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 Author Thread: did i misread?
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
did i misread?
Posted: 1/26/2009 6:37:51 PM
The problem is that women are ALWAYS trying to read men. It doesn't work. You see, men are single focused and women are diffused focused. If there is something on our mind, we don't do well with other things, so it seems like we are scattered and uninterested. When, in fact, we are just thinking about something else.

Wait and watch. Be patient with us and don't push a particular topic before we are ready to talk about it. Your reward will be great.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
HELP ME?
Posted: 1/21/2009 12:38:36 PM

I mean I'm not exactly pretty but do looks always matter?

Yes. Women, in general, are more worried about their appearance and clothes than they are with anything about a man.

That is because men, in general, are very visual in their selection process. Given two men who are about equal, but one is much more wealthy than the other, the women are going to gravitate to wealth. Given two women who are about equal, but one weighs less than the other, the men are going to gravitate to appearance.

So, the guys think you are nice and cute, but there are better pickings out there, sorry to say.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Really flirty musicians and band members.
Posted: 1/21/2009 12:29:25 PM

Because musicians like to think they can get laid after shows?

I know a musician who gets a hotel after every gig because he picked up some hot chick, then after he is done with her, he goes back home to his wife that night. Chicks flock to musicians for some reason. There are times that I envy him, however I will always feel sorry for his wife.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Scars
Posted: 1/21/2009 12:10:32 PM
Women are always worried about the way they look. They can be friggin perfect and they will still say "I'm fat!" That said, guys in general want the woman to look good for them. That is how it works. If she has a very nice body and pretty face, there is no man in his right mind that will refuse her due to some scarring.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
I give up!
Posted: 1/21/2009 12:01:12 PM
I shortened up the "a day in the life of" section and removed the latter half, as suggested. I broke up my broken thoughts with random quotes. I removed the entire list, it was getting old, anyway. I changed my pic over to the headshot with Monet in the background. Any better?
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
I give up!
Posted: 1/21/2009 1:12:37 AM
Yes, I am emailing ladies that interest me.

Changed Friends to Dating. Deleted part of the list.

I decided to type up "a day in the life of...me" and put it in there.

Yes, I am a pretty good writer and I think I'm funny. What about everyone else?

Thanks for all the input!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
He asks me to visit but then cancels the trip
Posted: 1/20/2009 9:51:07 PM
You don't accept personal messages from people that aren't within certain paramaters. Since you post to the forums, you might want to change that.

There are some people that have access to data that can tell you if the guy is legally married and what his wife's current address is (probably the same place, if I'm right).

Men need two major things from women (this isn't everything, just a basic generalization):

1. Sex
2. Positive feedback that they are a great guy

He has two women in his life to provide both. She gives him sex, you give him positive feedback over the phone and messaging.

Shoot me a message and I can see about getting that information for you, if you so desire.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I give up!
Posted: 1/20/2009 9:46:00 PM
I need some assistance here, please. The whole joke thing on my profile isn't working. I probably need some better pictures. I'm pretty lost when it comes to this thing right now. I am approaching 40 and have just lost touch with the whole "how do I pick up a woman"

Thanks!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Is it all about looks for guys?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:45:01 AM
I won't look twice if she isn't attractive. If the picture is enticing enough, I will click on the profile. I read every word of the profile unless it is in all caps or all lowercase. If she is too lazy to type the information correctly, then I will be too lazy to read. There are many times that I will send a message to a woman just to say something like "you are pretty, but stupid."

I probably wouldn't kick her out of bed, but I also wouldn't chat with her for 4 hours straight. Dull conversations.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
What's A Girl To Do?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:37:44 AM

Guys date down (date less attractive women) for sex, but they don't marry down. If he thinks he is doing well, you don't need to anything because he will be pushing for more. If you think you are doing well, you are just an easy lay and he is going to avoid any commitment.

I think you need a second opinion! This is about as stupid an answer as I have ever seen. Quit reading those teen magazines. They aren't helping you at all.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Why would a guy bother?
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:22:50 AM
Ditto to everyone. Wait for this guy. He will be well worth it in the end.

