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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Why can't I heal?  dutchyman Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 23 (view)   Why can't I heal? Posted: 1/28/2008 7:34:46 PM What a sad story ;( I'm still doin' my time, remembering a crushed relationship. She never gave any form of explanation... I couldn't get rid of her stuff, since her 'stuff', was alot of memories and things she introduced to me. (music, love for other languages, lot's of really neat stuff like that) But that means I can't get rid of it. And it's always awfully present (especially music) ;( I'm cautiously dating, but the pain is still there. Time? probably. It's almost exactly one year now.... I do recommend getting her stuff and put it in a box. Maybe not throw it away just yet. That's for when you are 'ready' for that. You can keep it just for now to remember the good times, maybe. But put it away out of clear sight. If, for any reason, you team up with her again (in any way), I would NOT recommend giving her 'her' ring back for money. Dit she actually asked _that_? Good luck.  dutchyman Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 737 (view)   Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 9/6/2006 9:58:33 AM Hmmm. My quote should have said "before I uselessly start writing long emails about subject X" But putting the text subject X between "smaller than" and "greater than" messed it up...  dutchyman Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 736 (view)   Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 9/6/2006 9:56:27 AM My first reaction/contact email is usually a short one. More as an incentive to say "Hey, read my profile too, before I uselessly start writing long emails about " The again, my profile doesn't say that much. But at least it's an honest one. ;)  dutchyman Joined: 3/7/2005 Msg: 136 (view)   marrying a virgin Posted: 9/6/2006 9:18:59 AM strange that there seems to be no intermediate state? Either you're a virgin or a slut? So zero partners is a virgin? and 1 or more partners is a slut? Get real. Some people find that a perfect match somehow didn't turn out to be perfect after several years. Ofcourse they slept with each other! And after that, she (the female) will be a slut? people who actually think like that, are truly irrealistic...   Show ALL Forums