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titch_kay

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Just For Fun - Top 3 What Not To Do On A 1st Date Posted: 7/16/2009 11:38:25 AM
not to do on date 1) cinema - how can u talk in a cinema wen u always got shhh at 2) clubbin - how can u talk in a loud environment 3) -

titch_kay

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/17/2009 7:38:08 PM
what am i looking for errrr a man .... older than me so 19-28..... body NOT FUSED..... MUST have a personality.... distence am not botherd on... looks am not to botherd on, must be slighty attracted but am not in for all blk spiki hair toned body...... why have that and a poo personality its the personality that makes the person..... and in terms of height i would prefer a lad that is taller than me, but again height is just a figue

titch_kay

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Agree or Disagree: If a person has a good personality you can make yourself sexually attracted Posted: 4/16/2009 10:50:09 AM
not read the post u wrote only the question i have fallen for the personality of someone and i say his fit and cute for some reason but wen i look at him from day 1 my feelings have well changed and am sexual attracted to him wanitn him more than a mate, just cuz i got to know him and love his personailty

titch_kay

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WHY DO MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU, BUT NOT DATE YOU? Posted: 4/16/2009 10:48:36 AM
lol i love the title. i had a lad that said i really do love u and want u in my arms just not as a girlfriend and tehn wen i started dating his mate he kicked off like he loved me and was in love and wanted me as a girlfriend yet he kept sayin he only wanted sex n cuddling mates

titch_kay

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Long distance advice. Posted: 4/16/2009 10:45:54 AM
i did long distence well 60 mile one for 1yr 6months. and we onli split cuz of college n uni and said we need to concentrate on our studys if u love each other uy will trho it

titch_kay

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What scares you the most about starting a relationship? Posted: 4/16/2009 10:44:48 AM
i do not get scared of starting one or going into one. the only thing i get worried about after a week or so is that it will go down hill and we will split. cuz am disabled n lads thro that at me.

titch_kay

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A love that might never happen? Posted: 4/7/2009 3:53:51 AM
lol its not that kinda care.i am in a hospital as i keep being sick. am fully well minus i cant keep food down. i am just sick wen i eat. but i know what am doing and in full control of all that.

titch_kay

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A love that might never happen? Posted: 4/7/2009 3:10:43 AM
well i just seen a consult and i am being discharged this week so we can see if any thing comes of this..... i will keep u informed... i am single... but not lonely.... just fell for a lads personality ect.... n its that kinda love that shunt be.... dangerous as they say

titch_kay

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You don't choose who you fall in love with. True? Posted: 4/7/2009 2:15:06 AM
you cant choose who u fall in love with. you really cant. i have fallen for the personality of one lad at the moment, and too look at him his nt my type, you cant help it

titch_kay

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A love that might never happen? Posted: 4/7/2009 2:12:22 AM
il run you through the story. as quick as i can i am in a care place at the moment and i have started to like my care worker. he is 28. i am 20. he says am cute, n attractive ect, i think his everything, he will ocme in my room and keep me company a lot of eye contact ect.... he said am a tease as he cant hug me and he wants me, he wants to text me but can be fired ect. i really like him, but i dunno if this care thing is going to be a prob, as its stoppin out devolping whilst i am in this place. :( he said when i am out, that he will teach me the pinao.... could this be the start of something.?? and would people talk on age?? should i invite him my college prom ?? does it seem he even likes me??

titch_kay

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After the split -- Take some time or move on? Posted: 4/21/2008 4:33:22 AM
take time, cuz end of day u loved em for them ect, ur gonna have lotsof feelings to just let them go, and ul go out do sommet stupid like getting laid proberly, and then it is worse and anit the answer. as ul regret doing it. evently move on, but u take ur time everyone is different, i take some time but move on in the terms of am single il get over it but in my time wen i am ready. but id stay single till i am asked on a date and if i dint feel ready i prob go on it in hope too forget about it

titch_kay

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Do people still consider marriage a form or relationship security? Posted: 4/21/2008 3:05:06 AM
also too add if they wanted to dirove me they can pay for it themselfs as i wunt want it and untill they get the money i could always work on the reltionship getting it back on track then i wunt want one lol but am a kid with dreams and a big imgination and bin told to act me age more, but am love struck

