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justoffnormal

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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral Posted: 9/8/2009 10:40:32 AM
Stupid question. Some do, some don't.

justoffnormal

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 9/9/2008 3:23:08 PM
OH MY GOD YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

justoffnormal

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Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 8/20/2008 11:02:00 AM
I was married to one I now suspect had BPD then recently dated one who was later formally diagnosed. Guess I have a bad picker. Anyway, they were both rollercoasters. They would love you and say you're the perfect person one moment then hate you with the heat of a thousand suns the next. I let the recent one move in with me because she was getting evicted from her apartment. Finally had to kick her out and she ended up sleeping on my patio over New Years Eve (I wasn't home). Then she moved in with an old boyfriend and she's been leaching off him for a year now. At different times she'd threaten to call the police and allege domestic violence (that's when I kicked her out - I walked straight across the hall, got a witness that she was okay and called the police to keep the peace while she got her shit out). All kinds of crazy stuff.

justoffnormal

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Learning about a new guys genital piercings. Posted: 8/12/2008 11:11:52 AM
My PA is only a 6 guage 3/4 inch. My girlfriend loves it. She says she can feel it but likes it. It was initially pierced at 10 guage. I remember being surprised at how little it hurt when I got it but then I used to be a rodeo cowboy so I've got a high pain threshold to go with my brain damage.

justoffnormal

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PORN INSTEAD OF SEX Posted: 8/12/2008 10:47:15 AM
She was standing at the load-in When the trucks rolled up She was sniffing all around Like a half grown female pup She wasnt hard to talk to Looked like she had nowhere to go So I gave her my pass So she could get in and see the show Well I sat her down right next to me And I got her a beer While I mixed that sound on stage So the band could hear The more I watched her watch them play The less I could think of to say And when they walked off stage The drummer swept that girl away But rosie youre all right -- you wear my ring When you hold me tight -- rosie thats my thing When you turn out the light -- Ive got to hand it to me Looks like its me and you again tonight rosie Well I guess I might have known from the start Shed come for a star Might have told my imagination not to run too far Of all the times that Ive been burned By now youd think Id have learned That its who you look like Not who you are But rosie youre all right -- you wear my ring When you hold me tight -- rosie thats my thing When you turn out the light -- Ive got to hand it to me Looks like its me and you again tonight rosie Thanks to Jackson Browne

justoffnormal

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Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 8/12/2008 9:42:47 AM
I dated a woman who didn't like it. She thought the natural flora of the mouth were not compatible with the natural flora of the vagina. Then I found out she was a total germ freak. At the end of the day it didn't work out because she was nuts. Turns out she had something called "borderline personality disorder." Now I use do you or do you not like to receive oral sex as a litmus test.

justoffnormal

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Can I get into a physical relationship with my erectile dysfunction? Posted: 8/5/2008 9:53:13 AM
It depends on the woman I suppose but there are plenty of parapalegics who have found love. Now, a question. You've tried injections like Trimix and they didn't work. Sometimes they don't work because the injection wasn't quite done right. I'd try again but whatever you do don't go to Boston Medical Group. It's a total rip off. Go to a regular urologist. For the price of a $30 co-pay they will get you the same thing Boston Medical Group will charge you $1,800 for. Besides, the best thing about the injectible is that you are hard for an hour and can keep going as long as she wants.

justoffnormal

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Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 8/5/2008 9:46:54 AM
Maybe something is wrong with me but I couldn't live without it. I've only had one relationship where a woman didn't like receiving oral and she had some freaky germ thing. She thought she get an infection if your mouth touched her there. My current girlfirend wants oral all the time. She wakes me up several nights a week and starts stuff up just so I'll do it. Takes a while too because she is gifted with the ability to squirt and have multiple orgasms so it goes on as long as I am willing and I hate to disappoint! But, quite honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way.

justoffnormal

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guys, women who squirt.... Posted: 8/5/2008 9:41:30 AM
I'm just going to reiterate from a male perspective: It doesn't get any better than when a woman squirts and has multiple orgasms. Sure you have to change the sheets a lot. So what. As Tin Cup says, "let 'er go, let 'er rip, let the big dog eat!"

