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 Artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Sex and Divorce and Stats
Posted: 9/22/2010 1:53:04 PM
It is amazing simple how biology can work What is more amazing is how so many try to make it work their way or else it's no way.
As Cat said just let it be.
Enjoy each others company a littel physical attraction, some good conversation. Have a few laughs. really listen to each other. Simple effective and fun see it is simple.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 106 (view)
 
45+ men and fashion
Posted: 7/16/2010 11:48:40 AM
Best wardrobe make over that I can think of would be wearing a little maeflower just to cover some of the naughty parts
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
45+ men and fashion
Posted: 7/10/2010 6:20:24 PM
I'll post something as soon as I finish this months Issue of GQ magazine. Damn another call from my Hong Kong taylor.
gotta go
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Middle age Wanderlust
Posted: 6/24/2010 7:52:38 AM
Nothing wrong with being a nester, Brooker. I have friends that spent two years sailing around the World. they kept a small condo in the San Diego area as a home base. Other people are like turtles they just take their nest with them.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Should I just ask him?
Posted: 6/9/2010 7:03:56 AM
There is nothing wrong with being direct as others have said most men would be very flattered if a very attractive woman like you made the first move.
Try something like this for an ice breaker.
say something like I need a mans opinion on something.
Tell him that you and girlfriend were wondering if men are offended by a woman that ask a man out first. If he say he would not be offended then simply ask the question you want to ask.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Paying for Sex-Can cost you your job?!
Posted: 6/8/2010 9:34:42 AM
The guy should have been fired for being an idiot. Many firms have morality clauses in their employment contracts. They could still fire him if he had used a legal prostitute in Nevada. The fact is he was not discrete with his outside sexual adventures. If he had used a very discreet escort service or better yet call girl nobody would care. Many professionals have an outside" interest" married men and woman have affairs or if not married have a lover or some other outlet that is not necessarily with in the bonds of relationship. These are often open secrets As long as those that are involved are discreet about what they do and it does not cause embarrassment the situation is often over looked.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Can you compliment a man's penis too much?
Posted: 6/6/2010 3:18:18 PM
Ladies please remember to also compliment the Testicles. They are the unsung heroes of sex. They work hard often to the point being painful! Why do they do it? Because it is their job without their work and support They penis would just be a limp worthless sausage. Yes they do get their feelings hurt when they hear the penis getting all the glory and all the compliments.
The next time you want to give a compliment be sure to lets those testicles know you know how hard they work.
Remember without Balls a Man just isn't a man and a Penis is a just a limp worthless appendage!
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Middle age Wanderlust
Posted: 6/6/2010 2:49:29 PM
I have always had a wanderlust. I have lived in a lot of different places and do some traveling.
Now if you thing the woman in your area are stuck up and picky. You really won't like the woman in Asia or Latin America either. It is a myth that Asian or Latin woman are subservient to their men. In public Asian woman seem oh so demure and docile, yet behind closed doors they rule the home. Piss her off and she will make your life a living hell!
Living in Asia isn't easy. Same with Mexico or any other 3rd world countries. You are a minority and if you take the attitude that I'm an American with money! You will get nothing but resentment and little respect.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Sex for women in their 50's
Posted: 6/6/2010 2:30:42 PM
I Like sex with woman in Their 50's
those that still enjoy sex seem to be more open and free less inhibited.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 273 (view)
 
middle aged & multiple divorced- a red flag or not?
Posted: 6/6/2010 2:08:45 PM
Multiple dead husbands. Dieing under mysterious circumstances now that is a red flag.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Does facial hair on men over 45 make them look older or younger?
Posted: 5/25/2010 12:54:20 PM
gee some like it and some do not. as for me I'm keeping it seems that the woman who like my goat also seem to like me. amazing how that works.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 130 (view)
 
Overrated Bands.
Posted: 5/12/2010 4:29:04 PM
if you want to be one of the cool Kids and be known for your ultra hip taste in music just list any number of the 1000 bands of all time as being the most over rated. Now name some obscure band that anyone has ever heard of made up of musicians that nobody ever heard of. Tell everyone this is the most under rated band ever!
Now you are officaly way cooler then about 89.9 % of the rest of the world.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 126 (view)
 