titch_kay

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Do people still consider marriage a form or relationship security? Posted: 4/21/2008 3:04:03 AM
i think it shwos that ur commited to ur partner adn that ur eing true wwen u say i want my life with u, for the past 2months i told my partner everyday he is all i want and i want too marry him, he wants the same, but we cant as no money. we would be the smae as we are fully commited well i am, and we at mo are btoh scared that 1 is gonna dump other or cheat or even just not want us, but were long distence an have said it would b good if we was in way. engagged. i thinik weddings are too much, but dirvorce, i wont talk about as there stupid in a way, i wunt marry a lad if i dint want him forever tbh. and why do they cost so much. cause there worth it, and same with marridge it is worth it. if i was married i would feel that we anit gonna split, as he signed he papr and changed my name, i would feel that it is a secure reltionship more than now, but it wont change the way we are, its more mently they say commited.... but hang on bf/gf dont u have to be commtied. thats wat i dont understand.

titch_kay

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Do you believe friends are more important than lovers? Posted: 3/13/2008 1:54:55 PM
well. i was allwasys told, to put your friends first the reason being is. who has known u longer?? who knows you better?? who is always there when you need them, and turn too ?? who are the ones that help you?? your best friends you get a bf, gf, and yes friends tend to get pushed to the back.... touch wood it does not happen but you blank ur mates out, and blank the calls, and stuff., and u split with ur bf....who are u there to turn too...... even tho a real friend would b there..... its always nice to place them first...... as i think u would not want to b 2nd best wen they get a partner friends family....partner.... u can always get some one else, but u can never get a new best friend................ but i love my bf so much and i love him forever and treat my bestest mate like i do him, ther e on the one level all togther

titch_kay

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WEST BROM ARE THROUGH Posted: 3/9/2008 3:25:44 PM
YAY YAY YAY WE ARE THROUGH i reckon we will play portmouth and cardiff will play other obv..... its on my birthday, looks like il b off wembly, i hope so, but it is going to cost loads. what team was people expecting to win today. and are you happy, think it was clean game. and anyone have any perfect team draws..... any one watch it, or is everyone gutted liverpool, city and united are out

titch_kay

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 3/9/2008 2:27:48 PM
yes i did. was not fit but sweet. met again day afa n he attacked me

titch_kay

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HELP...IDEAS NEEDED. Posted: 3/9/2008 12:29:29 PM
need to write a script for a college course. 4 people. 2male tops. can be performed in basic stage. thats like basic lighting too. the script has to be up to 20pages long, about 10 minium.... needing ideas on what to write about

titch_kay

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What would you think??? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:25:13 PM
i guess its a long distence reltionship, i have been dating aguy for 9months, i have been there 20 times, he been mine 5. but has stayed over. and i stay at his too. if it is long distence it is based on money. if he is dependent on u, make him b dependment on himself. by this i mean, dont go up there as much, he wanting u too as he nose that u will, trn around and say u cnt afford it this week or something and then the day b4 say it again. and dont go, it might hurt u too do that but he will the lesson

titch_kay

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Are women sometimes shy around men that they like? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:22:09 PM
well, when i went on this date with the lad i am currently with, i was so shy, i hardly spoken just looked at him and if he looked at me i looked away, when we ae shy its hard to make the convosations and u have to bere with us when we are like that. but yer i get shy, as i dont know what too say incase i say the rong thing, so if we are quiet we cnt go rong

titch_kay

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Being Fussy? Caring? What have i done? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:13:40 PM
right boys, i have spoken too him, he apolgised too me. saying heloves me and he is sorry for being how he was towards me, he lvoes me and that is the end of it, he trys to text but has been busy, and will text wen he can. no1 looks afa him when he is ill he is not use too it, i asled him would he rather me look afa him and take the weight off him or leave him and he said he does not know, but nursing him he likes, so i said in a nurse uniform then and he went no ur sexy enough

titch_kay

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Being Fussy? Caring? What have i done? Posted: 3/9/2008 11:48:28 AM
just had a text off him it says love u so much baby, osrry 4 nt texting but i have been so busy tank is nearly complete but in the living room not in any wba stuff not had time but love you i guess to forgive him or somethings....as i am writting this i just got another one saying....... trust me i do and i always will love u. i am sorry if i am sending the wrong message but i am very busy and i try my best 2 text u but i love u so much

