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 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 3:22:41 PM
Just wondering if you rode bare back ... and thanks for letting us know you are into sloppy seconds ...

Oh darn now why did they go and remove the posts at the bottom of our page ...

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Would you cheat on SO for alot of money?
Posted: 11/23/2009 10:11:14 AM

For $1 million I'd let Donald Trump fist bump my butt on the Times Square Jumbotron. But that's just me.


Now that is friggin hilarious !!!

Seriously OP ... you are on line looking for a long term. I don't know how long you have been here or how long you will still be fishing ...

I just look at it as "Oh just a fishing in this big pond vs a million bucks" Ummmm let me see ... remembering what my mommie use to say ...

""Men are like busses theres a new one by every 10 minutes"" So I wouldn't even break a heal chasing a man on POF then why would I be bothered to be faithful to one who still hs his profile on line.

..... and yeaaaaaa Carolann with my luck also he would look like Ernest Borgnine !!!!!! NOW that was funny. Praying the paper bag doesn't slip off ....

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 657 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/23/2009 10:00:58 AM
Oh well who really cares anyway about what other do with their or other peoples money. Seriously ...

EVERY friggin thread boils down to money. So thanks for the read folks but I am waiging bye bye to this thread and enjoy yourselves.

Irish ... see you on an other thread perhaps and happy posting.

Grandma ... I am grandmother too ... so we have that in common. It has been a great read, thanks .... N my grandson gets great "pink" lip kisses all over his sweet fat cheeks !!!

Happy Holidays N Cheers

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 648 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/23/2009 8:46:03 AM
Don't worry Irish ... you did come in a little late to get what this thread has turned into. The chief commander ... self appointed I might add doesn't feel that a woman who is feminine has anything to offer men, that its only the biitchy ... err I mean buutchy women who have anything to give to society let alone to a man. And I am NOT talking about any ONE just in general and it is only my opinion from reading all the posts.

OT (On Topic)

To me from what I have read ... It all boils down to if you are a woman, and you don't earn more than a man you are interested in that means that this woman is nothing more than a taker gold digging useless human being.

That if a woman is feminine that she then has no strength and can not support her man, family or even herself. If there is a Katrina hit the whole of the united states she has no purpose. Some people on here feel that unless you shove it in a mans face that you NEVER need a man for anything ... and I do mean anything then that woman has zero to offer in bringing any qualities to a relationship.

Personally I think, in my own opinion that women who walk up and down a man's back to prove to them that they are BETTER .... will make most men turn away. As I feel that men like women who are equal. Each brings their own unique qualities into a partnership and that make for a great couple.

What a person brings has so many variables, so it is up to each their own as to what they see as good and wanted qualities.

Some men like truck driver women, who can fix their brakes as they are not vehicle people, some men like a woman who can cook. Some men like beefy women as they love the curves, some men like women slim and athletic who can golf with them as partners. Some women like men who are white collar workers, and some like a man who knows his way around a tool shop.

Me I like a man who is comfortable being a man. Likes to tinker in the garage, while I tinker in the kitchen ... a man who can drive a ball a mile while I can make my 7 iron sing. We can play skins together on the golf course and play skins together in bed.

Wahhhooo life is sweet on the other side of POF .... where in real life men and women don't take posting so seriously ... that they don't judge people for the type of job they have or if they wear pink ... I like people who understand that when a family is grown that they are loving their freedom without being considered shallow because another chooses to again have a young family. I say GREAT for them, and GREAT for me. Its all about choices ... and loving the choices you make. For if you hate your life ... or let people try to make you hate your life because of what you are of what you do ...

Then honestly there will be NO quality of life no matter who pays.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Finding Out How Interested He Is...And Why
Posted: 11/23/2009 7:06:39 AM


You forgot the most important indication.....HE shows you that he truly interested in you. You don't have to wonder.


Rats you are so right .... that is the MOST important thing.
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
I honestly believe supernatural forces are keeping me alone.
Posted: 11/23/2009 6:42:41 AM
Maybe its because you hate yourself for who you are and you are send out those vibes.

Maybe you hate yourself for being gay and so gay men FEEL you hate/love them too. Perhaps you should go for therapy.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Finding Out How Interested He Is...And Why
Posted: 11/23/2009 6:38:48 AM
This is how I discover if a man is TRULY interested in me ...

So simple it is shamefull really

he is open and honest
he keeps his word
he treats me with respect

It all good from there on.

I think it is pretty much the same for both sexes and so no women don't want different things than men, maybe that is why it seems so complicated. No one actually believes that we want the same things. Perhaps it is just to good to be true.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
when someone of age hasnt had a relationship
Posted: 11/23/2009 6:20:04 AM


i was petrified when i first started clubbing but i grabbed my balls and went for it


Yeaaaaaa LOVE IT !!!!!!

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 636 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/23/2009 6:15:14 AM
^^^^ sigh back ... I was trying to explain what perhaps the poster who commented on the white collar worker meant.

Irish it was NOT a dig at you ... and so sorry you took it that way. And NO I was not digging at you .... Just talking about men who seem to have a perfect life and leave no space for any women to fill up anything in their lives.

You have changed Irish ... sorry that things went so badly for you after you last relationship that you posted was so good then went way way down hill. Truly I am sorry.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Do we expect more?
Posted: 11/23/2009 5:56:31 AM


From what I've been reading I seem to have an instant 3 strikes on me. lol
small town
bbw
and 45 years old


Hi Terri ...

Well BBSister I am going to tell you like it is. There are men in real life who would get to know you, like you and start to date you. But most people on here ARE living the dream with rose coloured glasses on. They can't see themselves and only see that TV perfect picture in their mind and feel ...

Yea that is what I deserve. That perfect 10 ... And truthfully most of us fall way short of that.

On your profile you have an age limit of 52 I think ... personally I think that you might open that up a bit as although you might like a man closer to your age, on here they probably won't write to you 'cause they still are thinking 25.

POF is only for entertainment, and as you can see by the length of time lots of posters are on here that meeting from on line the chances are very very slim.

