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 Author Thread: Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 212 (view)
 
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 6/1/2009 7:11:52 AM
Before I have actually had sex with the woman in question, I view lingerie as a mere obstacle I must tear through to get at what I want. To me, there is no substitute for a totally naked woman, nothing is hotter. She can put that stuff back on after I have had my way with her (in other words in between erections lol)
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 148 (view)
 
ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts?
Posted: 6/1/2009 7:02:44 AM
I'm a booty man all day long! I like those big phat ghetto booties you see in rap videos that jiggle.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Lady's tasting there own sweetness
Posted: 6/1/2009 6:58:20 AM
I think that a woman tasting her own juices is so freakin’ hot!

Thumbs up to all the women who do this!
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 671 (view)
 
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/1/2009 6:47:30 AM
No, I wouldn’t seriously date or marry a woman who didn’t enjoy giving oral on a regular and consistent basis. To me, receiving oral is an important aspect of a healthy sex life, this would be a deal-breaker for me.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 6/1/2009 6:20:01 AM
What’s the big deal? For me at least, the act of a woman swallowing is such a turn on because it is symbolic, much like communion in Church when a worshiper drinks the red wine that supposedly represents the blood of Christ. It’s about total acceptance, thus you can understand a man’s dismay when you wish to spit out his essence. He sees it as a total rejection of him as well.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Can two people have a successful marriage while living apart?
Posted: 3/22/2009 6:35:03 PM
Bathsheba3 wants all the rights and legal security that comes with being married but none of its corresponding obligations. She wants to be able engage and disengage from the institution of being married at her leisure and retreat inside her separate abode until she is ready again.

In the eyes of God when a man and woman marry they become ONE, they are no longer two separate individuals. Yes, their souls will be judged individually but on this Earth and in this life, they are expected to act in concert as if they are but ONE entity.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 474 (view)
 
Myers-Briggs Personality type...if you know it?
Posted: 3/22/2009 6:15:51 PM
INTJ

“Everything Has Room For Improvement”

INTJs have an inner world rich with endless possibilities that, when combined with their Thinking-Judging preferences, gives them a drive toward constant improvement of everything. Indeed, these are the “better idea” people of the typological world. Everything – words, plans, designs, ideas, even people – has room for improvement. In the INTJ’s eyes, even the best can be made better.

INTJs have a natural propensity for organization, and as such they often rise to the top of any system in which they find themselves. They tend to be “big picture” people (iNtuitive) who can see the forest as well as the intricacies of its component parts. (To an INTJ, there’s more to a forest than merely trees.) With their capacity for follow-through (Judging), they have a high completion rate in their many undertakings. People naturally look to them for a job well done, a word aptly spoken, an opportunity seized. And they usually rise to such occasions with aplomb.

INTJs are among the most independent of the sixteen types. Their theme song may be “My Way.” As with other NTs (iNtuitive-Thinkers), this independence often gives them an aura of arrogance that makes in-depth relationships develop slowly. At both work and play they can often seem aloof and sometimes argumentative. For INTJs, such behavior is simply the result of their attempt to stimulate the world around them. They can be stunned, even appear hurt, when others accuse them of being distant and seemingly uncaring, but it is, ironically, the INTJs’ caring that has been the source of provocation. They may even seem surprised at others’ taking offense when their motivation was fostering improvement. Again, as with other NTs, INTJs learn by arguing, part of their continuing quest to understand the universe. The problem is that an INTJ’s “friendly discussion” may be seen by others as hostile, even obnoxious behavior.

Statistically, there are more male INTJs than female. Not surprisingly, the INTJ female’s independence, intellectual aloofness, and argumentative style may result in her feeling somewhat out of step with those attributes more traditionally associated with femininity. For an INTJ female to be true to herself may put her out of step with the mainstream.

As parents, INTJs’ relentless pursuit for self-improvement becomes a model for their children as well. They encourage a child’s independence and self-sufficiency, the sooner the better. What may be seen by others as uncaring or unaffectionate is to INTJs, the ultimate in caring: teaching their children to stand on their own. The situation may be best illustrated by the way in which an INTJ parent teaches a child to swim. An INTJ parent may allow the child to dive into deep water that other parents might consider risky – all the while supervising intently – in the name of learning how to swim. Other types may stick to shallower waters, wanting the child to feel more comfortable in the learning process. To the INTJ, the issue of comfort or fear is irrelevant. What’s important is learning how to swim not comfort level. An old Chinese proverb was probably INTJ-inspired: “Give a man a fish and he eats for a day, teach him to fish, and he eats for a lifetime.”

