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carterscutie85

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/23/2009 4:46:37 PM
It would be a very hard thing to do, but I am a member of another site where a women had her rapist's baby. Not something I could ever do. One of my friends had an abortion due to a rape. I can't say I blame her, I could never keep my rapist's baby.

carterscutie85

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25 Things My Mother Taught Me Posted: 11/23/2009 3:52:15 PM
My mother taught me : RECYCLING. "you better eat your dinner or you'll be eating it for breakfast." Lol good one Yeah Matriki I guess some people vote to delete if it's not something they can argue about. Poo on them. LOl

carterscutie85

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Where to find orange panties? Posted: 11/23/2009 3:48:42 PM
^^ doll clothes maybe? Do they even make doll panties? I would assume so, seeing as they have that breast-feeding doll..and anatomically correct ones, too. LOl

carterscutie85

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Travel Through Time Posted: 11/23/2009 3:46:13 PM
I'd go back to august of 2008 and stop myself from e-mailing a certain person on here!

carterscutie85

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25 Things My Mother Taught Me Posted: 11/23/2009 3:34:58 PM
How the hell is this a redundant subject? It hasn't been discussed to death, unlike 98% of the threads on here that don't get voted for deletion. Geez, I was just trying to lighten people up and give everyone a laugh-we could all use one with all the bickering that goes on here everyday!!

carterscutie85

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25 Things My Mother Taught Me Posted: 11/23/2009 2:45:33 PM
Feel free to add!! 1. My mother taught me: TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE . "If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning." 2. My mother taught me: RELIGION. "You better pray that will come out of the carpet." 3. My mother taught me: TIME TRAVEL . "If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!" 4. My mother taught me: LOGIC. " Because I said so, that's why." 5. My mother taught me: MORE LOGIC . "If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me." 6. My mother taught me: FORESIGHT. "Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident." 7. My mother taught me: IRONY "Keep crying, and I'll give you something to cry about." 8. My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS . "Shut your mouth and eat your supper." 9. My mother taught me: CONTORTIONISM. "Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!" 10. My mother taught me about STAMINA. "You'll sit there until all that spinach is gone." 11. My mother taught me: WEATHER . "This room of yours looks as if a tornado went through it." 12. My mother taught me: HYPOCRISY. "If I told you once, I've told you a million times. Don't exaggerate!" 13. My mother taught me: THE CIRCLE OF LIFE. "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out." 1 4. My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION. "Stop acting like your father!" 15. My mother taught me: ENVY. "There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do." 16. My mother taught me about ANTICIPATION. "Just wait until we get home." 17. My mother taught me: RECEIVING . "You are going to get it when you get home!" 18. My mother taught me: MEDICAL SCIENCE. "If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way." 19. My mother taught me: ESP. "Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you are cold?" 20. My mother taught me: HUMOR. "When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don't come running to me." 21. My mother taught me: HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT . "If you don't eat your vegetables, you'll never grow up." 22. My mother taught me: GENETICS. "I swear you're just like your father." 23. My mother taught me about my ROOTS. "Shut that door behind you. Do you think you were born in a barn?" 24. My mother taught me: WISDOM .. "When you get to be my age, you'll understand." 25. And my favorite: My MOTHER TAUGHT ME ABOUT JUSTICE "One day you'll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you!"

carterscutie85

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the agenda tonight Posted: 11/23/2009 2:31:44 PM
So do people post on these sites actual "bad" things that they do, like hitting kids, etc? Or are they more like the "I"m a bad Mom because I gave the kid pb&j for dinner" kinda confessions?

carterscutie85

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Single Parents and POA for health care for the kids Posted: 11/23/2009 2:26:40 PM
How do u give someone power of attorney? I had never even thought about this. Can there be more than 1 person with power of attorney? Can I make it to where they can ONLY make decisions about his medical treatment, ONLY if I am not around?

carterscutie85

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What you can tell by their eye color Posted: 11/23/2009 10:44:02 AM
I have brown eyes. Never been much of a partier but the rest is true.