So yea your age ... BBW ... and were you live can be more difficult as most men on here are still only writing to 25, big boobies, tiny waist blonds. Sorry to say that, but it is the truth.

Have fun on the forums, go out in REAL LIFE ... join a group or two, go to church, walk your new little doggie and OPEN your EYES and notice the men who might try to talk to you, and you can say hello first.

Good luck on here, I truly truly wish you the best, but just have zero expectations, and enjoy the forums.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
bi man marrying women
Posted: 11/23/2009 5:23:12 AM
OP are you trying to tell us something here ??? That you are liking the swinging both ways ??? HUmmmmm

Hahahaha the men who think it is just fine for a woman to be bi and invite them to the occasional three some are the EXACT same men who come on here whimpering awwwwww my SO left me for a woman ....

Cackling till the tears fall ....

And the poster that said they like different condiments on their hot dog ... yeaaa I agree with that one.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How Much Should I Disclose?
Posted: 11/23/2009 5:17:25 AM


These are people I work with and for. If you knew what I did and who I did it with, you'd understand why I have plenty of forum fodder. If you don't care for any of it, by all means look away.


OK let me guess ... Jamie Bondage, errrr I mean James Bond. Hahaha this is so seriously funny I am giggling my little ass off right at this very moment ....

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 634 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/23/2009 5:03:15 AM
^^^ Irish ... we have been reading for awhile what a great dad you are with two families, one set of younger children and one set of older children. But your post as to how perfectly you manage things without a woman. That is all fine and dandy, and I am sure you are above reproach. I have however met men who feel that they can do everything so perfectly that any woman would not feel that they bring any value to a relationship when they are told they have a perfect life without them ... and seriously I would feel like another rug rat just taking up space and messing up a couple of dishes.

Every man or woman wants to bring a quality of life to a man or woman that that person can't experience without a partner. Otherwise there would be nothing to be grateful for having a partner for.

Feeling like a nothing in a relationship only sets oneself up for criticism, for being told I have the life, I really didn't/don't need you ...

So to me a man loaded with dough, the chef supreme, father above all fathers, perfect home, perfect life ... what would he need me for. I would be just getting in the way.

Perhaps that is why now that my kids a grown I only date men without younger children as I like to be with a man who wants a life partner, and has time to cultivate a relationship like that. A man who is past the BIG home ... and a nice home perfect for 2 with a guest room .... that we both are partners in, like to golf, travel, and spend quality time together cooking together and taking our time away from each other to work and attend our hobbies and personal family obligations. Oh yea and can make love at any time ... without being interrupted ... unless its by the Jovies ringing the door bell to sell religion. hahaha

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 624 (view)
 
I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags?
Posted: 11/23/2009 4:54:41 AM

If you hate it here so much here, then leave. Go back to the real world where everything is so much better.


Awwww now why would you go and say that .... I never said I HATE it here if I did why would I be here. I find the forums a source of entertainment, which is what they are meant to be.

Real World ??? Well men in the real word are definitely not like most men ... see I did not say all men ... but most men are just to damaged to date.

I have a real world life and a SO in the real world. I avoid men who use the word hate indiscriminately completely.

 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How Much Should I Disclose?
Posted: 11/22/2009 6:29:09 PM
Awww now isn't this cute ... you and Sandy just seem so tight !!! N she is chatting you up about your bestest friend, good old Dirk.

so now you are asking us how much should you disclose ... I was going to ask if you and Sandy had you little chats in the college cafeteria ... whoooops then I went and looked at you profile and saw ...

Wow you are 45 ...

Isn't it so fun to be in the middle of little girl dating drama ??? Anyway, go run tt Sandy give her all the digs on your bestest friend ... get her in the door with him and you can play monkey in the middle of their relationship. Sandy can run to you every time she doesn't get whats going on, or needs you advice as to what to do with Dirk now ...

I love it just like a movie made by Disney ... Princess Bride ... you get to be the side kick.

Say hi to Sandy n we are all rooting for her ... go Sandy go

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 194 (view)
 
Oh, its to soon to have sex... yah, blah, blah, blaw
Posted: 11/22/2009 4:08:01 PM
Wahooo ... gonetothe beach ... have you got some major issues or what. What the heck was that post all about ??????
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 592 (view)
 
I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags?
Posted: 11/22/2009 2:51:12 PM


Last time I checked, the men (and women) on POF are real people with real lives and real ups and downs. The fact that they are using the internet as an avenue to meet others doesn't change who they are and they are the same people you meet in real life. Moral of the story: I don't agree with your conclusion.


Actually I doubt you have ever dated a man from POF .... especially a forum posters. so you really can not say for sure.

I have found that men on POF, all not all ... are quite damaged and although **say** they are independent and want and independent women their posts prove they are only deluding themselves.

But then I am only a woman who has had a date or two from on line, and my experience is pay sites seems to work a bit better. Less married men who are REALLY wanting an independent women so that she will accept his cheating and isn't needy enough to call his house at odd hours and disrupt his wifey.

So women who put independent on their profile seem to be a target for commit phobics, married men, men who are living with their mommies and don't want anyone to know ... and then of course the gold digger men who need a woman with a BIG independent income ...

Just my opinion of course.

Then there are the men who want a women who is independent enough that if they ACCIDENTLY knock her up that she will not care when he grabs his very very little nuts and skulks away ...

So the men who cry I need an independent woman in their profile wave RED flags at me.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1387 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/22/2009 10:45:07 AM


...this issue is NOT about who's more to blame for conception...that's moot really...

The issue IS in fact about what happens AFTER conception....AFTER that home test reads positive.


It actually IS an issue of contraception. There would be NO after if things were looked after before.

So if both either or neither too precautions the result is an unwanted pregnancy.

Why is it op for one sex to have an abortion and not the other ??? PLEASE .... because only ONE person is the pregnant one. What a seriously dumb repetitive question.