justoffnormal

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strap ons 101 Posted: 7/7/2008 12:17:35 PM
My ex was obsessed with doing this along with other forms of female domination. She got off on it and I thought it was fine. If she hadn't been so psycho in other ways, we'd still be doing it. Go for it.

justoffnormal

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I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her Posted: 7/1/2008 3:04:15 PM
So now you have to police your brass AND police your condoms.

justoffnormal

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Can you be to wet? Posted: 7/1/2008 2:38:29 PM
NEVER! NEVER! NEVER!

justoffnormal

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guys, women who squirt.... Posted: 7/1/2008 2:29:47 PM
I've been with a girl who squirts twice in my life and the second is my current gf of 6 months. Not only does she squirt, a lot, but she wants it frequently. We have sex almost every day and she wakes me up most nights or early mornings asking me to eat her. We do have to change the sheets 3 times a week and had to buy a special matress pad but I'm telling you guys I cannot get enough of her either. I just love the fact that I know absolutely when she comes (she actually squirts just as her orgasm starts). And I love that she has multiple orgasms readily so she doesn't have that "Don't touch my clit" reaction immediately after she comes. She just kind of moves from one orgasm to the next. I absolutely love it when she grabs the back of my head and does her best to pull me into her. Totally amazing! I think I'll marry her. No joke.

justoffnormal

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Ever Heard of a smoking fetish? Posted: 6/26/2008 4:12:37 PM
Very hot indeed. But not heavy smokers. Just once in a while in fantasy play

justoffnormal

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ladder piercing/ Prince Albert Posted: 6/25/2008 5:13:43 PM
I have a PA. I've had it for 4 years. I was nervous to tell my girlfriend about it because she seemed very conservative but I finally did and she couldn't wait to see it. Now she loves it. I don't know anything about the ladder though.

justoffnormal

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Learning about a new guys genital piercings. Posted: 6/25/2008 5:05:29 PM
I have a prince albert with a CBR. I didn't bring it up until it was clear that we were going to have sex, then I made it clear I could take it out if it freaked her. I must say, she was intrigued. Now she loves it and says it gives added sensation that she really likes.

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/25/2008 5:00:24 PM
Thanks for the input. It wen't great. We are still learning about each other (and ourselves). It was all pretty tame but she loved it. Thanks again those of you who gave serious input. Can't thank you enough.

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/19/2008 1:39:44 PM
The point of that discussion was that she doesn't really know what she wants, had no idea what her own drive and responsiveness was and neither did I. We were friends for a long time and she is very different now from whom she was until relatively recently so the whole "asking her what she wants" thing isn't as useful as it might otherwise be. And, in fact, the whole multi-orgasmic, squirting thing is by far the hottest thing that has ever happened to me so maybe I did go on a little too much. Point taken, constructive criticism accepted. Nevertheless, the question remains honest and sincere and I very much appreciate all comments and suggestions.

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/19/2008 12:48:09 PM
It is fascinating to me that 3/4 have voted to delete this thread as trolling or attention getting. I'm dead serious about this. But, so be it. I had hoped for honest ideas, input concerning her desire to be dominated to one degree or another in light of past actual abuse by others. Hmm. Oh well.

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/19/2008 12:45:24 PM
Any women out there have any insights on how to deal with desire to be dominated versus her actual memories of abuse by ex husband?

justoffnormal

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How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 6/19/2008 12:19:13 PM
She's gotta use her hand with her mouth.

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/19/2008 12:12:21 PM
Well the squirting and orgasm thing is just about how much she has discovered that she likes sex and how little she knew, and knows, about her own sexuality. I mean I knew her for years, while she was still married, and we have mutual friends that have known her for years. She didn't like sex at all with her ex husband and she had almost no experience other than with him. We started dating like six months ago and now she wants it all the time and I'd like very much to make her happy. I've talked to her about what she likes but she'll just say things like: "I like everything you do." I don't think she even knows what she likes. She actually thought that there was something wrong with her and that she couldn't have orgasms until we started exploring together.

