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SouthCarolina45

Joined: 3/3/2005

Msg: 130 (view)

body hair Posted: 1/4/2008 8:44:12 AM
Thanks Gary ! I just have to defend women who have body hair because I really hate to be labeled as someone who has a "disease" when it is perfectly normal for my ethnic background. I agree - everyone can have their preferences, but they cannot label me as "sick" because of my ethnicity.

SouthCarolina45

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Single Midlife Women: What do they want? Posted: 1/4/2008 8:30:41 AM
I can only tell you about my life as a celibate and middle aged woman. I found in the past, a friend with benefits - but I ended up hating it. I thought I would like it, but it is too unemotional for me. For others - if they like it - go for it. I just don't worry much about whether I find a new partner. It is such a waste of energy to be constantly looking and constantly worried about finding "the one." I find I am so much happier just to live and enjoy life. That being said, I do try. It is extremely hard at 48 to find someone to date. Usually, men my age and about five years older don't want to date me, I am too old. Young men only want sex and not a relationship - so this leaves me here - I refuse to be grossly unhappy about being single and 48 - I cannot control the fate of life - and whether I will meet a man that I am compatible with. I used to dwell on this but really - do I have any control? No. I can only try and be happy in there here and now. So, I choose to be happy. I could be happy with a committed relationship too but if that does not happen, I can't let it be the end of my happiness. Life is too short. At 48 you realize that you better grab happiness where you can. Like Janis Joplin says: Get it while you can.

SouthCarolina45

Joined: 3/3/2005

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in our age group, what constitutes a GOLD DIGGER??? Posted: 1/3/2008 11:40:31 AM
"It just drove me out of my mind with frustration" I agree - I can do better financially alone - it should have been the other way around. My parents are deceased and never had any money so that is not available to me. But I don't begrudge anyone else who inherits! I realize divorce can be financially devasting - trust me - I do. Both my ex-husbands tried their best to take my stuff/house (ironically, they came from wealthy backgrounds and stand to inherit) - I can totally relate to men feeling more than cautious when it comes to relationships, particularly marriage. I am not looking for marriage - just having fun and a close relationship.

SouthCarolina45

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in our age group, what constitutes a GOLD DIGGER??? Posted: 1/3/2008 7:45:32 AM
"finding a responsible woman with a good income that will take the responsibility of the Bread Winner off of them and assume the role of a "Serrigate Mother" for them" This happen to me in two marriages. I really had no idea that men were doing this. My eyes are open now and I have been divorced for ten years. Quite a few men and women who did not save or accumulate anything for their older age - now looking for a few responsible men or women to fix it all for them. Plus, they don't want to contribute anything now either. So Sad that being a lazy person would make you fake romance/love so someone else can foot the bill for their life expenses. Commonly called a MEAL TICKET So, now I look for someone with the same or similar assets and financial goals - they are more important than I realized in my youth.

SouthCarolina45

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body hair Posted: 1/2/2008 12:13:06 PM
Is also known as Stein-Leventhal Syndrome or Polycystic Ovary Disease (PCOD). Affects an estimated 6-10% of all women and most don't even know they have it. WOW - you can, online, without even meeting a woman, diagnose the 6-10% of the female population with this syndrome. You are smart. VERY SMART

SouthCarolina45

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body hair Posted: 1/2/2008 12:00:21 PM
In the female, excessive hair growth (hirsuitism) on the face, chest or abdomen is usually a manifestation of excessive male hormone production or due to the increased sensitivity of the hair follicle to normal male hormone levels. This increased sensitivity is typically ethnic in origin. Women of mediterrean descent (Greek, Italian, Spanish), for example, commonly have far more body hair than oriental women. In rare instances, the abnormal hair growth is a genetic disorder not related to male hormones. Certain medications, such as Minoxidil, may also cause excess hair growth.