Men if you don't want to impregnate a woman then BE RESPONSIBLE for yourselves and don't ride bare back or get fixed. How difficult can that be ... what a bunch of very very stupid men, no not all but one hell of allot of them.

Anyway it doesn't matter much anymore ... you men have made your point, that you can not be responsible for your own body fluids, and so you blame the woman .... helloooooooo what else is new.

Here is one little interesting thing I have noticed reading most of the threads ...

If a pregnancy is the result from sex .... the women blame contraception and the men blame the women. Its that just so funny ... sad funny if you know what I mean.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1377 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:58:17 AM
^^^^ And how is this on topic ... not that there is much of a topin anymore. Its all been said.
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 100 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:45:09 AM


I recently dumped my ex fiance mother of my 3 and 4 years old boy because i cought her cheating in my business with one of my so called friend/client, even though its on cameras she continues denieng it and yet turned the cards around saying it was my fault for the seperation. At the point deep in your heart you know who is at fault and its best to preserve u'r energy on positive things then to arguy with an undenial person. I called her 2 days ago and tried to work things out but from what i hear she is dating some guy that she is madly in love with him which is nothing new since she falls in love fast and doesnt like to be alone. Ever since i crontracted this herpies i seldoom go out and wear protection so i dont pass this nasty std to innocent woman. ok im tired and it nap time, forgive me if i misspelled or anything, im just really tired.. have a nice day.


Wow ... you called her to work things out ???? Did I see this show on Jerry ???? I am POSITIVE I did ...

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 619 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:33:17 AM


So, my newest restriction is....men who have ever been in a relationship with a "non working" woman....is OUT!!! LOL! you shoulda heard the men moaning and groaning about that one last night!


Awwww and I bet there were women with big broad shoulders there tell those wossies ... don't worry most women are just useless. You got to go for the truck driver types. They are the REAL women, the only women who can carry the load and the only women you can count on in a disaster !!!!

So friggin funny.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 580 (view)
 
I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags?
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:26:35 AM
Well you pretty much have to be fully independent in today's day n age. Especially if you are thinking you might be able to count on a man from POF to stick with you through good times and bad times. Most men here ... not all would walk away at the drop of an eyelash so being COMPLETELY independent is a MUST.

In real life you have a much better chance of meeting a man who can live life with ups and downs and not kick you to the curb. So If you are thinking you are a bit dependant, don't date from here. If you think you might want a person is not screaming up and down that they are FULLY INDEPENDENT .... you have hopefully met them in real life and can see what they mean by looking at them in action.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1375 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:18:06 AM

That is not fiction!!!! ... That is my ex wife but the problem is she took my daughter with her and left her somewhere else instead of leaving her with me as well.


The fact that you think this is funny is just bizarre to me. And seriously this is EXACTLY what the men on here want to do ... just walk away.

So interesting ...

Well no man has really answered if he would dip his wick into the honey pot of a woman who has had a kid or two and just abandoned them ... what an irresistible woman she would be .... would that be equal to the irresistibility of a man who would do the same.

Yea yea ... I know lets make it into a movie .... ""Men without balls"" A whole move about men who would get a woman knocked up and if he couldn't force her to have an abortion then he will be FREE to continue his whore life. That would make a great flick. It would start out with him begging to ride bare back so he can get the full feeling ....

hahaha I see there are allot of men candidates here that fit the bill for the lead roll. OK everyone now look between your little legs and see if you have a set. NOPE? ... good then you get the lead roll.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 178 (view)
 
Oh, its to soon to have sex... yah, blah, blah, blaw
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:09:15 AM
I think that if a woman is going to have sex with a man she had better make pretty sure he is a man of principals. If she allows him to ride bare back ... and she gets knocked up she had better be prepared for the consequences ... which seems to be that the man will most likely walk away.

So how soon is too soon ... you spread your legs then you take you chances. If you meet a man from POF be prepared for the worst.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath??
Posted: 11/22/2009 9:01:41 AM
Sociopaths ??? Well there are really easy to spot ...

POF is FULL of them ...

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts3269547.aspx

Hahaha nothing like a good man ... yet so so so impossible to find here. But if you are specifically looking for a sociopath man well they are a dime a dozen here.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 605 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:58:36 PM
And there I only mentioned Alpha in one post and it goes on and on. Alpha alpha alpha ...

So frigging hilarious ... I just read and laugh.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1360 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:50:00 PM
Isn't this so fun ... all my liitle ball less men have come to congrigate on one thread. Lets everyone just have a little peek and see who really has the balls on this thread ... oh let me count ... perhaps two or three.

Hahahaha And oh how I have been bashed by men and women alike for my stance that MOST not all but MOST men on the forums are just showing that they prefer to live at the bottom of the men pool ... and so few seem to be able to float to the top.

Little old me has been saying it all along. The men here just don't have balls. They have been gone long long ago. Real men in real life just don't think quite the same as the damaged men here. Sheesh it is just so obviousl.

I know this woman, she has had one no, maybe two kids. Just dropped her load, continued on with her life. She didn't bother to have an abortion, she didn't bother to put the kids up for adoption ... she just left them and carried on with her life.

She had fun, partied, worked, bought a house and had a life. So isn't she as sweet as a peach. I would love to know one man here who would respect her enought to date her. PLEASE lets see a show of balls from the men as to who would put their****in her body and respect her.

Hahaha see she is fictional, but that is what you are asking us women to do ... to have respect for you.

Well have your rights, walk away cause we are waving bye bye to you ... we have no respect for you. So what do you care?

We want men like you to walk away from our daughters. Truthfully we do want you to walk away. Respect for you would never happen and it is laughable. Truly laughable.

I seem to have missed 5 pages since today I have been with my brand new grandson. Yea 2 months old today. Hurray for love of a child, hurray for his life and two loving parents. I am blessed.

You men enjoy your thread, I think I will crawl back into my hole with my grandson and just forget about people like you.

Cheers and happy posting.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 564 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/21/2009 11:18:24 AM
^^^^
propurpose how does this happen .... ??? Too many posts ??? Anoying very anoying.
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 557 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/21/2009 5:00:49 AM


Give me a break! You may have very well experienced a con man, but this is NOT as common as women who seek sugar daddies.