Most men who are in a committed relationship need some time to "burn-off" the old relationship before committing to a new one. He is interested in you and doesn't want to lose you, but doesn't want to commit as of yet because anything done too quickly could easily be mixed up with the old relationship. He could just start talking about his ex while out on a date. He needs to cleanse his soul before giving it to another.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Dating a much older woman
Posted: 1/15/2009 8:05:03 AM

I a woman in my mid 50's and seem to find much younger men in their 30's to be a good match for me on many levels aside from the obvious physical appeal of a younger person. Men in this age group seem more likely to focus on me and making me feel good as well as enjoying being lighthearted and fun most of the time.
I do not like being labeled a cougar since I am not a fan of labels in general but I am familiar with the term.

Generalizations and labels are a part of life. Get over it.

am wondering if a man in his 30's can really feel anything like love for a woman
who is so much older or if it's just a thrill of something different for him.

To understand an answer to this question, you must first understand men.

I ask because I am an emotional person and am looking for love and am thinking
I should probably stay close to my own age or a little older since I want the whole
package of love and romance.

This tells me that you don't understand men, in general, and specific answers to this specific question will be of little use to you.

By nature, men aren't looking for love and romance. Women are. (remember, this is general terms or "labels" as you call it). Men's primal instinct is to reproduce. Men could (by primal instinct) have sex with a different woman every night. Women can't understand that as easily. We don't have to have any emotional ties to the woman we are having sex with. Due to survival of species, we must reproduce. Civilization and the bible, however, tell us that we can't just have a harem of women. Polygamy isn't legal in this civilized society. Therefore, we must use incredible amounts of will to stay faithful to a woman. Weather or not you or the man realize it, that is not an easy task for a man. Our eyes constantly wander. As long as the eyes go back to "my woman" then I am just fine.

Men aren't empathetic. Women are. If a woman needs emotional support for issues, they usually should go to their female friends. If you go to a man, don't expect an empathetic response. You will get a solution to your problem. If a boy goes to his daddy with a cut, the man will put a band-aid on it and then send him back out into battle. A mother will give hugs, kisses and try and make it "feel better" because she gives empathy. She will put a band-aid on, as well, but she adds the empathy part to it.

If a man has a complaint about another man, they will complain and also introduce a solution or list of possible solutions. Women just complain. We call it "nagging." For example, if a man misses trash day once in awhile: "Why can't you take the trash out on trash day like you are supposed to?" Our response to that is to not take the trash out at all because we will never get praise for doing that and when we mess up once we get nagged for it. Therefore, why do the task just to get nothing in return? Men must have positive feedback when things are going right. That fills our "man bucket" up and makes us want to give more to get more. I will do anything for any woman who shows me gratitude. If I get thanks and praise for a job well done and no nagging, I will work harder. That makes her happy because she is getting what she needs and I am getting what I need.

Now, you might ask what this has to do with your original topic? Easy, the older a man gets, the less flexible he is to the above criteria. He will take less and less nagging before he closes up. If you praise him, he will romance you to "cloud 9" and back again. The minute you stop the praises and start the nagging, deals off. Younger men will be more flexible and be able to take the nagging for longer than an older man.

Physical attraction goes away over time no matter who you are with, however there is a mental bond that can be created and nurtured if you just treat him like a man instead of a hairy woman.

/dismount soapbox
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 126 (view)
 
What if your sex life was made into a movie?
Posted: 1/14/2009 5:50:52 PM
In my youth: Dumb and Dumber
Middle years (married): Lost in Translation
Over the past 4 years: Confessions of a Sex Maniac
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Why not friends...then romance
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:58:13 PM
Well, respect of everything went out the window with the "Age of Stupidity"

What happened, you see, is that people decided that men and women are equal. We aren't. Period. Men aren't better than women or women better than men. It is more like comparing apples and oranges. So, if women are basing their observations of men on what they think "human" behavior should be, then they are just looking at men as hairy women.