SouthCarolina45

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body hair Posted: 1/2/2008 11:53:39 AM
"many women on this site suffer from it" Can you make a diagnosis over the internet? Are you a physician? I thought doctors were more intelligent than this. Trust me, most of the time, it is an enthicity issue, not a disease. Just because we are not all blue eyed, blonde with little body hair - does not mean we are ill. It gets old to hear some people make all issues female related a disease instead of just letting us be humans. A somewhat hairy female human. I AM NOT SICK because of have hair !

southcarolina45

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body hair Posted: 12/30/2007 10:41:16 AM
"And yes, some women have more hair than men, thicker hair, etc. It's part of a medical condition" NO IT IS NOT. I am part Catawba Indian - it is normal for Catawbas to have significant body hair. Same for a lot of women who have dark hair, Italian, etc. Why do you think there is almost a entire aile at Walgreens for facial hair remover products for women? Must be a hell of a lot of sick women out there. That being said, I will trim if you do. I already trim for my own self - but I refuse to shave it all off and deal with regrowth. Hell No.

southcarolina45

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Perception of Occupations Posted: 12/30/2007 10:24:25 AM
The problem is that you don't think anyone would "understand" these occupations. How very elite of you. I work with engineers in litigation and a friend of mine is a math professor at Uof SC. Don't assume everyone is so below you.

SouthCarolina45

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Why do women initiate more Breakups ? Posted: 12/28/2007 11:28:40 AM
"Menopause and perimenopause sometimes contribute to some very bizarre and bipolar like behavior" What are your qualifcations to make a statement like this? My doctor is a teacher and a physician - these are myths at best. Hot flashes are real and dryness (vaginal) are real. Of course, hormones for either sex are always considered. But mentally ill? WTF? Please described your education related to this issue.

SouthCarolina45

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New Years Resolutions You Can Keep Posted: 12/27/2007 12:49:37 PM
That's great ! 41. Never date again - and dont' worry about it

SouthCarolina45

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Girls....really why do you go to a bar Posted: 12/27/2007 12:11:46 PM
Men and women have more in common than you think . Women go to bars for the same reasons men do - exact same reasons - to drink and relieve stress - to flirt - maybe get laid/maybe not - shoot pool, dance, listen to music, talk to friends, talk to new people - basically to escape from the harsh reality we call life and work.

SouthCarolina45

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The new 'update your car status and income level' Posted: 12/27/2007 10:48:18 AM
I'm not shallow and cars don't concern me (but you need to have one in my town and I don't want to drive a man around - been there done that - it is awful) Income is important to me because I don't want to support a man (yes, men do this as well as women) and it seems to be getting worse as the economy is going downhill. I don't need six figures but say $25,000.00 a year - enough to support yourself and not be looking for me to be your sugar mamma. Also, I am older and can't afford to support a man or pay for his bills or clothes, etc. Sorry, but economics are hard reality and that is where we all live.

SouthCarolina45

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What age does female sexual urge die down? Posted: 12/27/2007 5:45:13 AM
Well, I can tell you it is NOT 48. And I have a lot of lady friends my age and older who have not lost it at all. That being said, all these women need a whole lot of lovin to get their groove on and this was always the case. It is just when we were younger, we were more afraid to ask for what we want. If you ain't hitting it properly it definitely will not work ! I know men as well as women who just do not have much of a sexual drive. In fact, I have met several men in the past five years who are not very interested in sex.

SouthCarolina45

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What Is It About Male Anger Posted: 11/20/2007 1:52:38 PM
I have some anger issues - I trust that almost everyone, sufficiently provoked would have anger and express it. We, men and women, just need to channel the anger into say, physical activity or into something that will actually change the situation that angers us. Anger can be a powerful motivator for change. If men are being treated badly for being angry, well women are not even fu.... allowed to be angry (for any reason whatsoever as far as I can tell) so I can relate.

SouthCarolina45

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Single and very content Posted: 11/20/2007 10:59:30 AM
Ayn Rand "I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction."