Actually they are the same ... you just put different labels on them. In your definition a gold digger only takes the dough in dribs and drabs ... while the con man takes it all in a couple of sweeps.

And just so you are not confused there are allot of what I would call gold digger men ... you would be shocked. So many men who can not afford to take care of themselves for what ever reason ... or what ever reason they give. Do they get called gold diggers ... no they call it getting on their feet. Which then never do. They are called losers ... and sadly people just shake their head ...

But when it comes to women the word GOLD DIGGER springs out of people mouths if a woman doesn't pay for 50/50 on a coffee. Every thread its the same.

Couples split up ... the man moves in with friends or brother or parent ... then the very next girlfriend he just brings his toothbrush in and voila a home for him.

Most women when there is a split up get their own place ... go without allot. Sacrifice allot to get up on their feet. It is not a rarity to see a man who won't get his own place. Hell I know a number of men living with family and friends or renting a room in a house and are SEARCHING hard for a place to hang their hat and a yard to let their doggie crap in. They PICK women who """ohh need help with your house, well I am a good handy man""" How man of my gal pals have been conned by these men ... or gold dug by these men.

Of course this is not something most men will admit to .... most men probably have a friend or two right now who are sofa men ... bunking out in someone's house till they get their own place. Nawww women, (or most women) don't do that.

Anyway gold diggers are men AND women ... and the use of the word word con artist is only sugar coating a leach. There are leaches galore.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1197 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/20/2009 6:08:33 PM


Gawd.
Babe is back.
Welcome home kiddies.


Gawwwwwwd welcome back. Been so boreing with you

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 551 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/20/2009 6:06:23 PM


Looking at the types of women I've been involved with, and considering I've never have to grovel for females to notice me, and want to date me, or have sex with me, I must have some other charms....


Strawman ...

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 543 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/20/2009 2:04:07 PM


Not if the island is 3 sq. miles big. I would be collecting up all of the hair from the fighting and hairpulling to build my raft. Maybe a few bones bleaching in the sun to give it stability?
Of course, I might have to do some payment negotiations with my "golden coochie". But...then the smartest do survive.


Can I be the coconut counter?

I can make rope out of hair .... where is that strawman when we need him. He would make a good sleeping matress.
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is this a sure fire way to get rid of someone?
Posted: 11/20/2009 11:14:50 AM
yea tell a man you are interested in him is a sure fire way to see the ass end of him hahahaha

then again I don't sleep with someone I am not interested in ... such a mixed up crazy world we live in
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date
Posted: 11/20/2009 11:12:01 AM
At a first meet I FEEL that everyone pays their own way. No obligation, no commitment just meet n greet.

After that Begin as you intend to continue.

That is the best way to be sure there is no misunderstanding. Everyone has their own way of dating, men want to pay, men don't want to pay, women want to pay women don't want to pay. They split 50/50 they reciprocate. What ever works best.

Personally it doesn't matter that much to me ... I like to entertain allot at my home, and prefer to home entertain that be always going out. It is NOT the money, but I go out with my gal pals a couple times a week for wings or what ever, or meet up with my son for dinner out ... so a weekend home with my man is sweet ...

Sometimes I am cooking up a nice roast and he is treating to wine which I would never spring for ... but it is yummie. Sometimes he brings steak and does his man grill thing ... I got the martinis and salad and a great fruit and cheese plate.

Keeping tabs can sure wreck a great time its much more fun to play twister.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1140 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/20/2009 9:31:45 AM
And so men, especially the men who have never experienced love for a child ... these men are going around in circles demanding abortions, release of obligation at time of birth so I say OK.

Here you go men, if you impregnate a woman, and you demand an abortion and it doesn't happen, then you demand to be released from your obligations towards that child and the courts agree then you should be sterilized permanently for life.

If you are that careless and you put the onus on everyone else to financially raise your child then you should not be permitted to impregnate another woman.

Hows that for making things simple. You are irresponsible and so you pay the penalty when you opt out of parenting.

THAT might teach some men to keep their pecker in their pants until they are mature enough to accept the consequences of their opppps I forgot my condom.

I can tell you this little tid bit ... the amount of men who profess love so they can screw at will bare back ... hahaha those small nut men are the worst of all. wa wa wa little babies, can't boiink without the full feeling, loving that woman while you are humping. Its all good rolling around for hours playing house. But when its time to be a big boy you wossies run for the hills.

So argue away how you think you should be able to force abortion on a woman's body, argue away that because you want to go at her without protection and when a baby is born you want to opt out.



Without CS to lean back on, would it be such an easy decision to bring a child into a world without the emotional and financial support of the father?


I agree GO AWAY .... sign you paper and the LAW should sterilize you. Of course that might just make a man who might lose his nuts to lean back on, take better precaution as there will be consequences for their lack of taking action on their own behalf. That would make it be such an easy decision to WEAR A CONDOM or KEEP YOU PECKER in your pants, or get the slice ... hahaha wouldn't that be funny tit for tat.

Anyway you men are pissing in the wind ... grow the hell up and be responsible for yourself. Quit counting on everyone else to look after you spill.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 519 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/20/2009 5:14:22 AM
^^^ Sorry my post ticked you off. Lots of posts ticke me off too.

A poster quoted another posters comments and said they were mine. He was wrong. It is a thread about quality of life ... and so I actually have a life and it is my quality of life and no one pays for it but me.

Have sex with my man, yep I probably will shortly, just like hundreds of other posters here who are in relationships, some married and they post freely here. Unless you haden't noticed.

I don't think I am better of any everyone else ... I am happy the way I am with my life. So I guess that is upsetting to some, too bad.

You think I am a snob because of the way I post ... well maybe I should cow tail down to those who think that people that earn a good income earners or women with a buck or two got it from a man. Hahaha laughable.

