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 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 129 (view)
 
Married Women Looking For Sex
Posted: 3/29/2008 9:11:47 PM
Being a married man looking for sex myself, I wish I could FIND even a married woman looking for the same thing! All I keep running into, at least lately, are people offended at the way I choose to run my life, without walking even an INCH in MY shoes! Bummer!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/6/2007 10:18:19 PM
neopol, First, I didn't get at all "huffy," to use your wonderful choice of words. I simply challenged you to back up your claim about the extremely valid point I made about the genuine rosewood pens, sold for $13.00 in TOTAL charges (penny post value + $12.99 shipping value), as compared to the approximately $9.00 you claimed above that people can get it for. All I stated above was that you were incorrect about that, and challenged you to prove it, knowing that you couldn't do that. That's all. What you would find is that anyone else who might be still selling that item HAS to do so for around $15.00 to $17.00 each, to account for the higher combined fees EBay will charge them to NOT put it all in the shipping charges. I used to routinely sell them for $2.00 to $4.00 less than that, ONLY because I was putting everything but a penny into the shipping costs. Now, isn't that a PERFECT example of the original point I was trying to make, back when I was doing my best to educate new online shoppers?? Yes. It was. I'll answer that for you.

So, you found exceptions to the rule! SUPER for you! They're out there, but when you look at the VAST majority of the auctions for items where they've back-loaded the "Shipping" charges, when ALL things are combined, you'll find that approximately 95% of them sell their goods for a LOT less then those who were forced to NOT back-load the "Shipping" costs.

Fortunately for buyers on EBay, we are NOT the "exception" to the rule, as you are trying to assert! Instead, thankfully, we are among the majority of successful sellers of repetitive goods. Why? Because more and more shoppers are smartly wising up, and realizing that they are usually (at least 95% of the time, as proven by a study we paid for again this year) better off purchasing their similar goods from sellers who back-load their "Shipping" charges, because THOSE sellers are able to afford to reduce their total asking charges--------since they're not having to pay as much in combined fees to GREEDBAY!

Heck, most shoppers are SO extremely naive, just about any creative "gimmick" DOES work. I've proven THAT time and time again as well, just as I've proven my point, here, too! Take these specific letter Opener-ballpoint pens I used to sell, until my manufacturer stopped making them. I once sold them for $9.99 "Shipping" and a penny post, shipped First Class to in-country locations. I sold literally THOUSANDS of them over the course of about 9 months. Just for grins, toward the end, I moved them UP to posting them for $15.00, and claimed a "Free Shipping" offer! Heck! I sold my last 300-400 of them like hotcakes, with a LOT of those customers GLOWINGLY thanking me for the "Free Shipping" offer! Sheeesh!! How much more naive can these shoppers be, eh?? I jacked may TOTAL charges up in the "post," and thus "sell" areas, so that I could afford paying GREEDBay more in combined auction fees, and then simply added the phrase: "Free Shipping!!" to my auctions. The CUSTOMERS ended up being the ones to have paid GREEDBAY all that increase in combined fees, not me, and many of them THANKED me for my increased pricing to them (though they didn't realize it as such).

So, once again, I'm proving just how naive customers really can be, and ARE, when they incorrectly focus on the specific areas where a seller posts their charges!! They simply MUST compare TOTAL charges for similar items, regardless of where those monies are distributed amongst a sellers various charges. High "Shipping" amounts definitely do NOT automatically mean "rip-off," and in fact, represent savings on EBay at the rate of about 95% of the time that happens. Conversely, "Free Shipping" offers, where there is a "0" showing in the "Shipping" area doesn't always mean the customer isn't paying shipping costs! The naivity of shoppers can be baffling sometimes, and the closed-minded ones out there who refuse to listen to our 10,000+ feedback count experience talking, are simply studid and/or ignorant!