carterscutie85

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/23/2009 9:22:49 AM
If lie detector tests are not admissable in court, then how come they still do them on people? Is this a newer law that says they can't be admissable in court? I was watching an old episode of dateline where they accused the parents of murdering their daughter, and gave them lie detector tests that they failed...why would they give them lie detector tests if they can't use them in court? This episode was from about 1997 0r 1998. Not trying to say that they CAN be used in court, I just don't see the point in doing one if u can't use it in court.

carterscutie85

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/23/2009 5:30:03 AM
I know hospitals have different policies, but at the one where my son was born I don't see how anyone could mix up babies. You don't share delivery rooms with people, and before your baby is taken to the nursery or out of your sight, they give you a wristband and the baby an ankle and wristband. On each wristband there is a set of numbers, your number has to match the baby's number on his wristband every time you go to get him from the nursery or before the nurse can hand him to you once you are in recovery. The nurses are very diligent in making sure the numbers match each and every time u request the baby or you get him from the nursery. They wouldn't even hand me my son until they made sure our numbers matched. They also put these little "anti-theft" (as I called them) devices on the babies ankle, if someone tries to take the baby out of the delivery ward with that still on his foot an alarm goes off, and personally even if I had wanted to I couldn't have gotten the device off.

carterscutie85

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birthing stories!!! Posted: 11/22/2009 3:52:30 PM
If the baby was absorbed, it could be one of those "I am my own twin" stories. I seen one where the Mom had filed for welfare, and they did a DNA test for her kids. Well, it came back that the kids weren't the Mom's kids, but they were the dad's kids. They were thinking she was trying to collect welfare for kids that weren't hers, but eventually found out she was her own twin so it messes with her DNA and makes it seem as though her children were not hers.

carterscutie85

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/22/2009 3:48:23 PM
So what would be the reprocussions for the dad's who refused to show up and do the DNA test? The same as when they don't show up to CSEA for the test? If so, we'd have a hell of a lot more people in jails then we already do. Don't put the murderer in prison, we gotta save room for the person who didn't show for the DNA test.

carterscutie85

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What's the deal with all the doctors??? Posted: 11/22/2009 7:20:26 AM
I think as some people get older, their bodies break down more and they need more doctors. I am 24, I have a General Practioner, a Gyno, a Dermatologist, and a Dentist, so that's 4 doctors for me..not too bad for my age, I would assume most people with health insurance have the same.

carterscutie85

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/22/2009 6:20:14 AM
The not the daddies were not happy about this, but at least they knew, that they were not the father of the child just by looking. Sorry, but DNA can be funny sometimes. You can't tell if a child is someones or not just by their skin color AT BIRTH. My brother came out and looked like he was half white, half black, his skin was WAYYYYY darker then any of my other brothers and sisters, in fact he very much resembled a monkey (no offense to anyone, lol) My dad tried to pull the "He's not mine" crap until my grandma (dad's mom) looked at him and said "Are u stupid? That kid looks exactly like u did when u were born" He never denied him again, my brother lightened up over time and is now the spitting image of my dad. My own son came out darker then some babies, people would ask me if he was mixed. He is not, both myself and his father are white with no black/mexican in our families, but my son has more of an olive color to his skin, so I guess that's what makes people think he's mixed. My late Uncle Pat looked like he had a permanent tan, yet my grandma and grandpa are both white with again, no other races in our immediate family when my brother, son and uncle were born. (I'm talking grandma, grandpa, great-grandma and grandpa, and even great-great-grandma and grandpa) Judging whether or not a kid is yours by skin color at birth is ridiculous. That's the same thing as saying he's not yours cause he doesn't have your nose, eyes, etc. Newborns can be all different colors, hell if you were in a womb full of fluid for 9 months then had to be squished down a birth canal u might look kinda funny too.

carterscutie85

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/22/2009 5:26:58 AM
if the father doesn't want the child, why force this on him? There are many cases where the father wanted the child at first, then changes his tune when she gets pregnant or has the baby. Mine is such a case. It should not fall on the mother in these cases to provide solely for the child just because the sperm donor changed his mind. That's not fair to the mother or the child. The child has a right to be supported. Now I can understand if the father says he never wanted the child in the first place and the mom continues the pregnancy anyways, but not if he is all hunky-dorey about it then changes his mind when he sees how much work/responsibility is involved.