The same model drives all INTJ relationships: any relationship that’s good today can be made better tomorrow and both parties must be directed to constant self-improvement: learning, growing, confronting, anything else that leads to mutual self-competency. As lovers, mates, and companions, INTJs must be ever improving. When thwarted in this quest, they can become critical and often depressed over the seeming stagnation.

An INTJ’s home reflects his or her current conceptual pursuits. Theoretical and practical books abound. To a casual visitor, the home may seem neat, but it’s more private corners reflect a series of half-started projects, collections of mementos, and an assortment of potential challenges: a guitar to be mastered, a file to be organized, a household repair to be made. Dreams and visions are INTJ’s form of relaxation. Unfortunately, seemingly ambitious plans may go unfilled if the INTJ falls into the trap of being seduced by the intellectual excitement of the plan without ever getting hands-on accomplishment. Such a dilemma sets them up for self-criticism, which leads, in turn to frustration and depression.

INTJ children crave much of the same independence as their parents. Unless their parents are the same type, this quest may be the root of an ongoing parent-child dispute. While sufficiently neat to pass parental muster, their rooms may be laboratories of endless explorations and experiments. For a parent to invade this territory may be seen as invasion of privacy and result in a struggle for power. Often, in high school, INTJs can be “underachievers’ who score well on formal tests but are unstimulated by the detail of day-to-day classroom learning. Similarly, family events may be exciting if they are stimulating and challenging, but the final decision on whether to participate must lie with the INTJ child, not with his or her parent. A lack of understanding of this dynamic by both parties can cause considerable tension. Clearly, in this context, such otherwise simple decisions as when to go to bed or whether to attend a family function can become major battlegrounds.

For the INTJ, work is the laboratory in which blueprints become reality – and give way for new blueprints. Consequently, INTJ managers strive to stimulate and stretch themselves and subordinates. INTJ subordinates, in turn, strive to stimulate and stretch themselves and their supervisors. Yet they also want to be given a free hand to experiment, and if too tightly controlled, may become frustrated and resentful. They frequently master the language of whatever it is in which they find themselves: whether managers or counselors, they know all the correct words and phrases for the situation at hand.

In short, the workplace is one more “system” that can be organized and improved. As such, all assignments are undertaken with that underlying expectation. When improvements are not forthcoming, the INTJ may be subject to self-criticism. Careers particularly appealing to INTJ include those that provide mental challenge (teaching, especially college and research) and inventiveness in both business and science ( program analysts and architects). They become restless and frustrated in career choices that demand too much detail or a high demand for personal services.

Midlife, as with most other types, finds a moderating of some preferences. Their iNtuitive searching for the abstract begins to lean toward a desire for immediate Sensing fulfillment.. Similarly, they may also “discover” the emotional and subjective sides of their Feeling nonpreference, which may be at once exciting and frightening. Later years could easily find INTJs inspiring themselves with more sociability.

Best guess of famous INTJs include Thomas Edison (who was given to almost daily inventions, upon which he was always improving); Richard Nixon (whose political genius made him a man ahead of his time, but whose grasp for control ultimately undid him); and Katherine Hepburn (whose private nature belies her take-charge, I’ll do it my way style).

INTJs (Introverted, iNtuitive , Thinking, Judging types) are logical, theoretical and very independent, they are responsible, loyal and demanding of themselves. Often reserved and detached, (because we are often too busy observing, analyzing and deconstructing the world around us to be bothered with actually engaging in it. We find our rich inner world and personal impressions far more interesting than what’s actually going on.) they are sometimes self-righteous and may lash out with criticisms. Though they are sensitive to rejection, they will usually retreat rather than show it. INTJs may either choose a partner carefully and rationally or fall hopelessly in love with a partner with whom they have little in common.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 127 (view)
 
why aren't men more open to anal play?
Posted: 4/2/2008 5:13:52 AM
Because men are designed to be the ones who do the penetrating and inseminating we are a closed system in that regard.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 312 (view)
 
Women with LONG HAIR
Posted: 4/2/2008 5:03:14 AM
A full head of long flowing hair on a woman is a genetic indicator of her fertility and health and youth.