So, don't get all huffy about all of this. All we're doing is proving our case, and asking that others who counter what we already know and can prove, prove their claims. Give us some specific auction ID#s for those headlights auctions, etc., and let us all compare the TOTAL charges being asked by each one. I can do the same, quite easily, showing REAL auction ID#s of things being sold that are similar or the same, where the ones posted for HIGH "Shipping" values are actually the lowest TOTAL charges auctions out there. It would only take me a few minutes to draw that comparison, because they're out there everywhere. Keep benefitting GREEDBAY by buying only those with low "Shipping" values! They LOVE you for it!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/6/2007 3:27:42 PM
In general terms, neopol is dead wrong on this point! I say generally, because I know that approximately 5% of all EBay sellers DO "rip people off," so to speak, but "hiding" too much of what they need for their goods within their shipping charges. The other 95% of us really DO do it in order to keep the TOTAL charges down for our buyers.

His so-called attempt to lesson my TRUE $13.00 pen offer was weak, by merit, and I challenge them to give us ALL some EBay auction ID#s of the auctions for a NEW genuine rosewood ballpoint pen, sold for LESS than TOTAL charges of $13.00! RING!!!! Times up, neopol! I know you can't find them, because they're simply not there. Oh, you can find a few for $15.00 to $20.00 each, shipped to a person's front door, in-country (I know, because I just did the search myself). However, I can get that SAME exact item to anyone in-country for a flat rate of $13.00, TOTAL. With that being said, though, I simply CAN'T do it without posting it for a penny, and then adding $12.99 for "Shipping" and processing charges. If I did ANYTHING other than that, EBay would make about another $2.50 per pen auction off of me, so I would need to RAISE my total charges needed for that pen, to at LEAST $15.50, to help cover the additional auction fees EBay will rip ME off for!

So, neopol, please back up your claims with actual proof, and then I'll do the same. Otherwise, you really shouldn't try to misinform people, when a VERY experienced EBay Power Seller is doing everything they can to help people save money by being more open-minded, while comparing TOTAL charges needed for similar items, and NOT worry so much about just WHERE those specific charges are within the auctions. Again, I'm not claiming at ALL that there aren't some idiots out there who not only save money on EBay fees not paid, when they post for a penny, then jack their shipping costs. However, there are only approximately 5% of sellers who do that. I know, because I paid for an extensive research study ON EBay, just 4 months ago, and got those results. I went into that study assuming that number would be about 10%, or slightly more, but the results came back showing just a mere fraction less than 5%.

With all of that being said, folks, do your comparison shopping, using TOTAL charges needed, and pay less attention to WHERE the seller's charges actually are. When you see higher TOTAL charges in one auction, compared to another one you find, for the same item, then simply DON'T buy the one with higher TOTAL charges. It's a no-brainer, really. If enough people continue to do this, those paying EBay higher post and sell fees, as EBay desires them to, will be forced more and more to do the same as 95% of us, and reduce TOTAL charges to their customers, and STICK "GreedBay" with a LOT less in fees made by them!

Happy Shopping, folks!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/6/2007 10:46:13 AM
rsx11s = Again, a GREAT point! I wouldn't at all be surprised if Google suddenly broke in with an auction site, to compete with EBay! THAT would be a GOOD thing. EBay would be forced to lower its auction fees, in order to retain more of its sellers, and thus allow us sellers to lower what we ask in total values. Heck! If Google is willing to take on Microsoft already, they can MORE than take on EBay!

Central Man = Good point as well. PayPal is an EXTREMELY secure way to pay for things online, and favors the BUYERS a lot more than the sellers, in terms of claims filed when things don't go right. People just need to make SURE they don't fall for the phishers (scammers) who send false emails, seemingly from PayPal, and ALWAYS remember to NOT log onto their accounts through emails. Unfortunately, this happens ALL the time, as people wish to save time, and not take a couple of extra steps, such as typing in: www.PayPal.com in their browser, and clicking "enter." Doing it through the links these phish-idiots create WITHIN the emails is so much easier- - - - - - - - - - but SO much costlier in the end!