In her book, "The Female Brain," Dr. Louann Brizendine explains how the female brain works, what women are thinking, and the difference in the way they process thoughts compared with the way men do:

Common sense tells us that boys and girls behave differently. We see it every day at home, on the playground, and in classrooms. But what the culture hasn't told us is that the brain dictates these divergent behaviors. The impulses of children are so innate that they kick in even if we adults try to nudge them in another direction. One of my patients gave her three-and-a-half-year-old daughter many unisex toys, including a bright red fire truck instead of a doll. She walked into her daughter's room one afternoon to find her cuddling the truck in a baby blanket, rocking it back and forth saying, "Don't worry, little truckie, everything will be all right."

This isn't socialization. This little girl didn't cuddle her "truckie" because her environment molded her unisex brain. There is no unisex brain. She was born with a female brain, which came complete with its own impulses. Girls arrive already wired as girls, and boys arrive already wired as boys. Their brains are different by the time they're born, and their brains are what drive their impulses, values, and their very reality.

Men's complete human nature is to make babies. This means that they must have sex with women. Men want to have sex with a different woman every night. Women want to have sex with the same man every night. That is just hard-wired into the brains. The challenge for men is not to stray.

The challenge for women is not to mother the man.

But, we could go on all day and night with this.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
UPDATE on a guy...
Posted: 1/4/2009 9:32:39 PM

This might as well be written in French. I have no idea what is being asked here.

Ditto.

What was your original post? None of us know what happened that night a year ago. Can you please add some more information so people might be able to respond?
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What do you guys think? HELP! (long)
Posted: 1/4/2009 9:25:32 PM
First, most women want to be taken care of by a man. That means he would earn more money than you. If he is living at home with his parents at age 30, he has more issues that you will ever imagine. He sees you as a meal-ticket, probably.

Second, if the guy goes flat, he's not into you. Unless he has some medical problems. If he is having ED problems at age 30, there will be more problems down the road.

As far as saving yourself, that is honorable and all, but if he can't please you sexually, you will have a miserable relationship.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
what would you save first?
Posted: 11/7/2007 9:24:42 PM
I'd want my computer. My wallet. My keys. I keep my keys and wallet on my nightstand, so they are in easy reach. As long as I have my wallet and keys, I can get clothes and I never sleep nekked.

Yes, I would unhook my computer really fast and throw it out the window. As long as the hard drive was there, I could get everything back.

My dog would have to fend for herself. If I could get her, I would, however I am not risking my life for her. My girls need me more than they need the dog.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Possibly relocating to TEXAS. What good/bad about TEXAS?
Posted: 9/19/2007 10:13:50 AM
Well...Its been a few months in the making but the winner is...(drum roll please)

AUSTIN!!! Thanks to everyone for all the info. So far the past 2 weeks since Ive been here have been great.

Welcome to Texas! Glad to hear you made it OK.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 149 (view)
 
Why or How Did You Choose Your Nickname
Posted: 9/12/2007 2:43:04 PM
Well...

First, I am Daddy
Second, I am whatever she wants me to be. :devil:
Last, I can finally be myself :drinking:
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Points to ponder
Posted: 9/7/2007 9:59:01 AM
I hate it when my foot falls asleep during the day because that means it's going to be up all night. -- Steven Wright

I met this wonderful girl at Macy's. She was buying clothes and I was putting Slinkies on the escalator. -- Steven Wright

I wrote a few children's books...not on purpose. -- Steven Wright

If God dropped acid, would he see people? -- Steven Wright

You know how it is when you're walking up the stairs, and you get to the top, and you think there's one more step? I'm like that all the time. -- Steven Wright

 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Texas and the Judicial System.....SUX!!!!
Posted: 9/7/2007 9:33:05 AM
I filed for divorce, but she left me and moved in with her BF. I had to file because she wouldn't let me see the girls. I had to get court orders to force her to let me see my girls. By the time it got to court, I had seen my girls a total of 20 hours in one month.

Before she left, I got them up every morning, ready for school/day care and off to school. I would pick up from day care and she would go "work out" three nights a week (found out later that she was working out with her BF).

Your assumption of the person filing for divorce is a little off. By the way, she isn't entirely a bad mom, but she was bad enough that the judge didn't want her to have primary custody.