First Date-Met On POF-Click-Her Place-The Unexpected
Posted: 5/12/2010 4:20:43 PM
This tread should have started with the Phrase " This one time at Band Camp."
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Vets with scars
Posted: 5/7/2010 5:01:33 PM
some Vets have scars you can't see.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Insight into Vincent Van Gogh
Posted: 4/26/2010 3:04:49 PM
Vincents finest Painting and his last Painting was Wheat field with Crows. This was painted when he was very much under the control of his Psychosis. It soon after finishing this painting he shoot himself in the Head.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Insight into Vincent Van Gogh
Posted: 4/9/2010 7:57:09 AM
Early signs of his mental Illness were appearing well before he started painting. In fact his art may have kept him from sinking rapidly deeper into his depression and mental Illness then he did.
There are some excellent books on the life of Vincent and also a volume on his letters to Theo. Theo Passed not long after Vincents death. Theo's widow inherited the letters and Vincents Painting. She more then anyone else saw the real value of his work. She worked her entire life to establish Van Gogh as one of the worlds great talents.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 408 (view)
 
ED over 45
Posted: 3/9/2010 6:35:25 AM
a great many woman in their late 40's and on need to use a lube of some sort because the natural juices do not always flow. if I said I would never be with a woman who couldn't get wet in the bedroom I would not be in to many bedrooms.
The biggest sex organ is the brain. I have a very active imagination and healthy maybe more then healthy sex drive.
" Honeybunch you a gitten wet yet? Sure is taken a heaping big gube o dat KY lube stuff these days. Use ta be yu drewers was on the flor befur I cud unhitch my overalls."
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Facial Piercings over 50
Posted: 3/8/2010 5:26:17 PM
friendly free spirit , Darn I have always hoped that you were a Tart. Some fantasies die hard or soft or............ Oh never mind. To keep on topic and not get the prudes calling on the monitors again! I once again say That an adult woman that still has something to flaunt should do what helps feels and think young. My sister now 50+ wears the same size jeans as her 24 year old daughter.

well Cat, There are a number of woman in this area that still have something to flaunt might have something to do with the number of plastic surgeons in this area? I have seen woman that I know are grandmothers wearing bikinis and looking mighty fine.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Expert in older adults discusses the advantages & challenges of older couples experiencing intimacy!
Posted: 3/8/2010 5:17:51 PM
serenitycw This is a great topic and I applaud you for starting it. If you are getting a lot of negative feed back it is only from a few. Unfortunately the self appointed morality police on this forum , deem anything with a positive age sex connection as being out of step with their narrow view of the world.
Now as to putting this information to good use! Might have to down load the article glue it on a bottle of wine and bring it on my next date

' See Betty sex is good for you. I'm only offering to sleep with you for our mutual well being." Sounds like a winning argument to me.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Facial Piercings over 50
Posted: 3/8/2010 2:15:20 PM
Just had a date with a very nice woman 50 + she wore a mini had a discrete tastful rose tattoo, two ear rings in one ear three in the other. smart charming and all around a wonderful woman a grandmother of two. There are woman in their tewntys that could not wear what she could pull off.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Accumulation versus simplifying - which phase are you in ?
Posted: 3/8/2010 2:03:50 PM
The new economic reality is forced simplification.
I'm thinking of reliving my vagabond surfer days buy a van and keep on moving. that way the nasty gems and bacteria will have a hard time finding me.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Expert in older adults discusses the advantages & challenges of older couples experiencing intimacy!
Posted: 3/8/2010 1:57:37 PM
It's better as a duet and song at the top of your lungs as foreplay.

 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
AARP
Posted: 3/8/2010 1:53:30 PM
Well according to the experts on PoF sex is gonna kill ya or cause you to go insane! Even if you are married don't have sex because you know he or she is cheating and bringing home nasty STDs. Nothing good can ever come from two consenting adults enjoying a romantic evening together. Yes I am being sarcastic.
On the up side I am so glad that a great many woman in their 50's have a positive view of their sexuality and of men. There is a great deal of difference between a woman being a slut or Ho and one that enjoys her sexual and sensual nature.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Expert in older adults discusses the advantages & challenges of older couples experiencing intimacy!
Posted: 3/8/2010 1:25:42 PM
Gee according to a great many post here in the over 45 forums sex will kill ya.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Favorite Visual Artist, That are still working
Posted: 3/8/2010 1:22:04 PM
We have a few threads on or about works by some of the worlds best artist. Now lets bring things into our current world.
What Living breating artist that are still at work producing art do you admire? is there a pitcular work that speaks to you?
Trevor Southy; his work brings a sensibliity of the abstract expressionist and blends it with the skills in rendering the human form like a renisance painter.
Dean Mitchell his watercolors are amazing.
Richard erdman is a master in carving stone.
those are just three that I love
Oh and of course Richard Schimd.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Cool Concerts that were a part of your life.
Posted: 3/8/2010 1:07:48 PM
Well There was Woodstock. Yes I was there the whole three days.
Before that did see Cream, The Who in a concert in Philadelphia I think the venue was the Electric factory. Another concert in Philadelphia, the opening act was Santana. The Main act was Blood Sweat and Tears. with Al Kooper and Mike Bloomfield.
I Have seen Dylan twice , Grateful Dead, Led Zeppelin
I saw Springsteen before he was the Boss in a band called Steel Mill playing at Joe Pops shore bar. The Eagles before their First LP release in a place called the South Cardiff lodge in Cardiff by the Sea Ca. The Rolling Stones, Rick Danko and of all people the actor Gary Bussy had a band that played at a club in San Diego.
Willy Dixon and The Chicago Blues Breakers in a small club in Watts. back in 1973 BB King a few times always great to see him live. Also in The Early 1970's Boz Scaggs an excellent show. Many Many others as well.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1317 (view)
 
