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Thread: Why don't women approach guys much?
AceOfSpace
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Why don't women approach guys much?
Posted: 8/27/2012 2:04:53 AM
[Expect only to have to EARN affection or another date in other ways.]
I don't know, Patrick. I don't think it works that way at all. I don't even think it's _possible_ to earn affection.
Women want to feel safe, and they want to have fun. The best way to let a woman know that she is safe to have fun with you is to tease her--not in a mean way, in a fun way. --In a way that says, "I'm emotionally solid enough to handle you, have fun, and turn an awkward misunderstanding into something we can both laugh at"--because that's what teasing is all about. It is such a relief to be with a man who can do that for her that most women will latch on for dear life and do whatever they can to keep you interested. From what I've heard and seen, it's a very rare quality among single men.
AceOfSpace
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FWB versus relationship. What's the difference?
Posted: 8/27/2012 1:56:35 AM
Denise,
Just because testosterone protects a man from the effects of oxytocin most of the time, there are still times when he is vulnerable and will bond with you. I think that's why the old dating rituals told girls to hold out until marriage (or until the guy broke down, really), because then he'd be vulnerable and she could have some assurance that he'd bond with her and not just "score" and move on.
Unfortunately, it's when I guy is in "friend" mode that he's most available to bond with you. When he's on the prowl, he's androgenized and the action of oxytocin is blocked. If you want to enjoy a FWB with a man, make sure that he's revved up at least the first time. Otherwise, he is quite likely to go clingy on you.
AceOfSpace
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Should Guys pay the full amount on the first Date/Meet?
Posted: 8/11/2012 10:35:11 AM
It's about character and chemistry. I have come to the conclusion that it simplest just to pay, but I don't try to impress anyone on a first date/meeting. We either hit it off with something simple and sweet, or we don't. I take a woman with me to something I'd been wanting to do anyway, but realize I'd have more fun doing with company rather than by myself. Simple, easy, and if that's all there is, I had a good time and no worries.
I used to mistrust women in all the traditional ways, and I know there is a lot of mistrust of men among women. No doubt well earned on both sides for all the reasons given. I can't argue with any of that. But a woman who wants what she wants will start working it as soon as she can, and when I get that vibe it becomes a question of if the pleasure of her company is worth the hassle. It usually isn't, or I get tired of it soon. A woman who wants to get to know me, who wants to enjoy my company (go figure, but some do!), has a whole different feeling and a different approach. When she wants something, she approaches it in a straight-up way.
I love women! I just let the love I feel show, and that makes things easy all around. I don't need to convince a woman who just isn't willing to trust a man. Many are. And, a woman who isn't trustworthy soon gets bored with me, which is fine by me. Let her dance that dance with someone who wants it. The thing I've discovered lately is how scared women really can get, both of being hurt and of being transformed by love, and that can skew their behavior in ways that look manipulative. So now I try to take that into consideration.
I find that a combination of attractiveness and compassion in a woman is simply devastating. It probably works in the other direction too. So, cultivating my capacity for compassion should, if I'm right about this, bring me to the most desirable women on many levels, and then it will be really tough to choose! YMMV
AceOfSpace
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Dr. Laura and the you know what word
Posted: 9/8/2010 3:37:55 PM
Well, there are two ways to address the criticism of the Frankfurt school and people like Marcuse. One is to hate and resist them, even when there is an element of truth in their claims.
The second is to hear them out, correct that element of truth, and use that action to further debunk the bulk of their ill-motivated claims. The truth will win out eventually, so why not just weed through the nonsense to find it.
BTW, the same goes for the right-wing nonsense that I don't like.
AceOfSpace
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Cali to vote on legalizing and taxing marijuana in November
Posted: 9/1/2010 12:32:40 PM
people have rights not to have to be around these things, because second hand smoke can effect you. And yes, even pot second hand smoke can effect you. ... It may very well be best that it is legal, and the moral choice is still left up to an individual, where it should be.
For those of you who argue that we should legalize pot, put your same rationality towards drilling for oil here in California.
Well, individuals have the right to control what they put into their own bodies. Second-hand smoke impinges on that right. So yes, the laws against second-hand smoke should apply to marijuana.
If oil drilling didn't pose risks of irreparable harm to third parties, there would be no need to regulate it. Until the risks of offshore drilling can be reduced to a level that would be acceptable to a reasonably prudent person, those third parties have a right to injunctive relief--whether the injunction comes from a court or the legislature.
In other words, the public has the right to halt offshore oil drilling until we are satisifed that it is safe enough to make it worth the risks. It hasn't appeared that way lately.
AceOfSpace
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Freedom
Posted: 8/26/2010 9:57:35 AM
This is the freedom that I would like. YMMV. Enjoy!
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"Freedom." What does it mean? Is it worth having? How do we get it? These are relevant questions. Perhaps the most relevant of our life.