I did get the house, my car and truck and everything in the house. She got her BF. LOL!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Texas and the Judicial System.....SUX!!!!
Posted: 9/5/2007 10:07:01 PM
I remember my uncle did the same with his kids. It was 6 months in and 6 months out. Worked out really well. They split it at Christmas break and during the summer. Every Christmas, the kids woke up to both their mother and their father (and step-mother and father and step siblings, etc.)

I am doing the week on - week off and the girls are just going back and forth between the houses. Of course, we only live a couple of miles apart because taking the kids to school would be very difficult, otherwise.

If you have kids....no matter what...you either pay for em or raise em.

That is wrong and I am proof of that. I do both and so does she. No child support is passed. We just do our best to raise our girls the best we can.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
DFW - FORT WORTH POF Party @ Froggy Bottoms - Sep 1, 2007
Posted: 9/2/2007 8:22:29 PM
Wish I could have made it out last night. My car threw the timing belt, so I have been putting it all back together. I love the power and efficiency of a dual overhead cam engine, but the timing belt thing...

Oh well. Hope everyone had a good time!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
one side of the story heard here..
Posted: 8/29/2007 7:23:24 AM
Any man who hits a woman should be made into a woman. An ugly woman at that.

Exception: self defense where it is apparent that the woman will be able to do bodily damage.

There is no other reason for that kind of physical violence. This is the kind of guy that everyone needs to steer clear of. A little alkyhaul and he is beating women. That guy needs to stay single.

The huffing of the chest against a Kat is considered an imminent pre-amble to physical violence, in my book.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Preference: Texans or Out-of staters
Posted: 8/28/2007 8:52:04 PM
I was born and raised Big "D". I have lived in Florida and California. Been all over the world. I would never live any place but here. I know a lot of people from all over the world who have moved here. They are Texans, so long as they don't mess with the good thing we have going here.

There are several responses that are a little off the mark for the topic. I won't date anyone out of state. If they live in Texas, then they are Texans.

Texas is the only state that I know of that when people ask "where are you from?" a true Texan will say "Texas" and not the specific city they live in.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Tease Gone Wild....
Posted: 8/27/2007 9:07:04 PM
Guys point of view: I get flirted with, I probably get laid.
Womans point of view: I'm not really flirting, I am just talking.

Notice I said "guy" because there is a difference between a man and a guy. Guys won't hold the door open for any woman. Guys expect to be repaid for dinner in sex.

A man in this situation would never have to be told "no" to begin with. He would be respectful and see when he was crossing the line, then pull back on his own. He would then be able to thank her for the nice conversation and go on about his business of staying out of trouble.

"Guys" get thrown out of bars on a regular basis. I also know several "chicks" that get thrown out of bars on a regular basis, too.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 168 (view)
 
Why are men turned off by women with kids?
Posted: 8/27/2007 7:31:14 PM
Dawg, you would take a woman with kids, without, heck, you'd just take a woman!

Just messin. I have a hard time dating a woman that doesn't have kids since I have mine half the time.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
PICS ~Mid-Cities POF PAJAMA PARTY~ Aug 18, 2007
Posted: 8/20/2007 6:15:21 PM
I have been looking at them for about an hour now (as he keeps putting more up). I am finally in 122. Go figure.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
unfeminine
Posted: 8/14/2007 5:56:06 PM
jonnymac1963 is spot on.

I do like a woman that can be feminine. There is no way I would date a "butch" chick, however just because she can work on a car is not a reason to think she is unfeminine. My mom can rebuild a carburetor with her eyes closed and out-drive most men on the golf course. She is far from unfeminine.

I love to work on cars. If I could find a pretty lady that could work on cars, I'd marry her tomorrow! LOL!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Do all guys check out and dream of being with other women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 3:40:39 AM
Overdone topic, but I'll answer anyway. The difference between a guy and a man is that a guy will look and chase. Men are civilized and look but don't touch. Most men can watch a woman walk across a room and by the time she is out of sight, he has completely forgotten her and gone back to you. Just nature of men.

As long as you are with a man and don't date guys, you'll be alright.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
AUG 11th Yucatan Party Pictures! Oh What Fun!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/13/2007 5:59:25 PM

I think you picture people need to return your cameras because I know I looked better in the mirror when I left my house than I do in the pictures. Something must be wrong with your cameras!

