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artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 118 (view)

aging moustache Posted: 11/20/2009 9:25:30 AM
The skin on your face is one thing The real problem with stubble would be some sensitive skin a little south of the face and neck.

artz

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the Grateful Dead, Dylan, Wilco, the Band, and the like Posted: 11/19/2009 7:36:13 PM
The Band is .............. Howabout North American? covers Canada and the US

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

aging moustache Posted: 11/19/2009 6:39:59 PM
Dye hair black ,eyebrows black and goat black. Now dress in black pants and black shirt and black blazer should I ad a black eye patch? I could be the ultimate man of mystery Maybe just the ultimate weirdo ? Maybe the eye patch would be over the top. Yeah drop the eye patch and everything will be cool.

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

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aging moustache Posted: 11/19/2009 9:03:36 AM
Without a moustache a guy could never use the cheesy pick up line of wanna ride my moustache. I realized early on a stash would never make me look like Tom Selleck.

artz

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Commitment, a unique or generalized pledge? Posted: 11/19/2009 9:01:20 AM
My ex thought I should be committed but that's a whole different story. In Utah there are a few men that are committed to 1,2,3,4 or more wives all at the same time. Now that's commitment or is it insanity?

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

Taking a Trip Down Memory Lane Posted: 11/19/2009 8:57:34 AM
Crazy ,you need a new hobby like juggling baseball caps and umbrellas. If you get good at it you could earn extra money in Balboa Park on the weekends. Do they still allow performers in The Park? You could also put in your POF profile. Take me on a date and win a free baseball cap! Send the love letters to the wife of that High School boyfriend. If nothing else that will make for a few interesting e mails. Ok that was a bad idea. I still have my Dogs favorite tennis Ball and her Dog Tags. Hang on to those umbrellas I think we are in an El Nino cycle and it will rain in SD If you get ask out on a third date wear the wedding dress! That would make an impression. OK another bad idea. Now go to Point Loma seafood order a fish sandwich. I do miss good Mexican food and Point Loma seafood. Check the surf at the Sunset cliffs and the hot surfer dudes. Go Window shop in Del Mar. Go to Ensenada and have a shooter of Tequila at Hussongs. see if you can find my photo from around 1973 or 4 Look for long hair and drunken glazed eyes. I lived in Encinitas and San Diego for many many years. Yes I'm an over the hill Surfer dude

artz

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How do I ask a man out? Posted: 11/19/2009 7:52:54 AM
Flirt a little, use some humor, let him know you would like to see him sometime. It really is simple, Now if you get turned down so what. It will sting a little but that will pass. But it would nag you forever if you never took the opportunity at all

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

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Was I right? Posted: 11/19/2009 7:45:32 AM
Rule #1 you are a guy, therefore always in the wrong. Even if you are right you are wrong. Got it? Good Rule #2 yes dear, I'm sorry, You were right, I understand just how you feel are miracle phrases. no matter what situation comes up one of those phrases will defuse the bomb. again you do not have to mean it , just learn how to fake sincerity. Faking sincerity is an art form. Now to phase II If you want a relationship with this girl you must now send flowers to her place of work. The bigger the bouquet the better. tell her how you couldn't believe a woman of her caliber, her beauty and charm was interested in a schlub like you. You panicked and you are very, very sorry. Also in the note let her know you will call her. Call and if the conversation goes well have another date a very romantic kind of date. Now were you wrong in this situation? No you were just plian stupid! If she had said I want to have wild nasty sex with you right now would you have said wait a week and lets see if you really mean it? In all seriousness send the flowers with a note if you like this girl it will be money well spent.

artz

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I have zero experience with older men. Posted: 11/19/2009 7:19:06 AM
^^^^^ Sapphire Eyes , I'm glad you said that and not me. I keep saying this it's all about attitude. Man bashing woman bashing. Ain't gonna get you into a relationship or even get you laid!

artz

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Commitment, a unique or generalized pledge? Posted: 11/19/2009 5:34:26 AM
Great post blueeyesmiling Commitment comes in all diffrent types of packages. It is as unigue as the people who make their commitment to each other.

artz

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Msg: 83 (view)

How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship Posted: 11/18/2009 12:21:31 PM
FFS, depends on the man and the woman. Some at 50 make a 70 year old look and feel young. It's all in the attitude but you FFS already know that.

artz

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Msg: 68 (view)

