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GothicOrchid

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Why so many younger men contacting older women?? Posted: 1/30/2007 2:50:20 AM
I asked a younger guy this very same question from here....and hid responce is that he can have more intelligent conversation with us, and we know what we want in life, well for the most part...LOL.....but he as well as others, said they like mature women, because they aren't out to play head games.....as most of us older women have had done to us, and are sick of it our selves....we can show a man love, compassion, and have level headed conversations....and that's what they are lookin for...... Now I can't speak for all, but the ones that I have talked to have told me this..... and on that note, I have to get my butt ready for work now.....I hope I have helped a little in this thread..... Have a good day.....

GothicOrchid

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What is everyone doing today? Posted: 1/30/2007 2:38:39 AM
Good Mornin to all!....Today I'm just gettin ready to start my day with a cup of coffee, ang soon get ready for work.....But today is not like most.....I have a teenage boy that has been in placement from the state, and I have been tryin to get custody of him for 2 years now...well any ways...he finally got a home pass this weekend after 5 months of not seein him, and I had to tell him good bye yesterday, which broke my heart <------so I did alot of this, and today my heart is very heavy with thoughts of him.....I worry when he is gone..he comes from a very messed up family, that doesn't show him love...and that alone breaks my heart.....but the courts are finally listening to him, and now, it looks like I will have a chance to finally get him, but not before alot more months, and they check me out.....But I'm ready...you see I've had a stable job goin on 6 years now, and I'm now buyin a place that has plenty of room for him....so now its a waitin game as to when they want to talk to me, and get this ball rollin...I'M READY!.....I'm a single mom, and don't get me wrong, it sometimes get hard, with bills, but at least I'm better off than his family, and show him all the love (which is NOT show to him at his home) to give this boy a chance that he well deserves....He is a very good boy, and I would do the exact same things for him, as well as my own two kids....with that bein said, I will keep my fingers crossed, and hope that the courts get this ball rollin very soon, and his has been takin from a normal life of a teenager, and everyone deserves to grow up in a happy, and lovin home.....I will have my day soon.....its just the waiting is soooo long, and it breaks my heart......sorry if I brought anyone down with my story, but today is gonna be tough for me at work, as my thoughts will be on him, and his emotions on all this court B.S...... So to everyone else I hope you all have a very good day.....and I wanted to say hello to ponygrl.....

GothicOrchid

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 1/21/2007 7:43:37 AM
To "justaguyforfriends"...thank you and will let him know....

GothicOrchid

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 1/20/2007 1:53:47 AM
OK!...after reading a few posts in here....I don't care who thinks "MY" tattoos are a turn-on, or turn-off!....I love all of them, and have 13....let's see...I have them on both legs, and on the top my foot.....also on both upper arms....a lower back one...and my ribs...and both shoulders....and my hip.....and my azz!<---- I don't judge anyone with them!.....itz all art, and some have meaning while others just like it to decorate there bodies....as I have both kinds.... and for the guy that commented on being 60 and having them....at 60 who figgin cares?...

GothicOrchid

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How many Widows & Widower's Feel They Are At A Loss Of Finding True Happiness Again?? Posted: 1/20/2007 1:16:44 AM
Hello mysticalrose......I can relate to your loses....Many years ago I was with my son's father, and at that time was just going on 3 years of age...long story short, he was killed in a car accident.....there I was in my mid 20's and a child......I thought my life was over....but then sometime later I did find love again, but it only laasted for about 12 years or a little longer, and the best thing to happen to me outta that, was my daughter..... Then just a few years ago, I lost my Uncle....I have to say I was devistated to say the least!...he was not only my Uncle, but my best friend, like a brother, and father, all rolled into one person....This had a terrible impact on my life! ....I turned to drinking extremely..... I just didn't know what to do....we also worked at the same machine shop which I still work at...and I still to this day see him in that shop.... It has taken me a very long time to get a grasp on this, but he will forever be in my heart, and I also got a tattoo on memory of him, so carrying that with me everyday, lets me, and everyone else know that he will never be forgotten..... I'm not sure if I have helped in any way, but death is forever, so if you really love someone, please let them know, because when you least expect it, it could all come to an end....

GothicOrchid

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what would you like delivered from your man? Flower's and candy/or a new nighty and a bottle of booze? Posted: 7/31/2005 5:39:48 AM
I would rather get the naughty nighty, and booze!..... WOOO HOOO... then we can get down and dirty.....LOL....

GothicOrchid

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Why do girls like morning sex sooo much? Posted: 7/30/2005 5:10:42 PM
Because it's the best part of waking up!....

GothicOrchid

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Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 7/29/2005 11:25:47 PM
Is this a trick question?.......yes we can, but do we really want to.....NOOOOO WAY!......

GothicOrchid

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 6/13/2005 7:39:29 PM
A friend sent me flowers to my work.....