We live in an age where many enjoy political and economic freedom. Hopefully human civilization will continue to evolve in a direction that brings that kind of freedom to everyone on the earth.
But we are not talking about that kind of freedom here. We are talking about a kind of freedom that transcends political and economic circumstances, a kind of freedom that transcends the suffering found in all the circumstances of life, whether we are happy, sad, rich, poor, healthy or sick. We'd all like to better our lot in life. But beyond that, there is a way to find an inner unending joy that is entirely independent of our lot in life, whatever it may be. This is what we mean by "freedom" in the yogic sense. True freedom is the fruition of yoga. It has also been called "liberation."
This freedom, this liberation, is not an external thing, and not an idea or a state of mind. It is not something we can possess. It is a condition of consciousness in the human being, and also reflected in the society. It is something that is self-evident when it appears, and entirely independent of our outer circumstances. It is an abiding inner silence, a blissful ecstasy, and an endless outpouring of divine love. Most importantly, it is freedom from suffering. It is also a direct experience of Oneness (unity) through all the faculties of perception. It is living within and through the essence of what we are – pure bliss consciousness. Human beings are designed to express that reality in the realm of time and space, in ordinary daily living. We are That.
If we wait long enough, evolution will bring the human race to a full expression of that condition of freedom. Without our direct participation, it could take a very long time. But, thankfully, that is not how the system works. There is something in us, something that causes us to take action for the benefit of our evolution in this life. Once we have sensed our potential, there is a spark of recognition, and we are moved to do something. We experience a divine desire for that which is beyond where we are today in the expression of our consciousness. We have called that desire "bhakti," which is devotion to a higher ideal of our own choosing. There are a variety of experiences that can create that spark of recognition and the resulting bhakti. Once it happens, we have to do something. There is no turning back. We are on the path to freedom.
There are many ways to travel. We can take a religious route or a non-religious route. Whatever suits our nature. All routes lead to the same place, to the extent they are true to the inner dynamics of human spiritual transformation. In spite of all the glitz and glamor, spiritual development is largely a mechanical process. A pretty mundane thing. It is inner purification and opening of our nervous system at the deepest level that ultimately brings about freedom. A systematic approach involving daily practice will yield the most reliable results.
Here in the AYP system of practices, two primary angles of approach are recognized and addressed, leading to a third, which is the unfoldment of freedom.
1. The cultivation of abiding blissful inner silence.
2. The cultivation of ecstatic conductivity and radiance.
3. The joining of these two in an outpouring of ecstatic bliss and unity in daily living.
One, two, three… Very simple.
--Yogani99 "The guru is in you."
To read this lesson on the main website, go to http://www.aypsite.org/430.html
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I am not affiliated with AYP, and I practice a different system. But no one puts it better in words. Enjoy!
AceOfSpace
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What has gotten you concerned with JournOlism
Posted: 8/25/2010 2:47:28 PM
But Ace, the only way everyone can do what they want is Anarchy, and even than, there is no guarantee.
Nah. We just have to understand the difference between our rights and our privileges, and remember that rights trump privileges. If I have a right to associate with whomever I want, and I have a right to equal protection under the law, then you have no right to tell me what sexual characeristics my spouse must have. You simply don't.
If you have a right to bear arms as an individual, then my only interest in what you have stockpiled has to do with public safety. If you can contain the explosion to your property, and as long as you aren't coming after me, it's none of my business what you have.
Of course there can be rules. But what there can't be are rules that favor people like me over people like you with no good reason behind them. Child labor laws are fine!
So the next time someone tells me what I'm doing is offensive or Cmakes it harder to their freedom or equality being recognized, I'm going to pay rapt attention.
AceOfSpace
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What has gotten you concerned with JournOlism
Posted: 8/25/2010 12:16:14 PM
It's so funny reading about how this group tries to lord it over that group and that group tries lording it over this, while neither one admits that the other is absolutely right.
Don't tread on me, either of you! Don't defraud me of my right to enjoy clean air by polluting it and taking unearned profit from the mess you leave. Don't restrict my right to defend myself against a corrupt government. Don't tell me who you think it's OK for me to marry.
Got it! Back the hell off all of you.
AceOfSpace
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Free Speech 1st Amendment
Posted: 8/16/2010 5:31:00 PM
ersonally, two or three blocks away, I wouldn't have a problem with anyone building any church there. Something isn't right, with what this group is trying to push and achieve. If they really were about coming together, they wouldn't be pushing this, and Honestly, the President has once again shown where his head and heart is.
Who owns the land? If the organization that wants to build the Mosque owns the land, THEY OWN THE LAND. If the Mosque isn't violating any building codes, they have a right to build it ON THE LAND THAT THEY OWN.
Personally, I think it's as obnoxious as hell for them to build there. But then, putting that big power plant next to Morro rock was as obnoxious as hell too.
