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tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

SOS Posted: 8/26/2009 4:33:33 PM
That's too bad....I would contact the admin on this site and see if there is any way to retrieve messages. The idea regarding hitting the back button might work as well; provided that you have not turned off your puter since reading her email.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

Need help understanding!!! Posted: 8/22/2009 9:38:22 PM
I would think she is saying she loves you as a friend now. She is most certainly NOT in love with you if she is dating someone else.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 61 (view)

Flowers? Posted: 8/22/2009 9:34:46 PM
I love receiving flowers....from a date, a friend or my children.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

Is sensuality acquired or are you born with it? Posted: 8/18/2009 9:34:59 PM
It's the old argument of nature v.s. nuture....perhaps a little of both.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

What does the long gaze mean? Posted: 8/18/2009 5:08:04 PM
A long gaze means basically....'bring it on' in my opinion. When I think someone is way out there ie) crazed...I don't make eye contact with them. So, ask her out....

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 529 (view)

Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/17/2009 10:16:19 PM
I don't like cooking....not any different from a lot of men.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

Best way to show interest Posted: 8/17/2009 10:04:09 PM
How about just asking her to join you in doing something casual....coffee or whatever.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

If he didn't like it, would you want him to eat it anyway? Posted: 8/17/2009 9:55:04 PM
I would start laughing and tell him that he didn't have to eat it if he didn't like it....

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 90 (view)

Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 12:40:23 AM
I'm not ever as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

Should I go out with a guy 16 years younger? Posted: 8/16/2009 9:10:01 PM
Go for it....you only live once. If you're interested and he is as well.....what's the problem?

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 88 (view)

Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 7:21:14 PM
Well I wouldn't mind one of those...ie., a man with the libido of a teenager.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 145 (view)

Did you really give it your all? Posted: 8/16/2009 7:19:34 PM
No, I do not blame myself for the demise of my marriage. I am although guilty for marrying him in the first place....

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

if you are planning a major change Posted: 8/16/2009 7:13:38 PM
Yes, I am planning a major change. The process will take up most of my time for the next several months. Therefore, I am kinda of looking but not really. I don't think anyone would put up with me because of my time commitments. But, oh well.....

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Toilet Seat Conundrum Posted: 8/9/2009 1:26:33 PM
The lid needs to put down as well...who wants all those germs floating around the bathroom.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 83 (view)

How much should a man chase you to show he is interested? Posted: 8/8/2009 4:32:26 PM
Yes, I would like both guns blazing if a man is interested in me. I'm very good at reading body language etc when it involves other people....but when it comes to myself, I'm rather thick headed. So yes, it has to be obvious if someone is interested in me.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 64 (view)

I get too nervous to go on dates so I always cancel Posted: 8/8/2009 4:30:25 PM
All feelings are normal.....they can't be judged right or wrong, good or bad. If you have not gone on many dates or not used to the dating process, it is completely normal to feel nervous. For those who say this is NOT normal, really are just spouting off. As someone else mentioned...take little steps....perhaps coffee and see how it goes from there.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

What is a Bad Boy and why do girls like them? Posted: 7/19/2009 3:12:35 PM
I've liked exciting, dynamic type of men but never the 'bad boy' type. They don't do anything for me.....they're immature in my eyes.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

he never aks questions about my life Posted: 7/19/2009 3:10:36 PM
You've made all the effort so far....now, give him an opportunity to make some effort. If he doesn't....he isn't that into you. JMHO

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

What does it mean when a girl looks at you a lot? Posted: 6/29/2009 11:35:32 PM
Probably that she is interested........

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

Is it possible to look past insecurities Posted: 6/29/2009 11:33:52 PM
Part of what is inside is where the insecurities come from......

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

What does it mean? Posted: 6/27/2009 7:54:16 PM
If I honked at a shirtless jogging man (and I didn't know him) it would be because I thought he was hot.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

How should I approach a girl that I genuinely want to be with? Posted: 6/27/2009 7:50:23 PM
Ask if you can talk to her after class??? And then when you have her alone, ask her if she would like to go for a coffee or drink or whatever with you. But, you need to be positive....

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Women with Harleys Posted: 6/27/2009 6:28:39 PM
I had one when I was much younger....actually shared it with my boyfriend at the time. What's the issue with women and harleys???? Are you one of these men that stereo type? If you are as someone else said, 'you need to get a life'.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

What do you do in this situation?? Posted: 6/27/2009 4:40:19 PM
I agree with another poster who suggested asking them in a playful way.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

Why are most interested women older than me? Posted: 6/27/2009 2:41:01 AM
Probably because you look older!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 106 (view)

To Tell or Not to Tell? Posted: 6/24/2009 11:17:28 PM
It would depend on the secret in my opinion.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 6/24/2009 8:28:56 PM
I'm comfortable being single....maybe a bit too comfortable!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 32 (view)