Evolution.
Posted: 3/8/2010 12:41:54 PM
Who unfolded DNA? was it Oswald, Avery, Witkin, sydney Brenner, Maybe it was Nirenberg, Could it be Howard Temin? or Cohen, Boyer, Kary Mullis. The list goes on and on. All working on the beck of work that was done before them. So just who Unfolded DNA? I could list at least a dozen more researchers that have made major contributions to The science of DNA.
Now name names and let us read where a credible scientist has written a reviewed paper on this theory you claim is so far advanced.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 73 (view)
 
How important is Fitting?
Posted: 3/4/2010 12:02:58 PM
On the other hand two misfits just might make a perfect fit.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
showing that I may be interested
Posted: 3/2/2010 12:12:58 PM
Ghost Dog and Sassy Sky have it right. Women are masterful atcking up subtle nuances of communication. They then mistakenly think that men will be able to read the signs and signals they are sending. As a young man I was very shy. I couldn't read the signs at all, It took neon Dayglow 10 foot highto see that she was interested in me. Walk up to the guy and let him know you are interested. Do like sassy and ask him on a date.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 118 (view)
 
As you age.... are you willing to try new things and date differently?
Posted: 3/1/2010 7:29:20 PM
I'm Pretty open to new dating experiences. However don't ask me to date Alain woman from outer space. The whole chewing their way out of your stomach isn't all that sexy and kinda creeps me out.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 117 (view)
 
As you age.... are you willing to try new things and date differently?
Posted: 3/1/2010 7:25:36 PM
I'm Pretty open to new dating experiences. However don't ask me to date Alain woman from outer space. The whole chewing their way out of your stomach isn't all that sexy and kinda creeps me out.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 464 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 3/1/2010 7:17:06 PM
It's Knowing that there are woman like Mae, Daffy, Friendly Free Spirit and a few others that keep me from giving up.
They are rare woman and like looking for diamonds it takes time and some effort But the rewards are oh so sweet.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 236 (view)
 
Men in their 60s
Posted: 2/15/2010 8:12:51 AM
seeking sue,

I would say that the among the woman taking the time to post here on POF the majority are still sensual sexual woman. Just like a number of men that post here others are here just to vent. However social science surveys have shown that about 30% of woman over 45 have little or no sexual desire what so ever. For some it is a physical issue with others an emotional issue. There are a number of woman that only want a man in their life as a companion and chaperon.
About the same number of men in their 50's also will have some sexual malfunction of one kind or another. This is not a gender spacific problem.
It does take some time for those of us that still enjoy sex on many diffrent levels to weed out the ones that want compainionship and nothing more.
I will give you the benefit of doubt here in that you made a poor choice in words when you said "Embarrassing thoughts. " Why would you be embarrassed about having an erotic thought? As I said maybe that was a poor choice of words on your part.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 209 (view)
 
Men in their 60s
Posted: 2/13/2010 2:45:25 PM
Keri, men ussally make the first move . Send out the first email then wait for a reply. My own experiance has been that at least 89% of the woman I email never reply. I can only recall one or two that sent a polite no thanks, not interested reply. Those that do reply do so becuase they have an interest.
by your expectations most of the women over 45 to 60 something are rude.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 199 (view)
 
Men in their 60s
Posted: 2/12/2010 3:31:06 PM
The cheese concession is now open. Select the prefect one to go with all the whining here. end of my snarky comments from a guy on the cusp of 60.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 160 (view)
 