So, unless you're seriously telling me that the community has a veto on what I choose to build on my effing land, and that community sentiment should be enough to stop a development that I, as the OWNER, feel entitled to build because, hey, I HOLD TITLE TO THE LAND, then y'all should just put a plug in it.
You keep up with this line of argument and you will wind up justifying every envrionmentalist intervention in every project that has ever been stopped. But hey, y'all know what's right, now doncha!
AceOfSpace
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Tired of the real false reporting!!!!!
Posted: 8/10/2010 5:35:26 PM
Oh yes, that majority's vote *is* a tricky little detail--I mean the Court's said forever that voting's the most fundamental right of all. And if the courts could nullify our votes at will, what would they be worth? But, where there's a will to power . . . uh, I mean a will--there's a way. After all, the Court found a way to tell 70+ percent of Coloradans their votes meant nothing when it struck down their constitutional amendment in Romer. And Judge Walker decreed that a majority of Californians had no right to their votes, either.
That's correct. I don't care how many of you there are, you can't vote away someone else's rights. No majority of any size or demeanor has that right. One of those rights is equal protection under the law. And where marriage is concerned, a fundamental right, it is the Court's job to determine whether or not there is a rational basis for the Prop. 8 ban. And if there is no rational basis for denying equal protection to gay couples, then it simply doesn't matter how many people want the ban, or how long such a ban has been in place, or what the Founders thought about morality. Rights trump morals too.
AceOfSpace
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Prop 8
Posted: 8/10/2010 1:24:20 PM
fear was that over time the federal govt would accumulate power and subjugate the States. Even the limited powers conferred to the federal govt put the States at a disadvantage which over time would diminish their status.
No, we ceded power over to the Federal Government when we voted for the income tax. With that much money at its disposal, an amount far in excess of that of all the states put together I'm sure, it was just a matter of time. Our great grandparents were idiots for giving the Feds the means.
AceOfSpace
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Prop 8
Posted: 8/10/2010 1:21:23 PM
According to Mr. Jefferson, states have to right to nullify unconstitutional laws.
Sounds good to me. What is the procedure through which such nullifications can be carried out? Apparently, secession from the Union wasn't it.
AceOfSpace
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Tired of the real false reporting!!!!!
Posted: 8/10/2010 1:18:07 PM
If it is an issue, it is for the States to decide just as they decide laws pertaining to marriages which by definition is between a man and a woman.
By whose definition? That's the nice thing about languages. They evolve. Words that had one meaning at one time can come to mean something much more inclusive as sensibilities become more enlightened.
AceOfSpace
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Tired of the real false reporting!!!!!
Posted: 8/10/2010 1:15:37 PM
The state only got involved as a means of legal issue to resolve disputes.
Yep. And when there are legitimate disputes, rights are involved. Which rights? The right to inherit property. The right to spousal and child support. The right to act as next of kin. Parental rights. All those rights and responsibilities that comprise family law. Those disputes are legal matters that arise from the contract of marriage.
The only role that a church has in marriage is to deem it either sanctified or not as far as its membership is concerned, and only so far as its membership is concerned. No church can speak for society as a whole, and no combination of churches can either. The only body that can speak for the society as a whole is the electorate, and they are subject to the social contract which means that all but one of us may not violate that one individual's rights--by vote or other means.
The Court is a check on the power of the majority, and whenever you rail against a Court for going against the will of the electorate, you confirm that it is doing its job.
AceOfSpace
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Tired of the real false reporting!!!!!
Posted: 8/10/2010 1:08:37 PM
The issue, which seems to escape you, is whether legalizing homosexual marriage in every state will inevitably force them all to legalize polygamy, too. I don't think there's any reasonable basis for treating various forms of marriage which have never been legal in this country differently. As far as I know, neither do the experts in constitutional law.
If there is no rational basis for a ban on polygamy, then there is no good reason to ban it. If there is a rational basis for such a ban, then there is good reason to ban it. So make the case for the ban and we're done.
But if you can't, what's the big tragedy in allowing people to fully exercise their right to freely associate as they wish?
AceOfSpace
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Prop 8
Posted: 8/5/2010 6:19:34 PM
Good grief. There are issues of substance here. Is this the best you can do Paul?
Sure, patience gets short. But the _legal_ purpose of marriage is to safeguard inheritance rights, rights to support, and the rights of next of kin to decide on medical and legal matters on behalf of family members who are incapacitated. I just don't see where the sex of the parties has anything to do with those contracts or the laws that govern them. So please tell me why I'm so stupid. But if you just tell me or imply that I'm stupid because this is how I see it and leave it at that, ... well, ... that would be just plain stupid of you.
Near as I can tell, there is no _moral_ justification for telling other consenting adults who they can and cannot marry. Can you name me one that isn't based on, "because God says so?" If that's all you've got, I'm afraid that we can no longer accept that as a _legal_ justification. Actually, I don't think we ever really could because of the Establishment clause. But then, there is a lot of nonsense that people have put up with over the millenia because they thought God said to. The divine right of Kings was one of those crazy religious ideas, now, wasn't it?