GothicOrchid

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Re: COOL BITCHES Posted: 6/13/2005 7:17:07 PM
and yes we all are!...WOOO HOOO!....Hello Nad!.... CountyBoy....I'm tryin!....LOL....

GothicOrchid

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Re: COOL BITCHES Posted: 6/11/2005 7:12:03 PM
mainegrad go back to page one and have a looksee!..... and IanGilez.....you really think so?......

GothicOrchid

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Re: COOL BITCHES Posted: 6/11/2005 6:40:11 PM
OK ladies!...here it is...one more time!...I've been asked to bring this thread back to life and I did!.....have fun with it!....3 ~~snaps~~ & ~shakes~ my *ss WOOO HOOO!.....

GothicOrchid

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Re: COOL BITCHES Posted: 6/11/2005 6:36:49 PM
so can I resurrect this thread?.....well lets see...here goes nothing!....LOL....

GothicOrchid

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Plentyoffish T-Shirts Posted: 6/11/2005 8:17:18 AM
WOW!...I really like these!.....cool idea!....

GothicOrchid

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 6/9/2005 5:04:32 PM
an email from a friend on this site.....Thank you Maximus!....

GothicOrchid

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An Erotic Story - I will Start You Finish (Let's See How Steamy This Can Get) Posted: 4/29/2005 6:33:59 PM
so she lit some candles, and ran a tub full of hot steaming water, and added some bubbles to caress every inch of her exposed body.....then she slowly runs her hands down her body beneath the bubbles pressing firmly, and making her way too.........

GothicOrchid

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New come here Posted: 4/29/2005 5:58:37 PM
Hi there newbie!.......But I think you posted in the wrong section of the forum....you might wanna try off topics.....but ~waves~ to ya, and welcomes you to POF!...Good Luck!...

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 7:40:55 PM
newbiehere4u<-------I will say thank you very much for the compliment!......and yes some of my tats hurt like hell!....LOL......like the one on my ribs...I thought I was gonna die!......LMAO..... As for what you have said about your security question, no one can anwser that one....only God knows, and as you have mentioned...you were with someone for 28 years, and that didn't work out, so why not at least try to be happy for the next 20......hell why NOT?.....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 7:08:33 PM
ummmm from what I see of her, she has a lot of good years left to play with here!....and hell as far as that goes, people that are close in the same age would cheat just as fast if not faster!...... Been there done that!...and it's no fun at all!....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:58:31 PM
newbiehere4u<-----sorry you had a questio for me....ok...here it goes....there is no match as to what I would give up, if I was truely happy with someone!......at all cost!..... ~high~ fives to ya girl!.....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:54:07 PM
Hold up here ijg52....now I see where your coming from....and that is really twisted!...if they are not happy with each other than they should just seperate......Because I really and truley don't believe in cheating at all!....so if they cheating, then they can't be in love with each other.....just my two cents....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:45:56 PM
girl, do what you feel is right!...not what others think is right!.....

GothicOrchid

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The Hair Down There Posted: 4/25/2005 6:42:46 PM
one word....."Bald".....~snickers~.....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:39:33 PM
OK in some cases, but did you read how long they have been together?.....that is a long time!....and hell most relationships are closer in age, and don't last that long!...so I think they just might be onto something good here!...... mines only been a few weeks, so I'm not sure, but if it was over a year, I would have to think that it was very real!..... care to comment?.....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:27:46 PM
so no one gets confused here...my post was for ijg52 .....

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:25:47 PM
HMMMM!!!!!!!!!! No wait a minute!...what do you mean?....that someone that is not the same age can't have the same feelings?......BULLSHIT!......that isn't true by a long shot!...the only thing is the age gap here!...not how two people feel about one another......if two people are in love than age is just a number.....you can't measure that when it comes to your heart!..... These people have been together for quit some time, and if it makes then feel good, then why not?..... Think about it!......

GothicOrchid

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Older Women/Younger Men Posted: 4/25/2005 6:13:21 PM
WHEW!...Well I have to say that I'm kinda in the same situation as you.....I'm 41, and he is 24, and yes I can see were this would have some mental anguish on you...I have the very same feelings about this whole relationship..... I think that people will look and say WTF are you two thinkin?......but all my friends that are way closer to his age than mine say age is just a number, and to just go with it.... So at this point I'm not real sure what to do, but just go with what feels good to the both of you!....Good Luck!.... Goth

GothicOrchid

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Question for the Ladies Posted: 4/24/2005 5:07:57 PM
ummmm NOPE!.....I have never wanted to put anything in a mans a***!.....I don't like it, so I'm sure that he wouldn't!......

GothicOrchid

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Re: Night all Posted: 1/1/2005 7:13:49 PM
sorry I have to run for now, but wanted to wish all a Happy New Year.....miss ya's!....

GothicOrchid

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Are you? Posted: 1/1/2005 7:09:15 PM
I'm still growin here.....LOL.....

