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Joined: 5/18/2007

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Has anyone ever been dumped via email? Posted: 8/30/2007 3:56:11 PM
Shoot, didn't Paul Simon say there must be 50 ways to leave your lover. In my life I've heard of Dear John letters to guy in the military, letters, phone calls, emails, best friends delivering messages, test messages, just about everything. Only thing missing so far is skywriting. If a person breaks up other than face to face, I think it would make it easier to take. After all, if they don't have enough respect for me to say it to my face, I'm lucky they're leaving - even though I may wish it was otherwise.

Joined: 5/18/2007

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First meeting attire? Posted: 8/30/2007 3:42:15 PM
^^^^^Ooops. Didn't read close enough. It seems like you already have a plan. For what it's worth, my vote is - 'sounds good to me.' Good luck!

Joined: 5/18/2007

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First meeting attire? Posted: 8/30/2007 3:35:19 PM
The first meeting is the first date, just a little less formal, but a lot more important. Without the right first impression, you usually don't get a second chance. I know I would like to see a gal dressed as though she thought about impressing me. I am going to dress with the same thought in mind. The location is also important. If we are meeting at a coffee shop, she doesn't have to (and I won't) dress like the meeting is taking place at a five star restaurant. Put some nice touches in what you are wearing. The jeans and sweatshirt can come when you are going to the lake or a day at the fair, someplace that suggests that dress.

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there is hope for the nice guy yet Posted: 8/5/2007 9:26:34 AM
Never fall in love with a person's potential, you will be disappointed. If they are attempting to live up to their potential right now, appreciate that fact.

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Was I a jerk? Posted: 7/27/2007 7:14:45 PM
I hope you have not been jerking on our collective chain here. As you can see, everyone is on your side of this question. Its almost too bad this woman did not qualify for a Darwin Award before she condemned six innocent children with her stupidity. A couple of points I would make. The first is get some new friends. If you have to go on a chat line to get sane feedback, you really need to question the intelligence of the people you are currently hanging with. Everyone that bothered to answer you here seemed to have no problem getting to the heart of the issue. What the hell is wrong with your friends? Secondly, as a person who works in a sex-offender treatment center, I am glad to see that some people had the presence of mind to keep another reality in the front of their minds and responses. My point here is more for some of the other readers/posters - Ladies please do NOT let your guard down when it comes to your kids. Predators do not really have a particular look or obvious profile.

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