Bob
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/5/2007 10:56:53 PM
That's a bummer to hear about Yahoo! Auctions! I was seriously considering checking them out. I know that Overstock.com has an auction site element to them, but it doesn't have NEAR the exposure to potential customers, as EBay gives sellers. Unfortunately, for those of us who make at least a little through online auctions, we're STUCK with GREEDBAY!!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/5/2007 11:01:57 AM
rsx11s is VERY correct in all that he just stated above!!

Rookie Online Shopers Lesson #1 = Compare TOTAL charges of similar goods, when considering between similar items, and don't pay as much attention as most of you do to WHERE each charge is listed! As rsx11s so correctly stated, it's really about what you pay in the END, for what you want, that counts.

Rookie Online Shopers Lesson #2 = Again, as rsx11s correctly stated above, the more you're paying for something you get from EBay, the MORE you should focus on what the seller's EBay feedback count is. The more "unique" (different) customers who have taken their time to post positive things for sellers, the more you can trust them with your transaction. "100" is a good number to start with, but you might look for 1,000 or more, if you're purchasing a car, truck, or boat, for example. You might also consider their feedback PERCENTAGE score, too. That would be the ratio of POSITIVE comments made against negatives made, too. I good round number to look at for somebody with better than a "100" feedback count would be 99% or greater. That would mean they've satisfied at LEAST 99 out of every 100 people they've served (TONS of happy customers never log on and leave feedback, but the unhappy ones ALWAYS do!).

Rookie Online Shopers Lesson #3 = NEVER! NEVER! NEVER log onto your account, either with EBay or PayPal, through an email. These clever phishers (scam artists) have gotten pretty cute about the way they've designed emails to send people for reactions. All of them contain some sort of sign-on and/or "Respond Now" type link INSIDE those emails. NEVER do it that way. Take the extra few seconds it takes to go to www.ebay.com, or www.paypal.com, etc., to log on and check things out THAT way! They'll "Thank You!", for example, for adding a new email address to your account, and then show you some BOGUS looking email address you KNOW isn't your's! They're BANKING that you will react angrily, and "Respond Now" in some way, through a link THEY have designed within that email. All you would be doing is giving your login and password to them, and then they'll be OFF to the races with your bank account.

Rookie Online Shopers Lesson #4 = Along the same lines as "Lesson #3" above, NEVER have matching logins and passwords for more than one thing. For example, a lot of naive EBay members will have the exact SAME login AND password for both their EBay and Paypal accounts. Well, once you fall to a scam artist involving ONE of those accounts, they'll RUSH to the other one, and clean you OUT, good!!

Great points, rsx11s! I just wanted to further expand on some VERY valid points you brought up, above, from an EBay Power Seller's perspective!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/5/2007 8:35:20 AM
lynn123456789 - GOOD spot, by the way, finding one of EBay's MANY little "loopholes," as you so correctly put it! They've reserved the right to see just how successful sellers are through their site, and then put the screws to them with higher fees, about once or twice per year! THAT, my friends, is what helped make it EXTREMELY difficult for the "average Joe" to post anything online through them, to sell it off.

Consider this, all you "average Joes" out there = If you post and describe SEVERAL of your "garage sale" type items on EBay, and say, sell only about 1/4 of what you post, you would STILL be paying at least the "Posting" fees to EBay on the 3/4 of your stuff that DIDN'T sell! That would dig into anything you made on the 1/4 of it that DID sell, in a tremendous way. The stuff that DID sell would cost you both their "Posting" AND "Selling" fees, combined. Then, when people pay through PayPal, as most tend to do, PayPal (owned by EBay, by the way - How convenient, eh?), you lose another small percentage of the money you made from selling your things. Who would be the REAL winner in all of that, you might ask?? EBay!!! They make money EITHER way, whether you sell your things or not! It's THAT simple.

Now, using the garage sale postings as an example, consider allowing that "average Joe" to post all of his things individually for a penny, but then have HIGH shipping costs (but at a level matching what he needs for that stuff). Who CAN'T afford a percentage of a penny to post that item, or another percentage of that same penny selling level? NOW that "average Joe" is able to retain more of the money people pay for his things, because EBay won't get NEARLY as much from him!