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/22/2009 4:59:53 AM
Not all women hate DNA testing. I welcomed one. If you didn't sleep around you have nothing to hide.

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Mandatory DNA tests at birth? Posted: 11/22/2009 4:10:32 AM
Maybe if the dad is denying the child he should have to pay for one at birth. Or if the parents are both unsure the cost should be split right down the middle. I know I was explaining to the nurses at my hospital that my son's dad was denying him and they said if I wanted to he could come pay for a DNA test and they'd have the results back in a couple days. If he's denying the child before it's ever born it would be hard to get him to come up there and witness the birth/get a dna test at birth though. Why would someone show up for the birth of a child they don't think is theirs?

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Depressed Women from Quebec and Facebook Posted: 11/21/2009 2:39:26 PM
Just because you seem happy on the outside doesn't mean u are happy on the inside. Loads of people appear to be happy-those are the same people who commit suicide and people are shocked because they never seemed depressed. I have struggled with depression a lot this year but I certainly do not show it.

carterscutie85

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anyone have an answer? Posted: 11/21/2009 2:35:28 PM
Maybe u could try giving your daughter a toy to play with or a snack to munch on while you take care of some things so it keeps her quiet. My son eats those Gerber Biter Biscuits and one of those or his favorite toy usually keeps him quiet if he's not hungry, wet, lonely, etc. I don't know how old your daughter is but I started giving them to my baby at 3-4 months.

carterscutie85

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Oprah show ending - Arrogant to the end. Posted: 11/21/2009 12:22:17 PM
On her show she said it would be September 9th, because X amount of years ago that was the first day her show was on air. It's not "too close" to the 11th, IMHO. If I had a talk show that was ending, I'd do it on the same day it originally aired and not worry about whiny little brats I have and never will meet who think I have some ulterior motive just because it happens to be close to a historic day in history. I bet lots of people will buy tickets to the series finale-it would be a nice gesture to maybe donate the money from ticket sales to charity.

carterscutie85

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posting your general location on your profile Posted: 11/21/2009 10:26:38 AM
Mapquest is your friend. If I don't know where something is, I ask the person or I Mapquest it, if they are too far away I usually don't bother.

carterscutie85

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A different angle - Social Assistance Programs Posted: 11/18/2009 12:57:24 PM
If she is lying, and then gets married to him, they will bust her then. It's not like she can say she randomly decided to marry her roomate/landlord. They aren't going to buy that and realize she lied about things before. I don't know about anywhere else, but if you get caught lying to social assistance programs about income/whatever here, they kick u off them for a while. If they do get married, they will take his income into consideration when applying for assistance, until then she can continue to lie about being his fiancee and get away with it.

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A different angle - Social Assistance Programs Posted: 11/18/2009 12:40:42 PM
when applying for help if she doesn't include her fiances income since he is providing the house for them to live in, she is frauding the government. If she lies and tells them she is not his fiancee, but rents a room from him, and has a statement from him saying she pays X amount to live there, that's how she gets away with it. My friend pays X amount to live with his mom, and provided a note to the assistance programs he applied to saying what his rent is and that his bills are seperate, and they did not take his mom's income into consideration when deciding if he qualified. He is not lying about what he pays, but she can very well be lying and doing the same thing and no one can prove it if they stay engaged and never get married. And as far as I know, with child support payments they only look at Mom and Dad's income, not the income of the entire household.

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A different angle - Social Assistance Programs Posted: 11/18/2009 12:31:13 PM
So she has a fiancee that's willing to support her. What's wrong with that? It's that dudes money, he can spend it however he wishes. I'm betting he doesn't WANT her to work, if he did he wouldn't supply free room and board, he'd make her help with the bills. Lots of guys still like being the breadwinner and having a pretty little thing waiting for them at home when they get off work. So if he doesn't want her to work and she doesn't want to work, then she's not going to work. Can't do anything to change it so why bother being upset about it?