Oh yeah. I know that the Bible quotes God as saying that homosexuality is an abomination. But from a legal standpoint, all I can say is this: so what?
AceOfSpace
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Prop 8
Posted: 8/4/2010 5:27:15 PM
Because Capernicus was right, that _proves_ that all scientists before or after him are always right too. That sorta knocks the whole footing right out from under the whole rest of the rant.
Been away for a while, but I can't believe you could make such a silly rejoinder. The scientific _method_ has proven itself to be a reliable means of assessing the truth with respect to statements of fact. Religious faith has not.
If you want to trust your ass to a bridge built on a wing and a prayer, be my guest. For myself, I'll go with the one built by a licensed engineer. Just sayin'
AceOfSpace
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Healthcare...and sound reverent guidance at only $6.66
Posted: 8/3/2010 10:44:36 AM
The claim that respecting and insisting on the rule of law is a sign of bigotry or an urge to oppress anyone doesn't deserve any response, except that it's a cheap, irrational insult.
Not necessarily. There have been plenty of precedents of people using a procedural interpretation to mask an elitist/racist agenda. After a century of Jim Crow and "separate but equal," we all have a right to be suspicious of the motives of those who claim a strict interpretation that might well violate the spirit of the Constitution--which was to guarantee the supremacy of individual rights over government powers and equal regard over prejudice (hence the Establishment clause, freedom of association, etc.)
To refuse to be accountable for one's motives is prima facie evidence that they are ulterior, and you know it. There is nothing insulting at all about being asked to account for your motives. And if you take it that way, others have a right to wonder what you're hiding from yourself as much as from them.
So, whenver take an action that has the effect of disenfranchising someone already in an already vulnerable position, you have an obligation to be accountable for your motives. It is not enough to say that you are just following the law. Lots of good Germans did that.
There are all sorts of ways to follow the law. And one way is to engage in the lawful means of changing laws that create disproportionate hardships.
AceOfSpace
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Big Gun Rights Decision
Posted: 7/12/2010 4:13:22 PM
Leftists claim to care about the have-nots and consider themselves morally superior because of it, while in fact they oppress those very people. But why should it matter if you're screwing people over, as long as you can feel warm, caring, and noble doing it?
Especially when you can justify it via "caveat emptor," "free market compettition," and "I earned every penny."
Just pointing out that rationalization for oppressing others can take a variety of forms. It still amounts to the same thing. I get to feel superior at the expense of another's well-being.
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Thanks to all who have protected us
Posted: 7/4/2010 8:57:55 AM
HEY!
All of you idiots on both "sides."
KNOCK IT OFF.
Shut the hell up for a minute and remember who and what we are. It's too easy to get carried away by positions and stories. I'm looking out for your rights. Do me a favor and keep looking out for mine, willya?
You and I might see threats or encroachments coming from different quarters. So be it. As long as I know that you'll jump in to cover me from the directions you care about, I'll be able to do a better job of covering you from the directions I care about.
That's really all there is to it. George II looked like a bad problem to some of us. Obama looks like a bad problem to others. So let's keep talking, but let's do it with a bit more respect, OK? ... Good.
All those good men and women who died for our nation didn't sacrifice so that we could bicker like spoiled little brats.
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Our New President
Posted: 6/30/2010 10:34:01 PM
Obama doesn't have the right to kneel, lie down, chew gum, pick his nose, or shine the shoes of the Japanese head of state.
Ahem. Of course he does. However, in his role as President, he has a responsibility not to.
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Our New President
Posted: 6/29/2010 12:00:12 PM
No one thing made jihadist ideas spread, any more than any one thing caused Fascism and Communism and Nazism to become mass movements early in the 20th century.
You make it out as though these were simply phenomena of nature and not part of a historical context and process. There might not be a single cause, but there are certainly conditions that led to the rise of both, and of the current rise of militant Islamism as well.
Your point that we are engaged in a war against unconventional forces is well taken. A counterinsurgency strategy must take into account the drivers of militancy, and the dispute over territory between Israelis and Palestinians is a symbolic driver. That's why the settlement activity is so provocative and damaging. How much less support could militants in Afghanistan expect if the population wasn't already stirred up by stories of apparent bad faith. I know, I know, I know. Israel is doing what it feels it has to do to survive. And up to a point, I agree with that. But not when it comes to new settlements. That's just fanning the fire. Friends don't put friends at greater risk just to show that they are right.
AceOfSpace
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Another day, another stained dress
Posted: 6/29/2010 11:50:17 AM
Face it man you guys elected a fraud, a ideological, fuzzy thinking, leftist, incompetent.
Yep. Just after you elected a fraud, ideological, fuzzy-thinking, misguided incompetent and his Dad's corrupt and nasty hatchet man ... twice.