So, all of you more naive shoppers out there who RAG on the sellers for this price reduction technique, without FULLY understanding why it's being done in most cases, you're contributing to preventing the "average Joe" from being able to afford to sell anything through venues like EBay! Pat yourselves on the back, as you tend to be pretty effective at squeezing people like "Joe" right out of the market. The larger sellers will ALWAYS find ways to continue selling, however, since WE have better bulk purchasing power, and can afford to sell goods for less, considering the savings we enjoy when we buy in new goods, wholesale.

Hopefully, at least SOME of this sinks in, people! I can TELL you that EBay is hoping it doesn't!!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/5/2007 8:25:39 AM
doobiebro – GREAT point about “time spent,” “materials, etc. The average shopper really doesn’t even consider THOSE costs, and only look at the price of the stamps on their packages. How naïve is that??

yna6 – SUPER point, too. Why NOT start the bidding at a penny, whether you can win the object or not? As EBay charges more, sellers are then forced to ASK for more of their customers. If you ALLOW them to post for (and thus SELL for) lower amounts, such as a penny, then they won’t need to ask for more in TOTAL charges for their items.

Marie88 – Again, don’t look too deeply into what’s posted under the “Shipping” charges section, asking “What’s the extra for?” The REAL question all shoppers need to ask is: “Is this the BEST deal for the TOTAL charges that I can find ANYWHERE, whether it’s online, or at regular stores with sales taxes added?” THAT is the real question you should be asking yourself. Again, if you allow sellers to put more of what they NEED for things they sell within the “Shipping” sections, they will pay less to EBay in BOTH “Post” and “Sell” fees, and thus be able to afford to ask for LESS in total charges for what they sell.

Trust me on this one, as a seller, MOST sellers (not all of them, admittedly) will lower their TOTAL charges for goods to where they will sell at a comfortable pace. It’s basic economics, people. As the prices of goods (or TOTAL charges, including shipping costs, in this case) go down, the consumer demand for them goes up. ANY good seller knows that, and wants to find that comfortable price (TOTAL charges) level where there is a high enough demand for it to be worth the time, risk, and hassles of selling them. YES, sellers are retaining more of their sales money when they sell goods that have HIGH shipping costs posted, but then that allows them to lower their OVERALL pricing goals on their items, so they’re more affordable to the customer.

Bottom line, here: If you work on EBay’s side of things, and prevent sellers from “hiding” more of what they NEED for their goods sold through EBay, you’re only hurting the shoppers in the long run, and NOT the sellers. You would also be helping EBay do THEIR job of policing against those sellers who are keeping more money from THEIR (EBay’s) pockets.

Shoppers’ Hint: No matter WHERE you get your goods when you shop, compare the items you’re considering, and match up the TOTAL charges being asked of you in both cases (to include sales taxes, if they apply). THEN, compare those total charges for similar items, and purchase the BEST overall TOTAL charges one, and save money, REGARDLESS of where the costs are posted!

By the way, thanks for the tip on Yahoo Shopping! We'll check that one out this week, and see if we can't expand our markets a little by selling there, too!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/4/2007 2:44:16 PM
Well, I saw what I thought I would see in the majority of the replies = The average buyer really has no idea of the motives of MOST sellers who employ the higher shipping costs + lower post (and thus "sell") values! As an EBay Power Seller, myself, for well over 5 years, now, I'll freely admit that I've done that, and will CONTINUE to do it, as long as I can get my products to my customers for the lowest prices possible, while still making it worth my while and financial risk in doing so.

I REALLY enjoyed the one poster above who called EBay "Greedbay!" That poster couldn't have hit it more on the head with that comment, in terms of being ABSOLUTELY correct! GREEDBAY, as I enjoy calling them, flat out LOVES it when all of those more or less naive shoppers out there automatically THINK a seller is trying to be "sneaking," etc. when they have higher shipping costs, and lower post and sell values, because at least a few of them turn those sellers in to EBay, and basically do EBay's job FOR them! So, not only does EBay now make more money from the sellers who are forced to switch things around, but they got their vitural police work done for them FREE of charge. Further, since the seller now has to pay higher "Post" and then "Sell" fees for what they're selling, they will have NO choice but to raise what they ask for in TOTAL charges (regardless of whether they put it in the shippng or post sections), in order to help offset those higher combined auction fees EBay will now charge them.