SouthCarolina45

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Single and very content Posted: 11/20/2007 9:03:21 AM
"you can't be content about looking for a partner until you've found one." Sure I can, maybe you can't, but I can. Just so you know, your words are meaningless and have zero impact. That's one of the perks of being content on a daily basis or having intense Gratitude about being alive. Jerks like you can't take it away with a silly, immature and unintelligent post. You must hate that.

SouthCarolina45

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Mens Rights Posted: 11/19/2007 2:07:29 PM
Just one of many OUR HISTORY. The National Center For Men has a long track record of public advocacy of men's equal rights, especially on radio and television talk shows. Our representatives have argued for men's rights, fathers' rights and men's reproductive choice. We have educated the public about male victims of domestic violence, men's health concerns and how men are often victimized by false accusation, particularly during divorce. We have resolutely made the case for men's equality in every area of life, including the right of men to make choices traditionally reserved for women.

SouthCarolina45

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Mens Rights Posted: 11/19/2007 2:02:33 PM
I really do believe in men's rights and there are men's rights groups out there. I have three female attorney friends that specialize in representing men in divorce cases - but, just like women, men will have to fight their ass off for their rights ! I oppose anyone having to give a man permission to have a vasectomy. My belief in equal rights - goes for both men and women.

SouthCarolina45

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The Hookup Culture Posted: 11/19/2007 1:49:24 PM
Does this mean the only way to have sex is to accept late night drunken botty calls? Guess I'm staying celebate.

SouthCarolina45

Joined: 3/3/2005

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Rules for Single Women Posted: 11/19/2007 12:48:37 PM
Unfortunately, the OP thinks he is educating women. If I wanted to be an indentured servant I would have stay married. yes, you can get a man by doing everything his way - who would not like that? I mean, no questioning of his opinion and only doing what you were told to do by him. Those days are over ! Remember guys - this is ASK A GIRL forum

SouthCarolina45

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How do women feel... Posted: 11/19/2007 10:48:15 AM
It would be odd to see here guys holding hands here in the Deep South. So, I would probably look and then go - Ok cool but... I can't vouch for others with small minds. I hate to say it, but it would be very hard to be openly gay in South Carolina, unless you were in a gay bar.

SouthCarolina45

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The Hookup Culture Posted: 11/19/2007 9:23:03 AM
Does anyone really want to discuss this? Because I truly hate hooking up or friends with benefits. I especially hate that the over 45 crowd is into this - I don't want to marry you after the first date but jeeze... can we have a little conversation with our sex? Please? I'm a cheap date - I can drink beer and eat wings, hell skip the wings and I will pay for my own beer, but I do want to talk to you... To me, I HAVE to talk to someone to sleep with them - I can't ummmm, perform, let's say without some communication and connection so a hookup really means nothing to me physcially or mentally. How do we get someone to date us instead of wanting just to hookup? Glad it is not just me this is happening to, and glad that I am not the only that does not like it !

SouthCarolina45

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Rules for Single Women Posted: 11/19/2007 8:18:49 AM
"I can only think that those women who take major issue with this post are the ones who resemble the shallow traits in some way..." I take major issue anytime I am put down as a female - does not make me guilty of those characteristics - just makes me opinionated and vocal. The OP put this in the ASK A GIRL forum. Girls responded. Again, there is NO QUESTION to respond to. It is the OP who is shallow - not the women who responded. Gee, talk about transference.