Tolerance with age? Posted: 11/18/2009 8:44:15 AM
I must be tolerant I keep reading these forums and so far haven't blown a gasket. ................Oh wait there was that one thread, Forgot about that other time, and then there was that one post ...........Nevermind

artz

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I have zero experience with older men. Posted: 11/17/2009 6:32:30 PM
Ok Here is the deal, Your guy is doing the old lower your expectations routine. Kind of like what pool hustlers do. " By golly I use to be good at pool now ,I'm just average on my best days." Lower the bar get the other guy to relax his game then run the table. In your case you won't be expecting much happy just to share an intimate romantic moment. You have that oh so telling silly grin and sparkle in your eye. That look that tells the whole world you been properly ( fill in your own word )

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 335 (view)

What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship. Posted: 11/16/2009 8:38:32 AM
That is a big assumption that a beautiful woman won't have a personality. Also a big assumption that men meeting dating and then getting married to a beautiful woman is doing it because she is smoking hot! I have dated and had long term relationships with some very attractive woman that are very hot. We also have had a lot in common. I could drop a few lbs but over all I'm in good shape ride my bike all the time love to hike. ski sail do all sorts of fun activities that require staying in shape.

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

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Nose & Ear Hair Posted: 11/15/2009 4:44:02 AM
Some guys have this dilemma the eyes aren't what they use to be. You get out of the shower the bathroom is all steamy you look in the mirror no reading glasses on the mirror all foggy and you say to yourself, I'm looking pretty good this morning. It's hard to see all that growth under those conditions.

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 173 (view)

Did you think life would be like this at 50? Posted: 11/14/2009 4:20:44 AM
Nope I didn't think life would be like this at 50. first I was sure by now we would all be zooming around in flying cars, where's my flying car? Thankfully most of the woman have avoided looking like Aunt Bea.

artz

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/10/2009 9:37:26 AM
ashley, I'm an artist I have taken life drawing classes since 1967. I have seen more people in more states of nudity then I can count. people of all shapes sizes trimmed not trimmed young old fat skinny . tattoos no tattoos. pierced in odd places. You name it both men and woman. Trust me when I say nudity never gets boring. Even without any enhancement what so ever, the body is still fascinating.

artz

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Msg: 78 (view)

When we were young, things were pretty simple Posted: 11/10/2009 9:24:35 AM
Atomic Bombs Air Raid drills in school. Kennedy assassinated. The KKK marching in the street Phl Midride babies. Race riots were all pretty simple. The 1950's and 1960s were not so simple. We were just simpleminded littel kids that all.

artz

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Starting a family aged 50+ Posted: 11/10/2009 9:08:03 AM
My good friend David who was over 50 who fell for a woman named Linda. Linda hada teenage daughter that was out of control. I won't go into details, David could have rejected Linda because Her daughter was major baggage. The Daughter had two kids by age 19 by two different Fathers. Both fathers were scumbags lowlifes one put in jail for 10 years. The Other was killed in a gang shootout. The daughter one day just took off run away at age 21 leaving the two kids for Linda to raise. Dave stuck by Linda and they raised the Kids. Dave already raised one family he had adult kids. Now he was a Father to two more kids. There couldn't have been a better man for the job.

artz

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Friend vs. Lover? Posted: 11/6/2009 2:58:23 PM
Why can't you be a Friend and Lover? I have managed to stay friends with two woman That were once Lovers. The only reason I was with them in the first place is because we were compatible and enjoyed each others company. I loved both but it just was not a everlasting love. No Mess break ups no screaming or cheating or I hate your guts type of thing we just realized we could never be together for the long term. There wasn't a fairy tail ending.

artz

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how to slow the pace to make it real Posted: 11/5/2009 4:05:40 AM
We all have gotten a head of ourselves at times. FFS hit it dead smack on the head. He is simply bowled over with this amazing woman he has found. In a quiet moment let him know that you do care, that you would like to see the realationship move forward. You need to take things one day at a time.

artz

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/4/2009 12:20:03 PM
Think I could follow that directional arrow without getting lost.

artz

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:59:21 AM
FFS, If I were to shave then I would have to start with my chest and work my way downtown. Might have to rent a lawn mower for that job. Besides as the song says " It aint the meat it's the motion that makes her want to rock." I talked to a friends daughter wow is a cosmetologist. She has a following of woman that go to her for a shave never knew there were hair styles for that part of the world. She also also bleaching the skin around the anus. I tell ya she makes damn good money. My personal preference is nicely trimmed. I like a woman to look like a woman and not a prepubescent girl.