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A different angle - Social Assistance Programs Posted: 11/18/2009 12:21:54 PM
Healthcare is a right, not a privilege. Programs like the one your ex is using have to exist so people can gain basic medical treatments. Hell at my last job I busted my ass but still couldn't afford doctors bills and didn't qualify for government assistance due to not having kids. And no way would I have paid 30 bucks a week for the health insurance my job offered, especially since it covered jack squat. I went without care several times when I was sick. No one should have to do that, much less a child. That's what these programs are for. There are always going to be people who abuse them, but we can't take them away just because 1 out of 10 people abuse them. What are the other 9 supposed to do that need them? Tell little Johnny with the chicken pox he just has to suffer? I don't think so. It's your money. Let your pride get in the way and throw away $321 if you want. Never mind it could have been used to buy a whole hell of a lot of things for your kids, or pay several bills. You just go on throwing your money away if you want. I take advantage of programs so that I CAN save money to give my son a better future. If I had to pay for the things I am getting through assistance, he'd have to go without a whole hell of a lot of stuff and frankly I would rather put my pride to the side so he doesn't have to go without.

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kenmc771@yahoo.com Posted: 11/17/2009 4:13:51 PM
I had my debit card stolen a couple times. Bank refunded my money but never caught the person, even though the one time they used my card at a Speedway. The Speedways here have very good cameras-my friend used to work there and says their cameras could see the date of a penny on the ground so they could have easily got the license plate number of the person using it to buy gas. I made a report and nothing was done about it. I know who did it. At least I got my money back but I bet that b!tch is off ripping off other people, if I ever see her again I might catch a charge. She ran off to California, makes me wonder if Toledo Police didn't give a sh!t enough about my case to contact Cali police about it.

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Explaining to a Child why a parent is absent Posted: 11/17/2009 12:35:48 PM
^^ And that's something else I totally do not understand. When we went to CSEA they ordered my son's support to start October 1st, and told him he did not owe arrears from the time my son was born. If I wanted him to pay arrears is that something I'd have to go to court for? I really do not think it's fair I had to support him all on my own from the time he was born and then all of a sudden when he's 5 months old his dad has to start supporting him and doesn't have to help me pay for supporting him before that. I thought that child support wasn't retroactive but you got your back support so now I am confused, lOL.

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Explaining to a Child why a parent is absent Posted: 11/17/2009 11:41:29 AM
Thanks, Shayln. I was just wondering as my ex was the one who insisted on it. I was completely sure my son was his, and I was proven right by a dna test. I thought he may have to pay for it since we aren't together, but I wasn't sure. I'm glad he has to pay for it-he knew darn well my son is his but just wanted to be an azz about it and play games. I'm glad u started this thread-was kind of wondering the same thing myself as I don't think my son's dad is ever going to show his face-but I do have a lawyer on hand if he does.

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Explaining to a Child why a parent is absent Posted: 11/17/2009 11:28:15 AM
DNA tests are cheap shots, but it's one of the few we men have when a relationship breaks. I insisted on one, the court made me pay for it. It was basically my way of paying $400 to call her a slut. At least you granted visitation. My ex went the whole 9 yards - I cannot see or visit my son because "my income level makes me a flight risk." Not trying to get off topic or hijack this thread but I have never heard of someone not being granted visitation strictly because their income level makes them a flight risk. Anyone can be a flight risk whether u have a penny to your name or millions, and I know plenty of people who make good money who were not refused visitation because of their "income making them a flight risk" So how exactly did your ex get away with that? And if I may ask was it Child Support who made u pay for the DNA test or Welfare if she was getting it? I am just asking because I am confused as to whether dad's always have to pay for them-I have heard from some of my friends that they had to pay for them, while others did not.

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Bots with Profiles Posted: 11/17/2009 7:43:19 AM
Thank u for the info. I did do a search and nothing came up. Guess he must look a lot like another person I have seen before, I just can't place him. I've personally never come across any scammer, and as a precaution I always do a criminal background check (our DA's office provides them for free online) and a sex offender check on anyone I meet from here.