SouthCarolina45

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Single and very content Posted: 11/19/2007 5:38:58 AM
"pretending to, ignore it -- aka "whistling in the dark":" Well, I am the last person you would name as having her head in the sand - I am very much a realist. I'm happy and content - living in the moment I have. I used to wish and want for a good relationship and because it did not happen, I was very unhappy, so I decided to be as happy as I could without a relationship and it has changed my world. This does not mean that I am not seeking - I will alway seek for higher ground in relationships (not just romantic but friends and co-workers) and in spirit and deed. I just have realized that I don't have to wait for a person or event to be happy in the here and now. This should make me more prepared for that realtionship when it comes. Then the person will not have the burden of making me happy because I will already be happy in my day to day life.

southcarolina45

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Single and very content Posted: 11/18/2007 1:18:10 PM
I am single and content. My first point is that this is simply my fate. So I accept it and make the best of it. It is not a rational choice. i.e. - A wonderful man with everything to offer exists and you simply say, no thanks I'm single and content. I see it as healthy adaptation. If I meet a great new guy then a new adaption will occur. If it fails, then I will adapt again as single and content. The point is to be content regardless of your relationship status. Less face it, being over 45 you better be content either way as our time is limited.

SouthCarolina45

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Rules for Single Women Posted: 11/16/2007 11:42:09 AM
This is a good description of mutual attraction: People are generally attracted to those who are similar in terms of education, intelligence, religion, and financial status. “Often, ‘like’ attracts ‘like,’ what anthropologists call ‘positive assortive mating’ and ‘fitness matching,’” says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., anthropologist and author of Why We Love.

SouthCarolina45

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Rules for Single Women Posted: 11/16/2007 9:18:43 AM
Since there is no true question - another copy & paste: TEN QUALITIES WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN! (On and off the dance floor) 1. Good Leader on the dance floor who stays on the music. 2. Neat, clean appearance and well groomed. 3. Confident, self assured. Direct eye contact . 4. Stable career, financial security. 5. Sense of humor, quick witted, intelligent. 6. Well mannered i.e.; opens the door, introduces you to his friends, good table manners etc. 7. Physically fit, keeping weight under control. 8. Interested in what you have to say, a good listener. 9. Good in bed. 10.Nice looking. Of all the women surveyed, all enjoyed compliments on their appearance, dancing ability, intelligence and cooking abilities. Of course only if they do know how to cook. Women also said they knew if a man was giving insincere flattery, it is like a sixth sense women have. So men beware, only sincere flattery please! TEN QUALITIES WOMEN DO NOT LIKE IN MEN: 1. Men who can't lead and blame it on the woman. 2. Bad breath or body odor. 3. Cheap cologne. 4.**** attitude, think they are "God's gift" to women. 5. Lewd conduct on and off the dance floor. 6. Men who wear clothing that went out of style 10-20 years ago. 7. Cheap toupees. Invest in an expensive one or just go au' natural. 8. Smokers and heavy drinkers. 9. Unemployed loser types. They can dance but don't have a job, house, or money. 10. Dumb Guys. 95 % of the women said they would put up with all the negative qualities (with exception to numbers 2, 5, and 8) if the man was a very good dancer.

SouthCarolina45

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Rules for Single Women Posted: 11/15/2007 1:19:16 PM
So you live alone? Wow, - that must be the end of the world, according to your philosophy of if one ends up living alone, then they must be the problem.

SouthCarolina45

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Rules for Single Women Posted: 11/15/2007 12:50:39 PM
I love living by myself ! Very peaceful - beats the hell out of a guy like you, that's for sure

SouthCarolina45

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Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 11/15/2007 6:22:44 AM
I dated a separated man and really liked him. Once his divorce was over, he told me: Thanks for helping me through my divorce, but you are not my type. so, I don't date separated men. I have also read a lot of threads on this subject and most are negative results. I would rather wait until they are divorced and then see what happens.

SouthCarolina45

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Is there too much age difference? Posted: 11/7/2007 12:09:05 PM
I do believe that we place too much weight on numbers and not enough on compatibility. Like minded is much more impotant than age. This is true in theory. In reality, at least in my reality, I am much like the OP. First, I am very liberal, a feminist (that loves men) and open minded. A man 15 years my senior, most probably is not any of that - I'm sure there are some. Men that are 15 years older than men tend (not all) to want to control women and that is what they are most comfortable with (some women like this) but that's just not me, never has been. Men my age or younger understand this about me and more important, it is a NON-ISSUE. I have no desire to "debate" my philosophy of life, especially since I have been living it for so long that I forget it is a big deal.