I need some guy speak decoded.... please help Posted: 6/2/2009 9:34:07 PM
I'd say he has fun with you and sees you more or less as a friend. If he said he is emotionally unavailable.....don't expect the relationship to develop any further than it is. Sounds like he has serious feelings toward this other woman...when she is ready and has worked out her 'stuff', he will be gone. He is basically preparing you for this so you won't be hurt. (my impression anyway)

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

Is he not that into me? Posted: 5/24/2009 10:45:39 AM
Seems like he's not really into you for a serious relationship...sounds more like fwb. The other scenario may be he is not into a serious relationship at the present.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Asking the ladies for your insight/opinion/ wisdom Posted: 5/15/2009 7:20:57 PM
No point in second guessing...just ask her to be honest with you. Sounds like she had fun with you but she does not want it to go any further. Only she knows the reason why.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 3 (view)

Burn baby burn! Posted: 5/15/2009 7:18:59 PM
For me...sparks are much more than a physical thing. It's an overall connecting of sorts ie) mentally, emotionally and physically.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 13 (view)

What should we do? Posted: 5/10/2009 3:29:51 PM
If people want to meet they'll make time. Sounds like she's not interested. JMHO

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

Difference in IQ - your experiences? Posted: 5/10/2009 3:27:51 PM
I prefer the more sharper crayon in the box for a relationship, thanks...it just doesn't work for me otherwise. As far as friends go...it does not matter about intellect...my friends are my friends.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

he's grossed out and I'm embarassed what do I do Posted: 5/3/2009 4:35:08 PM
It seems to me like he is trying to make you feel 'guilty' or 'bad' about the experience. Tell him to grow up and do some research!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 241 (view)

Would you date a man who wore makeup? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:32:45 PM
If he were a musician or actor, I could see it...but I prefer an alpha male!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

I think he is a player Posted: 4/29/2009 3:41:11 PM
Check it out a bit more...it won't take long to see if he is a horndog or not. Most times I believe people's intuition is right on but sometimes it can be off which is usually due to insecurities. If I were you, I would try to be neutral about the situation, until you know otherwise.....just don't get too involved meanwhile.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

what does it mean when a girl does not message you back? Posted: 4/29/2009 3:32:44 PM
It means they are not interested.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

ladies?......camping....fun weekend or why the %$#@ am i here? Posted: 4/29/2009 3:32:00 PM
I love camping but I take my makeup kit with me...is that a problem? I would have to pass on fishing though.....I could never kill a fish.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 78 (view)

If you got your heart's desire Posted: 4/28/2009 11:55:05 PM
Oh yes....I'm finally ready!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 97 (view)

Is your loneliness overwhelming? Posted: 4/26/2009 7:51:18 PM
Lonely for my family...but never just lonely....too many things to do to feel lonely.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 744 (view)

Men Shaved??? Posted: 4/26/2009 6:15:21 PM
I prefer trimmed....it looks rather gay all shaved. JMHO

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

A thought on psychology and game playing Posted: 4/22/2009 8:32:13 PM
No rollercoaster rides for this one....either there is interest or there is not. If interested show it and act on it.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

A ring from the past Posted: 4/22/2009 8:20:02 PM
I wear a promise ring from a previous relationship. I like it and that's why I wear it...I am fully over the relationship and it has nothing to do with the man who gave it to me. However, if I was in a relationship and if the ring bothered my bf, I would not wear it.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 162 (view)

Plans to meet 6 different times- and 6 times does not show up! Posted: 4/20/2009 6:27:10 PM
I would not have had anything to do with him after the first time!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

That awful F word. Posted: 4/20/2009 6:24:15 PM
How many of your past relationships in which there were no children involved are you still on speaking or friendly terms with? All of them....I'm on friendly terms with all of my previous relationship partners which did not involve children.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 78 (view)

Re: Is pregnancy a good reason to get married? Posted: 4/19/2009 5:33:54 PM
It is the worst reason in the world. That is why my ex-husband and I got married. And it was the biggest mistake I ever made. It ends up hurting everyone It's why I married my ex husband......and I so agree with the above poster.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

Would you date someone your son's age? Posted: 4/18/2009 7:03:44 PM
Ewww, absolutely not. My sons are 19, and 17!

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Girls Only Plz Posted: 4/18/2009 6:53:24 PM
I think that you need to determine which is more important 1) having children or 2) being with the man you love. If you really want children....then I would really take a long hard look at your current relationoship. After 8 years. if he is not sure he wants children, chances are that he won't want children in the future...but who knows. If children were my priority, I wouldn't waste my time; hoping and wishing.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Suddenly Finding Myself Unattracted To Men My Own Age Posted: 4/18/2009 8:10:15 AM
Me too! I haven't acted on it but I plan to.

tarika

Joined: 5/23/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

THE CHANGE! ie Menopause.. How did it affect you or you other. Posted: 4/18/2009 8:09:11 AM
I'm have started to go through it in the last year but it starts and then stops. Can't wait until I'm through the proces. However, sex drive is very high...and I'm wondering if that will change.

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