See ""go experience life with your cash"" as if that is an insult. I do go and experience my life with my cash ... and my life is good FOR ME. I consider myself lucky, and nothing more. Anyway I can and will post on this thread all I want to ... along with all the other people in relationships, married, living together or what ever workds for them.

I love it when the men or women can cry poor and awww everyone wants them to do better, but if someone is doing OK that is a different story.


OPENING POST ::::
I come to agree in many situations, men have no chance at a successful relation if they cant provide finances, stability, and other check lists many women have regarding essentials for a relationship. I cant help to think are we as a society that shallow, bypassing good people for holding out on material gains, and loosing characteristics, chance at love in the name of materials?


I am not one of THOSE women because I supply my own quality of life. I did not hold out for a man with material gains and bypass a good relationship only to get material gains. I held out for LOVE.

I have a SO who supplies his own quality of life ... when we are together we combine our lives and live what WE consider good together.

PS Sorry you can't shoo me away.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1086 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/20/2009 12:37:11 AM
My attitude disgusts you ??? I don't see why.

I think that men should stay out of their kids lives PERMANENTLY if they don't want the kids they helped produce. I think they should WALK AWAY and never turn back. No connection EVER, not when the child is growing up, not when the child is adult.

You made a kid because you were careless or didn't have the balls to get the slice and bingo the women you slept with is knocked up. You don't want the responsibility. I say Fine then go away.

It only proves that men more and more don't want kids but want the freedom of fuuking whom ever they want. I think they should be able to never see the kids. And the law should ban them from EVER seeing this child. I agree don't pay support, we know you don't have the goonies to be responsible for a child and you don't have the goonies to take charge of your own life and protect your weenie from reproducing.

Why in the world would any woman want a man to have any connection to a child she loves by a man filled with resentment and even perhaps hatred.

I have said nothing other than men get fix if you don't want a kids, don't screw indiscriminately if you don't want a kids, use condoms if you don't want a kid .... and if you still screw-up go away. Yea I don't think you should pay one thin dime .... just drop out permanently.

Most women don't want money from azzholes who walk away when they get their boxers in a knot because two people weren't careful enough to protect an innocent child from being born, yet the mother is willing and loving enough to accept the responsibility but the men again with the very small nuts can just turn their backs. They want equal rights to the fetus, to their sperm even though it has be sprung by their own actions and seem to want to have right to force abortions or adoptions. That is your half of the choice, while the mother have different choices, and is making different choices. And HELLO it is her body. Her body that will deliver the child and her body that will feed the child ... the only thing you can offer is support (caring for the child) and financial support, you want to give neither then you are un necessary in this childs life.

You don't want the responsibility of a child that you made .... GOOD. We know what type of man you are right a the beginning. Irresponsible. If you were really responsible you would have taken precautions from the start.

It does happen that there are women who might try to trap you into have a kid, but again you could have protected your own rights. GET FIXED. WEAR A CONDOM. You did;t follow through ... the baby is hear and we can see you have no love for your new born child. That says allot to me. You money is nothing in comparison to the father you could chose to be ... better you aren't in the picture at all. If the woman decided to keep her child, you opp out .... bye bye bye then. What do you care what she does now.

But don't come back. I think if a man refuses his child the woman should get a life long ban on this man ever being able to take part in the childs life. After all we know that story .... oh the kids is past needing support then maybe I will make a connection to my son or daughter because now I am old and I feel the need for connection.

Nope you should be done. You don't get to know if the child looks like you, you don't get to know if the child has made a great life for themselves ... why would you need to know your rights were given up at birth. There should be no turning back ...

I have not said anything about who should or shouldn't pay support ... I am more interested in a man who walks away from his new son or daughter and say fuuk them I didn't want them so they can fall off the planet as far as I am concerned attitude.

I wouldn't want a man saying to a child ... I didn't want you I wanted to abort you. I didn't want you a part of this world, I didn't want you a part of this life. What cruel and nasty thought that could put into a child's mind.

You don't like my profile, well it isn't for you to like. I am not looking I am here for the forums ... so what do you care. I would never on any circumstances date a man who is posting here .... I like real life with real men. It is mostly in the forums that these damaged attitudes spew out of the mens mouths. I avoid them at all costs.

I like to post in the forums ... I have the right and I am entitled to my opinion.

so you don't want that kids you produced ... LEAVE and never be seen again. Go to your death knowing you had a child unwanted, and you lost a connection with your DNA, your own flesh and blood. I say Yahhhhh for all the men with peanuts for balls.

It is so easy to go get fixed but yea I know you are scared you will lose your manhood. News flash ... you lost your manhood when you turned you back on your new born child. Hurts doesn't it. Would have been better if she aborted, gave the child up ... well you aren't going to get that choice unless you step up and take the unwanted child into your life.

Anyway there are millions of men turning their backs on their offspring. All over the States and Canada the proff is in the stats. And yea you men are looking worse and worse all the time. If you have children already ... for gawwwwds sake don't tell them they have a brother or sister that they will never see. What a way to teach them to walk away on their responsibilities too ... like father like son.

Your money isn't required, your presence isn't required, your love for the child isn't required ... you are just not needed.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 515 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/19/2009 8:11:29 PM


Who would give to a partner a better quality of life ... the nurturer or the ballzie ones.


Just a question as in the OP ... Quality of life and who pays. To stay on topic.



DEFINE "QUALITY"!!!! And STOP Trying to force YOUR idea of "quality" down everyone else's throat!!! When you were ranting about men who aren't wealthy being lousy lovers....I said....I've found a few poor ones to be quite adequate. LOL!


I forgive you that was not my post.


We've already agreed that YOUR definition of a "QUALITY" MALE is one who earns OVER $150K per year.


Nope I never said a quality man had to earn over $150 K



Post #450....LOL! you called it "chump change".


Yep I think it is chump change.



Now why does it upset YOU so much that there ARE women who are more than willing to accept the men who do NOT live up to your "quality standards"? LOL! for that matter...why do YOU care what standards ANY of us are willing to accept...


Wrong. I does not upset me at all, as I don't care what anyone else does.



since you are in this wonderful relationship with your quality man who's in that $200K+ per year bracket? HUH??? Really????