SouthCarolina45

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Body Types - Who is in who's league? Posted: 11/6/2007 12:55:37 PM
I have worked with a person who had gastric bypass. Her problem was her new clothes. They were way too big. Make sure you are wearing a correct size and have a tailor take a look at your clothes - they give great advice. I think sometimes someone who has been overweight is just not used to the fit of clothes that are not made for the extremely overweight. But, as you can tell, even if you are a size 2, love/dating/relationships do not come easily just because you are thin.

SouthCarolina45

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Ladies - do you see men as people? Posted: 10/10/2007 8:21:21 AM
I have male and female friends and frankly I find we all have more in common than we do in differences. Yes, men do have feelings (but for a long time were not allowed to express any) I think this has made it much harder for a man. On the other hand, women were not allowed to be intelluctual for so long, they tend to backlash against men. I work hard to find the medium and to try to understand both males and females - certainly not an easy thing to do !

SouthCarolina45

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Is Ron Jeremy attractive or sexy to any women on here ? Posted: 10/10/2007 7:17:53 AM
He is ugly ! Thank goodness porn now has the good sense to use good looking men instead of guys like him. Personally I like porn to portray both sexy women and sexy men ! I don't care how much "game" you have - ugly is ugly.

SouthCarolina45

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older men and combover and extra large glasses why? Posted: 10/9/2007 11:22:29 AM
My post was not meant to insult - If talking about fashion is an insult - well hell I'm guilty. I just think keeping up a little bit with the fashion of the times will help those of us who do want to date - look better and more attractive - hence more dates or at least some interest. It's kinda like when someone tells me I look good in a certain color - then I know to wear more of that color. I was once told to stop wearing leggings - I was hanging on the 80s for too long - at first it hurt my feelings and then I realized that I was hanging on to the 80s. Sigh, I still do love 80s music - but that is kinda coming back.

SouthCarolina45

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older men and combover and extra large glasses why? Posted: 10/9/2007 10:49:28 AM
You are ready to date ! You look fashionable and up to date. Really you do.

SouthCarolina45

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older men and combover and extra large glasses why? Posted: 10/9/2007 10:37:08 AM
Ok - We will make this more "gender neutral" and the guys and gals can rail on women who wear suits from the 80s with those HUGE shoulder pads ! There is a female attorney I know who is brilliant but she wears these suits - I just want to rip them off her shoulders ! Otherwise, great lady. Maybe some of the offenders will read this and quietly buy new glasses, shave their heads entirely and rip out those damn shoulder pads !

SouthCarolina45

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I just think we have all become too fussy Posted: 10/9/2007 10:11:00 AM
So what if I am a little fussy I sure don’t want to be labeled a hussy I like for my man to be funny, smart and caring a little rock n roll and somewhat daring I don’t want no loser with no car or a loser who lives in a bar I want a man I can trust But does not sit around on his butt I want a man who shares life’s woes instead of being out each night chasing hos So yes, indeed you can call me fussy Just don’t let me hear you call me a hussy ! (Inspired by Robin4Wheels)

SouthCarolina45

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How do you feel about table for one? Posted: 10/9/2007 9:01:09 AM
I love to eat ethnic food and I don't mind going by myself and getting a table for one. Sometimes, I wish the hostess would say table for one instead of "only one?" But other than that - no issues at all. I also travel by myself - a lot of people are shocked but the way I figure it - I want to go and if I can't find someone - I will go it alone - I always have fun. I have been to London and Amsterdam by myself - it was my big "over 40" adventure - it was great !