titch_kay

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Being Fussy? Caring? What have i done? Posted: 3/9/2008 11:33:22 AM
cheers, gotapulse. i see him friday. in person. i anit seen him in person for 10days or so. but am just thinking of leaving him too it, and turning phone off till tomorrow, if he wants me he nose me mums numbr he can phone her

titch_kay

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Being Fussy? Caring? What have i done? Posted: 3/9/2008 11:29:09 AM
i hope u feel better soon. but would u rather someone, look after u and do things for u, to take things off ur hands, make life easier for u........... if a lad is complaining of sore throat, its swollen, he cant breath in nose, and its blocked he gets dozzy when he gets up.................... is a girlfriend not bond to worry when she is not there to look after, him, if i know correctly the marridge vowels are "in sickneess and in health till death do us part" it is all am doing i want to give the silent treatment but its hard, am weak n i take it too heart

titch_kay

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Being Fussy? Caring? What have i done? Posted: 3/9/2008 11:20:57 AM
Thank u csianaheim i hope that u are right...... might i add we are in a long distence reltionship and i see him about every other week..... my mates reckon if he rings i should leave it and not answer if he texts not to text back and see how he likes the no contact and give him a taste of his medcine, but i wont do this as if i start it could effect us.

titch_kay

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Being Fussy? Caring? What have i done? Posted: 3/9/2008 11:15:02 AM
I met a lad on here, and i have been going out with him for 9monhs. the past 9 months have been great. lots of laughs. calls and texts every day. The past few days, he has been wired with me. we are both ill at the moment, and when i ring him i ask him how he is I(caring aprcoch) and he will tell me he feels crap and is getting worse. back hurts me, my throat hurts, i carnt blow my nose...... i told him to go doctors and get a perscription as he is a student and can get it free, as he carnt afford to buy the other stuff at the moment. his reply was. no, stop being fuss and fussying over me i hate it. yesterday i had one text, and a total of 35mins inc calls. today i have had one text and a toal of 6mins in calls. he texted me this morning as ia stated, but apologising too me for his behavour last night and saying no1 looks after him when he is ill and he is not use to having someone that genin loves him actully care about him. and that he is sorry and not use too it. he is a west brom supporter, and i thought to ring him brfore that gam, to say where going to win, and ask him if he is any better. he replied yer, no, we win, gota go tidy bye. i dont understand it? why is he being off with me? i asked him to text me, i said on a text too him, what is a few texts a day? its not going to massive hours off ur day? but even though i said that he still anit texted me. he says where fine. there is nothing wrong. that he lvoes me. and he is a twat. but i just dont understand him. and i was in tears last night, and i dunno. please boys men help a tied up blond with her problem. is this hardly any contact just a fase. his started to say he loves me on calls again..... i will post on 2nd half of the West Brom game, when i phone him on the brake and il let u know what happens......

titch_kay

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What does this mean? Posted: 3/8/2008 3:14:30 PM
i know i am young and found true love, and we say that line to lads as a nice way to let them down, basiclly u are wat we say, it is not u, it is us girls being picki, u prob do it to a girl and not realise if one asks u out, ud reply look luv, ur relli nice and everything, but ..... it works both ways, there are plenty of fish in the sea, ul find someone, jus dont get in there too fast as it can scar girls off

titch_kay

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Question: I broke up but is it possible to be friends with the ex ever again? Posted: 3/6/2008 8:25:48 AM
hi there. yes it is possible, someon eup there messioned about space....... my first bf was when i was 11, we got back speaking when i was 16, 5yrs space and we get on ok. and my last ex we split last yr and when we did speak afa it we argoed and now we dint speak till yesterday n we never argued, and no feelings were there.......... just giv them time and basicly say if u need too talk am only a call away, and dnt do the running it makes u look despret. it will come in its own time. everything happens for a reason love kay

titch_kay

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POF U ROCK Posted: 1/6/2008 9:56:25 AM
you might all be happy to hear, the week went gr8 we loved every mintire together and in our hearts we both know we want it, and i dont think this feeling is ever going to change

titch_kay

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POF U ROCK Posted: 12/27/2007 2:12:39 PM
thaink u fay, all the best on your search if you have not found him yet, am sure u will though, dont worry we wont get bed mad, still young lol. but guess what i am buzzing i see him tomorrow and i come home on 4th jan, i can not wait, it makes a big difference from like 3times month to this, butthis is the test to see if we both can cope a week str8