Between the two parties, we're screwed. So yeah, tea partiers, I now feel a common cause with you to wrest control of the government out of the hands of the corporate contributors if you can. Good luck!
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Our New President
Posted: 6/24/2010 1:40:30 PM
And this is precisely what we libertarians have been saying from the get-go about government regulations. They cannot and do not protect people. They simply create the false appearance of protection, lulling people into a false sense of security until disaster strikes.
Of course, President Obama can’t bring himself to admit the fundamental failure of public (i.e., government) ownership and government regulations. Instead, he circumvents America’s judicial process and adds fuel to the Gulf fire by seizing the crisis to become a modern-day, democratically elected American dictator.
Well, I guess we should just leave road construction up to the unsupervised discretion of the contractors who build them.
Please.
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Our New President
Posted: 6/24/2010 1:03:02 PM
Well, I'm not one of those who wants us out of Afghanistan no matter what. I want us to get bin Laden and the gang and bring them to justice. Then I want us to get out.
Back during the 2nd Gulf War, Patreus advocated the surge. We who were against that war did not want to see it escalated. We suspected him of being an empire builder along with Dubya.
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Plug that damn hole!
Posted: 6/24/2010 12:44:10 PM
The rule of law means nothing to a person like that, and neither do facts or logic.
Please.
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Another day, another stained dress
Posted: 6/24/2010 12:41:01 PM
Check it out, it's even got a stained dress.
Wow. And you regard yourself as a critical thinker? This takes the idea of confirmation bias to new lows. I'll believe anything, no matter how feeble, if it will make X look bad.
What a maroon!
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Robbing Peter to Pay Paul
Posted: 6/22/2010 10:44:22 PM
Whether there is a legitimate government interest in the rich man's coat collection has to do with how he got it. If he got it through the operation of a monopoly or other anticompetititive means, perhaps his title is illegitimate. If he got it through corruption, his claim is certainly illegitimate. If he got it by offshoring the job that the pauper used to have, his claim is mighty questionable if you ask me.
OTOH, if the pauper drank away all of his wealth or otherwise put himself in that position, no one should be compelled to enable him. But what if both situaitons are true--foolish pauper and crooked mogul? And what if neither are true? The pauper is deserving and the mogul is legit. In that case, it's a bad day for the pauper, but also for the mogul, because he'll have to live with his decision to be stingy.
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Plug that damn hole!
Posted: 6/22/2010 10:35:55 PM
How did we end up with some many stupid fellow citizens?
We keep teaching them what to think instead of how to think. That happens on both sides of the aisle.
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Should we stop people from doing drugs?
Posted: 6/16/2010 2:15:12 PM
That's your claim. My claim is that they protected a woman's right to control her own body, a right that you don't deny. I agree that it would have been much cleaner if they'd phrased it that way, instead of in terms of privacy. But even if they got the rationale wrong, the conclusion that the state has no legitimate interest in the first trimester or so is absolutely right.
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Another obama supporter speaks her mind........
Posted: 6/16/2010 2:12:16 PM
And yet Mr. Holder ( like his master in the White House) wants to give Khalid Shaikh Mohammed, the sadistic piece of trash who cut off a screaming Daniel Pearl's head on camera, for the crime of being a Jew--after he'd masterminded the murder and vaporization of almost three thousand American civilians on 9/11, a full trial in a U.S. court in New York. No law even comes close to requiring that, or ever has. Any American who defends that bull can take their cup of latte and stick it where the sun never shines.
Well, no. Everyone, no matter how unpopular or evil, is entitled to due process when accused of a crime. Even Khalid Shaikh Mohammed. The trial is not for his benefit, it is for the benefit of the rest of us. It is to assure us that none of us will ever be summarily executed, held captive, or tortured for a trumped-up charge.
If he's being charged with a war crime, a military tribunal with full public access is sufficient. If he's being charged with murder, than a trial is in order.
I don't care how much you hate him, you can't compromise his rights because of the even worse precedent that it would set.
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The role of the federal courts is to adjudicate whether or not the laws of the various states meet Constitutional muster......................
Paul K
Isn't that exactly what they did in Roe v. Wade?
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An interesting take: http://scienceagogo.com/news/20100516000057data_trunc_sys.shtml
16 June 2010
Study suggests the war on drugs might really be a war on sex
by Kate Melville
Why is there so much heated argument about whether the use of recreational drugs is morally wrong? A new University of Pennsylvania study suggests that the debate about drugs might really be about sex.
Published in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, the new study compared two competing theories about illicit drugs. Traditional theory holds that drug attitudes stem primarily from people's political ideology, level of religious commitment, and personality; for example, their openness to experience. The new theory, proposed by the researchers and driven by ideas from evolutionary psychology, holds that drug attitudes are really driven by people's reproductive strategies.
When the Penn researchers questioned almost 1,000 people in two subject populations (undergraduate students and Internet users) a clear winner emerged between the competing theories: differences in reproductive strategies are driving individuals' different views on recreational drugs.