SouthCarolina45

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facial hair Posted: 10/8/2007 2:11:19 PM
It was funny when I first realized I had so much facial hair. My mom's is american indian so I just never thought much about my facial hair. But one day I was in a grocery store and a little boy about 5 came up to me and said "You have a moustache!" I could not think of anything to say back so I said well, how do you like it? He took a full two minutes to think and then looked me straight in the eye and said "It looks good on you ! " I started asking my docs then and started shaving, plucking, creams, etc. but what a cute boy !

SouthCarolina45

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Why do all girls like to complain about how bad their parents are? Posted: 10/8/2007 1:32:22 PM
None of us like to admit that some parents are horrible at being parents. I volunteer at the local jail for teenagers - I horror stories abouth some of their families (from therapists and social workers). Sounds like some of these girls need some support and stability - someone to understand them and their situation.

SouthCarolina45

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just a quick bit of advice... Posted: 10/8/2007 11:29:13 AM
It takes 2 to make a relationship work and I believe it takes 2 to destroy it I have found, and many people agree, that this is NOT true. One person most certainly can destroy a relationship all by themselves - by cheating, extensive drug use, lying, physical or emotional abuse on the part of one can destroy an entire relationship. It is not all 50/50 when it comes to destruction.

SouthCarolina45

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You both have your own home, what do you do now? Posted: 10/8/2007 10:36:23 AM
I think it can be quite "proper" to keep both homes and just visit each other ! Ok, I know it is not traditional but who is keeping score and why do I care? It's my life, after all. I don't want to change my entire life (things - I do like my things old radios, 50's kitch) to suit another person and I trust that the person I end up with will not want to do that either. If we get along famously, then rent one home - live in another will apply.

SouthCarolina45

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facial hair Posted: 10/8/2007 6:21:35 AM
I have facial hair. Both my GYN and my skin doctor told me to shave. So I shave. No big deal. Both doctors said it is a myth about hair growing back thicker/darker. Since I have fair skin and very dark hair, I cannot bleach. I do pluck some too.

SouthCarolina45

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I think I need to write a book.... Posted: 10/5/2007 1:36:56 PM
(c) No One Will Have Sex With Me. SURELY This Will Cause You To Want To? I nearly spit out my food laughing at that one ! Just recently I got two e-mails asking for some Pity Sex for a supposed friend whose wife had left him for a younger man - he was about 75 years old and a hillbilly in overalls ! Now, before you flame, I know that there are women who like this type of man - each to his own.

SouthCarolina45

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I think I need to write a book.... Posted: 10/5/2007 12:06:05 PM
Chapter 300: End of first date sitting on my couch: I wanna a blow job. That's what I usually get. Swear to god, I can only recall him as BJ now. Occasionally I will see him around and I whisper to my friends - can't go that way - BJ is over there !

SouthCarolina45

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I think I need to write a book.... Posted: 10/5/2007 12:00:03 PM
"paid men to post fake profiles to entice woman who paid a hefty sign up fee." I just got a notice in the mail where I am going to get $35.00 refunded from yahoo for fake personals ! Yup, gotta love plenty of fish

SouthCarolina45

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Dumbest thing said to you during a chat/date. Posted: 10/4/2007 8:01:16 AM
On a first date and the guy asked me why I did not go to law school. I said I was too broke and could not afford to go. He then said to me "your wishy washy arent' you" I ended the date right then. I still see him sometimes and I can only remember his name as Wishy Washy

SouthCarolina45

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Grown Men 40+ who live at home Posted: 10/3/2007 11:09:03 AM
Have you ever dated someone that lives with their parents (for financial security - not as a helper or caretaker)? Well, if you like to wait on a person hand and foot - just date a man or a woman who lives at home (and always has) and is over 40 years old. Oh, and plus they are highly critical of your home and dislike the ammenities offered. Basically they don't live in the "real world" of having to clean a home, cook your own food, etc. We are from two different planets to say the least. Now, if a man was taking care of his parents and had lived apart - different kind of guy.

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