artz

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Msg: 230 (view)

Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons Posted: 11/4/2009 5:59:11 AM
Does thinking Big mean woman want a big........... Oh never mind " men need sex to feel loved women need to feel loved to have sex." It's a very old story that us hairless Apes have been playing out for millions of years.

artz

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/4/2009 5:53:18 AM
I was circumcised at a very young age. I don't want to shave or trim anymore off ! Does this fall under to much information?

artz

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What's the upside to being over 50 and single Posted: 11/3/2009 6:44:46 AM
The Honey Do list is a lot shorter. Toilet seat is just where I want it to be. Don't have to spend a small fortune on bed sheets and curtains to match along with new rug dust ruffles new quilt then re paint the walls to match everything else. Do woman ever ask if it's OK to redecorate with pink bows and something that looks like it oucked flowers? After spending thousands, slintly hating the new look. ( yes dear it looks great. I have always wented to sleep in a rooom with all the worlds flowers and pink bows. ) Nothing says ours like your taste in decorating) Then hear the master bath now looks shabby! Oh yeah I can cook waht I want anytime I want or have dinner at the local Pub if I want.

artz

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When we were young, things were pretty simple Posted: 11/2/2009 12:56:24 PM
Is Tarnished Knight attempting to be funny? Yes it couldn't have been the people that cooked up those crazy financial derivative and and billions by selling worth bond issues based on those derivatives nope it was ma and pa billy and betty sue that brought down the house of cards. Friendly Free Spirit ,remember when Rome fell It was a Christian Empire.

artz

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Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons Posted: 11/2/2009 12:34:26 PM
Friendly Free Spirit, You Little Hussy you. ( I just love those little hussies.) Also were the multiple partners all at once or spread out over time? ( that just might be a little to personal.) Then again shes Australian and we all know about those wild women down there. I am not going to admit to anything here. I may or I may have not slept with or other wise had carnal knowledge of more then one woman in the past 40 years or so. I will not comment on if I have lusted after woman or engaged in self pleasure while lusting those woman. Now am I pro or con for promiscuity. I am pro do what works for you. If you enjoy being a born again Virgin then great. If you want to have wild monkey sex with other like minded monkey sex people that fine with me as well. as for me the Gorilla suit is just to hot and sorry to say I don't have the bod to do the Tarzan thing. not that I would know anything about those activities.

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 345 (view)

Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women? Posted: 11/1/2009 12:11:59 PM
Well Maybe I was a bit mean. I can be at times a sarcastic azz. Oh well not the first time I have offended somebody here. On the other hand I am amazing. Now the only reason us mature charming debonair men of the world can't get a date is hot 25 years olds are intimidated by sexy older men.

artz

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who gets your stuff? Posted: 11/1/2009 12:02:54 PM
I won't say who gets what. If I did they might start planing my untimely death.

artz

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Letting the walls down Posted: 10/31/2009 3:08:14 PM
Oh yes Hot steamy windows of 1969 ford Van my trusty surfboard on top or was she on top? Daffie, in my surfie days nothing was better then a moon lite night a cosy fire on the beach a bottle of wine. The sound of waves Jackson Brown on the cassette and then retiring to the van to make love......... Every so often I actually had that perfect strawberry blond surf chick join me

artz

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Letting the walls down Posted: 10/31/2009 3:01:06 PM
So we have a guy reeling from a resent divorce. He meets Avery attractive sexy woman his emotions and hormones into high gear. He thinks this lust must be love. Now this poor guy seems to also have some sexual hang ups. Ladies do not use words like Fock and other words that would shock the church lady. so he thinks I need to back off. Then Mr Happy starts screaming at him " Shes the best you have ever had and you want to give that up!" So your confused guy gets all surpey and romantic again. Then has his bad case of post coital remorse again. What we have here is the hormone balance a 13 year with his first playboy mag with a sexually repressed adult male brain. mix with a shot of your now a middle aged divorced guy with asad sorry life. It isn't a pretty picture. Unless you really enjoy the sex with this guy I would move on.

