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When are you wasting your time trying to make it work?
Posted: 4/18/2006 10:31:54 AM | | Thank you for your posting, I recently went through the same issue and felt very alone about how I was being treated. I was trying but he wasnt, the less he tried the harder I tried and so on. I became so angry because he wouldnt do as I wanted him to do and that was to try to hang on. But he didnt want to and I became angrier. The angrier I got the more I blamed myself for our problems. I still get angry once in a while but I am beginning to see that his giving up our relationship has nothing to do with me at all. there is nothing I could have done to make things better, NOTHING. His issues are his issues and things that he needs to fix he needs fix in himself. If he doesnt fix those things he will end up lonely and living in fear for the rest of his life and end up with the exact kind of woman he is so afraid of. Me on the other hand, if I dont fix what I need to fix, which is myself feeling I need to change myself for a man then I will end up with an older version of my ex. Learn from the relationship and have faith that as long as you are truly who you are, a good decent man will come along and sweep you off your feet. | | | |
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