J-bootie, aes and sister s look beautiful in those pics! You need glasses, girl!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
AUG 11th Yucatan Party Pictures! Oh What Fun!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:47:18 PM
aes, I see you had someplace to stick the nametag. Was it because I wasn't there to keep lick-n-stick back on you?
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 132 (view)
 
~AUGUST 18TH~ DFW MID-CITIES PAJAMA PARTY
Posted: 8/12/2007 3:33:50 PM
Well, I think we would be going to jail with a smile on.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
When you see a woman and are smitten...
Posted: 8/12/2007 3:24:14 PM
Men see what’s on the inside, by what’s on the outside

When a man looks at a woman’s body, he can see much more than the size and shape of her various parts. He can tell by the way she carries and moves her body if she is aggressive or receptive, patient or accustomed to being in control. He can tell if she is self-confident, or unsure of herself, putting on airs, or relaxed and comfortable. A man can tell when a woman lives through her body — expressing herself in movement and action — or when she drags her body around behind her. He can tell what she thinks about herself. As one man stated it, “I can tell if she thinks she’s beautiful, thinks she’s ugly, or doesn’t think about herself at all.”

Men keep their distance when women look like this:

When a man looks at a woman’s face, he can see much more than the shape and organization of her facial features. Women who are bitter have what men call “a pinched look.” Resentment develops “edges” in a woman’s face and makes her look “sharp.” She may be described as “hard looking.” She looks intimidating; no matter how nice and well-organized her features might be otherwise.

When women are upset or angry their faces can have the look of being clouded or muddled. Men tend to keep their distance when women look like this. On the other hand, when a woman is happy, her face gives off a light or glow that draws people to her. Being at peace — with herself or the world — is reflected in a “softness” of the cheeks, jaw, mouth and eye area that makes a woman look approachable.

The eyes & lips – what they say to men

A woman’s eyes show everything from sadness to joy, skepticism to acceptance. When women are critical or judgmental, their eyes show it — the pupils contract and their eyes look “hard.” When women are interested in something or someone, their eyes shine or sparkle. Passion makes their eyes “light up.” Most men have said that the most attractive feature in any woman is her eyes. One man in his 30s stated, “The most extraordinary thing is to look into a woman’s eyes and see that she accepts you.” Another man in his late 40s said, “When a woman looks at you and her eyes are sparkling, it’s like she gives you a small piece of her spirit.”

Women's inner attitude is also reflected outwardly in their lips. They get pinched or pursed and narrowed when they are angry, upset or resentful. Then there is the magical effect of a woman’s smile. Not just any smile.. A man once stated, “You can tell if a woman is just smiling because she is supposed to and it’s false. The best thing is when a woman smiles at you, and the smile was meant just for you.” Many men hold the same sentiment about a woman’s genuine smile that Jack Nicholson expressed in the movie As Good As It Gets: “She’s the kind of woman that when she smiles at you, you have a life.”
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 130 (view)
 
~AUGUST 18TH~ DFW MID-CITIES PAJAMA PARTY
Posted: 8/12/2007 3:14:59 PM
Women just need to wear what they sleep in.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Harley Riders- Maybe they are okay people - A Short Story -
Posted: 8/12/2007 2:57:28 PM
The moment I refer to is when I would talk to these bikers in the bars. One was the CEO of Ericsson, North America. Come about 6 years later and I was working at Ericsson and got to meet him again, only this time it was a business suit and no bandana on the head. I also found out about the things he and his "gang" do for the kids. My first impression of the man was not correct. He was much more than just the CEO of that company.

Yes, even the priests whom we revere as good and wholesome people, have been caught abusing those who trust them. There isn't a group out there that has 100% good people. However, if you judge the group by the few bad seeds, then you are destined to failure from everyone on the face of the earth.

I do truly believe I am a good person. Even I have been known to do bad things. Hopefully, nothing morally damning, but bad none-the-less.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Harley Riders- Maybe they are okay people - A Short Story -
Posted: 8/12/2007 9:07:43 AM

I'm rather ignorant of bikers in general,

First thing I thought of aes is you sitting (rather, laying) on that bike right outside of the POF party.