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 340 (view)

Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women? Posted: 10/31/2009 2:34:46 PM
The only thing that is intimidating is the hours billed by her plastic surgeon.

artz

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Msg: 781 (view)

Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married? Posted: 10/31/2009 4:42:43 AM
Conversations with the cat are getting boring?

artz

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Conservative Vs Liberals Posted: 10/30/2009 6:59:04 AM
Many quote Jefferson yet fail to do an in depth study of his writings. He often changed his mind on a number of subjects. At a time when there were not any public schools a great many of the funding fathers did not want public education. Education was only for wealthy land owners. They believed that they were the only ones with the wisdom and means to direct this new Country. Who should be allow to vote was a big issue in that time. Another fact is that much of the negotiations at the Treaty of Paris were over debts owed to the Bank of England and The Crown, by individual citizens plantations and business as well as individual States. Part of that debt was taken over by the new Federal government most was negotiated down by the Americans. See our founding was in a very real sense a Bailout. Jefferson established this countries first public school. The constitution says nothing about education ,yet Jefferson saw it as the only means to keeping a Democratic Government alive. He felt everyone should have the right to vote. He also was very mixed on the slavery issue. On one hand he wanted to see slaves free. On the other he borrowed heavily against the value of his slaves, if they were freed he and most signers from the south would have gone belly up, bankrupting many of the signers of the Constitution. The Constitution is a living breathing Document. The first court rulings on interpreting what the Constitution says came about one year after the signing. The Founders did not object or try to defend a ridged Constitution. I'll look up the source and post more on this later.

artz

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Msg: 157 (view)

What you bring to the table Posted: 10/27/2009 4:46:34 PM
Mcqueen was a much better actor. Love the old split screen effects. besides the plot and the caper were more realistic. the newer version isn't bad. The original still holds up after almost 35 years.

artz

Joined: 6/1/2007

Msg: 155 (view)

What you bring to the table Posted: 10/27/2009 4:36:25 PM
What do I bring to the table a Knife a fork an appetite.Charm some wit. I'm a delightful dinner date if I do say so myself.

artz

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What ever happened to Love Posted: 10/27/2009 6:44:38 AM
it's out there you have to make the effort to find it. With all red flags, must have this or that. make the discovery all that much harder. Open the mind open the heart. Or just keep playing that old J giles song " Love Stinks"

artz

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Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 10/23/2009 9:32:10 AM
Ok a Vet or Porsche will do but if you really want the hot babes Get the bike. make sure it has tons crome. Or just get a personality. personality and a Bike would mean never spending another lonley night serching for free porn.

artz

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Msg: 333 (view)

Liberal vs conserative Posted: 10/22/2009 5:41:27 PM
any libs are pro life. They would advise a woman to have then baby , yet if she desided to terminate they would not stop her or force her to have the child Many libs, hunt and fish.own guns. Most see gun control in terms of making gun ownership safer Keeping an unlocked gun at home with Kids around is a really really bad idea. I dated a woman that was very anti gun. We could disagree on the issue and others . On the other hand I could never date a woman that used her conservative values as a cover for her racist views. A great number of conservatives have strong racist views. I lived in one of the most conservative States in the country. I have socialized with a number of these conservatives , When they think they . When they feel safe ,are in their element with like minded people the real racist biggot talk comes out.

artz

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This is High School all over again Posted: 10/22/2009 5:02:46 PM
Better then High School no pop quiz and the zit problem isn't as bad as it was then.

artz

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Liberal vs conservative Posted: 10/16/2009 12:00:58 PM
The common ground for Matlin and Carville is that they are both Political Junkies. They have a passion for the process. The game of Politics and how it all works is what they are all about. Both are extremely bright and motivated and yes passionate for the game

artz

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YOU NEED THERAPY! Posted: 10/16/2009 11:55:46 AM
OK I'll fess up I do need Therapy. trust me POF is not the place for treatment, unless snarky comments and nasty remarks is a new type of tough love therapy.

artz

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Men and Women spending time with their exclusive Friends Posted: 10/16/2009 11:50:48 AM
Continue with the replys . Not a Nurse Your kind of black and white on this aren't you? It is sad so many realationships end in the toilet bowl becuase we just didn't take some time to be with each other.

artz

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Philosophical argument of Rights Posted: 10/15/2009 10:52:54 AM
You never danced one specific question none of your business ins not an answer It's an avoidance to a complex problem. Lets have more Parrot speak. If I put extra in thats my bussiness and my accountents bussiness . I did go though an audit once after all the dust setteled the IRS cut me a $800 check.