GothicOrchid

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WHICH MEMBERS OF POF WOULD YOU HONESTLY LIKE TO MEET? Posted: 1/1/2005 6:56:05 PM
WOW!...now that I got to the end of this list.....LOL....First I want to say Thank you to DragonRider for sayin that he would like to meet me, since I have not had the pleasure of chattin with him in here yet, and it would be great to meet you also....I did check out your profile, and seen that we have the same taste in art....and also love your screen name...~high fives~ to ya..... now to the peeps that do know me, and I them here we go........ Rjn Ticket Chuck Ex Hollyberry Zee Crossfade Nad Alura Lost Missy Moon Triker Goat I'm sorry if I forgot anyone, but all the same it would be great to meet each and everyone of you!..... I wish to all of you a very Happy New Year!....know that I carry all of you in my heart everyday, and that I may be gone from here most of the time, but I will never forget any of you....Thank you, for all that you's have done to help me through a long loney road of heart ache, and some health problems....I Love all of you.....~hugs~...... Goth

GothicOrchid

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RED WINGS Posted: 12/30/2004 8:13:01 PM
YUK!....going down on anyone that has there period is just freakin GROSS!.....

GothicOrchid

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Re: Music Posted: 11/9/2004 4:30:48 PM
Drowning Pool - Love And War~

GothicOrchid

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Re: Useless Banter Part Deux Posted: 10/28/2004 5:39:40 PM
OK what happened to the GOOD NIGHT thread?.....hmmmm....so I'll do it like this then.... there is more than one way to skin a cat, so to speak...LOL.... I wanna say that I had a great time tonight!...thank you Chuck, Zee, and Holly!...misses ya's alot, and hope to be back soon again......loves ya's!...... OK group hugzzzz here!.......LOL....

GothicOrchid

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DVD Movie Rental: Posted: 10/28/2004 5:27:37 PM
I seen this at the movies the first day it came out, and I thought it was GREAT!...... It is very scarey to think that something like this could happen!......agrees with Alura here, we better start to take care of our planet before something serious happens..... what a horrible thought!....

GothicOrchid

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COOL BITCHES Posted: 10/28/2004 5:07:25 PM
will give ya "ALL" the details!...LMAO.....

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:51:45 PM
oops my bad!...sorry Gerffnit!....that was fer you!......OMG what was I thinkin here!....LMFAO....glad you like it!.....

GothicOrchid

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COOL BITCHES Posted: 10/28/2004 4:46:57 PM
I will do just that girl!......LMAO..... <---been this thats fur sure!....

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:45:44 PM
LMAO @ Chuck here!....... there ya go SHO411, is that the one?......LOL...

GothicOrchid

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SIZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 10/28/2004 4:42:56 PM
first SHO411 welcome to the forum....... as far as size, I don't think that your a bad size...it could be alot worse trust me...been there done that, and don't wanna do that anymore....LOL...but I think it comes down to the girl....meanin that if she is in love with ya, then she will be great with your size......you know it's not the size that counts, it's how you use it!...remember that always...... I have had different sizes, and dependin on how I felt about the guy, that made a big difference......so don't worry bout your size, when your in love everything will be worked out..

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:35:28 PM
ummmmm Gerffnit....are you speakin to me?....and if so which one?....LOL.....

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:31:32 PM
likes when she ~shakes~ her @ss....WOOO HOOO <---she also likes him....hehehe..

GothicOrchid

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Does your drapes match your curtains.......... Posted: 10/28/2004 4:29:23 PM
OMG!......wait did I read this question right?.......LMFAO!........

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:27:28 PM
does a ^high^ five to ya girl!......nenenene...we's ain't tellin chuck babe......LMAO..

GothicOrchid

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Does your drapes match your curtains.......... Posted: 10/28/2004 4:25:40 PM
HUH?....LMAO....ok zee see what your talkin about here...... well does it still count, or matter if you have hair on ya head, and not on your cootch?.....I guess then it really wouldn't matter ehhhh?......LOL....

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:22:07 PM
I try!...LMAO....but do we tell, or do we keep this a secret?....hehehehe......you know the suspence is killin him?.....LOL....

GothicOrchid

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COOL BITCHES Posted: 10/28/2004 4:19:35 PM
I'm not sure what I will get into this weekend.....been invited to a party, but something have happened that it might not be a good idea to be there....been hangin out with a guy, and it's a very long story.......but been havin the time of my life doin it!.....WOOO HOOO...

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:15:59 PM
puts finger against lips, and says we ain't tellin...LMAO....

GothicOrchid

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Sex - What is the 1st. thing You think of the person above U ? Posted: 10/28/2004 4:10:31 PM
and she is my SOL!.......^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ <---hehehe...that's me...LOL

GothicOrchid

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COOL BITCHES Posted: 10/28/2004 4:08:24 PM
does 3 snaps and ~shakes~ my @ss at ya girlfriend!......I'm still here!...missed ya!......

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