Researcher Robert Kurzban said that while many factors predict to some extent whether people are opposed to recreational drugs, the most closely related predictors are people's views on sexual promiscuity. "This provides evidence that views on sex and views on drugs are very closely related," he explained. "If you were to measure people's political ideology, religiosity and personality characteristics, you can predict to some degree how people feel about recreational drugs. But if, instead, you just measure how people feel about casual sex, and ignore the abstract items, the predictions about people's views on drugs in fact become quite a bit better."
Somewhat controversially, the study also concludes that considering morality from the standpoint of strategic reproductive interests is a potentially useful way to understand why humans care about third-party behavior.
According to the researchers' evolutionary model, people develop complex differences in their sexual and reproductive strategies. One key difference that creates strategic conflict arises in people's orientations towards casual sexual activity. The relationships of people following a more committed, monogamous reproductive strategy are put at greater risk when casual sex is prevalent. On the other hand, people pursuing a less committed lifestyle seek to avoid having their choices moralized, forbidden and punished.
The researchers cite previous studies showing that recreational drug usage is often associated with promiscuity. This, they say, implies that attitudes against recreational drugs are part of a larger attempt to advance the cause of committed, monogamous reproductive strategies.
"Condemnation of drug usage might be best understood in the context of strategic dynamics, with individuals influencing moral rules in a way that favors their own competitive reproductive strategies," Kurzban said. "We expect that this relationship between sexual strategy and moral stances will occur in other areas as well, such as attitudes toward prostitution, sexual education or abortion."
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Posted: 6/16/2010 12:38:07 PM
That might be a much better approach. I suspect the energy required to convert the coal to methanol would be less than to electrolize water, but I'm not sure. Gasification would also make it much easier to recover the sulfur and heavy-metal impurities embedded in the coal, so that's a win all around.
Google has contracted with a fuel-cell company to test some new technology. One step in a very good direction.
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Posted: 6/16/2010 12:31:46 PM
In general, I like your analysis. The only sticking point I have with it is this: What happens when a state systematically violates the rights of its citizens or a certain group of citizens? What is the role of the federal government and the federal courts when it comes to protecting the rights of U.S. citizens in such cases?
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Posted: 6/16/2010 12:11:41 PM
Here is an interesting, and no doubt controversial, excerpt from an article entitled "Theses on Sustainability," by Eric Zencey, in Orion Magazine. (http://www.orionmagazine.org/index.php/articles/article/5502)
THAT A DISTINCTION can usefully be drawn between wants and needs seems obvious. Mainstream economics, however, refuses to countenance such a distinction. (Marxist economics does, which, from the viewpoint of an ecologically enlightened economics, is one of the few ways in which it is distinguishable from its neoclassical alternative.) The work of Wilfred Pareto was crucial to this refusal. His contribution to economic theory marks a turning point in the evolution (some would say devolution) of nineteenth-century political economy into the highly mathematized discipline of economics as we know it today. Pareto’s novel idea: because satisfactions and pleasures are subjective—because no one among us can say with certainty, “I like ice cream more than you do”—there is no rational way to compare the degree of pleasure that different people will gain by satisfying desires. All we can do is assert that if an economic arrangement satisfies more human wants, it is objectively better than an arrangement that satisfies fewer human wants. This seems commonsensical until we unpack that caveat “all we can do.” An economic arrangement achieves Pareto Optimality if, within it, no one can be made better off (in his own estimation) without making someone else worse off (in her own estimation). Economic science, in its desire to be grounded on rational, objective principles, thus concludes that were we to take a dollar from a billionaire and give it to a starving man to buy food, we can’t know for certain that we have improved the sum total of human satisfaction in the world. For all we know, the billionaire might derive as much pleasure from the expenditure of his billionth dollar as would a starving man spending a dollar on food. All we can do—all!—is promote the growth of income; and if we care about that starving man, we must work to produce two dollars’ worth of goods where before there was only one, so that both the billionaire and the starving man can satisfy their wants.
If Pareto optimality is based on an incorrect assumption, might not the entire edifice of qauntitative economic analysis be skewed?
Here is one way to distinguish between needs and wants. If a need is not met, something bad will happen. If a want is not met, something good might not happen.
Did Pareto oversimplify?
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Posted: 6/16/2010 2:30:20 AM
So you are saying that in order to have fun
and celebrate one has to use an incredible amount
of energy and release equal incredible amounts of pollution ?
Not at all. What I'm saying is that all things considered, this concert might have been a good investment despite the costs.
But I'll go along with you. If you'll talk your buddies into foregoing all the 2-stroke personal watercraft, snowmobiles, and ATVs that do such incredible damage and pollute so fiercely, I'll talk all mine into forgoing future concerts like this.
Deal?
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Posted: 6/16/2010 2:16:53 AM
What's wrong with renewable resources?