If those well-intentioned, but naive shoppers would just let the sellers go, in the VAST majorit of cases, those sellers will get you your goods for MUCH less than the ones who were forced to post for higher values, and thus were forced to raise what they're asking for the SAME things! If you don't like doing the math during comparison shopping, simply keep moving on. Leave the sellers alone. By doing so, you're either NOT helping EBay make more money, or contributing to the demise of those sellers.

Trust me when I say that the "market will take care of itself," in terms of not sustaining the kind of sellers most naive shoppers assume are the ones who jack up their shipping charges to be "sneaking," etc. If their products and service are not of the quality people seek for the TOTAL charges they ask for their goods, people simply won't shop through them, and those sellers will be forced to disappear. On the other hand, if those more naive shoppers out there can simply compare the TOTAL charges of one similar item to those of another seller's similar product, and purchase the one with the better TOTAL charges, then simply move on, and let it be.

As a reputable Power Seller, we've developed quite a sizeable base of regular and returning customers. The VAST majority of them truly understand what it is we're doing for them, in keeping THEIR "total charges" down for our goods, by keeping EBay's TOTAL charges against US down. As a result, these repeat customers enjoy savings after savings, after savings, every time they come back to us. MOST couldn't care less where the auction charges are aligned, as long as their "bottom line" total charges are what they agree with! THAT, my friends, is how online shoppers need to see this.

Here is a brief example: Several years ago, we sold a very nice rosewood ballpoint pen through EBay auctions. For about a year, we posted them for a penny, and asked for $12.99 "shipping" and processing charges. Now, at that time, it only cost us about $0.50 per package to send a single pen purchase out, by stamp value, and about $0.30 for the padded envelope. Those more naive shoppers would think, "What a RIP-OFF!" when they see the actual postage costs, compared with what they paid, COMPLETELY forgetting that they paid just a penny for a $15.00 (retail value) pen!! It goes both ways, folks! If you're going to complain about the $12.99 "shipping" costs, then equally PRAISE the penny price of the pen as well!!

Now, somebody apparently got mad at the way we posted those auctions, and then complained to EBay. Though we had sold well over 1,000 pens in about a year's time by then, we were forced to switch the auctions around to more of a $11.99 post value, with a $2.99 "Shipping" costs value. Doing the math, those two figures combined for $14.98. At that point, what used to be a pretty fast-selling pen, dropped to something we sold MAYBE one pen per week with. Those literally HUNDREDS of customers who enjoyed a better bargain value of $12.00 in TOTAL charges for THEIR pens, could no longer enjoy such a deal, since we were forced to switch our auction format, and then add to what we sought for those pens, to help pay EBay the higher "post" and "sell" fees we then had to pay. Within just a handful of weeks, we could no longer afford to sell those nice pens, as the sales rate of them didn't justify the fees being paid to EBay for posting them, whether they sold or not (YES! EBay gets paid by sellers whether their items sell, or not! Yet another fact most naive shoppers have no clue about).

Last, regarding a point another poster touched on above, regarding only big-time sellers being out on EBay anymore, with almost NO "average Joe" out there anymore. Well, once again, you can thank GREEDBAY (EBay) for that as well. Since you need to pay for your posted auctions whether you actually successfully sell them or not, the average person simply CANNOT afford to sell their things through EBay. Only "big time" sellers who have "big time" wholesale connections for bulk quantities of their goods can afford to pay those high fees anymore.