Lucky me, he makes a bit more than me ... well I might be a bit lower this year. Recession you know.



What is it to YOU....that I like to work...that I prefer paying 1/2 of whatever life style *I* have? LOL!

Doesn't matter to me at all I say good for you if that is what works for you.



why does it anger you so greatly that your definition of carrying coffee to your high dollar CEO is a "quality" relationship....but that MY definition is... building a deck with him, hopping on a motorcycle and going riding with him, or for that matter...rolling under the car and fixing the brakes with him? HUH? Why does that make YOU feel so insecure...when you already KNOW that your life is of a far better "quality" than mine?


Where did you get that from my post ... I can loan you my reading glass if you need them.



LOL! I'm GLAD for you....honestly!!!! We've already agreed.....WAY BACK many post ago...that you and I don't LIKE the same kinds of men. Why are you hell bent on NOBODY liking the men who don't meet your standards for earning capacity?


errr I thought you were a man. .... And I don't care who anyone dates or what the income of their partner is ... could care in the least.



You've stated again and again what a wonderful giving man you have in your life,


yes lucky me

[qupte]
who would NEVER expect you to cough up the price of a cup of coffee...

Nope he doesn't expect it ... but is delighted when I treat him just as I am delighted when he treats me ... back n forth. Not counting nickel for nickel.



WHY then are you so intent on convincing ALL men on POF (and around the world) that ALL women feel as YOU do...when in fact several of us have said OTHERWISE.


Nope again I am not trying to convince anyone to do anything. I am only stating my opinions as everyone else is here.



Could it possibly be that all is NOT as you suggest; and you're concerned that the women who are willing to offer a life where EACH partner gives and takes...may "spoil" things for you if you rich CEO dumps you

Wrong again ... he is not a rich CEO ... never said he was. He is a hard worker just like me, but earns more than me ... nothing more.



and you NEED one of these "chump change" guys to buy your coffee until you find another sap...I mean...CEO?:modhammer:


Awwww I have dated and was married to a man who made less than chump change and I loved him and loved our life. .... I am not in any way saying I would not date a men who makes less than ""chump change"" I am just lucky that I am not. My life is good and I have no dept. So I imagine a man with no debt also that we could have a great life together if we both combined make less than chump change. Still doesn't change my opinion on people making less than $100,000 that is common money .... or chump change to some. hahaha does that upset you to know there are millions of people making well over $100,000 and they are working hard to do that. Hell the cost of a house, car, groceries, putting a kids through college ... how far is $100,000 gonna get you .... ask friends in that position now ..... they will tell you they are in dept up to their eyeballs.

And so I have put 3 kids through school, and one more to go .... lived very frugally and voila am now dept free. So what is your problem with that .... nothing I hope. If I was a mother who pulled in a welfare cheque every month you would shiit on me for that too ... but you are shitting on me for working VERY hard and making good money, and paying my bills, and having no dept. So seriously why would I date a man who can't go golfing with me, go south and see my friends .... nawww I would rather be with a stingy nearly broke man who can't afford an all in one remote and keeps biitching about the multiple remotes he has to use to veg all weekend over his fat belly, fart and drink beer .... yeaaaa thats the guy I want.

The quality of life is MY choice of what is right for me, you have your ideas and I am sure they are perfect for you .... mine are perfect for me. Sorry you got so upset over my quality of life, and who pays for it. I pay for it, I pay for my house, my groceries my kids school, my car, my trips ... but when I go with my sweetie, his snack bracket is higher than my and he does NOT expect me to jump the leap to afford half of what it costs us to do those things together .... and no he is not going to watch paint dry with me in order to not pay for me to join him.

So good luck gone to the beach, and I will be looking forward to reading more of your posts.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 506 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/19/2009 3:03:44 PM


I do NOT know you...have never seen a photo of you...and yet YOU are accusing me of hating you for having a pretty smile and wearing pink lipstick? Woman...you need some serious psychological help!


I never said anyone specific ... hahahaha that post was serously funny !!!!
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 978 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/19/2009 2:53:09 PM


There are men who simply hate paying child support because they think it will go to the B*itch.
Why do they hate it so much??
BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SLEEPING/HAVING SEX WITH HER ANYMORE.


BINGO ... and sadly for some (not all and not even most) men the love they had or could have had with the child was attached to the woman and not to their child. See it every day, men meet a new woman and voila, that child has become a forgotten.

We are not talking about just unborn, or young children here either. I have seen so many men even turn from their older children to hide their new life, to avoid paying support in order to get that boat, car, house or what ever he and the new little woman wants .... till she is knocked up. Oh my gawdddddd just look at how many old men on here have young kids. Second, third marriages .... more kids ..... hahahahaha. You men should learn what we women have learned long ago .... GET FIXED !!!!! hahahaha such a joke.

Here is the best joke the old cootes who want to boiink those YOUNG still FERTILE women when they are pushing the 50 plus mark !!!! Good luck with that. Oppsie daisy a father again .... Sheesh when will the men learn.

Take charge of your own life. What a bunch of wossies .... how long are you men going to be whipped by that sweet cream ???

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 503 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/19/2009 1:17:33 PM


Bella whacked it right on it's pretty little pink bow covered head....that when it's about SURVIVAL...no man wants to hear a woman talking about how feminine she is....Survival is paramount...and he WANTS a woman who he KNOWS, and can COUNT ON when the chips are down to pull her share of the load. Thank God we didn't have ANY "feminine" women 200 years ago....or we'd still be looking at the Mississippi as the "west coast"!!! She's absolutely right...when Katrina hit....no man needed a woman who wasn't about to get any manly callouses, he needed one with the "ummmphh" to row a damn boat!


So what you are saying is that a woman can't be feminine and swing a hammer, be strong, be caring, be nurse, a doctor or just a carpenter. It isn't just the muscle strong women who are valuable in a disaster. Such a shame that there are women who think because a woman is feminine or likes pink that she in a useless human being in a disaster or anything else that would be a challenge in life.