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/19/2008 12:01:13 PM
Oh, by the way, her ex husband of many years was a total jerk and actually raped her a couple of times which kind of freaks me out because I don't want to trigger some kind of reaction to that. On the other hand, she rarely had orgasms with him and has become extremely orgasmic. Now she has multiple orgasms, squirts like crazy and could seriously have orgasm after orgasm for hours. Any women out there have any thoughts on the situation?

justoffnormal

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Okay, serious question, Girlfriend wants to be my love slave tonight Posted: 6/19/2008 11:48:27 AM
I'll be honest - I'm pretty normal but to the extent I have a fetish, it is to be dominated by the female. Having said that, my girlfriend has indicated that she wants to be dominated sometimes, like tonight. She's pretty normal too, though. Since to the extent I've fantasized about domination and submission it's been mostly about being dominated rather than being dominant, I don't really have any idea what she has in mind. I will say that she does like to be spanked sometimes and when she gets spanked she gets very wet (I mean gushing and squirting wet). On the other hand, she's pretty tame in other ways. For example, once I was messing with her g-spot. She was squirting and carrying on but one of my fingers got near her anus and she made it clear she didn't want anything going on there. She didn't freak or anything and it didn't even slow things down. She just made it clear that wasn't her interest. So anybody got an serious thoughts or ideas about what she might have in mind or what my be fun in dominating her without freaking her out? I'd love to hear any ideas.

justoffnormal

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Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it Posted: 6/11/2008 10:52:53 AM
I've never run into this before my current girlfriend. All the women I've been with previously were more or less one shot deals, especially with oral. After an orgasm from oral they were too sensitive to touch. My current girlfriend is way different and we sort of learned about it by chance. She was married for 20 years and rarely had orgasms. When we first started dating, she had a very hard time reaching orgasm. She loved oral but just wouldn't orgasm. She did orgasm from intercourse. With time and lots of foreplay she started to get really wet. We really spent a lot of time on foreplay and we discovered her g-spot. That made her start gushing which initially freaked her out but she started having orgasms from oral as well as intercourse. Then we started reading about female ejaculation to make her relax and realize she was very lucky. Once she realized that I thought squirting was hot she just relaxed and she started having multiples. Now she can't get enough. I tease her that she is trying to make up for her 20 year dry spell. Sometimes I'll get home and kiss her and she'll start responding. We'll move to the bedroom and she'll have several orgasms from intercourse. I'll take my time and maybe I can have two orgasms, maybe even a third, but that's it for me. She's just getting started so I'll give her oral for a while and she'll have several more, squirting with most of them Finally, we'll fall asleep and sometime in the middle of the night I'll wake up and realize that she is spooning behind me rubbing her clit on my tailbone so I'll roll over and givce her oral some more and she'll have 4 or 5 more. Then we'll fall asleep for the night. It's the greatest but we do have to change the sheets several times a week.

justoffnormal

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 6/10/2008 2:47:51 PM
ABSOLUTELY THE GREATEST APHRODISIAC KNOWN TO MAN!!!!!!!!!! But then my ex always said that man have a special part of their brain devoted to love of the putrid.

justoffnormal

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How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 6/10/2008 2:44:28 PM
My girlfriend has multiple orgasms (and she squirts) and it sometimes goes on for an hour or more even after sex. Then, several nights a week I'll wake up because she's is spooning behind me and kind of humping on my tailbone and I'll roll over and do it some more. There is no time limit, thank God.

justoffnormal

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The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out! Posted: 6/10/2008 2:36:39 PM
My live in girlfriend is kind of like your guy. She orgasms extremely easily and ususually has multiples and she is almost always in the mood. We'll have wild sex, she'll have several orgasms during intercourse. Then I'm wiped out but she wants more so I go down on her and she has several more. Then we'll go to sleep, we'll be spooning and I'll wake up because she is sort of humping against my tailbone so I roll over and do some more oral until she cums a few more times. then when we wake up she wants more. She also squirts so we change the sheets 4 or 5 times a week. I'm not complaining at all. I totally love it. It's just a very similar situation. The only thing is that we can still do a quickie and move on to other stuff. It's just that when we get home she will definitely want the full treatment.

justoffnormal

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guys, women who squirt.... Posted: 5/2/2008 10:18:13 AM
I had to laugh last night because I just posted a reply yesterday then we had to get up and change the sheets before we could go to sleep last night! So sometimes their is a little extra work to do but it's absolutely worth it. Wish I could have 10 orgasms in a half hour like she does though! LOL.