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Bots with Profiles Posted: 11/17/2009 7:26:47 AM
So what do u do if u think the picture is fake? I had a guy e-mail me and I swear, his photo looks soo familiar, like maybe it's a photo of a celeb, but I can't tell which celeb it would be since I am not familiar with a lot of celebs, I just know he looks familiar. Plus, he's wearing a suit and the background looks like he's at some sort of premiere or something..

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birthing stories!!! Posted: 11/17/2009 5:53:03 AM
Not to get off topic or anything but I have a question. How come they let some people walk around and not others? After they started me on Pitocin they would not let me walk around, I had to stay put in my bed and could only get up to use the restroom. I can understand why they wouldn't want me to walk around on the New Bain, cause I was loopier than hell on it, but I was normal after the epidural yet still couldn't walk around. Was it because my water had already broke or something? Are u maybe not allowed to walk around after your water breaks?

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Why is violence for self defence acceptable by law since you can just run away instead? Posted: 11/17/2009 4:53:54 AM
It's not like that everywhere. Ohio doesn't have a self-defense law. You hit someone in self defense, you're in trouble, too.

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Would you date a pregnant woman? Posted: 11/16/2009 8:34:16 AM
I'd totally date a pregnant women, and I'd LIKE it! LOL

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AHHHH SANTA! Posted: 11/15/2009 3:28:25 PM
A few years ago at our family x-mas party ALL the kids were scared of Santa-even the 5 and 6 year olds! LOL. I want to get my son's picture taken with Santa this year. I am just hoping he doesn't flip out! Hopefully he will be too distracted by everyone around him to realize that a stranger is holding him..

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birthing stories!!! Posted: 11/15/2009 3:03:03 PM
I woke up in the middle of the night about 3 weeks before my son was due. Used the restroom and as I was coming out felt my water break. I was still groggy so I thought I had peed my pants! LOL. So I sat back down for a minute and got up, felt another gush of water. This time I realized it was my water that had broken, but was freaking out because I didn't know it could be several gushes, not just one!! So I called my friend and we went to the hospital. I wasn't having any contractions but dialated to 3. They started me on Pitocin to jump start my contractions. After about an hour I asked for pain medicine. They gave me New Bain (I know I am not spelling that right, lol) Now, I hardly so much as take Tylonal and have never done drugs, so when they gave me the New Bain, whoooaaaaa!! I was higher than a kite! LOl! At one point there was a picture of a women on the wall with her baby. I looked at it and thought it was a camel!! I sat there staring at it thinking "why the heck is there a picture of a camel in my room?" LOL, until I realized what it was. The New Bain started wearing off so I asked for my epidural. Waited maybe half an hour before the really cute Epidural guy came in. I asked him if he was the drug man. He said "Yep, I have drugs for you" LOL. It didn't hurt like I expected it to, just felt like a tiny bee sting. It worked right away. I kept pushing the button to deliver more pain medicine until the nurse informed me it only gives u a shot about every 8-10 minutes no matter how much u push. I was watching the clock like a hawk, pushing my button whenever my minutes were up. Nurses kept having to come in because they couldn't put an internal monitor on me since the baby's head was so low. They had to hook one up on my stomach and it kept losing the baby's heartbeat from me moving around so much. After laboring for about 23 hours, it was time to push. Pushed for about an hour. Threw up several times while pushing. It was the most horrible experience of my life!! Even with the Epi, it felt like something being ripped from my rear end!! No one ever told me that about labor!! LOl. While I was pushing I remember telling the nurse that I didn't care if they had to gut me like a fish, just get this kid outta me!! I was begging for a c-section or for them to just pull him out, but they couldn't, lol. But my son was born at 12:53 am on April 18th, weighing 7lbs, 3oz and 20 inches long. I was so relieved at first to hear him cry, because I knew he was breathing. When they handed him to me I just couldn't believe he had actually been inside me, kicking me and making me puke and crave weird things all this time, LOl. The nurse who helped me from the delivery room to the recovery room was a total bitch. She seemed like she had an attitude problem but I was too tired to care and luckily didn't have to deal with her after that. My entire pregnancy I couldn't even LOOK at turkey, let alone eat it. But after I got into recovery the nurse brought me a turkey sandwhich. It was so DELICIOUS!! I think I was turkey-deprived or something, cause I couldn't get enough of those sandwhiches, lol. I gained about 25lbs during my pregnancy, and still need to lose the last 10lbs, which I have heard are the hardest to lose, but I am working on it. Now, 7 months later, I sometimes wish I could put him back inside me and remain pregnant. It would be much easier!!! It was funny, because a couple months before he was born I was complaining to my friend how sick I was of being pregnant. She told me that once he was out, I would be wishing I could put him back in. Oh, boy, how right she was!! LOl!!