It isn’t so much the hair itself that turns us men on but what it implies about the woman’s health and fertility. It is an indicator that she would most likely yield healthy offspring time and time again.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Never marrying again....
Posted: 4/2/2008 4:29:22 AM
Been there done that! Never again. It was only for a mere three years when I was 19yrs old but that was more than enough time for me to learn about myself and realize that I can feel too easily smothered and thus need my own space, privacy and a great deal of solitude.

Besides being a husband today in Western culture doesn’t have the cachet it used to turn on the TV and see how your average husband is portrayed usually it is as bumbling lazy oaf, or a physically violent philanderer.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
how did you know when you were done with a former relationship?
Posted: 3/20/2008 5:29:36 PM
When she repeatedly failed to recognize me as head of the household. And began talking to me as if I were her child and not her husband.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 476 (view)
 
Is it better to be alone Or settle for someone that is not Your type.
Posted: 3/20/2008 5:20:33 PM
It is better to remain alone.

Besides it is selfish because you are depriving that other person of what it feels like to have another person feel genuine passion toward them.

What is more, you’ll most likely end up cheating on them or breaking their heart when you meet someone you do feel passion toward and abruptly dump the person who was never your type.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 374 (view)
 
Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:52:10 PM
It’s kind of ironic for me but I think when it comes to making a romantic commitment like marriage I have found it has become inversely proportional to my age. I got married when I was 19yrs old and it only lasted for three years. It was when I was younger that I was most amenable to the idea of such long term commitments like marriage, children, and cohabitation.

Now at age 36 the last thing I desire is marriage, children, or cohabitation. I have learned that I can exist without those things. I have learned how to be happy with or without the companionship of a woman. What’s more being a husband and father in today’s culture has become so devalued that it is now a thankless existence. And divorce and family courts are quite hostile to the male sex, good luck trying to get a fair shake.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 786 (view)
 
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:31:22 PM
A woman who is submissive.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 178 (view)
 
Ever have a crush on a cartoon?
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:16:46 PM
1) Talia al Ghul (daughter of Ra’s Al Ghul from the Batman universe)

2) Jessica Rabbit

3) Aeon Flux (highly intelligent, freak-nasty, fearless warrior)
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 509 (view)
 
I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 3/17/2008 4:24:00 PM
This is the exact reason why I never leave my sperm unguarded after the deed is done. I ALWAYS turn the condom inside out and thoroughly rinse it out with scalding hot water three times until there is only a minute trace left then tie it off in a knot. Yes, it is messy and icky but when I think about the alternative which is 18yrs of child support to a woman I didn’t wish to have a child with suddenly a few moments of displeasure doesn’t seem so bad.

Once when a woman’s sink and bathtub were clogged up I had to tie off the condom and place it in my pocket and leave with it and dispose of it later.

Some men go so far as to place Tabasco sauce or Icy Hot in their condoms afterward so as to prevent unintended pregnancies from garbage can diving females. But I have heard of men being taken to court and sued for this because the women end up going to the emergency room with first degree burns in their vaginas - which serves them right.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 235 (view)
 
Marriage vs. Living Together - your views and why?
Posted: 3/16/2008 5:13:07 PM
Wives have to much power nowadays in the domestic sphere and I simply could not ever bring myself to trust a woman enough to not abuse that power if and when our marriage/relationship begins to sour. As the saying goes, “Absolute power corrupts, absolutely.” Therefore, I would never live with a woman before marriage and even after afterward. Domestic Violence laws give women too much power over men’s lives especially the men who share a residence with a woman.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 286 (view)
 
Abusive Women : Signs to watch out for
Posted: 3/14/2008 4:40:01 AM
tagone wrote:

It's scary alright. A close family member was married to a woman who berated him and them began beating him. One night she came home after a night clubbing and she broke his nose, loosened his teeth and blacked both his eyes. The neighbors called the cops and guess what. HE was arrested. And he never laid a glove on her.

