/22/2005 3:36:26 PM
[You the user have to exercise caution, the reason you or I are easy marks is because we are looking for something. Scammers prey on this.]
This not only applies to fraudelant sites but we are responsible for how we act on these sites - there are frauds on here too.
Just because we are looking for something does not mean we should be blind to the little red flags that sound off in our heads when talking either through Instant Messenger or email. Even here in the forums you will find them.
webdiva911
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Waiting to have sex when dating after a divorce
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7/18/2005 4:39:31 PM
Ame - Thanks for the advise - really did not know what that 'other' meant when I signed up.
webdiva911
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Waiting to have sex when dating after a divorce
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7/17/2005 6:57:03 PM
going on a date does not mean you are breaking your marriage vows - guys hang out with their friends - girls have girl's night out - it is what you do on date that is a moral issue. You can have a perfectly nice dinner with a member of the opposite sex without breaking vows.
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No sex before marriage
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7/17/2005 6:40:16 PM
Tony - thank you - we as parents would hope that our children listen and learn from us - but you can not beat things into their heads if they are not open to listening.
webdiva911
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No sex before marriage
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7/17/2005 4:35:57 PM
t, d and h - I may be catholic but my daughter takes her religious beliefs from her father. Growing up my folks forced their beliefs on us kids - I swore I never would and have not - she and I discussed why it would be better for her to wait - Faith did not come into the discussion - AIDS STD those were the things we talked about - loss of respect - broken hearts, unplanned pregnancies - etc...
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Waiting to have sex when dating after a divorce
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7/17/2005 4:23:52 PM
self help therapy or with a professional? LOL
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Waiting to have sex when dating after a divorce
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7/17/2005 4:22:10 PM
Actually it is a matter of both.
Even though he had several affairs before he finally left - I did not. Now it is a matter of being in the discovery part of the divorce and he wants to know of any/all guys that I have had sex with from the date of our marriage until the present - He left Dec 16, 2003 - and during our mediation he stated the day he moved out is the day he considered us divorced but in the eyes of the law that is not true and since he did not sign our legal sep papers we are technically still together even though he is living with his lover.
I have had many offers of sex - not sure how that would boost my self esteem.
One thing he did say was that our sex life was never the root of our problems.
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