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What is your Bail? Posted: 11/15/2009 10:28:44 AM
My bail is $430..lol I did pretty darn good

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Horible New Fasion Trend Posted: 11/15/2009 6:37:05 AM
ill them with pecans to chase the neighbors cats out of your yard How does that scare cats away?

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Religion Posted: 11/15/2009 3:16:52 AM
I don't care what religion my partner is. As long as he's not into devil worshipping or casting spells, I'm good, lol.

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8 month old up through the night again Posted: 11/15/2009 3:14:54 AM
My son is just about 7 months old and I was reading on another site they will start noticing u are gone more at this age and seperation anxiety increases around 7-8 months. Perhaps your baby is waking up, realizing u are not there, and wanting attention. My son very rarely gets up during the night, but if he does I give him his pacifier (something he only likes in the middle of the night) and he goes back to bed. Sometimes if he wakes up early and is not crying I leave him there and he goes back to bed on his own. If your baby is not crying just leave them and see what he does.

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Embarrassing moments brought to you by your kids Posted: 11/15/2009 3:03:29 AM
When my parents first got divorced my dad had to do supervised visitation. It was in a family center with another person in the room supervising it. When it came time to leave the supervisor said something to my brother he apparently didn't like. My brother, who was 3 at the time, promptly called him a "Kentucky Fried D*ckhead" I don't think I have ever seen my mom's face turn that color before..

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Check this site out Posted: 11/14/2009 4:33:41 PM
Our local church is doing the Angel Food Ministries. It really helps people out.

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Horible New Fasion Trend Posted: 11/14/2009 4:05:48 PM
I have never like pantyhose. Won't ever catch me in them. struts around bare-legged LOl

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Splash ! The moon has water ! Posted: 11/14/2009 2:59:10 PM
What would happen if someone took a shovel and dug into the moon?

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Can't find a forum?? Posted: 11/14/2009 2:53:24 PM
I wanted to post a religious question in the Off Topic, but did a thread search to see if it already existed. I noticed that it did in a forum titled "Religion" I cannot seem to find this forum on my list when I look for it though. Can someone help?

carterscutie85

Joined: 5/31/2007

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A gift idea for a woman who gives a birth to your child... Posted: 11/13/2009 3:05:26 PM
I like the rocking chair and watch idea the best. OP, let us known what u decide. I recently made a video tribute to my son online. It was pretty easy although I do not think I can put it on a disc. Maybe u could do something like that around your child's first birthday, documenting the year that has gone by.

carterscutie85

Joined: 5/31/2007

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::Depression:: Posted: 11/13/2009 3:01:36 PM
I know the feeling. ((hugs)) I wish I knew what to say but being there myself I can't really give any advice.

carterscutie85

Joined: 5/31/2007

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Birthday party dilemma Posted: 11/13/2009 2:39:29 PM
I think maybe the little brother wanted to feel included. That's how most younger siblings are-always want to hang out with Big Brother or Sister and their friends. I do think the mom should have offered to pay his way though. But if you aren't sweatin' the cost don't worry about it, just know u made a 4 year old little boy very happy because now he gets to hang out with his big brother and his friends-something I am betting he does not get to do often. I remember how "cool" I used to feel when I got to hang out with my sister and her friends. I bet the kid feels the same way.

carterscutie85

Joined: 5/31/2007

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How do I get ink out of clothes? Posted: 11/13/2009 12:48:31 PM
Thank you cookie I will tell him to try that.

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