It's hard for male cops to believe that a man can be abused.


The scenario described in the above post is one of the primary reasons why I’ll never again get married or live under the same roof as a woman. The above post is exactly what I mean when I say that, “In the domestic sphere, a woman nowadays has too much power.” The manner in which domestic violence laws are written and enforced make it unsafe for men to share a residence.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Sending out an email and then NOTHING after replying? What gives?
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:00:21 PM
Because I get so few emails I always take the time to respond even if I am not interested. I at least politely tell them I am not interested and the reason(s) why. Women have a hard enough time overcoming the fear of rejection in the first place, so by simply ignoring them or rudely blowing them off that in turn keeps the burden on males to do most of the risk taking and initiating.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:22:21 AM
The problem most women seem to have when they finally do get up the nerve to make the first move is that it never occurs to them that the guy is under no obligation to reciprocate her interest. Generally speaking women tend to handle rejection poorly as opposed to men who are accustomed to it.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Should you put all your eggs in one basket?
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:09:34 AM
Until you verbally say you wish to be exclusive with a man then I see no reason to limit your options - and he should understand that. The very fact that you wish to keep your options open tell me you must have some reservations about him.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Dress Code.
Posted: 3/13/2008 4:00:10 AM
I always live by the rule that, “you only get one chance to make a good first impression” so I always make sure I look my best even if we are only meeting for a few minutes in our vehicles in a parking lot somewhere. That means my clothes are clean and pressed, shoes polished, hair cut, faced clean shaven, and I’m smelling like a rose. As a man, one must always be prepared, you never know a first meeting could easily end up turning into a marathon first date where you do not wish to part company.


And yes I have run into my share of women who much like the man you described in the original post who looked as if they had just literally rolled out of bed and dressed themselves with whatever was on the floor next to their bed. Hair not done, no make-up, crust in the side of their eyes and mouth from having not washed up, inappropriate attire for the venue (sweatpants and sweat shirt), too much jewelry, poorly fitting clothes (usually too tight or too revealing), dirty smelly clothes….etc
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
MORAL ORAL
Posted: 3/11/2008 4:35:18 PM
@ 4realgurl

I feel you on this totally. In fact for me the whole act of either partner giving oral is just a warm-up for the main event. Cause in the end I want to find myself jumping up and down inside my woman’s coochie are you kidding me!?
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Male Birth Control Soon a Reality
Posted: 3/10/2008 9:29:28 AM
A functional birth control pill for men that is at least 99% effective as it is for women will spell the death of Western civilization.

The birth rate will plummet to the point where we are no longer replacing ourselves. We are already hoovering at 2.1 children per woman (the bare minimum). In the end the government will have to step in and prohibit men from using the pill until a they reach a certain age or until they have had a certain number of children.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 158 (view)
 
ugly men
Posted: 3/10/2008 9:05:57 AM
Since you are so insecure about your looks there is only one solution that will satisfy both you and the woman who can stand to be with you without ultimately destroying the relationship…………

You need a woman who is BLIND
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 474 (view)
 
Question for the guys...Should us women say NO SEX on the 1st date BEFORE the date?
Posted: 3/10/2008 8:31:49 AM
For me I take it that NO sex on the first date with a woman is implied unless she says otherwise. I always conduct myself like a gentleman, irregardless of the woman's behavior, because I like who I am.

But ladies you must understand that when you overtly say no sex on the first date that is as appealing to a man as him telling you that he always goes Dutch-style on first dates. When the possibility of sex is taken off the table right out of the gate, then any incentive for a man to be chivalrous or gentlemanly has also removed.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 243 (view)
 
When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 3/8/2008 5:05:43 PM
Ok I’ll be the brave one and point out the 800lb gorilla in the room.

Beautiful women are intimidating to approach not necessarily because they are beautiful, it is because they can command a higher asking price for their affections and we men assume they already know this.