So, to all those relatively inexperienced EBay shoppers out there, we mean no offense to you at by suggesting this, but please simply move on when you see high shipping charges auctions, and don't turn them in to EBay! You're not helping yourself at all, nor are you helping other shoppers in ANY way! In fact, all you're doing when you turn sellers in to EBay like that is helping EBay make more money, while hurting the average shopper who will now be forced to pay higher TOTAL charges for goods they buy on EBay, to help sellers afford to pay EBay's higher auction fees. If sellers cannot recover those higher fees, they'll simply stop selling, and that's NOT a good thing for anyone!

Take care, good luck, and happy shopping!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Why Do EBay Buyers Think High Shipping ALWAYS = Rip-Off??
Posted: 6/3/2007 9:38:03 PM
As an EBay seller, myself, for over 5 years, I've grown more and more frustrated with EBay's VERY high auction fees structures. They almost literally charge "an arm and a leg" for auctions to be posted and sold. You see, they charge sellers a percentage of their POSTED values, when they first post, and so make money whether the seller sells that item or not. Then, if the seller is successful, EBay charges another percentage of THAT value. What they still DON'T charge a percentage fee on are the amounts sellers ask in their "Shipping and Handling" sections. As a result, more and more sellers are resorting to showing higher shipping and handling areas, and lower "post" and thus "sell" amounts. By keeping EBay's combined auction fees down, sellers like myself can keep the overall TOTAL charges for things we sell, DOWN for the customers. EBay just LOVES it when most people who shop on EBay don't recognize those savings, and sometimes even turn sellers into EBay for posting things in this manner. When EBay then forces sellers to raise their post, and thus their sell values, they charge more for both, which the seller then passes on to the shoppers through higher TOTAL charges asked for their goods. As confusing as it sounds, it's quite simple, really. As shoppers, people simply need to shop and compare TOTAL values sellers are asking, and not pay so much attention to one specific area of the charges, like the shipping and handling charges.

Does anyone else have an opinion on this? If so, what is it and why? Some might say that sellers who do this should simply explain what they're doing in the written description. Well, EBay has THAT covered, too, as they won't allow it, and shut such auctions down immediately when they're spotted.
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 12:51:37 PM
I fully agree with dreamblade on all points. As awkward as the first sexual encounter already tends to be between people just getting to know each other, it may not be such a good idea to discuss your inner sexual pleasures TOO in-depth before the big event. However, once that proverbial ice has been broken, it can be an EXCELLENT opportunity for both of you to discuss not only how THAT set of activities just went (and be bloody honest about it, too!), but how things can improve for BOTH of you in the future, too. Women, if you truly want to be with that man more in the future, it doesn't pay you to sort of "fake" your enjoyment of whatever he tried to do for you. If he's a great guy, he'll do those things again, and the same way, thinking he's pleasing you. Hurt his feelings a little on the short-term, and let him know what REALLY pleases you. That way, when he moves to help you experience sexual pleasures again in the future, it should tend to be more along the lines of what you DO like, and not what you FAKED you enjoyed before. If not, then he may not be the right guy for you. Keep in mind, too, that it should go both ways. Good luck, and happy hunting, all!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Men today tend to be minute men
Posted: 6/3/2007 9:53:17 AM
As they say, "Men Are From Mars, and Women Are From Venus!" Though having a man make his best effort to do everything in his control to please the woman he's with, sometimes, just straight communication between you can do the trick. Though a lot of women tend to like their men "surprising" them, while making their best efforts to figure it all out for you, you women also need to realize that we men sometimes need a slug in the head with bluntness and openness. Now, when a woman opens up to her man, explaining what kinds of things she likes, dislikes, etc., and he still does not do it, then you should reconsider who you're with, etc. But, ladies, don't be afraid to let your men know CLEARLY what pleases you, including in some cases, when and how they might do it. Subtle suggestions don't usually work - Hints generally don't do the trick - Just SAY something to them, if all else fails! Good luck!
 Colorado_Bob
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
No sex drive?!
Posted: 6/3/2007 1:16:26 AM
As funny as this may sound, I don't think there's anything wrong with you at all! You sound perfectly like a normal woman. Personally, I've had the misfortune of running into a few woman just like that in my life, including my current wife! As soon as you find a "cure" for what you described you have, please let me know what it is, OK?
 
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