titch_kay

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POF U ROCK Posted: 12/26/2007 12:32:31 PM
thank you for the comment, but all the best, stay posative, you will do wel, everyone has as much chance as everyone else, on this site, where all in one world toghter and the saying is there are plenty more fish in the sea...... so try using a differnt bait, hehe, a hint.... search out your critera dont be afraid, i onli wanted 5mile and my bf is 60mile u may ask how do we cope and work but we do you all work it out, its hard to start but it works, so try lookin at diffent places, you learn differnt things, thats if you have not considered it

titch_kay

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POF U ROCK Posted: 12/26/2007 11:16:07 AM
thank you for your kind words i wish u all the best

titch_kay

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POF U ROCK Posted: 12/26/2007 7:53:40 AM
Hi POF i thought i wold email you, it has been 6months 2weeks and i have been in a reltionship that long, and it is all because of u, back in june i met a nice young man and i feel in love and he did with me, we started dating just after 2weeks, and still toghter, and becase of you i have had the best chritsmas ever, and about to have the best new year, we have lots of things planned, and i just want to thank you for bringing me this angel and its all becuase of your site, but there a few scary things, as he use to do football at my college, when we was younger we both did young enterprize, i was doing film work where he worked, so i think along the line we wod of met, but thank you to you it was alt early and i love him to bits and i am in hope its toghter fover, but waht ever happens i am glad we mer as i am converted person full of confidence. so every one out htere plz do not give in, i was on here for 3days yer i am young and as meny have said bone to find someone yong and single but its not always the way, just be yourself, not too outgoing in the fist email, leave them hanging wanting to know more, chessy chat ups, are good, il tell you mine, and it worked obv as i am with him "hi there, just back from the hispital, yer i know you dont want to hear me moaning, but it is your fault. but dont laugh when i tell you,. i saw your picture and fainted and cracked me head and eneded up in hos, wen i came round i read it and fainted againa nd ended back up in hos witha broken shoulder, so the reason i am writting is too ask you for your name, number, and email its for insurence reasons, " love ?? xxxx look forwrds too it, am sorry its not my fault. that was mine and it worked, good luck and thank you pof your the best ever love kay xxxxxxxxx

titch_kay

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What do you put in your beef stroganoff? Posted: 11/8/2007 11:05:25 AM
in a beef stroganoff i put in beef. lol no seriously i do, and the sauce, water, onions, mushrooms and thats about it, i deal it out with pasta and thats the italian style

titch_kay

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Texting Question.. Posted: 11/7/2007 8:27:08 AM
this thread i will deffoerently answer on, i went out with a lad called matt for about 2/3weeks and i texted prop' 3/4 times day, we split and his reasons where " look your a lovely girl dont get me wrong but the problem is you annoy me cause you text me too mucha nd call me too much, but its life init, sorri," and i was like wtf, i text u not much ever, but that is that, but the reltionship am in now, he loves em and my calls and i ask him if i call him too much or text and he said no i love them, so it all goes on the guy, ur best asking them tbh if you like the texts or if u dont

titch_kay

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Why do stunning women go for geeks Posted: 9/19/2007 12:43:15 PM
not true as such, girls anit after lads money. its just some girls have standards and wont go below so there for date people on there's if its own business or good looking. they dont want to be seen with common lads, if u understand me, i know people like it,

titch_kay

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Would you date someone who is separated? Posted: 9/19/2007 12:34:15 PM
yes even if his male and i was older, but wud u want a girl to date u if u was seperated i see every situation as put u in that persistion wud u wanna b singled out, no course u would not, so dont others

titch_kay

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would you date someone who is handicaped? Posted: 9/19/2007 12:30:54 PM
and ur point is, i am disleptic, so does it matter, if it is then ur discriminating against me and it does not have a spll checker other wise id use it, and stick with the tread

titch_kay

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What's the best way to break the ice? Posted: 9/19/2007 10:40:57 AM
too brake the ice id put me hand in a drink and get the ice out and smash it, or say who bigs the artic circle ??? i dont kno kno but it broke the ice