artz

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Subcultures - why do they exist? Posted: 10/15/2009 10:42:44 AM
Iconoclast, You are close to the truth. I was going to say we are all just monkeys with clothes looking for a troop of monkeys that dress like us. Oh wait that's fashion. It still applies when you think about it

artz

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Is Rock and Roll dead? Posted: 10/15/2009 10:15:22 AM
Brittney Spears did try to kill it . Thankfully Neil Young foiled the plot

artz

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Msg: 209 (view)

Philosophical argument of Rights Posted: 10/15/2009 10:07:06 AM
Now on the other hand with those loop holes and some legal slight of hand many corporations pay zero in taxes. Some of the largest investment banking firms take more out in fees then supply actual capital to industries that produce. Our current system has been so slanted and legally corrupted we reward those that do not put that money back into the economy. We also are rewarding people who for all intense purposes failed! I'm sorry There isn't a person alive that is worth a 100 million dollar pay check. Especially when you and me are paying that pay check. By the way I have owned my own company had 14 employees and a number of subcontractors that relied on me to get contracts . We produced something we provided a service for some of the wealthiest people in the country. I have met some very prominent people. I was in the Yacht industry. People with the money that can afford 120 foot, multi million dollar Yachts are an interesting bunch some ultra conservative and some very liberal. One was appointed an Ambassadorship by President Clinton. Another person I have socialized with was an Ambassador to China picked for his long standing business ties to China. Gadgetdoc, I understand what you say about lobbyist. Some do work for interest that are beneficial. This is something to think about Bank lobbyist have spent something like 200 million since the melt down lobbing congress We hand them trillions to shore up the markets and they still want t do business like they were use to doing bussiness. I;m sure all The boy scout lobbyist and other groups like that could be out spent 10 to 1 By just one bussiness interest lobbyist along. By the way I ski with a now retired Bank lobbyist. He worked almost his whole career getting congress to relax banking regulations. We have had some very interesting conversations. Yes there is a lot of Federal waist. A great deal of that waist can be blamed on Contractors who lobbied congress to get very blotted Fat contracts. Ultimately it is The Fault of Congress. ave have been blinded by special interest money. Contractors with their lobbyist have helped make waste and blotted contracts into a fine art. All legal and many very very smelly. The smell is covered up by gee it's in the contract. I have heard that the average congressmen spends upward to 60% of their time ( really it is our time) in fund raising for their campaign war chest. Paul , You fail to answer any of my questions or come up with any sound arguments that are not out of the mouths of the conservative talking heads. Pithy little ditties and parrot talk do not impress anyone. Why should I bother replying to you?

artz

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Liberal vs conservative Posted: 10/15/2009 9:04:59 AM
Hey Former hunk, ( gives me the creeps just typing that name) Could you please at least have an original Thought. How many times do we have to put up with that cut and paste little ditty. Deere Hunter. I guess it takes a master at cleverly disguised insults to see one. Nice hidden insult with that Nazi crack By the way this liberal could care less that your tender or sensitive conservative feeling where hurt. Now go call Rush tell him a Lib hurt your feeling. The new breed of Conservative whines are good for a laugh. To keep this on topic I have dated women that held conservative views. Some were very nice thoughtful woman we could debate points and laugh when either her and me made a way over the top stament. On The other hand I have dated some real wind bag types that thought they could use their sexuality to pursuade me that Rush, Hennity and all the other talking heads were right and if only I would listen and learn I would also be in that conservative utopia of taking joy in putting down any other point of view. She wasn't read for me to quoat some of those professional gas bags. See I do listen to the opposition. Trust me It's so good to be a recovering conservative. There is still hope for some of you.

artz

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Msg: 147 (view)

Is Rock and Roll dead? Posted: 10/15/2009 8:36:49 AM
Nope not dead, It has gone underground regrouping and recruiting new young strong men and women that are ready to enter the good fight One night they will emerge out of the shadows walk on stage and blow away an audience that was expecting the same old same old. When nobody remembers who Chuck Berry was or Little Richard. When nobody is amazed at the manic piano playing of Jerry Lee Lewis that is when you Rock is on it's last legs. Besides Mick Jagger will never pronounce it dead. I also see some ever interesting things happening in the the fringes of the world of music. Many artist are exploring the older roots of rock going back to the source. Not just rehashing the music. Great musician Singers Song writers are adding something new to Country, Bluegrass, Jazz, The Blues. Bringing new life to root music. Some call it Americana music. What ever you label it there is some good stuff out there.

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