I have a really close friend who is a biker. He married one of my best friends. Just last year he adopted her son because the "sperm donor" didn't want to have anything to do with him. Every few months, he and his friends get together and do something. I have a picture of him with diapers, wipes, formula and whatever else strapped to the back of his bike. I still can't figure out how he got so much on there. It was almost too much of a load for a small pick-up truck, much less a bike.

I lived in Daytona Beach for a short while. Every year, just before spring break, they have "bike week" there. People from all over the U.S. congregate on this place. I can't tell you how many times I have sat down at a bar to talk to the biker next to me and he was the CEO or CFO of some company.

There are many bad people that are bikers. However, there are worse people that are deeply religous, as in 9-11. I think that we need to re-examine our judgements we pass upon one another. Someone doesn't look right, doesn't mean they are. There are some wonderful people in this world, if you would allow yourself the opportunity to speak to them, if only for a moment, and see who they are. Inside.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
ever notice?
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:39:29 AM
What's strange is that the best GF I have had in a long time I met on eharmony. She couldn't commit because she has kids that are graduated and I have two little girls. Otherwise, we would probably either be married, or pretty close by now.

That site did match us and hit it right on the head.

I do have a profile for match and y personals, but I don't ever do anything with those. Every once in awhile I'll go over to match to browse and find the same women there as are here.

I have made more friends here than any of the others due to the forums. I have probably made an enemy or two as well.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
To the Earth hoppers
Posted: 8/11/2007 10:21:54 AM
It was about 4 years ago in Chicago. Normal flight, normal landing. Went to the rental car desk. It was cold, but not too bad. Cloudy and a little wind. Avis took me about 10 minutes waiting in line and when I walked out to get my car there was snow coming down. Big snow.

Great. Dallas guy playing snowman in Chicago. Got the car and on to the hotel. Walking from the car to the hotel was about 200 yards, but it was snowing so hard, I couldn't see the hotel! Next morning, the news was reporting a record snowfall that late in the season. It was a literal blizzard. There was over a foot of snow on the ground! Luckily, the office was just a short walk from the hotel. Got there and only two people had made it in before the snow hit. The airport was shut down. So, it is me and the guy from San Antonio hanging out in Chicago with a bunch of snow.

My flight scheduled to leave the next evening was delayed until the next day.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Austin- Graham Central Station
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:43:56 PM
This place sounds somewhat like City Streets in Ft. Worth. I guess, according to lover of dark, is more for adults than children.

Anyway, sounds like fun. If I get down that way, I'll be sure to get there. On the same token, if anyone heads up Ft. Worth way, we should meet up at City Streets.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 136 (view)
 
RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOU DO NOT SMOKE
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:37:25 PM

still think yall should have a "non-smokers POF party" somewhere.

Did you hear that? Van Gogh is organizing a non-smokers POF party!

When will it be, sir?
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 234 (view)
 
What do you LIKE about the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:35:47 PM

Gee, let me think...thier brains, no that's not it, witt, no, ummm, humor, naw, confidence, no, athletic build, no...in that order, that's a tough one...

I am all/none of the above (circle one).

I like women that can keep me grounded, but not too much so. I am a dreamer, but beyond that, I can actually attain those dreams.

I like women that can keep me in check in our public life and unchained in the bedroom.

I like women that know how to be feminine. A woman that can carry herself is beautiful!
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Why do we have to prove our selves worthy.
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:28:52 PM
Love is not unconditional. You have to earn love first. People seem to think that it is given. You must earn it and to earn it you must prove yourself worthy of that. Even when you have that love, you must do things to keep it. Otherwise, you will end up losing it down the road.

A car needs maintenance just as much as a relationship. You had to learn your way around the car, just as you have to learn your way around the woman.

Reminds me of a song.... "Around the girl in 80 ways"
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What caused your last serious relationship to end?
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:20:21 PM
Well, my ex-wife moved in with her boyfriend. 'nuff said.