I know there are women who hate me because I have a pretty smile, wear pink lipstick, and giggle with my gal pals. But see those people who prejudge are only judging a book by its cover. Pink doesn't mean a woman is not strong. Interesting that a pink ribbon is a symbol of some of the strongest women I know. And they are survivors.

... and no they can't saw a piece of wood. And yes they might not be strong enough to lift a person and carry them on their backs for 50 miles.

Hahaha Here is an example of laughable. There are men who use to be so strong, but now just big rollos, and can't heave themselves off the sofa let alone carry on in a disaster, and out of shape manly women ... are you saying those people have no value in a disaster? Fuuk ... Who will answer the calls, who will direct. People who can be leaders while the drones work away. (snickering)

Forgive me but it is laughable that there are some people on here who CAN'T or WON'T understand that it take every job to make up this world. And no one is better than the other.

The big exec who gets his coffee in the morning, and the woman who serves him. The man who grows the coffee beans and the trucker who delivered them. The employees that count on the big exec to keep his company going so they can feed their family.

So you can quit with the bull shiit about which women are better than the others. And which women can be counted on to lift and lug are so much more desirable than those women who would care for the children, while others build a building. While some made the food to care for those who are more physically able. Who is the better person??? I dare you to answer.

Who would give to a partner a better quality of life ... the nurturer or the ballzie ones.

There are two types of people in this world ... to ME ... masculine and feminine. Some cross a little and some cross over allot. So how does it make a person who doesn't cross over much and like their partner to stay on their side ... how does that make that person wrong. How does it make ME wrong because I am and I LIKE to be what I consider feminine. And really how dare anyone say because I am the woman I am that in a disaster that my man, my family, my friends, my community, my province, my country can not count on me.

I will pray for those so judgmental that they find peace in their heart for all women and all men who they considered less through out their life. To truly see the prejudices of their judgment. Mostly sister judgment of sister and brother judgment of brother.

I can truly understand the differences between the thoughts of a man mind and thoughts of a woman mind because it can be hard until you walk in a persons shoes to fully understand. Sadly I thought that mothers understood mothers, and women cared for women ... and men had understanding of each others troubles and even if it didn't happen to them ... they felt and gave strength in a brotherhood fashion.

So what ... I am fuukin wrong.

That is over now. Tired are we from reading it over and over. MY OPINION is it has become a thorn in my side that there are a couple of people here who's job and life is the only one that is right in this world. You make yourself look small minded because you have forgotten that we all have a purpose on this earth. Because you think our purpose is inconsequential that is only your opinion.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 952 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/19/2009 11:51:09 AM


That's exactly why I don't give a sh1t about women's' "feelings", who walk around with a sense of entitlement. I have only one use for them.



And that use would be ??? Guessing fuukem ... na na na thats what gets men into the trouble they get into.

It is just so friggin easy, Men keep you pecker in your pants. Now why is that so hard to do ??? Oh yeaaaaaa because of your little ""Feelings"" horney feelings. Hahaha makes me laugh my ass off.

My children were PLANNED, then when I was done I got my tubes tied. Permanently. I have actually had men say to me **** Oh Baby I would love make a baby with you **** Never EVER have I laughed so hard and dumped a guy so quickly. Talk about entrapment, and a whole lot of BULL SHIIT.

It is so easy now for men to get that little clip on the little passage way from your little nuts to you little head, and have it reversed when you are ready for children but men just won't. Seriously, when a woman, and I have lots of women friends ... when they don't want kids they DO SOMETHING about it. No mistakes. Still have sexual freedom and pleasure.

Will men do the same .... no they are just going to take their chances. And so you get the baby, then you get to look like ***holes when you say, that woman tricked me. She forced me to put my pecker in between her legs then opppps ... I came too quick, thought I would pull out in time, I don't have that same feel with a condom on, I feel so close to you it will ruin the moment. Hahahaha Same song different day.

Those of you old geysers who are biitching on here because you are so friggin afraid to knock up some broad .... go get the slice. Oh maybe you are afraid you might lose a bit of your manhood. Oh maybe you are just counting on the woman being in charge of your life ... ahhhh boo hoo

Take charge of YOUR OWN LIFE. !!!! Take charge of YOUR OWN LIFE.

Its all bullshiit, we know the truth, you want sexual freedom but don't have the balls to give yourself that sexual freedom. Meaning get FIXED. How hard is that to do. One hour at the Doctors, one little slice ... and voila. Errrrr there you men go holding onto your balls again. Chickens. Long long long gone are men who have REAL courage.

Men who take charge of their lives. Men who decide that their life will be run the way they want it to be. Now it is wossie men because although there are lots of way for men to not become daddies they still leave it up to the woman to decide their future for them. Gawddddd what a bunch of wussies, who are pussiie whipped for sure.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Start off as the new partner, then become their parent
Posted: 11/19/2009 6:01:37 AM


I attract those who have an obligation to worry about me, instead of looking after their own life.
There is never a shortage of rednecks who know nothing beyond the end of their driveway and just can't figure out anyone smarter than Larry the Cable Guy...
Like I said in another post that you love reading because, maybe you want to hot tub with me, come live my life and learn my past before you judge and condemn. Guys like you would have used a 12 gauge on yourself long time ago if you'd experienced 1/4 of what I did.
Got it?


Well well aren't you just a little peach.

Seems there is never a shortage of posters who can't get a clue on life and have to burden us with their rendition of how harsh their life has been and we would blow our heads off if we had been them.

So ok I will play along ....

Poor poor little you OP. Yes you life has been harder than anyone else here on POF. It is impossible to imagine how you made it this far without blasting your bean off. I congratulate you for all your efforts to stay alive and to try to interact with the rest of humanity as a normal person.

I am sure everyone in your life was far nastier to you than you deserved, and it is all our fault. Everyone here is to blame for you dysfunctional life. We accept the responsibility for ruining your life and smack smack smack our bums for being bad little people. We all hope that one day we will be as wonderful and perfect as you so that we don't shoot our eye out out of frustration of dealing with regular everyday life.