justoffnormal

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guys, women who squirt.... Posted: 5/1/2008 5:35:40 PM
My girlfriend just discovered that she could squirt a month or so ago and it's the coolest thing ever! Now she want's it all the time. She woke me up twice last night kind of spooning against my tailbone. I'm not joking. It's wonderful.

justoffnormal

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SPANKING??!?!?!? Posted: 4/29/2008 1:21:25 PM
My GF asked me to spank her the other day so I did, not too hard, but she was so turned on when she rolled over she was dripping literally half way down her inner thigh. She often squirts but this was just running down her legs (and mine since she was over my knee). Safe to say she made me promise we'll do that again soon.

justoffnormal

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Sex when the woman is having her period. Posted: 4/24/2008 1:33:28 PM
My GF is extremely horny when she is having her period. In fact, we did it last night and she had several amazing orgasms (as did I).

justoffnormal

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How much fluid when females ejaculate and is it okay to swallow it Posted: 4/22/2008 9:21:52 AM
Okay, I have a serious follow-up question. First, thanks to all of you who took my question seriously because that's exactly how it was inteneded. Second, even if I swallow as much as I can, there is still enough overflow that a simple towel (even a giant beach towel folded four times) isn't enough to keep the sheets or mattress cover dry when she really gets going so I'm checking on waterproof mattress covers. Next, it's clearly not urine. I'm perfecty accepting of that because she completely empties her bladder before we start and it doesn't taste or smell like urine either when it comes out or even after it dries. In fact it's totally colorless after it dries. There isn't any evidence other than a very slight, almost not noticable smell something like (but not exactly like) sweat after it dries. Okay, the followup question: I thought that female ejaculation had something to do with the G-spot and, in fact, stimulating the G-spot is how we initially discovered the whole thing. Initially we noticed copius fluid from G-spot stimulation. Then we added stimulation of the clitoris and bam, she had her first ejaculation. It was all kind of by accident because, believe it or not, she almost never had orgasms from oral sex before we discovered this. She loved receiving oral, she just had a hard time having an orgasm. She thinks she had Catholic guilt or something and couldn't relax. In any event, we discovered massive lubrication from G-spot stimulation and always did it before clitoral stimulation which ultimately resulted in ejaculation. Now she has multiple orgasms from oral sex very easily, like within minutes of beginning (after other foreplay, of course). Recently, however, we don't even have to touch the G-spot. Within minutes after I start giving her oral she'll start having orgasms most of which are accompanied by ejaculation. So what is the deal? Is the G-spot tied to female ejaculation or not? I must admit, I'm pretty niave about all this but we both find it fascinating and WAY fun. Thanks for all the input.

justoffnormal

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How much fluid when females ejaculate and is it okay to swallow it Posted: 4/21/2008 11:04:46 AM
Okay, I've read every thread on female ejaculation/squirting and I promise this isn't redundant. It's an honest question. I've never even posted here before. My fiance and I just discovered female ejaculation. I'm on board that it isn't urine, okay. It' doesn't taste or smell like it and the consistency is different. But it does seem like quite a bit of fluid. I took human anatomy for a year in college and I sure can't figure out where that volume of fluid could be stored other than in the bladder so here are my questions: 1. For those you you who have experienced this, how much fluid is there usually (in our case it seems like 1/4 to 1/2 a cup with each squirt, there are usually 2-3 jets per orgasm) and she can have multiple orgasms pretty much as long as I stay down there - it occurs during oral sex after g spot stimulation) 2. Do most guys swallow it or what? Like I said, it usually happens with oral sex after or during g spot stimulation and just because of the anatomy or technique, the discharge is pretty much directly into my mouth and I've been swallowing most of it. 3. Nothing bad has happened so far but is there anything harmful in swallowing it? 4. Does anybody know where it comes from? Like I said, if she has 8 or 10 orgasms (not uncommon), there will be like a pint or more of the stuff. I certainly am not aware of any source of that volume of fluid other than the bladder but I'm quite certain it's not urine so what's up? Like I said, this is new to both of us and is a serious question so please try to answer like grown ups. Thanks for any info.

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