Men in their 60s
Posted: 2/9/2010 5:01:43 AM
Gee I have short fingers and small feet on The other habd I have big talent.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Approaching the subject of sex with older women
Posted: 2/2/2010 12:39:54 PM
Some woman think They are sending out the right message But often it is simply a mixed signal. She may like sex might even talk about sex but she may not be into sex with you.
Being up front takes some creativity. Humor goes along way. The 2nd date is a good time to bring up the subject of sex. again it must be done in such a way that she does not scream pervert and run. If you are on a 2nd date then chances are the two of you have something simmering. if 2nd date goes well when you walk her to the door go for the kiss. If she kisses you back that is a good sign.
Be humble gentle and be direct. Something like this
i really like you. Being with you is alot of fun. did you have a good time. if the reply is yes continue with something about another date. Then something about what you would like to see happen. " I'm looking for something long term and maybe just maybe is something you also would like. listen very carefully to how she replies and her body language! words might be one thing but body language seldom lies. If she is comfortable and relaxed Let her know you want more then friendship and you are willing to wait until she is ready for more. Once more body language will tell you a lot She might say something positive yet be like a deer in the head lights. be sincere open and honest
seems to work a lot better then hey lets get busy in the bedroom
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Still holding- and talking- bitterness after 20 or more years
Posted: 1/28/2010 10:59:23 AM
Hanging on to that anger like that is simply a Justification for their pathetic miserable life.
If you really want to be happy you will find happiness.
if you really want to find love it will find you.
If you really want to wallow in your own S---t Thats your choice.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Science proves it..we are stupid
Posted: 1/28/2010 9:00:27 AM
You don't need science any 14 to 18 year old will tell you your stupid for free. Now that is in itself is stupid. They could get a multi million Dollar grant and still get to tell every Adult they are stupid
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 518 (view)
 
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 1/28/2010 4:49:23 AM
I miss bed hopping such a fun sport almost as much fun as nekkied snow angles
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 516 (view)
 
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 1/27/2010 7:40:42 PM
sensibly sweet
Sorry to hear you are plagued with minutemen.
Some of us do have stamina of course you are there and I am here so you will just have to take my word for it.

Dear Abbey
Would it be tacky to have an ex loved give a signed notarized statement as to my continued sexual stamina?
signed
still at Attention in Florida

Dear at Attention,
Only a compete moron thinking with his littel head would even ask that question!
signed
Abbey
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 379 (view)
 
Should men color the gray
Posted: 1/26/2010 2:37:46 PM
Had gray hair starting at 22 Now it's how do you cover the gray and the thin spots?
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Speed Dating for Seniors
Posted: 1/26/2010 2:35:14 PM
After meeting a few of the less desirable, it just might be possible to beat the land speed record for getting the H out of there.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 105 (view)
 
Alarming statistics attributed to aging men fathering children
Posted: 1/25/2010 11:31:57 AM
This thread is already a contender for the biggest bunch of BS award.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
never retiring
Posted: 1/18/2010 7:39:08 PM
I will die with a paint brush in hand or a woman under me or on top
either way I'll die a happy man.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Men over 55!
Posted: 1/17/2010 12:58:27 PM
Nothing like feeling a woman that feels young no matter what her age happens to be
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Finding it Hard to Want to Date as a Grandparent
Posted: 1/6/2010 4:30:07 AM
I wonder if our OP isn't simply attempting to get the word out about her books. If you read her profile you find it more of an ad fro what she is writing then a pitch for a date.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Outdoor activities plus similar thrill levels as we age. How important?
Posted: 1/6/2010 3:49:07 AM
ismene2 you nailed it.
I do Not require a that a woman ski at my level as long as she enjoys being in The Mountains. If she is a better skier my male ego won't suffer.
Part of being a Friend/Partner/lover is shareing what is importent to the both of you. I love the outdoors so a women that shares that love.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Outdoor activities plus similar thrill levels as we age. How important?
Posted: 1/2/2010 4:48:06 PM
Gee people on an internet dating site lie?
On The other hand some people do havea life and They do enjoy sports that challange mind,body and soul. Those sports often involve some risk.
For instance Daffy brought up the popular sport of outdoor sex. You could get one really bad sunburn in places that the sun don't normally shine. Now that is risky.
 artz
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Sugar daddys and dating.
Posted: 12/16/2009 6:24:43 AM
The Sugerdaddy would be a littel more then pissed off, if he found his golddigger was sleeping with some loser on his dime.
 
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