Only men who lack wealth, power, and or fame are shy about approaching beautiful women.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 77 (view)
 
outrageous expectations from online daters
Posted: 3/8/2008 4:57:06 PM
One of the most outrageous expectations I see from women is that once you take them out on one date they expect you not to take any other women out on dates. These women hate the idea of having to compete with other women. They want a monopoly on your time and attention until they decide if you are relationship material or not.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Asking for a 2nd date at the END of the first date
Posted: 3/8/2008 4:50:54 PM
I’ve never done that because I understand how a person can feel pressured but I’ve had several women do that to me during the first date long before I even walk her to her car or drop her back off at her home. Yes, it is so uncool and makes you seem desperate.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
1st date at someones house!
Posted: 3/8/2008 3:41:37 PM
No, never ever have a date at a person’s home for the first time. I always make sure I meet a woman out in public where there are a lot of eyewitnesses.

Men have to be just as careful as women in this day and age because a woman could be psychotic and falsely accuse him of sexually assaulting her. I like to meet a woman face-to-face first and spend some time with her out in the public eye before we retire to more private quarters and try to become intimate.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Do you consider first meet the same as first date
Posted: 3/8/2008 3:24:31 PM
It all depends on how much money and time I spend on a woman before I consider it a date.

If I find myself having to spend any more than paying for her coffee on a “first meet” then it has become a date. Especially if we are meeting somewhere for drinks and appetizers.

If the first meet lasts more than 30 minutes and we aren’t just meeting somewhere in our cars to speak face-to-face for a few moments but end up going somewhere and I have to spend money then yes, it has become a date.

And for the women who are quick to call us men cheapskates I fear they really don’t understand how quickly dating costs can add up given that so many women don’t end up paying until sometime after 3rd date - if they even make it that far with a man. And for men we are usually dating more than one woman at any given time when looking for a LTR so again those costs can add up rather quickly.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Sarcasm red flag or not?
Posted: 3/6/2008 5:04:16 AM
Yeah it’s red flag for me if a woman is too sensitive and cannot discern a silly sarcastic joke from a real insult. I’ve been there done that and it isn’t any fun having to carefully measure every word that comes out of your mouth for fear of offending someone who is hyper-sensitive.

I'll pass.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Birth control question
Posted: 3/6/2008 4:58:28 AM
As "MagiclAngelDust" already wrote: if you are not ready to be a father then the best thing to do is abstain from having sex altogether.

As a man you must understand that every time you enter a woman’s vagina you take that risk whether you are using protection or not - that is the price of admission so to speak. That’s what separates the men from the boys.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 67 (view)
 
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 66 (view)
 
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 65 (view)
 
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 64 (view)
 
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
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Posted: 3/4/2008 4:14:23 PM
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
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Posted: 3/4/2008 4:11:57 PM
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 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Is it really All's fair in love and war??
Posted: 3/4/2008 3:12:20 PM
You already know the answer to this question lest you wouldn’t be asking it. You already know that cheating is morally wrong whether you are married or not. You are merely trying to rationalize it via this thread. You have already entertained the idea of humping this guy on the side when no one is looking.

Why are you wasting our time?
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Violent Girlfriend
Posted: 3/4/2008 3:05:36 PM
I’ve read every post in this forum so far and the best advice I’ve seen is from (Msg: 38) Merrylass:


Here's what you need to do: go get a pen and paper (or use your computer ;) ) and write down every bad thing she did and every bad quality she had. Time has a way of minimizing the bad memories and enhancing the good ones. This is probably a useful coping mechanism except in the case of an abusive person. Reread your list every time you start thinking fondly of her to remind yourself of exactly why you had to leave.



He is lucky she didn’t call the police on him after she abused him and went into the other room to lie down. She could have too easily lied when the policed arrived and said that he hit her and they would have taken him to jail. And while he was locked up trying to get bail she could have then too easily obtained an ex-parte restraining order against him so that he could no longer enter his own home when he makes bail. Bottom line, never let a woman move in unless you are at the very least married.

You were lucky it could have been much worse.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 145 (view)
 
To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:52:13 AM
I fear many of the women here have misunderstood me and think of me as some control freak or tyrant.