Good luck op ... We in Canada are building a Mountain of Toys for all the children who will be without this Christmas ... here let me put you on the list of a new toy little boy.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/19/2009 5:49:10 AM


That is an actual site phrase. Attention seeking is another term they use. When someone starts 2 or 3 threads about the same subject (as the OP did), then start 's another one to keep people updated, that is a perfect example of Attention seeking, and Trolling for attention.


Agree ... same drama posts from the same people over and over. Addiction to drama. I am just waiting with baited breath for the next drama post .... oh goodie ... saves me the cost of the electric of turning on my TV to Springer.

Seriously OP how can you live such a drama filled life. Isn't it exhausting, isn't it defeating, and doesn't it take a huge toll on your life?

Me I couldn't stand it ... it a man treated me like crap, which I would notice pretty much right at the beginning he would be seeing my lily white ass blazing past him as I am winking bye bye ....

Honestly you CAN have a good and exciting life without such drama. I bet your friends are TIRED of it all by now. I know I sure would be ...

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 487 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/19/2009 5:36:22 AM
And bla bla bla ...



I some how do not feel that this psychology of manipulation and scholastic science has much to do with the typical reader in response to the original thread. This is a dating site after all.


Agree
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 918 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/19/2009 5:23:32 AM
Oh I get it ....

Wouldn't it be a great world for the men if they can just go and screw anyone they want without ANY connection to the women, or just date here and there and fuuk who ever they want and have ZERO responsibilities of any outcome.

My gawddddd men are getting wossier and wossier every day.

Why don't the men who are so afraid of impregnating a women get a temp clamp and then when you chose to have and be responsible for a child get it removed? I know why, cause it might crimp up you little nuts and make you feel like less of a man that you already are.

Men are sure plummeting down the hill in the eyes of women. Screw em and leave em and who cares what happens after that.

I think it has gotten to the point the man, not all and not most, but allot of men who don't want to be responsible for their actions should have remained living behind their mommies aprons until they fully mature and are able to take responsibilities for their actions.

Hey its all over the States and Canada ... the percentage of children who have zero contact with their fathers is ON THE RISE. Yeaaaa for the men. Proving again that we are moving into a society of father irresponsibility. BUT should that child be amazing, become successful then those deadbeat daddies are stepping in ... they want their share of the child they created. If the child is not so amazing then the little man just keeps his head up his azzhole and hides like fungus under a toe nail.

So the women are raising your sons and daughters alone. The men are running around freaking out because the new generation of children are so out of control. Ohhhh out of control like their missing daddies per say? Who do the men BLAME ... why the women of course.

It all bullshiit. Men want to live in this childish dream world that there are no repercussion for their actions. I understand, my sons when they were very very little, like 2 or 3 felt that way too.

You men ... not all but allot of the posters here ... are one big poor excise for responsible men. Its a joke and you are a joke.

Well wait a few years men ... soon the women won't need you AT ALL. Just a good replacement for a dill doe when the mood hits. Women will be choosing the sperm of THE BEST, women continue to take over traditionally men's jobs. We can get credit, buy homes, and pretty much don't need leaches in our lives.

To the men who think paying child support is a leach on them well news flash .... its the men who are becoming leaches on society. Get ready 'cause women are moving into politics, into big company CEO's, making the decisions ALONE for our children. So when things take the big spin, and women are fully self-sufficient men will be redundant except to be little play things ... when we feel like it.

I don't think women want it that way but men are beginning to give us NO CHOICE but to run our lives without you. Not being needed for anything by anyone is a sad place to be. Not being needed as a man, not being needed as a father ... not being needed to keep businesses running ... Men doing opposite of what women are doing, we are making ourselves indispensable in society and you are making yourselves dispensable.

Of course it is only my opinion ... and hey what do I know. In my life my sons are very responsible, they don't just go around banging who ever, spilling their sperm between any pair of spread legs. They are in committed relationships, marriage, and engagement to women they love and cherish. To women they want to have a family with, and with women that they would be proud to be fathers side by side with women who will be mothers. And every day I think god for my life's blessings.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/18/2009 3:38:49 PM
OP I am not going to comment on your unreturned calls and such as everyone needs the space that they are comfortable with. Who is right and who is wrong on an issue of how many calls or how many times you should see a person is to each their own.

The ONE thing however is ... Walking on eggshells. ...

For me the MOST important thing in a relationship is that I can be myself.

If I feel like I am walking on eggshells that for sure that man is not for me.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 480 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/17/2009 6:17:50 PM
Well silly me for not being an expert on everything. At least I have a good quality of life that I am enjoying and not being biitchy to other posters by calling them down.

So I like what I like, and again it appears as if people have glass balls and can see right into others lives. Glass balls not to be confused with real balls ... oppps, there I go again, giving away what I really like. I like a man with balls, I looked between my legs and yep no balls there. Viva La Difference.

Anyone want to borrow my hand mirror and have a look down there to see if you are sporting balls ... ahhhh for those who don't and wish they did I know where you can borrow a pair.

OMO
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
I can't take this anymore!
Posted: 11/17/2009 9:03:07 AM

I've worked with abuse victims for years. I've worked with mentally ill, rape victims, and just violent people, men and women. I've seen court cases and results and broken homes. I've also learned a few things in my day.


I call bullshiit .... you are just another jerk spewing his bullshit on POF. Think you are a big shot when you are destructive.

SEE a perfectly good reason not to date from on line. Never know the dumb asses that are on here.

By the way ....



Children of single mothers account for almost 80% of the prison population.


Then were are the daddies Azzhole? OH yea ... they aren't involved in their childrens lives because of the mother. hahahaha

OH my I just read your name HillyBilly Matt .... well doesn't that pretty much explain EVERYTHING.
 onmyown4
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 474 (view)
 
Love,Quality of life and who pays
Posted: 11/17/2009 8:53:30 AM
^^^ I think you are off topic. Maybe I am missing something.
 
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