Nothing, except for the fact that there's not nearly enough of them to match our current rate of consumption. I'd be shocked if we could support a tenth of our current level of transportation and temperature control with the theoretically possible supply of renewable liquid fuel.
Someone mentioned hydrogen earlier, but it's a red herring too. To get hydrogen, you have to electrolize water. The fuel it takes to run the generators might just as well be spent running vehicles. Well, OK. So if it's coal or nuclear, you're converting a solid fuel into a liquid (gaseous) one, but it will take an awful lot. Coal will still be filthy and nuclear waste will still be building up. And, the electrolysis plants needed to make even a slight dent in our demand for liquid fuel will overload our generating capacity, and quite possibly, the carrying capacity of the entire grid.
The lives our grandchildren will lead are likely to be significantly different than the lives we are living. What are we doing to prepare them to succeed?
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Posted: 6/16/2010 2:08:51 AM
I said that I had *not* heard any of those stories of oppression.
It would take a singular act of will not to have heard about the difficulties women faced in looking after themselves and their children after a divorce in the 50s and 60s.
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Posted: 6/15/2010 4:09:28 PM
You keep repeating this, and you keep looking increasingly stupid each time.
Fundamentalists behave the same way no matter what their religion. There are Hindus and Muslims in India who are both committed violent acts to suppress interfaith dating.
Not all Muslims are fundamentalists, and the two major sects of Islam are in perpetual conflict. Do you have a point that you're trying to make here or are you just flailing?
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Posted: 6/15/2010 4:05:04 PM
Where did you get that--from a film by Michael Moore or Oliver Stone, or some other leftist propaganda about what a terribly restricting place America always was until the blessed, liberating 1960's?
How about the stories I heard from my own mother?
When you dismiss the stories of oppression that you hear like that, you set yourself up for a fall.
Just go back and take a listen to Diana Ross singing "Love Child" for a little reminder of how it was.
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Posted: 6/15/2010 4:01:58 PM
Hmm ... I just poo poo'd this suspicion in another thread. However, Match, I do appreciate you for keeping an eye out for just this sort of threat.
We should all be doing so. And, we should all be keeping an eye on people who might use scare tactics to bamboozle us into letting them raid the treasury.
Just sayin'
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Posted: 6/15/2010 3:57:29 PM
Well here's the thing, Dave.
Perhaps the biggest slam on environmentalists over the years has been that we're all just killjoys. Agnew called us, "nagging nabobs of negativism" back in the day, and 'yall still feel that way.
So, when we decide we want to do something fun to celebrate our common cause--which BTW will benefit your grandkids immensely if we're even halfway right--we're spendthrifts. You only look at whatever you can find that makes us look negative. But you don't see all the recycling, reuse, conservation, etc., that might actually more than offset the resources consumed by the concert. So what do you want? Fun or no fun?
Actually what you'd like is for us just to go away so that you can ski-doo your way into oblivion. We're all just a bunch of spendthrift hypocrites who want to take you toys and your freedoms away because we're too stupid to see that we're just being manipulated by those ever-so-clever commies, who are now in cahoots with the Muslims, all of whom want nothing more than to do us all in.
Please.
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Posted: 6/15/2010 3:27:50 PM
Ya know, he had this concert a year or two ( or three) ago
for global warming/climate change but you never heard just how
much pollution ( footprint) was generated by his pony show.
If the concert reached a few million people, and each of the cut back their unnecessary consumption even a tiny bit each day, over time the return on that investment of energy would be gigantic.
Next!
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Posted: 6/15/2010 3:24:27 PM
Ace how long have you been unclear about the legitimate functions of government?
And how long have you remained willfully ignorant about other legitimate functions of government even from a libertarian standpoint? How about firefighting? How about regulation of financial markets to prevent fraud and the irreprable harm that comes from it?
I know. You have your story and you're sticking to it. I'm actually fine with that. But rather than tell it in a responsible way, you make out as if you know far more than you actually do, and are far wiser than you actually are. And the saddest part is that you actually appear to believe it.
If the enlightened self interest of your beloved corporate leaderships isn't enough to forestall a socialist apocalypse, then that is what will come. As long as you insist that no regulation is good regulation, that's the risk you run. All of the reforms that came after the Great Depression were put in place to reduce the risk of an eventual communist uprising, you idiot. Why would you ever want to take them down?
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Posted: 6/15/2010 3:15:23 PM
Advice to those who are waiting for permission from the Feds to protect their shores. If you are waiting, you are a fool. Do what you have to do NOW, before it gets worse.
Yep. And that includes effectively lobbying for better safety standards for existing rigs and a halt to new ones until we get the problems worked out. We don't even know the extent of the damage long term from this leak. The next one will lkely be worse.
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Posted: 6/15/2010 5:40:38 AM
Government go fix a pothole, make schools work, you really aren't bright enough to be involved in strategy.
Does that apply to military strategy too?
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Posted: 6/15/2010 5:32:04 AM
My dear, what else could you possibly expect from a title like that?
