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 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 168 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 11/8/2006 6:00:12 PM
Hi:

I'm Doug and I am from Upstate,NY Orange County.I have a profile posted on the site if anybody wants to chat............
 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Why don't more women ask guys out??
Posted: 7/22/2006 9:51:32 PM
ubkobalt,you took the words right out of my mouth!!!!!!

If in fact,some women can appreciate it then how about cutting us guys some slack

We can be independent if we wanted to also,but we are stupid and let our hormones drive us to doing all kinds of nutty,outlandish things.
 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Why don't more women ask guys out??
Posted: 7/22/2006 9:43:28 PM
Hi puppyluv:

In my case,I can't post a picture right now because my scanner just died on me and I have no pictures already saved to my hard drive.

Please always remember and don't ever forget that this is JUST A DATE,no legal bindings so if the person is not appealing to you,then say "good night" and move on.
 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Why do my female coworkers attract real men n i can't??
Posted: 7/22/2006 9:28:18 AM
If you want a guy's perspective on this,check this one out:

Why are you worried about what other people are doing? You should be concerned with what works best for you.Everybody defines "happiness" in different forms.Being promiscuous is not the answer.In my opinion,sex is supposed to be an exchange of people who love each other.


Also,please consider that your clients are your clients and I don't think it's good to mix business with pleasure.You can be friendly and nice to them,but that's about the extent of it.

Might I suggest that maybe one of your clients has a friend,relative,etc who is single and maybe your client would be willing to introduce you to them.
 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Why don't more women ask guys out??
Posted: 7/21/2006 10:12:48 PM
There is something I don't quite understand.Are there any women out there who approach men instead of waiting for the guy to approach them?

In my experiences both in real life and online,I always have to be the one that makes the first move and approach or contact the woman.

Personally,I would love to see a woman approach/contact me.This would take some of the pressure off me and I think women would understand how much moxie it takes to ask someone out with the possibility of being rejected and how rejection can destroy one's ego and self-confidence.
 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 797 (view)
 
Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 7/20/2006 10:38:02 PM
Hi Spiderwoman:

If I might throw my two cents in on the issue of no picture.I am in a strange situation that I'm sure a lot of people are in.I had a picture that I scanned in and saved but it was a picture of me but it was not a close up.My scanner died and this is the only picture I have and it won't work when I try to post it on most sites.

So until I get a new scanner I have no picture to post unless I email or snailmail it.Also,might I mention the fact that women usually accuse men of being shallow because of looks and it seems as though looks are the first thing in your book.I'm not saying that looks are not important but this is just a date,what if this person who does not have a picture is in my shoes and can't send you a close up of themselves? Do you automatically disqualify this person??
 coolmugofdoug
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
ORANGE COUNTY NY PEOPLE WHERE ARE YOU LOL?
Posted: 7/20/2006 10:15:06 PM
I live in New Windsor.BTW,are there any single women out there with no kids 30-45 interested in Dating or more?
 
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