If someone were to ask my future wife about the dynamic of her being submissive or obedient in our relationship her understanding of it would so thorough that she would respond with the following answer:

“My husband and I are equals, he isn’t so much in control of me as in charge of me. I bestowed upon him the privilege of being in charge of me, it is mine to both give and take away. It doesn’t make me an automaton or some kind of robot. Nonetheless, I am his co-captain, my input and opinion carries as much weight as his. My husband understands that it is his duty to consult me and allow me to weigh in on all matters of great importance. Indeed, he is in charge of me and our family but that alone doesn’t give him license to make unilateral decisions. If I had even the slightest inkling he was such a man I would never have given him authority over me. But in the end because he is the head of our family and thus ultimately accountable before God for our welfare I leave the final decision making to him.”

Now ladies, why is that so difficult to understand?
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Traditional Man in a new world
Posted: 2/26/2008 8:12:30 AM
The one fundamental thing that most everyone has sort of forgotten during the upheaval and rise of modern feminism in the 1960’s was that men never asked women to abandoned her post or gender role as housewife and homemaker - it was women.

Men never started a movement because we wanted to trade places and start doing what women had traditionally done in the home for centuries. So I really don’t understand how or why all of a sudden it is the man’s responsibility to assist a woman with her natural duties as one who cooks, cleans, and looks after the children. No one asked woman to abandon her post and take on the extra duty of joining the workforce. So if she feels overwhelmed by her duties at home to her family because she is tired from her corporate work then that is no one’s fault but her own.

She has but one traditional job but she has taken on two, both the male and female traditional roles, so who can be surprised at her frustration today?
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 133 (view)
 
To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
Posted: 2/26/2008 7:52:30 AM
One of the primary reasons why it is important that the wife obeys the husband is because in God’s eyes he is ultimately responsible for protecting her and providing for her - with his very life if necessary.

If she is free to do as she pleases and willfully conducts herself in a manner that places herself in dangerous situations where she will need protection, then I would argue that yes her husband should by all means have say in where she goes, what she does when she is there, and who she associates with - after all she may not only jeopardizing her life but his as well.

For instance when I was married my wife put on this very tight yellow skirt that I felt rode a little too high on her thighs and would attract the wrong kind of attention from other men when going to the mall. I didn’t want to spend the day confronting guy after guy because he had made some lewd comment about my wife and thus insulted her HONOR. She obeyed me and she changed into something more conservative without incident. However had she not changed and some guy had insulted her regarding her slutty appearance then as far as that matter is concerned I was under no OBLIGAION to PROTECT or defend her honor.

The same principle applies to a man’s DUTY to provide. For a man, he does not have the luxury of deciding whether he will provide for his family or not so if that means he has to go into a career field where there is a high mortality rate in order to put food on the table and a roof over his family’s head then so be it. The wife has no comparable obligation. Therefore if a wife is conducting activities that are undermining her husband’s ability to provide for her and he orders her to cease and desist and she tells him “I don’t have to obey or listen to you!” then he is thereby relieved of his obligation to work himself to death or risk death in providing for her.

Remember ladies: “Rights and responsibilities go hand-in-hand; it is woefully unhealthy to have one without the other.” Thus, if you feel it is your right to be protected and provided for by a husband then it is your responsibility to be obedient to him. Otherwise he is free to leave you to fend for yourself.
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Topics of Conversation that End a Date Rather Quickly
Posted: 2/23/2008 4:19:17 PM
designingwoman wrote:

Talking ultraconservative politics to a date who is a liberal Democrat


What about the converse? Did you ever think to consider how conservatives feel when we have to sit there and listen to a liberal drone on about the environment, lack of social programs, how much they hate President Bush...etc?
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
highlighted text - test thread
Posted: 2/23/2008 3:57:07 PM

pasting is the first step.........................

[u]surround the text as I have above.....all it takes is practice.[/u]





sooner or later it will eventually sink in to that thick skull of yours..............LOL!

right click mouse and hit "paste"
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
highlighted text - test thread
Posted: 2/23/2008 3:52:35 PM

pasting is the first step.........................

[u]surround the text as I have above.....all it takes is practice.[/u][i/]



sooner or later it will eventually sink in to that thick skull of yours..............LOL!

right click mouse and hit "paste"
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
highlighted text - test thread
Posted: 2/23/2008 3:48:14 PM

well i am not such a numbnut after all

testing once again to get it correct...lol
 cmdr_iceman
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Pegs on Clits
Posted: 2/23/2008 3:20:24 PM
How is that any different from a woman with a pierced clit?
 
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