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Posted: 6/15/2010 5:27:56 AM
Feds under pressure to open US skies to drones
Joan Lowy, Associated Press Writer – 25 mins ago
WASHINGTON – Unmanned aircraft have proved their usefulness and reliability in the war zones of Afghanistan and Iraq. Now the pressure's on to allow them in the skies over the United States.
The Federal Aviation Administration has been asked to issue flying rights for a range of pilotless planes to carry out civilian and law-enforcement functions but has been hesitant to act. Officials are worried that they might plow into airliners, cargo planes and corporate jets that zoom around at high altitudes, or helicopters and hot air balloons that fly as low as a few hundred feet off the ground.
On top of that, these pilotless aircraft come in a variety of sizes. Some are as big as a small airliner, others the size of a backpack. The tiniest are small enough to fly through a house window.
The obvious risks have not deterred the civilian demand for pilotless planes. Tornado researchers want to send them into storms to gather data. Energy companies want to use them to monitor pipelines. State police hope to send them up to capture images of speeding cars' license plates. Local police envision using them to track fleeing suspects.
Like many robots, the planes have advantages over humans for jobs that are dirty, dangerous or dull. And the planes often cost less than piloted aircraft and can stay aloft far longer.
"There is a tremendous pressure and need to fly unmanned aircraft in (civilian) airspace," Hank Krakowski, FAA's head of air traffic operations, told European aviation officials recently. "We are having constant conversations and discussions, particularly with the Department of Defense and the Department of Homeland Security, to figure out how we can do this safely with all these different sizes of vehicles."
There are two types of unmanned planes: Drones, which are automated planes programmed to fly a particular mission, and aircraft that are remotely controlled by someone on the ground, sometimes from thousands of miles away.
Last year, the FAA promised defense officials it would have a plan this year. The agency, which has worked on this issue since 2006, has reams of safety regulations that govern every aspect of civilian aviation but is just beginning to write regulations for unmanned aircraft.
"I think industry and some of the operators are frustrated that we're not moving fast enough, but safety is first," Krakowski said in an interview. "This isn't Afghanistan. This isn't Iraq. This is a part of the world that has a lot of light airplanes flying around, a lot of business jets."
One major concern is the prospect of lost communication between unmanned aircraft and the operators who remotely control them. Another is a lack of firm separation of aircraft at lower altitudes, away from major cities and airports. Planes entering these areas are not required to have collision warning systems or even transponders. Simply being able to see another plane and take action is the chief means of preventing accidents.
The Predator B, already in use for border patrol, can fly for 20 hours without refueling, compared with a helicopter's average flight time of just over two hours. Homeland Security wants to expand their use along the borders of Mexico and Canada, and along coastlines for spotting smugglers of drugs and illegal aliens. The Coast Guard wants to use them for search and rescue.
The National Transportation Safety Board held a forum in 2008 on safety concerns associated with pilotless aircraft after a Predator crashed in Arizona. The board concluded the ground operator remotely controlling the plane had inadvertently cut off the plane's fuel.
Texas officials, including Gov. Rick Perry, Sens. Kay Bailey Hutchison and John Cornyn, and Rep. Henry Cuellar, have been leaning on the FAA to approve requests to use unmanned aircraft along the Texas-Mexico border. FAA recently approved one request to use the planes along the border near El Paso, but another request to use them along the Texas Gulf Coast and near Brownsville is still pending.
Homeland Security Secretary Janet Napolitano has told lawmakers that safety concerns are behind the delays. Cornyn is blocking a Senate confirmation vote on President Barack Obama's nominee for the No. 2 FAA job, Michael Huerta, to keep the pressure on.
Other lawmakers want an overall plan to speed up use of the planes beyond the border. A bill approved by the Senate gives FAA a year to come up with a plan; a House version extends the deadline until Sept. 30, 2013, but directs the transportation secretary to give unmanned aircraft permission to fly before the plan is complete, if that can be done safely.
Marion Blakey, a former FAA administrator and president of the Aerospace Industries Association, whose members include unmanned aircraft developers, said the agency has been granting approvals on a case by case basis but the pace is picking up. She acknowledged that there are still safety concerns that need to be addressed before the planes can be used more widely.
Some concerns will be alleviated when the FAA moves from a radar-based air traffic control system to one based on GPS technology. Then, every aircraft will be able to advise controllers and other aircraft of their location continually. However, that's a decade off.
Michael Barr, a University of Southern California aviation safety instructor, said the matter should not be rushed.
"All it takes is one catastrophe," Barr said. "They'll investigate, find they didn't do it correctly, there'll be an outcry and it will set them back years."
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Posted: 6/14/2010 4:10:10 PM
Expanded covert operations under Obama.
Any comments, conservatives?
http://www.michaelmoore.com/words/latest-news/us-secret-war-expands-globally-special-operations-forces-take-larger-role
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