My last GF talked bad about my kids. Really bad about my kids. Then we got into an arguement over it and she got violent and hit me. That's when I marched her rear out the door! No, I have never hit a woman. My daddy told me not to. She was about as close as I have ever come to wanting to hit a woman, though.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Are there any normal people left out there!
Posted: 8/10/2007 7:07:25 PM

Alright Vangogh - let's put Mr. Matchmaker to work - find me a nice, normal, NON-bad boy :)

I'll voluenteer! Guys, don't worry about me, I can handle myself....no...really, I can go in alone. She's mine...all mine!

aes_sedai: Awww, that's sweet

I can't get enough of this woman. I think I am going to buy her a beer. Oh, wait. I already did.

1st Daddy - I remember those studies from some psychology classes I took . Playing Dr.? Hmmm.....does this dr. make housecalls?

I haven't made a housecall in so long, I forget what to do once I get there.

I feel I am normal. I just think people get on line because they can hide. It is part fantasy. They can be whomever they desire to be.

Um.... So, what's your excuse for being online?

Maybe it is a reference to that time of night when those frijoles refritos he ate at dinner really kick in?

 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
I need advice from the guys..
Posted: 8/9/2007 8:01:19 PM
Well, if I am at work, I probably shouldn't ask a woman out on a date at that time, right? But, if you, as a customer, were to ask him out, that would allow him to answer.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
A Laugh Big Enough For Texas...Enjoy!
Posted: 8/9/2007 7:48:01 PM
Did you hear about the Texas teacher who was helping one of her kindergarten students put on his cowboy boots? He asked for help & she could see why. Even with her pulling & him pushing, the little boots still didn't want to go on. Finally, when the 2nd boot was on, she had worked up a sweat.

She almost cried when the little boy said, "Teacher, they're on the wrong feet." She looked & sure enough, they were. It wasn't any easier pulling the boots off than it was putting them on. She managed to keep her cool as together they worked to get the boots back on, this time on the right feet.

He then announced, "These aren't my boots."

She bit her tongue rather than get right in his face & scream, "Why didn't you say so?" like she wanted to. And, once again she struggled to help him pull the ill-fitting boots off his little feet.

No sooner they got the boots off & he said, "They're my brother's boots. My Mom made me wear 'em."

Now she didn't know if she should laugh or cry. But, she mustered up the grace & courage she had left to wrestle the boots on his feet again. Helping him into his coat, she asked, "Now, where are your mittens?"

He said, "I stuffed 'em in the toes of my boots."

She'll be eligible for parole in 3 - 5 years.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Let's see what type of music Texan's love.......
Posted: 8/9/2007 7:37:29 PM

,,, Barney the dinosaur.

All of its tapes.

Except episode #15.

,,that one scared me.

I know a good doctor that can cure this issue. He has this pretty white suit with very long sleeves.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 134 (view)
 
RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOU DO NOT SMOKE
Posted: 8/9/2007 7:32:44 PM
I started smoking when I got back from the war in 1991. Smoking weakened my lungs and two years ago my left lung popped. Literally. "Spontaneous Nemothorax" is what it is called. Mine was a rather large hole on the bottom of my lung.

To describe the pain appropriately, I must say that it would equate to an elephant tap dancing on your chest...continually. As the air fills up your body cavity, it crushes your lungs and heart. By the time the doctor got the chest tube in me to draw the air out, my left lung was completely collapsed. My right lung was partially collapsed and my heart felt like it was about to explode.

They had me on a demerol drip. The only thing that did was dull the pain. It still hurt.

When I had recovered, the doctor asked me if I was going to continue to smoke. I said no. He said that if I did decide to start smoking again, he would probably see me within the next year and it would be worse.

Needless to say, I have been a non-smoker since then. I have absolutely no desire to try it again. I like living. I also have a nice scar on my side to remind me of why I don’t smoke anymore.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
~*~SAT. AUG. 11th~*~ YUCATAN BEACH CLUB Party (#2) I-35 & Beltline Rd COPPELL
Posted: 8/6/2007 3:43:03 PM
I have to withdraw. There is no way I can make it to this one. Too many irons in the fire.
 
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