titch_kay

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How Bad Is Smoking? Posted: 9/19/2007 10:39:30 AM
i dont like people smoking, i wont date a lad that smokes, as i nerli saw me nan die in hospital of lung cancer with smoking and it wunt nice, so i wont smoke, and if they want reltinship with me they dont smoke i advice the patchies or nik a ret things

titch_kay

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How long does it take to REALLY fall in love? Posted: 9/19/2007 8:34:26 AM
i know that am in luv and it was love at first site, it takes as long as it takes, my brohter feel for his gf str8 way asked her out 1month later, his feelings went afa 6months and he dint dump her he stayed as it was a fase and he is bk madly in love and wants to marry her, so it takes as long as it takes, its like a rollat coaster u never kno wat ur turly feeling

titch_kay

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Love in less than 12 hours?? Posted: 9/19/2007 8:29:17 AM
i feel in love withj my bf at frist site from this webbie, i saw him and it was mmmmmmm loved him str8 away afa talkin it got stronger and wen we met i****help me self to fall so yer its possible i was in love by 3hrs of talkin and i mean full on, maybe too soon i dunno, i anit dun out rong yet and that was 3months ago

titch_kay

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What do you do when a guy you are talking to talks about his ex all the time? Posted: 9/19/2007 8:26:38 AM
LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN he could give u advice like wat he liked in it what he dint like and then u kno not to make that mistake, wont u? its all i do if any of my bfs talk about exs i listen and then i kno wat they liked in the reltion wat they dint, it can help u then without asking questions, i ahve found my bf lucky he dunt talk about exs i do sometimes like if thye have tried pushin me into it, which can he a hint for him not me push me, so read between the lines it could help u

titch_kay

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Define GENTLEMAN Posted: 9/19/2007 8:22:57 AM
gentlemen or perfect man il do both 1) dress's approct, aka not in in trackies for meals. 2) uses his maners 3)makes u laugh 4) holds doors open for u 5) if ur legs hurt gives u a piggy back 6)comes to see u if u need him 7)treats the lady well and not for a mug 8) wont expect it all str8 away that is wat id class as a gentlemen, but perfect partner for me is 1) dress smart 2) personailty is good 3)not over weight 4) love spending time toghter 5) lovely eyes 6) likes hugs and kiss's

titch_kay

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would you date someone who is handicaped? Posted: 9/19/2007 8:17:30 AM
yer i think i would, i have dated 2 lads with serabulporsi b4 today, and it went ok, its just the love died and there was no click i dont let ilness get in the way as if out happened to me, i wont want lads abanded me and not date me cuz of how i am, its nt wat u are, or wat u look like it shud b personailty ., but its down to the persons indervidual, but hanicap is kinda like serabul i think in a way, i have also dated (nt bf gf) a lad with CF, but he past away 1month later, i dated a lad with cancer, but he went into being scally so we faded off, i tend to date, but like i have said i have bin in reltionship 2weeks top with ppl who are ill, but am happpy with the bf i have all i say is dont judge a book by its cover, adnd answer this, if u went like it would u still want to have a gf and for ppl to like u?

titch_kay

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Sunshine Moments...... Posted: 6/21/2007 11:26:26 AM
the poem is wounderful written well done bbz

titch_kay

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First meeting? Posted: 6/21/2007 11:24:28 AM
i have onli met one or two and i kind of dun a hug an a kiss on cheak and jus a walk up to like alreet and walked off down where we were going

titch_kay

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Hey I'm New to plentyoffish Posted: 6/21/2007 11:21:46 AM
hello i would jus like to be th first and say welcome welocme welcome enjoy ur stay here at POF and i hope ur a good fisher, cuz if u r u might get a catch

titch_kay

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Blonde Jokes Posted: 6/21/2007 11:19:37 AM
how can u tell when a blonde has used the computer look for tip ex on the screen

titch_kay

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The dance Posted: 6/21/2007 11:18:05 AM
thats good that, am nt that good at potery i try tho

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travel route 83 Posted: 6/21/2007 11:02:50 AM
i want to travel route 83 as people call it, it seems really intersting i would love to go traveling whislt am young i think 20 afer i have done a few years more at college and take a gap year and to go touring, i think i would vist new z new york america its self aka route 83 canada austrailia --sydney has anyone been to any of them or done the route if so what was it like

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